#just sick of men

[tbh-entp]

beware small rant below the cut

moving somewhere totally alone with like no family or friends nearby is legitimately really difficult, especially as a single woman. i’ve been here for months and have been trying to make some friends (not just to help, but because friends are nice), and these guys going to the meetups are all trying to find girlfriends. 

I wouldn’t be against a community center program to help people move in, just volunteering for building furniture and carrying stuff. Like, I would definitely sign up to help others **especially women (I might even start this myself once i’m settled). i do not want to owe anyone anything for some help carrying a table upstairs. I mentioned that I needed some help building furniture during my first month when I was still sleeping on the floor, and three times (three times!) I got comments like, i’ll help you build your bed, and it’s perfect, you’re single! There was also a woman who was trying to set me up with her son in exchange for him building my furniture, and I know that some of this is jokes but I seriously needed help and it 100% felt like pimping myself out. 

one guy, he was hosting events and i was meeting a lot of people through him, and then he got drunk, and texted me about how sexy he found me. i told him i was only looking for friends, which he seemed to accept ok, but then he started touching me: my face, my waist-- and also made comments about being into me while i was standing there and it was so uncomfortable so I distanced myself from him (and the people in his group) (ONE OF WHOM, was a man, 30 years older than me who ALSO came onto me and also sad some really objectifying and sexist things and that was really what did it)

and then last night, i desperately needed help moving something, broke down and texted a friend who i thought was ok, we brought it in and then he also came onto me and its just !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i get it, shoot your shot, but this demographic of single men in there 30s is really negatively affecting my whole feeling safe in a new town thing. (Also, I’m ‘exotic’ in this country and much more so in this town so I get more crap from men, but I’m really over having friends nearby who I trust and having no help. I’ve never had this problem to this degree before). 

OK. Rant over. 

#personal #just having a day today #everything is ok #and i am happy overall #just sick of men #especially the ones who are desperate #which i get it but like #on the receiving end i feel like i can't trust anyone #and that they expect that i'm into them for helping me #which means #that i won't be asking them for help if i'm aware #if only i were like a really old woman or a man #this would be so much easier #specifically being a man #could just make friends #bring the bois over and carry some things around #ughh

[fleapit]

can we pleasee please please stop fucking fearmongering and blaming trans men for the predstrogen situation. please god. posts about "trans men teaming up with terfs to get trans women banned!" with zero sources all over my dash. blaming "transandrophobia truthers" for all the transmisogyny. have you all lost your fucking minds?? what the fuck happened to t4t??? what the fuck happened to trans solidarity??? why is "transfem separatism" even a subject worth entertaining????

anyone who says other trans people are the enemy is a fucking fed. jesus christ

#my blood is fucking boiling right now and my heart is breaking #i keep seeing people go off the deep end with 'trans men arent oppressed! trans men face no discrimination because they have male privilege #its the fucking 2010 “trans men are betraying their female gender!” shit all over again! #transandrophobia #fleapit's patented rants #sorry im just. so sick of it. #saw it from a fucking FORCE-MASC BLOG like are you serious???

[ato-dato]

They got me gal. They got me again.

#back when season 1 came out I couldn’t draw men let alone older ones but now I have just enough range for these idiots #I’m rewatching s1 at the moment and there’s a hyper fixation afoot I fear #prepare to be sick of me #anyway #good omens #aziraphale #crowley #ineffible husbands #art #artwork #my art #fanart #digital art #drawing #aziracrow

[kitamars]

lovey dovey (alt ver of the first one under the cut!)

#HEEHEEEEE GINHIJI BIG LOVE #so refreshing that i can mess around and draw them to my hearts content….. #so domestic here……..im sick cough cough splat #i love them so goddamn much you have no idea #all the little moments that are possible are so fun to draw even if i mostly just draw them yelling and arguing most of the time #i’ve read too much fluff fic and now this is what i have fhdnnfjdjfn suffer with me #silly men are silly and in love #sakata gintoki #hijikata toushirou #ginhiji #gintoki x hijikata #hijigin #hijikata x gintoki #gintama #ok bye

[toxooz]

finished a page early so im allowed to finish one (1) Ollie wip as a treat

#ollie #sweaty ollie just sitting there knee up in different angles save me #but thats iT i only did this bc im sick and miserable and it made me significantly less LMFAO #also yes im gradually giving him more hair after drawing so many hairy ass men ollies starting to look like a naked mole rat #PUT SUM HAIR ON THAT BEAST OF A MAN #also the next update sould be 10 or 11 pages so yeehawwww #and im on 2 goin on page 3 now #the best part abt being so sick i wont leave my apartment is i have an excuse to draw all day teehee 💀 #my art #oc #original character #monster boy #monster #monster oc #orc #half orc #tiefling oc #tiefling #demon #half demon #monster boyfriend #terato #exophilia #muscle #muscular #skater #skaterboard

[warrior-cats-rewritten]

Literally go fuck yourself.

https://archive.ph/2019.12.27-222825/https://erinhunter.katecary.co.uk/the-blazing-star-spoiler-page/comment-page-10/%23comments for if you wanna go read this for yourself and see.

#warrior cats #warriors #tom wc #bumble wc #turtle tail #turtle tail wc #dotc #dawn of the clans #kate cary #i have no words #this actually made me sick to my stomach #why are you frothing at the mouth to defend men who abuse women #why are you insisting that abusive men should be treated fairly #why are you so aggressively insisting that they should become 'lovely' so they can maybe feel guilty #instead of any actual real punishment #no i don't want tom to get better #i want him to rot in hell and get eaten by one eye #one eye wc #remember kids #wishing abusers harm means you're just as bad as they are #wc gray wing #wc clear sky #wc bumble

[feverdreamsandlucidnightmares]

So how badly do we think it fucks with Andrew that he agreed to stop protecting Neil a few hours before Neil was kidnapped and tortured?

#aftg #the king’s men #aftg spoilers #the king’s men spoilers #andriel #andrew minyard #neil josten #personally its ruining my life #so I *know* he’s having a bad time with it #andrew needs things to not go terribly for at least a few months damn it #this poor miserable bastard #the first person that really sees him and he almost loses him and he’d just let him go #it’s no wonder he goes batshit when they all realize neil is missing kevin didn’t stand a chance bc he was standing in the way #they make me sick #would andrew’s protection actually have made a difference? no #and he would have beat himself up for failing #but he /let neil go/ and he almost lost him for good #oh my God #they’re ruining my life #feverdreamsandlucidnightmares

[a-faggot-with-opinions]

yes you're a leftist and you reblog posts that say "yes you're a leftist but are you normal about trans men" but are you actually normal about trans men

#star speaks #transandrophobia #transmisandry #anti transmasculinity #i'm so sick of people saying “yep i'm normal about trans men” while still having biases to unpack #and when you point out those biases they'll just call you a misogynist

[munchboxart]

New background OC for my Salmon guys + Mui drinking

#i dont normally post sketches but i will make an exception for this #because i was talking w some friends and they were all telling me gilbert is hot and i do not see it #if u find gilbert hot let me know so i can remember this #literally oomf was like “how abt middle aged men yaoi with ur ocs (mui)” and i was like “mui and who??” and theyre like “his friends!” #and i was like “MUI HAS FRIENDS?” I LITERALLY FORGOT ABOUT GILBERT IDGAFFFF DHASJKFNSJKDGNDJN MY STANDARDS FOR MUI IS SO LOW #maybe theyre just not my type BUT I DONT SEE IT #then again. im sick in the head and mui is my favorite. literally the most middest guy ever. all he does is drink and kill salmon #tw alcohol #alcohol #splatoon #my ocs #mui #gilbert #im adding more white ass names into my collection of OCs bc im lacking. i also got a guy named paul fishtopher #i do have a sketch account on twitter but you will have to find it (you will never find it)

[ballpitwitch]

Keanu Reeves performing at The Roxy in Los Angeles - July 18, 2023

#keke do you need a hair tie babe I got you #Keanu Reeves #kreevesedit #keanuedit #* #flashing gif #derailed my whole day #LOOK HOW HAPPY HE IS #I LOVE AN OLD MAN #bassist bf #gettin real sick of this tall old man giving me cute aggression #lol jk #get you a man who will give you cute aggression and also cause you to want to invest in those kneeling pads people who garden a lot use #iykyk #me 5'4": i will pick him up #men tucking their hair behind their ear..... *air raid sirens* #he just vibin #i love him your honor #also i love arm #we're not gonna talk about the fingers we're not #*cash register noise* *glass breaking* *car horn* #*me in my yard apologizing to abc news* #i didn't need 14 gifs but tumblr said i could so suffer with me i guess #or take me out back idc #i don't think im gonna survive this tour #clearly #i was gonna talk about man sweat but it made me feel like that one orc from lotr so i won't #it's me hi im the problem it's me #does that bass wanna trade places? i am free 24/7 365 just call me thank you for your time

[blackmetalsnake]

Let's imagine that no one killed Lucien and he and Damienus got married and lived a long happy bloody life until in their old age they confused the poisoned apples with ordinary ones and died on the same day.

Take care of your old farts and watch what they eat, especially if they're alchemists!

Tagging @lucien-lachance @chennnington @ulanxxxs @fruk-choosing-a-username and @caliblorn (look it's old men yaoi!!) 👉👈

#tes #the elder scrolls #oblivion #tesblr #dark brotherhood #lucien lachance #damienus varino #lumienus #my art #art #artists on tumblr #digital art #oh no old dam is not so sub\missive anymore #old men yaoi #maybe this is just a little fantasy of the sick mind of damienus who is still suffering from the loss of lucien

[deoidesign]

I've convinced myself that in a human au they would be furries. so. come to terms with that

Adam commissioning artists: I'm sorry but the red is 3 degrees off from what I'd like and I have 4 fingers with three segments of-

Steve commissioning artists: yeah here's my refs *sends 20 drawings that look nothing like eachother*

#no tags we post like men #I'm not a furry artist as you can tell however I love furries #I just cant get past this they would be furries #sorry but this is canon #feel free to block me or whatever #HAHAHAHAH #no jk I am extremely sick this is all I could focus on today #no work just furry au

[strangesickness]

THIS IS A PRO COMICS/ROCKSTEADY/ETC. BATJOKES POST PLS DONT GET IT CONFUSED FROM THE MEME. I LOVE THEM <3

batman twt when they find out i'm reading batman comics where batman and joker are trying to kill each other and i'm kicking my feet and giggling

#okay but seriously what on EARTH is going on on batman twt rn #“yeah its okay to ship telltale/lego batjokes but comics batjokes is just disgusting” #what are you? my mother? i'll ship those freaky old men who keep stabbing each other all i want #“just ship brutalia instead” they are so not the same and you know it #like talia is my girl i love her to death why would you say that about her #also why are people acting like all of the other bruce/rogue ships are sunshine and rainbows like WHAT #all of them are toxic guys. guys. please look me in the eye and tell me you understand that. guys please. #guys please tell me you don't think beating each other to bloody pulps constitutes a healthy relationship please guys #guys you read comics about a rich guy who beats up mentally ill people and then throws them to the most unethical institution ever #none of this is ethical and all of it is problematic #batjokes #the joker #bruce wayne #batman #posts afflicted with a strange sickness

[misslovasstuff]

THIS MOMENT RIGHT HERE

#I’m actually sick to my stomach cause #literally the apple of his eye #words can’t describe how much Usopp admires Sanji #I don’t ship them romantically but respect people who do #but Sanji and Usopp brotherly friendship is just so precious to me cause like #they are both men with self esteem issues #mirrors of themselves #lending a helping hand to the other is like lending a helping hand to whatever screams inside them that they are not enough #it’s so beautiful because Sanji doesn’t really let it show #his insecurities i mean #because he’s always so selfless helping other people up #but I think Usopp recognises that in Sanji #that’s why he looks up at him so much #and trusts him with everything he’s got #and the emotional intelligence of Sanji #to say the right words at the right time #beautiful bond #one piece #sanji #one piece sanji #op sanji #black leg sanji #sogeking usopp #op usopp #straw hat usopp #enies lobby

[samijey]

Sami seemed to strike a big nerve with Jey last night

#jey uso #sami zayn #wwe #the usos #roman reigns #smackdown #this segment was SO IMPORTANT lemme tell you #YES SAMI REMIND EVERYONE WHO THE REAL ENEMY IS #jail for roman #jail for roman for a thousands years #the way jey's frown softens when sami says he loved him URGH I'M SICK #my toxic trait is that i will tear up randomly at work bc i'm thinking about these two and make my coworkers worry about me #yes hello no everything is fine haha just angsting over wet pathetic men and their dramatic 100k enemies to lovers to enemies to lovers fic #jey's character has remained so fucking consistent everything he does makes sense #wwe having years long character development that makes sense??? unfathomable #anyways vince mcmahon die challenge #what is up with this pink ass coloring you might ask #and ill tell you pink is the color of love :))))) #lies i just hate coloring gifs with real people in them oof #stuff i made

[thorias]

So I guess this whole season was really just about DeMayo getting to self-indulgently adapt X-MEN #25. And since he didn't have all the characters from that story, he just forced Rogue into the Colossus role (the one who sides with Magneto) and Gambit into the Illyana role (the loved one whose death makes Colossus so miserable and grief-stricken that he sides with Magneto).

So, what, was that bullshit Rogueneto retcon just about getting it to make more sense that Rogue would side with the genocidal psychopath and killing Remy just about making sure there was nothing holding her back from doing so?

Thanks. I fucking hate it.

Hey, you know what would have been a lot better than this?

ROGUE AND GAMBIT FILLING THE ROLES OF ROGUE AND GAMBIT!

#x men 97 #romy #gambit #remy lebeau #rogue #anna marie lebeau #rogue x gambit #i feel so sick #i hate everything #i'm so fucking furious rn #i just want to scream #i feel so used #just burn everything