#avoid all men

[i-need-of-a-hobby]

artemis: let me see if i understand artemis: you rejected men so hard artemis: you rejected the concept of being one ancient greek trans girl: that is correct. artemis: artemis: welcome to the family!

#artemis: we have two rules #avoid all men #and avoid my brother #your sleep pad is on the left #artemis says trans rights #dont disobey artemis #shes ace your honor #greek mythology #greek gods #ancient greek #ancient greece #ancient greek gods #artemis #hunters of artemis #trans #trans rights #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

i vote that next year instead of reading Dracula we do a Jeeves & Wooster Book Club. those two never got the rabid tumblr shipping fandom they deserved (disqualified for the sheer technicality of being published a century too soon). we must correct this injustice

#jeeves and wooster #i want to watch tumblr go rabid i want to watch ao3 overflow with jeeves/wooster fanfiction #yes obviously the fandom EXISTS but it's a cozy little neighborhood #a handful of talented artists and writers doing their best to keep their charming little village going #but i'm tired of cozy i want this fandom TRENDING #I WANT TO SEE THIS ON MY DASHBOARD PEOPLE #i swear to you if they made a shiny new tv series tumblr would absolutely obsess over these characters. good omens levels of obsession #it's just such a great dynamic! the good-natured overly-trusting bumbling idiot in constant need of rescuing! #the stoic all-knowing genius who quietly masterminds mayhem in order to protect this one moron he's devoted himself to for some reason #jeeves as a morosexual is just such a beautiful interpretation of the original text #wooster as a happy-go-lucky himbo who stumbles his way into a relationship with a protective caring and supremely competent mastermind #the angst and social complexities of a same-sex cross-class relationship in turn-of-the century london! #oh AND half the stories are about jeeves helping wooster get out of engagements/desperately avoid marriage #two men who live together constantly scheming to maintain their bachelorhood. this is quite literally the main plot point #the gay subtext is there! the gay subtext is there and very ripe for picking!!! #this thing is LOCKED AND LOADED we can pounce literally any time

[denim-wizard]

Sanji vs homerotic relationships with big cat coded men

#shoutout to Oda for giving all these one piece men government sanctioned fursonas #makes my job much easier #all of them based on that little figure collection. and also pedro is a jaguar. go figure #the jokes write themselves really #making shitposts into mini comics to avoid rendering #genius #ooh yuh art time #realwizardhours #blackleg sanji #roronoa zoro #trafalgar d water law #trafalgar law #portgas d. ace #pedro one piece #zosan #or if so inclined #sanzo #sanlaw #lawsan #<-? #acesan #sanace #and. oh god what the hell is their ship name #pedrosan #ok works for me #tiger zoro #ram sanji #snow leopard law #one piece animals

[anachronistic-falsehood]

leans into the mic. "saying all men are trash in response to the various ccs getting outed as abusers is the wrong move and will harm male victims of abuse and sa" and "the reason these male ccs were able to abuse people and cover it up for so long is because of rampant misogyny in the content creating space and it's important to listen to the women coming out with their stories right now" are statements that coexist. btw

#whiskey yelling into the void #i’ve just seen a lot of people saying shit like ‘men suck’ and ‘it’s always men’ #as well as other people saying ‘this has nothing to do with misogyny!! it’s just a content creator issue not a gender issue!!’ #but guess what. it is a misogyny issue. but also it’s not at the fault of all men #these statements are both true. #we can acknowledge the horrible misogyny in this community AND avoid villainizing men in general #you don’t have to put men down to lift women up #and you ALSO don’t need to lift your fav male creators up over the victims just bc ur afraid ur favourite white boy will get criticized

[that-vampire-loser]

Just learned that oral sex is illegal in South Carolina

I bet Andrew Minyard loves that and it makes the shower scene so so funny

#andrew loves breaking the law in any small way possible #he would be the type of person to purposely avoid crosswalks so he can jaywalk #but I bet he loves loves loves breaking this law #and good for him #andrew minyard #neil josten #t4t andreil #andreil #aftg #all for the game #the foxhole court #the raven king #the king’s men #the foxes #aftg trilogy

[ponchizs]

I’m in love with how they are giving so many subtle hints about Alhaitham and Kaveh’s relationship and how important it is to Alhaitham, despite the way they always seem to be bickering.

Throughout the 3.2 archon quest Alhaitham tells us that the reason why he is so interested in helping Sumeru is because he doesn’t want his daily life to change. After that Kaveh starts being mentioned very frequently by him or we hear other people in the akademiya complain about how they daily argue.

Then, of course, we meet them both arguing with each other in the House of Daena, which was quite the argument. We also know many of their casual interactions and how they go to the café/bar frequently together. Furthermore, Alhaitham pays all of Kaveh’s bills (something no one would do for someone they don't care for).

And now, during Alhaitham’s quest, their tones were so soft (At least in JP and CN) and also domestic. Kaveh seems to worry a lot about Alhaitham and exchanges glances with him, which made me melt inside. I also love how Alhaitham is constantly smiling while bickering with kaveh. Remember, we dont see him smiling like this that often. Which means he really enjoys it. I really liked how after the second time Kaveh asked him if he is okay, he replied with a tease about the painting Kaveh had mentioned before. Also smiling.

But most importantly, something I see no one talking about: the moment when Alhaitham was explaining why he resigned from being the Grand Sage to being the scribe again and he tells us that “It’s important to keep your priorities straight”, the camera points at Kaveh.

I know this game will probably never have any canon ship because they need to make everyone happy, but we do get hints like this from time to time and I think this was one of them.

After all, why would they bother to add all of those scenes with Kaveh when the quests had already concluded, if not for showing us how is what is Alhaitham’s daily life he wants to protect that much? We saw how happy he is, how eager he was to get home and go have dinner with Kaveh. We also see how Kaveh had been waiting for him as well.

I’d like to know more about their relationship, even if it ends up not being romantic (though how do you explain that face Kaveh made when paimon asked if they are friends).

#genshin impact #haikaveh #kavetham #but anyways yes I write this and yes its 11pm and yes im obsessing over them #im so happy ngl Its like a fever dream #its so happy to know all of what I predicted from the message boards being true #I hope we see more of them #and yeah really sorry this is really long #i never do meta posts and probably there are some mistakes there im no expert i just ship two very gay men #anto’s rambling #i have to scream everything here because Im probably driving crazy everyone around me with these two #imagine me writing all of this to them #I needed to let this all out because omfg #LIKE LISTEN THIS IS WHERE WE SEE HOW NORMAL PERSON ALHAITHAM AND KAVEH REALLY ARE #LIKE just see how worried kaveh is over a messed up investigation from somebody at the akademiya who has already been arrested #no wonders Alhaitham avoided telling Kaveh the details from the archon quest and no wonder Kaveh didnt believe the little he knew #because they are just normal persons trying to get on with their lives #i understand alhaitham so much I would also want to keep that life

[hauntmebaby]

Someone rewrite aftg but from the pov of the busboy Neil paid $100 to knock him out

#no but actually think about this #would you punch neil josten for a hundred bucks #I’d like to think there was zero hesitation #like I don’t get paid enough for this #do you want me to avoid the pretty eyes? #I love neil so much he’s so dramatic #my baby #aftg #the foxhole court #the kings men #the raven king #all for the game #neil josten #andrew minyard #aaron minyard #nicky hemmick #kevin day #seth gordon #allison reynolds #dan wilds #matt boyd #this series is crack #hauntmebaby

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

"transmisogyny affected" why not call me a shemale trap while you're at it. fucking hell

#istg it feels like just another excuse to avoid calling us women #and thats not even mentioning how i see 'TMEs' instead of 'trans men' all the fucking time #gender trans people correctly challenge (impossible)

[skishie]

drew @hydatiid ‘s versions of them,,,, 

#dsaf #dayshift at freddy's #dave miller #jack kennedy #davesport #dont fucking look at me im posting this as fast as possibel im so shy this is making me want to hide away for a million years. #i dont like @ing or pinging people so i avoided posting this in any server cause im shy and get embarrassed with this content #so this is staying on tumblr for now because less people see my tumblr #god i hope i did them justice #im crumbling away #i want him #jack is soooo #ur jack specifically is sooooooo #im digging my grave now ^.^ #hrhrhrhrhghghghgggg #ilove men som uch #ur the reason i even caved and started doing dsaf art at all #sorry im too much a pussy to say shit not in tags lol #ill muster courage to post it in a discord server at some point....maybe #insert fanart of me stuck in a glue trap #i need to sleep im gonna get so little sleep i have work tomorrow omg #i want to draw them more so so badly

[lemonboyjosten]

neil: whats your biggest fear?

andrew: you

neil: why

andrew: [i’m scared that one day you will look in the mirror and see yourself as i see you. you will realize just how amazing you are and that you deserve all the happiness. i am terrified that you will leave] not important.

#there’s something in my eye #andrew sometimes has doubts about his worth and its painfully obvious how he avoids talking about it #neil realizes this a little later #but when he does he coaxes andrew with a million kissies and a decent tab of ice creams to keep him satiated #knowing andrew he will spill when he feels the need to #thoughts are being thunk #aftg #all for the game #andrew minyard #neil josten #andreil #the foxhole court #palmetto state foxes #the raven king #gay #lgbtq #the kings men #tfc #trk #tkm #nora sakavic

[junglejim4322]

I think personality disorders are even more diagnosed based off of gender than I ever even initially thought. I have both the background and the symptoms and behaviors of bpd to a T and the subject has never been discussed with me even once

#i think sometimes being clearly queer pushes it too all the men I know who’ve been diagnosed are gay #i mean I am kweer OBVIOUSLY but I avoid the topic when it comes to psychiatric treatment

[theliterarywolf]

Oh and Bonus, the creator was a Fucking Woman too.

Eyup.

Funny how in recent years, for all we have online activists and showmanship scholars in the fields of women's autonomy and recreational freedoms, the vast majority of those activists and scholars just can't stop themselves from enforcing the same restrictions and stereotypes about women that we got in the late 19th and early 20th centuries.

#all 'women don't have the mental faculties to avoid abuse so women creating dark content is opening the door for abusive men' #and 'erotica only serves to subjugate women even if its women creating it on their own volition'

[uncanny-tranny]

Man, as a trans guy and abuse survivor, whenever I see people saying the likes of, "lmao, men shouldn't be allowed in anything deemed 'women's healthcare'!" It just reminds me that - especially in healthcare - my safety and comfort will never matter so long as it continues to condradict people's preconceived notions of what constitutes people worthy of healthcare. It's just something I wish the well-meaning people who are rightfully frustrated with the state of healthcare would take a second to remember.

Yes, the healthcare system sucks and we must fix it. No, that doesn't mean we ought to leave behind people just because they challenge us on our own biases.

#healthcare #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #abuse tw #abuse mention tw #i brought up being an abuse survivor because of a conversation i had irl that amounted to 'male gynecologists are suspicious'... #...like maybe i'm a bad victim but i just think it's thoughtless to just erase us you know? #i just don't trust that 'lmao men need to stay 500000ft away from gynecology' is a good response to genuine harm #and it doesn't just apply to gynecological care by the way it applies to all care #that conversation just reminded me of this tendency people have to immediately become suspicious of ANYthing deemed out-of-the-norm #maybe this is poorly-worded and doesn't cover everything but it's just a really annoying issue to have #and honestly it's why i avoid doctors and almost every healthcare provider unless im like... actively dying

[flowerprintundies]

Chuger dump #5 🧡 it might be out of my system now...

#myart #fanart #dead man walking 1988 #chuger #sketchbook #traditionalart #jeffrey combs #otp #bmovie #chaz deserves all the kisses #sketchdump #i guess i kinda headcannon luger as the more romantic and affectionate of the two men #not that chaz doesnt reciprocate hes just a little shy #well that and #the fact he has gotten so used to avoiding touching people over fear of catching the plague (or germs in general) #i love the little hypochondriac

[chryblossomjjk]

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#first therapy session went well ! #i didn't cry which is v surprising lol #maybe bc we didnt go too in depth about things but #therapist already picking up on things i didn't like #never really thought of myself as an anxious person #depression was more so what stuck out to me #but like therapist was like bestie... u sound more anxious than ur perceiving #like i put that i don't struggle with social anxiety bc generally in a group of people im pretty outgoing #but like my coping skills are isolation lol #and i often turn down invitations bc of my insecurities #and in general just hate being perceived despite wanting it #like i literally havent answered any asks on here in months bc #im afraid of what people think of me #and im scared of interaction #but im also dying for human connection lol :')) #i also avoid men completely bc trauma so yeah #and it all stems from a deep deep belief that i am not worthy of love n wOw im sad but like we can only go up from here right :')) #LMAO SORRY THAT THIS IS WHAT MY BLOG HAS BECOME BUT #idk this is my diary fr #anywho sorry for everything #will most likely delete all these rants bc its embarassing lol but #love you all #and im so sorry for not answering the asks #thank you for reading my fics #your comments mean sm to me truly #love you endlessly

[bookishfeylin]

Ok I know I’ve said this many a time before BUT. The way the narrative has no problem with Tamlin's abuse, but rather his seeming lack of a good reason for it, hence why Rhysand's abuse is excusable (he has reasons and HAS to abuse Feyre for the greater good) while Tamlin's isn’t (he does not have reasons and therefore is not abusing Feyre for the greater good). The way Tamlin is unwittingly and seemingly accidentally given canonical reasons to act as he does, with nearly every conscious abusive choice he makes having a legitimate concern behind it. The way this is almost barely touched on in the narrative because it undermines the differences between him and Rhysand and makes it so that they BOTH are abusive (because once you acknowledge they both have reasons to act as they do, the conclusion is no longer ‘Rhysand's abuse is ok because he had reasons but Tamlin's isn’t because he had no reasons,’ but ‘They’re both shitty and abusive and Feyre needs to dump them both for thinking it’s ok to abuse her if they have ~good intentions~.’) The way it’d be a stronger testament to the themes of this series if both of them were simply called out and if Feyre ditched both rather than the text running in circles around itself. The way, the minute you think about this series for longer than two seconds, it all falls apart because of the endless hypocrisy. UGHHHHHHHHHHH

#Y’all know I get angry and must rant when I write ACOHAS. I am back on my ‘both men are trash’ soapbox #ANYWAY #i said I’d be posting LESS not completely avoiding posting at all #ACOTAR analysis #tamlin's abuse #Rhysand's abuse #Anti acomaf #anti acotar #anti sjm #Anti rhysand