This is me. . I was a teenage boy back in 2007, graduating high school about to go off to college. And today, I am a (nearly) 30 year old man. . I am a man. . It’s taken me a long time to call myself a “man” and feel that that is true. I would otherwise say, “I’m a guy” or “I’m a boy”. When society is often telling us that we are not who we say we are and what a man is supposed to be and look like - when we are not fully confident in ourselves, we may tend to believe those voices. . They also say if we speak highly of ourselves, that we are arrogant. So we fear doing so - and in turn talk down about and to ourselves instead. I’m here to help rewrite this story. I’m here to be my very best friend and biggest cheerleader. To encourage and lift myself up. To stand strong in who I am. To speak to myself the way I would with any other. To speak love into my heart, lungs, and veins - into every ounce of my being. . A week from today, I am going to be 30 years bold, and I’m here to tell you, I am a man. I am a proud Transgender man. Beautifully complex, sensitive and strong - and perfectly imperfect - I am human. . Standing tall at 5’1”, dancing and tossing leaves and flowers and love into the air for all those who will catch and receive them - I cry. I smile. I laugh. I hug. I touch. I hope. I love, think and feel so deeply. I am powerful and strong. I am respectful, thoughtful, and considerate. I am patient and kind. I am empathetic. I am caring and compassionate. I pound my chest and shout to the sky - I am a WORTHY, CAPABLE, SEXY LEADER! . Who are you? Speak love into your heart, and let it flow through you. What makes you the beautiful, perfectly imperfect human that you are? . #visible #wearehere #trans #transgender #transman #transmasculine #afab #ftm #hehimhis #borntobeme #whoiam #myverybestfriend #kindness #breathe #strength #hope @thelittlevolcano #magma #chainbreaker #love #support #chooselove #speakloveintoyou https://www.instagram.com/p/BpaUOKdHN9e/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1hqlvi4f2g6ru
I'm a trans male if any of you know. And today I was helping her take a bath and helping her relax. She was saying how she wanted a dick (she's having hygiene problems&I don't mind her making these jokes because I know they're harmless) so she didn't have to go through this. And I accidentally said "I wish I did too. " Not realizing what I said and she looked at me and started crying and I said "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to get depressing" And she sat on my lap and hugged me and said "I wish you were a guy too. You shouldn't be going through this at all. I don't want you suffering anymore and I want you to be happy with yourself" And it warned my heart💞 Get yourself someone like this ☺😍💞
2013 vs today. Here's to loving myself despite every possible obstacle and staying true to my happiness no matter how many people try to get between me and my way of life.
Me: *proceeds to call the evil teacher who uses my deadname and the wrong pronouns the 'Evil Lizard Man' because 1) he is E V I L and 2) he looks like a fucking lizard*
#TransgenderDayOfVisibility with a cup of French Vanilla Black Tea ☕️ w/ my meds mixed in. It took me years to get to this point of being out and proud of myself. I still have a long way to go, and I’m still working on myself with love and patience. But, I’m TRANS MASCULINE AND PROUD TO BE ME. #transftm #trans #transmasculine #transmanofcolor #tpoc #qpoc #transman #transguy #hehimhis #theythem #genderpronouns #giofvcks #lgbtq #lgbt #transgender #happy #selflove #selfcare #tea https://www.instagram.com/p/BvrRkqkDvjd/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11fb80iuhrm1g
Y'all I cannot even believe, but today is my one year anniversary of being on testosterone! ♂️🤩💉 The changes I've seen this year have been absolutely amazing and have increased my self confidence a lot. The biggest change has definitely been my voice, which has dropped significantly. After that, I'd say the fat on my body has redistributed and adjusted a lot, especially in my face. My hair is growing in thicker and darker, though my facial hair has a long way to go 😅😂. I cant explain how thankful I am to have this opportunity. A huge shout out goes to my wife for helping me with my injections each week. I'm so excited to have reached this milestone and I cant wait to see what other changes happen going into year 2! 😊🙆♂️♂️ .
Its hard to start my transition alone...i feel like such a burden, i have no will for anything. #transgender #transmasculine #pret #preop #topsurgery #testosterone #transnonbinary #transartist #help #depression #bipolar #autismspectrumdisorder #hehimhis #theythem #struggling
This post is for one of our regular customer, they always buy all our products and while they use them they explore and love them self more every day. Pamper and explore your self, spend more time with yours self. Be yourself, believe in yourself- love your self more and rise and shine. . . . . . #theyandthem #shoppingonline #shoppers #ecommerce #Qucciberry #hehimhis #sheher #theyandthem #forallgenderidenties #explore #loveyourself #fallinlovewithyourself #Queerowned #websitelaunch #fashionista #fashionforall https://www.instagram.com/p/CS5KlpZoobZ/?utm_medium=tumblr
It's been almost two years since I came out publicly and almost five since I came out to close family and friends. I'm so grateful for the support system I've had! I know I wouldn't be here if it weren't for them! ❤💛💚💙💜 I hope you have a good #transdayofvisibility !!!! #transgender #transguy #topsurgery #hehimhis