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souperfluidslut · 9 months

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my friend that I had feelings for back in school (I confessed and it never went anywhere) threw multiple random flirts my way earlier and I was so dumbfounded that I still don't know how to respond????

I have no idea if they're /srs or /j or even /hj and the craziest part is that I actually got flustered by it even though I already gave up almost 2 years ago??? I asked my gf what they thought and she didn't even know what it could mean

I am thoroughly befuddled by this development, especially and I already fumbled the bag with another friend because I both couldn't tell that she was seriously into me and not just flirting for fun and affection OR that I actually did/do feel interested in her beyond friendship and now she's not looking for anything like that for now so I don't know if I'm repeating the same cycle or if it's not that serious

#lgbtq #polyam #polyamourus #polyamory #nonbinary #trans #enby #transgender #lgbtq crushes #crush #t4t #pansexual

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positively-bi · 11 months

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Inspired by the brief period of time I thought I was polyamorous because I felt the same way about my boyfriend as I did my best friends and I hadn't clocked yet that all of those feelings were platonic

#I was just like “maybe I have a crush on all of my friends”#and not “maybe I don't have a crush on my boyfriend” lol #aromantic #aro #aromantic pride #aro pride #polyamory #polyamorous #polyam #lgbt #lgbtq #pride #lgbt+#lgbt pride #lgbt funny

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angstydiaz · 11 months

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can i just say the weird standard people try and hold queer romcoms(and queer media but) in general is so weird

its always "its too juvenile" and "its too wholesome" but then its "this is too sexualised" and apparently queer ppl having sex scenes is automatically "fetishizing". Always "too corny" "too angsty" and dont get me started on people who act like something has to be bad representation just because they didn't like it

"its cringey" it is a fucking romcom bro. like half of the appeal of a romcom is the kinda cringey fun of it all . not your thing? fine go watch something that is,not being the audience for something is fine but god stop acting like one romcom is gonna dismantle the movement for queer rights.

#Since this keeps getting notes pls read:it's not about NOT judging queer media #also but im a cheerleader did not be the campiest lil 90s movie ever FOR SOME OF YOU TO ACT LIKE YOURE BETTER THAN A ROMCOM.#red white and royal blue #crush(2022)#heartstopper #bottoms movie #lgbtq+#gay #lesbian #lgbtq media #first kill #willow 2022 #yellowjackets #WLW ESPECIALLY #but yeah #posts of mine i like #bottoms 2023 #thai bl

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piratedog64 · 6 months

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dude having a platonic crush on someone is so weird, cause you wanna be around them and talk to them all the time, you always think about them, and you constantly wanna hug them and hold hands (if you like physical touch) with them but the thought of being romantic in any way with them is just extremely uncomfortable

#arospec #aspec #asexual #aromantic #lgbtq #lgbtqia #demiromantic #aroflux #arofluid #aroace #aromantism #asexuality #platonic crush #queer #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #lgbtq positivity

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transjudas · 4 months

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Morocco (1930) The story goes that the iconic lesbian kiss in this film was, if not directly Marlene Dietrich's idea, vehemently defended by her. It is said that she suggested that having her take the flower from the young woman she kissed and then giving it to the soldier would make it so that the kiss could not be cut to appease censors without making the appearance of the flower make no sense. I haven't found any source that this is fact, but either way, having a lesbian kiss on screen in 1930 was unusual. As was seeing women in more masculine suits.

#morocco 1930 #marlene dietrich #lgbtq cinema #lgbtq history #old hollywood #classicfilmedit #classicfilmsource #classicfilmblr #oldhollywoodedit #marlene dietrich my crush my wife

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crayonssz · 4 months

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if this post gets 1k+ notes i’ll confess to them

i wanna confess but i’m super scared and i’m 99% sure this won’t get any attention so i’m probably not going to. this is just a silly challenge ig idk

#ajax’s antics #crush #lgbtq #idk why i’m doing this

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bored-boring-and-tired · 2 months

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me currently:

“i want people to have crushes on me so badly because i thrive on external validation and im super insecure so i really really want people to have crushes on me”

also me, being aroace and sex/romance-repulsed (if someone has a crush on me):

“pleasepleasepleaseplease nobody have a crush on me and ESPECIALLY DONT TELL ME because then i have to reject you and i hate rejecting people and then i’ll probably have to come out to avoid hurting anyone because i overthink everything ahahahha”

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irate-iguana · 5 months

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Okay I've calmed down enough to maybe put this into words.

Fourteen's ending was so validating to me as an aroace person, specifically because they chose platonic love. Often, QPRs are treated as a last resort, a poor consolation prize for people who can't have romantic partnerships. But Donna has a husband, and while I firmly believe the Doctor is on the ace spectrum, the Newton conversation implies that Fourteen isn't aroace. Despite the fact that he could be in a romantic relationship, the Doctor chooses a platonic partnership. And Donna gets to have both! What's more, her husband and her best friend get along, they aren't jealous or competing for her attention. It's so rare for media to treat platonic relationships as equally valuable and desirable as romantic/sexual ones, and it gave me so much hope for my future.