I never practiced Catholicism, but I became very intrigued by the rituals & routines within the practice, especially as an autistic person who finds comfort in routine.
I’ve been struggling with my control issues recently & needed a reminder to let things go & leave it to the gods, but it’s hard! So, I decided to create my own version of a ‘serenity prayer.’
May the sun rise in my heart,
May the wind guide me down my fated path,
And may love set me free from doubt.
I took inspiration from my main three deities—Aphrodite, Hermes, Apollo—and they’re represented within each line! That being said, you do not have to worship these three deities to use this prayer! If you can find ways to associate it with your own practice, feel free to use it as you’d like! :)
God, grant me the serenity
to accept the people I cannot change,
which is pretty much everyone,
since I'm clearly not You, God.
At least not last time I checked.
And while you're at it, God,
please give me the courage
to change what I need to change about myself,
which is frankly a lot, since, once again,
I'm not You, which means I'm not perfect.
It's better for me to focus on changing myself
than to worry about changing other people,
who, as You'll no doubt remember me saying,
I can't change anyway.
Finally, give me the wisdom to just shut up
whenever I think that I'm clearly smarter
than everyone else in the room,
that no one knows what they're talking about except me,
or that I alone have all the answers.
Basically God,
grant me the wisdom
to remember that
I'm not You.
Amen.
"God grant me the serenity (and joy) to accept the things I cannot change, the courage (and will) to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference; living one day at a time; enjoying one moment at a time; taking this world as it is and not as I would have it."
I'm not Christian but I really appreciate the sentiment and structure of the Serenity Prayer, so I decided to create a divination spread based on it. (I only have access to my Tarot deck atm but this should work with whatever.)
The prayer goes something like:
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
OK, I can get at least six cards out of that:
____1️⃣
____2️⃣
4️⃣3️⃣ 5️⃣6️⃣
to know the difference between two sets of things, I have to know how they relate, what I'm comparing — the overall topic of the reading
the wisdom — a deeper insight into this subject
the things I cannot change — the battles not to choose, pretty self-explanatory
the serenity to accept it — understanding my place in that situation allows me to develop a (healthy) coping mechanism
the things I can change — toxic positivity aside, there's always something I can do to influence (my) reality
the courage, which is easier to muster when there's a trusty plan of action — where to get inspiration or assistance, how the problem needs to be addressed, what to expect when it's resolved, etc