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To add; "They left out that children aren’t your purpose in life. They shouldn’t give your life meaning. That’s something you should have already had."
Tweets and this comment found on Reddit.
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Friendly reminder that "I bought you nice things", "I gave you food and a roof over your head" and "I've never hit/physically hurt you" does not justify emotional abuse, neglect or parentification.
And if when being confronted they make you feel guilty and get defensive and passive aggressive saying some variant of "Oh well I must've been such a terrible parent!" and tell you how they bought you nice things for your birthdays and how your basic needs were met, that does not make your feelings and trauma invalid. You're not a bad person or ungrateful for feeling hurt.
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audience test
How many disorders do you match with me
NPD
ASPD
STPD
ADHD
AUTISM
SENSORY PROCESSING DISORDER
MAN LOVING MEN (the worst one)
C-DID
C-PTSD
DYSLEXIA
LIKES PICKLES
BIPOLAR / MANIC DEPRESSION
GENERALIZED ANXIETY DISORDER
SELECTIVE MUTISM (fluctuates)
HYPER MOBILITY DISORDER
RESTLESS LEG SYNDROME
INSOMNIA
HCD (huge cock disorder. contagious so I have to be quarantined)
(all medically recognized. don't come @ me because I'm a fucked up guy) ((huge cock disorder is self diagnosed but you have to believe me))
this was actually a very vulnerable post to make but I want ableists to block me and we should not be ashamed to be disordered
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Worst Snater take I’ve seen is “Well I was abused too and I don’t behave like that.”
Well good for you, a real person with free will and ability to heal and grow, acting morally superior to a fictional character.
A lot of people in the Snape fandom have been through the shite and are also healing and getting better. Doing well does not mean you can’t have empathy for a character who never got the chance or help to heal.
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I wrote this poem to touch on what I experienced in my childhood and teen years that led to me developing and being diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder)
Echoes of a Lost Childhood
Damn right I'm angry,
At the ghosts of my past,
I was too young to carry
Such burdens that last.
Children should laugh,
And dance in the sun,
But I bore the weight
Of what should've been shunned.
Don't tell me it shaped me,
I know that too well,
I could've been carefree,
Instead, I was compelled.
The protectors, they faltered,
Left me to fend,
Healing can't alter
The wounds that won't mend.
Damn right I'm angry,
For youth stolen away,
No amount of solace
Can bring back those days.
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Does anyone have a source on grieving a painful childhood? Or rather, a wasted one? When you realize it could have been so much better, if not for... lots of shitty people. You could have been a totally different person, a better, happier, healthier one... but this opportunity has been wasted forever.
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My new therapist: your mental health isn’t perfect, but it’s nothing to be ashamed of :) if you broke your arm, you wouldn’t be ashamed of that
Me, internally: bold of you to assume I would be unashamed of a broken arm
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This was really difficult to record. I know I’ll get a ton of hate for this, but it was a necessary step in healing. Your likes and supportive comments on the video would be much appreciated. 🩷💙💚🧡
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There's so much pressure to be like "My abusers/attackers didn't win" but there was so much liberation and freedom in allowing myself to say that mine did.
They overpowered me and broke me and I am forever changed by what happened, and not having to pretend that's not true is so freeing.
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can we skip to the part where i’m healed and nothing bad ever happens to me again
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Shoutout to all the kids that had to "grow up" early to deal with home life. The kids that had to become caretakers for a family member. The kids that had to become a parent to their younger siblings. The kids that had to learn early how to fend for themselves due to neglectful parents. The kids that had to learn how to be "perfect" to avoid abuse. The kids that had to survive homelessness and poverty.
It's so hard, I know. You may feel like you just want to scream. You may feel like you can't connect with people your age, and you might be tired of adults telling you "you're so mature". There is so much responsibility on your hands and you're doing amazing. One day, you will be able to have freedom. You are so, so loved and appreciated. I hope today brings you any amount of rest.
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