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[step-parent-daily]

Welcome to Step Parent Daily: Your Daily Source of Support and Inspiration!

Dear Step Parent Community,

We are thrilled to welcome you to Step Parent Daily, a warm and inclusive online space created exclusively for step-parents like you. Whether you're a new step-parent, have been on this journey for a while, or are about to embark on the adventure of blending families, we're here to support and guide you every step of the way.

Step-parenting is a uniquely beautiful and challenging role that comes with its own set of joys, hurdles, and complexities. We understand that building a harmonious and loving environment within a blended family requires patience, understanding, and a strong support system. That's why we've created Step Parent Daily—to provide you with a daily dose of insights, advice, and inspiration to help you navigate the intricacies of step-parenting with confidence and grace.

At Step Parent Daily, you'll find a wealth of resources tailored specifically to the needs and concerns of step-parents. Our team of experienced writers, experts, and fellow step-parents will share their stories, wisdom, and practical tips to help you build and nurture positive relationships with your stepchildren, foster effective co-parenting dynamics, and create a loving home that embraces the uniqueness of your blended family.

We invite you to join our vibrant community of step-parents from all walks of life. Connect with like-minded individuals who understand the joys and challenges you face on a daily basis. Share your own experiences, triumphs, and struggles, knowing that you're in a safe and supportive environment where your voice will be heard and valued.

Step Parent Daily is more than just a blog—it's a community. Together, we can inspire and empower each other as we embark on this incredible journey of step-parenting. Let's celebrate the small wins, learn from the obstacles, and grow together as we create loving and nurturing environments for our blended families.

Thank you for being a part of Step Parent Daily. We're excited to have you with us on this adventure, and we look forward to sharing this rewarding journey with you.

Wishing you love, understanding, and strength,

The Step Parent Daily Team

#Step parent #Family #supprt #challenges #ups and downs

[larrosaurusrexx]

Hello Everyone! Im LarrosaurusRexx, My profile here is for me to promote my various profiles and platforms, chat and engage with fans, and create some new fans! Thank you for the support! Feel free to engage in any way you see fit!

#larrosaurusrexx #contentcreator #artist #model #adultmodel #18+ #promote #social media #content creator #Trending #Follow #Like #Supprt

[alifbaatuition]

Another home delivery 🚚 to the most needy in our #community. An #imaam (Islamic Scholar) stood up in front of the congregation and said we are going to make an donation announcement now for the renovation of the Masjid. The Imaam then said we have enough money and more to complete the full renovation of the #masjid however the money is still in your pockets! 😀 Likewise we have enough food to go around especially in the uk that it sadness to see people here in the #uk 🇬🇧 are going hungry with food for days. Did you know the Prophet of Islam, Prophet Muhammad (May Peace and Blessings be upon him) said, you can’t be a complete true believer (Muslim) until you desire for others what you desire for yourself. Supporting our local Bangladeshi Youth Organisation (BYO). #help #themostneedy #supprt #community #neighborhood #bradford #westyorkshire #charity #byo (at City of Bradford) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cnai88-Izuw/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#community #imaam #masjid #uk #help #themostneedy #supprt #neighborhood #bradford #westyorkshire #charity #byo

[urbanocoffee]

Big day for Urbano!! We have created a fundraiser for no-kill facilities and shelters throughout Cochise County. Come by today and support animals in need. We will be here with Rescue Adoption Volunteers of Sierra Vista until 2pm. You can adopt too!! They will be bringing some homeless fur babies in need of a family! #supprt #animaladoption #fundraiser (at The Onyx Grounds) https://www.instagram.com/p/CklpJ1jPYCy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#supprt #animaladoption #fundraiser

[tanazmehraban]

@tanaz.mehraban0 #tanazmehraban #tanazmehraban20 #people #thankx #supprt #help #myfriends #lgbt #familia 💕💖🌸🌺💖💕✌️🤟🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇨🇦 https://www.instagram.com/p/ChSp31fPEQy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#tanazmehraban #tanazmehraban20 #people #thankx #supprt #help #myfriends #lgbt #familia

[dreamatduskk]

finally summoned the will to do some more work on my ctrl model 👽

#the alien is there for wmotional supprt #furry #digital art #anthro #cat #robot #webcore #blender3d

[mipmoth]

They're long lost best friend your honour

#submas #twin dragons au #ouugh the visions where so strong #i think id be reshiram who the twin built the castle with bc desert fire you know? and it was besties with the sun deity vulcarona #while away from/fighting zekrom it supprted reshiram #emmet was expecting it to be dead because its been so long but vulcarona built diffrent

[redvelvetwishtree]

#and netanyahu keeps announcing more plans to murder #and everyone just listens and says ok #btw i hope none of you actually believe that Israel is out there to get hamas #i hope you've learnt how these things work after the iraq and Afghanistan wars #even the announcements they make about oh we killed xyz person from hamas #hope people are better aware after he past 3 weeks exposed israel so much #because there are exactly zero reasons to supprt israel now #palestine #free palestine #gaza #free gaza #gaza strip #middle east #israel

[yonokomizuka]

I had a Silly-Goofy moment and when I woke, this was what's on my tablet.

It's based off @dyinggirldied 's ghost marriage au

#I DON’T EVEN GIVE A SHIT DC #I HAVE NEVER WATCHED A SINGLE EPISODE OF DANNY PHANTOM #THE THINGS I DO SUPPRT MUTUALS I SWEAR TO GOD #FUCK #dp x dc #dc x dp #danny phantom #danny fenton #danny fenton x jason todd #jason todd x danny fenton #LOOK AT THE PRETTY LIGHTING #LOOK #WHEN YOU'RE FORCED TO GO MARRY SOME DEAD DUDE BUT HE LEAVES YOU A FLOWER AT THE EMPTY ALTAR #WOOOOOOOOOOO SPOOOOOKKYYYYYYY

[leiyahime]

Heidewollefest

So many people x.x the other wool festivals I've been to had more space. But it was nice (and expensive) there are just a few cent left in my wallet...

My loot:

Front: BFL from Wiesensalat

The violet braid: 70% merino 20% alpaca, 10% linen from wasserwolle

Red/black: 80% merino, 10% cashmere 10% silk (bought it with my last coins xD)

Grey batt: merino

Grey braid: 80% merino, 20% silk the last three are from Wollstall

And a beautiful emotional support spindle

After I was out of money I spontaneously decided to go for a walk through the close-by moor since I relly lack excercise. And I met some Heidschnucken with their dog and shepherd.

It was so wonderfully autumn-y. A bit windy maybe.

And after i got home I had to get ready for work. Will be home at midnight xD Guess I over-estimated myself but it was so worth it!

#fibre arts #hand spinning #Wool festival #hiking #Emotional supprt spindle #nature photography

[ladywren7]

THE EUPHORIC FEELING OF REBELS

THE SENSE OF HOME AND INCLUSION AND BELONGING AND HOPE AND DREAMS AND MAGIC

THE WARM AND WELCOME FEELING OF BEING LOVED AND UNDERSTOOD UNCONDITIONALLY

THAT IS WHY I FUCKING LOVE STAR WARS!

#GOD #THIS is fucking star wars #the feeling that its so much bigger than us then what we can comprehend #choosing kindness in a world of hatered #being who you are with the supprt of true family that doesnt have to be blood and friends #doing what you believe in and chasing your aspirations #protecting nature and it giving back to us in return #protecting and defending what you love who you love how u love is so powerful #being a good person to others and receiving good things in return #never giving up #the themes of this show are all so so beautiful #it needs more appreciation #star wars #star wars rebels #swr #random rants with a fangirl

[incorrect-bkdk-quotes]

Izuku: I truly go into househusband mode when I'm someone's significant other. I'll go grocery shopping and do the dusting and the cleaning. I'll make you pancakes and bacon every morning ♡

Katsuki: This is a lie. I'm literally dating him. This is a lie.

Katsuki: He doesn't even know what goes in a pancake what is this?? He's lying!!

#he lies on purpose and i supprt him full i think its fun #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #bakudeku #bkdk #katsudeku #ktdk #bakugou katsuki #bakugou #katsuki #midoriya izuku #midoriya #izuku #deku #kacchan #katsuki x izuku #bakugou x izuku #bakugou x midoriya #bakudeku positivity #incorrect bkdk #incorrect bkdk quotes #incorrect bnha #incorrect bnha quotes #wonder duo #twin stars

[dykeluc]

shout to transracial adoptees, your the backbone of the adoptee community and without you we would have nothing

you are loved and cared more than you know 💖

#transracial #Transracial adoptee #transracial adoption #adoptee #adoption #tags so people can actually ses this #im not transracial but you guys deserve all the love and supprt #cant type ugh

[nobodywritingao3]

i feel kind of sick making this post so please excuse me if i sound like a rambling mess. i am not the type of person to talk in detail about my life in online places cuz i live in fear of this getting back to my abuser but shubble's story punched all my most sensitive spots and i want to talk about it

(really long sensitive post)

ive gotten kind messages from people that i havent responded to. the idea of responding to people individually kind of makes me feel sick. so im doing this instead. and im also going to vent really hard because i am not doing well and talking about this to my therapist is soul crushingly embarrassing because wilbur soot is a minecraft man and im a freshly turned 20 year old who pays rent and is respected by my therapist and i dont want to admit that i wrote fanfic about a 30 year old white boy i discovered in quarantine when i was 15. can you imagine that conversation? id have to explain what the dream smp is.

when i watched shubble's video for the first time, i was in total disbelief. i couldnt believe that wilbur soot had done these things but i knew that the liklihood of it being anyone else was pretty low. i chose to hope that the story was not about him, and that if it was that he was a reformed abuser who had reorganized his value system and respected his partners now. i had a lot expectations. then he released his statement and i was horrified. i was disappointed and kind of in denial. his statement was worse than anything i had prepared for as 'worst case scenario.' as time has passed my denial has mostly dulled but im ashamed and im embarassed and im badly triggered.

i kind of hysertically hoped that it was a sick prank that shubble and wilbur cooked up and would get horribly cancelled for, but its not a prank, theres no "haha sike" moment, and wilbur abused shelby.

his response undid me because i saw so much of my own abuse in the words he used.

abusers are really good at making people take a centrist "two sides to every story" stance. i dont know how to describe this to people who have never been abused, but i will do my best

most people are taught that when theres an argument between two people, both parties carry some amount of blame and if you want to resolve that issue, it's a good idea to look at your part in the dynamic. we're also taught to keep our disagreements between ourselves and to not involve other people in our drama.

these are sensible sentiments, but abusers are very good at manipulating these sentiments.

when a victim speaks up for themselves and they call someone an abuser, what they are saying is: "this person cruelly bullied me and hurt me and exerted control over me that i did not deserve or ask for or elicit."

that's a heavy accusation and it contradicts sentiments we are taught like "it takes two to tango" and "dont involve others with your relationship drama."

many abusers are charismatic people. id even say most. when you hear this accusation about someone you think is really cool, your natural instinct is to ask for their side of the story.

they will tell you some version of this:

"i am shocked and hurt that she would call me an abuser. we've been having relationship problems recently, and sometimes i lose my temper. im not proud of that. ive done a lot of things im not proud of. it's true that i did [insert played down act of violence] to her, but you wouldnt believe the horrible things she was saying to me. i lost control, and im so ashamed of myself."

this version of events makes the abuser seem reasonable, it makes the victim seem irrational and quick to blame and hysterical

from here, a lot of people will nod thoughtfully and go. "yeah. yeah. that makes sense. everyone has a unique perspective. the fact that shes attributing all the blame to him without recognizing her own flaws and contributions to the relationship while he does shows that hes the reasonable one here. hes such a chill guy. the things shes saying dont make sense at all. i probably wont say it to her face, but i think shes in the wrong."

wilbur's response hit all the beats im familiar with. it was so in line with everything my abuser used against me, and in line with what ive heard other victims say their abusers used against them, and in line with examples ive read and witnessed and had countless psychiatrists walk me through that reading it was like getting hit by a train.

the hope that i carried with me through that week was that wilbur was a reformed abuser. but reading that response gave me the gut wrenching confirmation that he wasnt.

thinking about it too much literally makes me sick and shaky in a way i havent experienced since my own abuser tracked me down the first time and gave me a beautifully wrapped gift. with my abuser, i had several years trapped with him where all the love i felt for him disappeared and was replaced by total hatred for everything he put me through. i wasnt expecting this from wilbur at all, and i feel fucking sick because this was a man i sincerely admired and looked up to a lot. i really liked wilbur soot. he released that response and this image in my head that i had of him was tainted by the memories of my abuser.

im reminded of one event several years ago where i was choked. i tried to ask for help but everyone who knew immediately reached out to him and asked for "his side of the story." i dont want to talk about what he did to me after that. all that matters is that in the end, no one believed me. everyone took his side over mine and insisted that i was lying or exaggerating or trying to get attention or trying to make him look bad. people who i loved and thought would always be there for me sent me paragraph long text messages calling me a bitch and a cunt. the person i loved the most in the world told me that i was out of line and said point blank that they were sorry, but couldnt believe me over the person who choked me. i had never felt so alone.

ive been having a rough time. i confided in a friend who is trying to escape his abusive husband, and he gently told me that this might mean i have "a type," meaning im naturally drawn to people who are abusive. after i escaped, i took a lot of solace in the fact that i was inspired so much by wilbur soot. i thought he was progressive and stood up for womens rights and was anti bigotry and all those lovely good things. this man i admired so much was the image of healthy, nonviolent, kind masculinity. finding out he isnt has made me question myself and my own judgment and it's making me wonder if the people i let in my life and the people im drawn to are people who i subconsciously know will hurt me.

as of now, its been a year and a half since i escaped my abusive family at 18 years old. i turned 20 like half a second ago. the past 18 months of my life have been devoted to looking into legal protection, getting therapy to undo nearly 2 decades worth of ptsd, trying to keep all my baggage to myself because i dont want to burden my friends anymore than i have, and holding down a steady job so that i can afford rent without having to rely on the parents of my friends to house and feed me and keep my location secret from an insane group of people who reeeeally want me to come back even tho im pretty sure one of them might """""accidentally"""" kill me one day

i feel ashamed and embarrassed by being this affected by wilbur soot. parasocial relationships are looked down upon and i feel like the perfect stereotype of a hysterical, delusional teenager / young lady finding out that her hero is "a flawed human being, just like you and me - seriously, what did you expect?!"

i already see people jumping to his defense, although i try to look away because that is also extremely triggering for me.

it is hard not to acknowledge wilbur's humanity, and i want to clarify that i do feel compassion for the amount of death threats, doxing, and isolation he is undoubtedly experiencing right now. no matter what you do, i dont believe that retributive justice or revenge is a proactive, sane response. i am sincerely worried that he will either try to kill himself as a last ditch attempt for sympathy OR that he will actually just kill himself from the public shaming. i do not want him to experience a mental health crisis and i do not want him to die, even tho he has horribly disappointed me and reminded me of so many bad things

this was kind of an insane post. im ready for it to get 1 note and then experience a horrifying amount of embarrassment as i realize that people read this and know disgusting amounts about me as a person, but i want to share my experience as someone who has been abused. i want to offer solace to people who are in the same boat and possibly reach someone who might have otherwise believed wilbur was telling the truth.

i want to end this post on a positive note, so im going to share some naive hope ive been repeating to myself for the past few days

i hope that people believe shubble. i hope she finds comfort and compassion and healing. i hope she can internalize that what happened to her was not her fault. i hope she lives a happy life surrounded by people who see her and care about her

i hope that the people close to wilbur make him confront this side of himself. i hope he fixes his abuse problem and reorganizes his values. i hope his network of people is strong enough not to abandon him entirely but to intervene and make him work on himself. i hope he stays alive and i hope that he becomes an advocate for abused women

this was cheesy and unrealistic but ive been sending my hope into the universe and trying not to shut down because i dont know what else to do and my two hours of government issued weekly ptsd therapy is already devoted to the horrible things i experienced firsthand

anyway

as far as my fanfiction goes???? i dont fucking know.

im not going to delete it. im definitely taking a break and at least stepping into a pause so i can properly reflect on what to do in the meantime. as a musician and writer and creative in general, i was inspired by many aspects of wilbur soot for years and i need a second to chill out and get a hold of myself

maybe ill complete my work. if i do ill upload the finished products in one go and probably orphan them. and maybe delete my ao3 account. god knows at this point

i am still cringing so hard at myself for making this post. it's very emotional and i try to sell myself as serious, intellectual person. maybe this post will be received great or badly or just be ignored. in any case ill be embarrassed so it doesnt really matter how anyone feels about me after this. if you took the time to read, thank you for hearing me out. and if you didnt, im glad that i got a little catharsis

#wilbur soot #im embarassed of myself #whatever #wilbur situation #shubble supprt #cw domestic violence #i feel sick after typing this #this was basically a diary entry #tldr wilbur soot reminds me of my own experience of abuse and i think i wanna throw up #cw abuse #oh god goodnight everyone #i have read peoples compassionate messages to me and im very thankful for them #it has been very sweet and helpful cuz this isnt smth i share to my offline friends so i havent gotten my usual support and affection #thank you to people who are being nice to me

[tiredandcaffeinated]

raise your hand if you've ever been personally victimised by maths

#planning on starting a supprt group #whos in? #we have cookies

[bludhavensbirdboy]

I’m a “Steve Harrington has ocd” enthusiast and these are some of the compulsions I think he would have as someone who is diagnosed with ocd !!

Kids head count has to happen 4 times before they get going

I believe Steve’s ‘number’ is 4 and multiples of 4

Has to touch the top of every door frame he walks under (people thought he was one of them douchey guys that like show off how tall they are and try to be hot leaning on door frame nah mans just has a dumb fucking compulsion)

When he did swimming in school he could only ever do even laps of the pool

When he was at scoops ahoy he organised the ice cream in a way that only made sense to him but it felt right to him

Same with the video store he organised the shelves of the store in his own system and when he’s putting tapes away he has to do it by certain genres first (gets upset when someone moves it)

He has to shower everytime he comes back from being out cause he feels like the outside air/dirt can’t be inside

Washes his hands 4 times in a row everytime he needs to wash his hands

Has a keychain that has no real meaning to him but has to carry it everywhere to have a good day he thinks it’s bad luck to not carry it

Has a tic disorder that comes on when his ocd plays up and he can’t do the impulses

Doesn’t allow people to touch the music tapes in his car because he’s organised it a certain way (one time Dustin messed up the order and Steve had a mini breakdown in the car after he left so he just banned everyone from touching it)

also he listens to the tapes in a certain order

#some of these things I do due to my ocd and that means Steve also does it cause me and him are one #i have made mutiple ocd Steve posts in one day it’s a hill I will die on #Steve Harrington no one understand you like I do! don’t worry #pls do add more if you supprt this 10/10 hc!! #don’t get upset at me for my HCS #i will take no criticism #ocd #Headcanons #steve harrington #eddie munson #steddie #nancy wheeler #robin buckley #ronance #the fruity four