#and a red flag I guess

[adelheidvonschicksal]

Xavier really you know other men’d us. I’m sobbing 😂

Jealous Xavier is my religion and my oxygen.

#love and deepspace #xavier love and deepspace #xavier #it’s such a red flag #luckily i cant see #I guess we can’t make jokes about this being Rafayel anymore. #adelchat #love and deepspace spoilers #lds spoilers

[galoogamelady]

#Red Flags aftermath #today's warmup #Red Flags #OC #Buttons #Val #galoodle #GTA Online #that's just the tag for modern AU now I guess #unsanitary

[uncanny-tranny]

Also, in response to the "testosterone making people angrier" myth, I've found that, personally, testosterone has given me the self-respect to recognize and call out when my boundaries are being overstepped in ways that I wouldn't have had the courage (or, frankly even liking of myself) to have done before. This is in addition to me working on my trauma responses, but testosterone was the spark that gave me the will to do this in the first place. When I see people sae that as anger and thus is a "bad thing," I wonder how much of that is just people being uncomfortable with us... having boundaries or enforcing them, and that the response to that overstepping is labeled as aggressive anger.

Frankly, I now actually respect myself enough to care when I am being mistreated. It seems that people sometimes take that as a personal failure on my end because I don't think I deserve mistreatment.

Caveat: Anger is a fine emotion, and it is a worthy thing to recognize and honour. I find that the accusation of trans men* and trans masc* people "being angry" on testosterone is a moot point simply because it is often a false accusation which uses anger as a punishment. My issue isn't that we're "angry," but that our perceived anger is used, often, as a transphobic bludgeon to punish those who either want to transition with testosterone or who currently are, and everything in-between.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #unpopular opinion i guess but: trans man* and transmasc* anger is a fine thing and more people ought to express it without fear #basically i want to start a punk band with some other trans guys/trans guys+ who are Angry and Will Express It #like not going to lie but i had no boundaries before because i HATED myself... #...so it's pretty weird when people almost... miss that they could have taken advantage of me had i not realized my worth #like why does my Testosterone Anger say something bad about me when you MISS that you could have taken advantage of my self-hatred. like. hm #anyway. i let myself be angry now because i have realized that i deserve to express my full range of emotions #i notice that many trans people start asserting themselves way more when they transition gow they want/need to... #...and i think part of it is that many of us start to get out of the rut of feeling Horrible 24/7/365... #...so when people express they 'miss the old [you]' to me that's a red flag... #...because... do you miss that person pre-transition or do you miss their abject misery and passivity? #this might be a generalization because of tumblr's tag character limit #but i have noticed this with a few trans people when they are openly/currently transitioning #this isn't me saying that this is universal but just... something i have Taken Notice Of #and it seems weird to me that this hasn't only just happened to me because. it just feels...... gross

[white-winter-hymnals]

average straight male berserk fan: watery lukewarm takes, no sense of nuance, patrick bateman vibes

average woman or gay berserk fan: phd-level insights, thinks about the characters from a dozen different angles, beautiful rays of sunshine despite the series’ dark subject matter

#I recently downloaded bumble and it occurred to me that I would never tell a man on there I was a berserk fan #the DMs would be a nightmare #I guess the red flags would have to come out sooner or later tho….right? #I won’t elaborate on this except that the berserk reddit is a deeply scary place #anyway #berserk #mine #my post

[moeblob]

Day 4: Dirt (and Imitation)

I realized while coloring the Muspell sisters that Hrid canonically has a grimy phase in book 2 so. Here we are. Two ways to handle a sibling covered in dirt. (care for them or insult them)

#fe heroes #laegjarn #laevatein #hrid #fjorm #fire emblem siblings week 2023 #me trying SO HARD to not only draw the nifl siblings and failing challenge #listen i just really think hrid is neat! i cant help that i wanna draw him so much! #and the week theme of siblings coincides PERFECTLY with my take on him as sibling adopter extraordinaire #thank you for your time have gross and stinky hrid #i know now (someone reminded me how) that thats not the reason behind knowing who the imposter is #but imagine the power of siblings as the reasoning instead ok #just think about the bond between family that involves teasing your big bro about being a stinky man #and that is the biggest red flag of all that you dont call him out #also yeah i was like teehee gonna draw the laesibs then ..... didnt wanna do the armor #so i just tossed em in hoodies AFTER i drew laevateins horns and so im like well guess i gotta draw laegs too

[unityrain24]

okay since this summer was mlm summer i'm hoping for wlw summer next year

#we got so many gay guy rep shows :D but nothing sapphic :( #what we do in the shadows #our flag means death #nimona 2023 #good omens #<- i guess technically they aren't exactly men but they are both masc and the actors are men so #red white and royal blue #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #queer rep #lesbian #sapphic #gay #mlm #wlw

[thebirdandhersong]

i personally think there was no need to make remarks about age

#i dont need to feel any more ashamed about this when i shouldn't feel ashamed about this in the first place #because three years is not a HUGE difference. it IS an age gap but it isn't a GIGANTIC red flag-waving age gap. #but i guess for a guy it is if the girl is older #but anyway man it was comment after comment line after line and i felt like i was standing in front of a firing squad #not gonna lie my whole chest literally hurts when i think about it too deeply! #i have literally never been told before that i'm not an option because i'm too old #i also personally (and this is a bit bitter of me to say so maybe) i resent the fact that he did take the time to tell me that he was not #personally attracted to me. and then add at the end of the conversation that if i were younger he'd consider it #like. you literally told me you don't like me that way and aren't attracted to me that way #so the only reason you'd consider me as an option really is the fact that you know I'M interested in you ???? #anyway makes me want to throw up:) #the waiting room chapter

[be-the-glenn-to-my-maggie]

I don’t know why I’m here but you gotta know about it. TW mentions of child abuse

There is an actual dead dove poster in the Spider tags now 💀 posting creepy shit and doing it openly on a platform with a shit ton of minors. I saw only one before filtering the tag out but it was a Spider x Quaritch post where they discussed how people "sleep on their dynamic" and "imagine the Stockholm syndrome"

I sent them an ask and said that they should perhaps keep that to themselves or at least out of the general tags bc surprise surprise! Users don’t want relive their past trauma while scrolling through fucking tumblr and hey legit laughed and mocked me in their response. The worst part is it’s an actual 33 year old and despite the fact that they’re apparently ace I just can’t understand what fucked up morbid curiosity can drive a person to become, and I quote, a “dead dove connoisseur” and enjoy reading about sexual child abuse? Make it make sense.

It’s not even a preference thing. It’s basic human decency. What part of “don’t post about how you love fictional child abuse when there are kids looking through the tags and some people can get triggered by it” is so hard to understand? Anyway, this is just a heads up that you might see their post one day, so now you know.

Don't be shy anon drop the @.

You are absolutely right, a preference for writing about child abuse/incest is super not okay, and it's always in young fandoms and around characters like Quaritch. Despite there being whatever proper tags people think are there, I really don't think that content needs to exist. People STILL don't know what they are getting into. Case in point: I know we all stalk the Avatar a03 and we all unfortunately saw the newest gross Quaritch/Spider fic posted. Well, I clicked on that shit, because my dumb ass thought maybe it would be comfort focused enough we could skip around that bc Quaritch was already dead in the fic. When I tell you I have been so uncomfy for the last twelve hours, I cannot scrub that shit from my brain. I wish it had never been written! I wish I was dead! There are very few things that can still make me feel genuinely bad on the internet, and that managed it. I feel icky.

Anyways this just became about me resenting my decisions, I will definitely be reporting anything I see like that and I hope my followers do the same. Thank you for warning us. Tumblr is not always the safest place for minors, but hopefully we can make sure this community is.

#that was actually my first ever click on a dead dove do not eat i'm pretty sure #never again! #there were literally all the red flags in the universe and i still thought maybe it wouldn't be that bad i don't even know #ughghhg #i was like it CANT be that bad people can't ACTUALLY read this it has to be like about recovering from this kind of thing #nah #listen its dead dove do not eat for a reason i'm just stupid and didn't believe people were that awful i guess #miles quaritch #miles spider socorro #spider socorro #avatar #avatar the way of water #james cameron avatar #melissa's asks #melissa on avatar (cameron)

[steakcreature]

Okaaaaayyy there random sketches

Red flags little parody sketch

+ another

Reference:

#my singing monsters #msm #sketch #sketches #pompom #wubbox #common wubbox #plant wubbox #buzzinga #red flags parody i guess #plant is mad yea #don't ask pompom about their favourite film #lazy sketch #epic wubbox

[shadelorde]

In all practicality, why on earth would a robot be concerned with human standards of “attractiveness”? why is GLaDOS so obsessed with the fat-shaming jokes?

do you think she like. learned and absorbed them somewhere mayhaps,,,,,,,,

#I’m about halfway??? through portal 2 #and it just #the way that cave johnson speaks to and about Caroline sets off about a million red flags #<— guy who overanalyzes everything #also it was moth who originally brought this up #so thanks moth i will NEVER STOP THINKING ABOUT IT #(affectionate) #portal #portal 2 #glados #caroline #cave johnson #i guess??

[bioethicists]

i get that it's not always that deep + i am minding my business over here but this tiktok "ask men how often they think about the roman empire" thing is driving me up the wall like. "[white] men constantly thinking about the roman empire" is actually one of the core things that has plagued the last like 300 years of academic theory + politics. am i just a sourpuss or is this not like... more indicative of colonialism + the gendering of imperialist fantasy??? sick of these gendered tiktok trends that are like "wow lots of men/women do ___ isn't that really weird? don't inject broader implications or a feminist critique or you're being a buzzkill"

#i'm sitting here like. am i. am i the only one #like if i am that's ok i guess but surely there's something here no? #like would it even be that much of a stretch to say that man who constantly thinks abt the roman empire is a red flag???????

[dein0nychus]

they are so horribly unhealthy relationship coded. to me. in my heart.

#they are one big red flag. one of those giant american flags at midwestern car dealerships but a red flag #azymus/gortash #bg3 spoilers #dark urge spoilers #I GUESS

[skitskatdacat63]

he came, he saw, he conquered

#the red flag behind him is like a cape hahaha #i guess he really didnt know what a kilometer is :( #still feeling very patriotic okay!!!! #he is pole sitter in ym heart #RAHHHHHHHHHHHHH #logan sargeant #ls2 #2023 dutch gp #2023 dutch grand prix #f1 #formula 1 #formula one

[oblonger]

This whole submarine thing makes the stupid billionaire from glass onion a bit more believable.

#submarine #titanic #knives out #glass onion #“i cant see the titanic #through all these red flags“ #this isnt how i would have wanted #them to get their comeuppance #i would have prefered a less horrific way #pride commeth before the fall i guess.

[stedelovemail]

like sure it’s fine not to like the main couple of a romance story, that’s not a requirement, but i don’t get what people who don’t like gentlebeard/blackbonnet are even doing here. i think at that point you should just move on and watch something else. people are really out there hoping they don’t get together or some shit when david jenkins has said on multiple occasions that he simply wants this to be a romance between these two people. like... it’s really not any deeper than that

#ofmd #our flag means death #mine #people who stubbornly stick around anyway.. have fun being disappointed..? i guess??? #i just saw a blog titled 'gentlebeard is a red herring' like whew that is embarrassing for you #blackbonnet #gentlebeard

[toxi-works-at-culvers]

this is the dynamic

#burnt out 20 something year-old in love with a morally questionable sexy old man. blissfully ignoring the red flags #and in fact encouraging some of them #aka the murders are part of him and i think i could fix him but also its kind of funny #david would rather TOP a TWINK than STOP and THINK! #oh also the pink stuff is remnant. i know it canonically looks like mercury but i guess i never shook the habit of making it pink lmao #my art #digital art #artists on tumblr #artwork #drawing #illustration #artistsupport #self insert x canon #self insert #oc x canon #self ship art #william afton #do i tag this with fnaf yes or no... hmmmm #sure #fnaf