ok this might be weird but concerning the whole rapunzel wants to go on an adventure thing, do you think she wants to spend a lifetime travelling instead of being queen after plus est en vous because I recently saw I post said she should have gone with cass instead of staying with eugene because he is more of a settle down guy, so what are they trying to say here and what are your thoughts on it ?
ghsgdj trying to answer this without getting into ship stuff because honestly that's just what it is here (i have Thoughts about the idea that eugene just wants to settle down asfdhjd BEA was the first ep but it wasn't the only one 🙃), I think the problem here is just... I don't really understand what constitutes freedom for some people
Like the idea is that if Rapunzel is queen she will not be allowed to like... go outside corona ever again? She won't be allowed to explore? And i just. in s3 she was queen in all but name, and did that stop her from having adventures and taking the balloon to go to different places and in general having time to do what she wanted? Being queen is not the same as being kept in a tower by her abuser she's literally one of the most powerful person in the world! She can do whatever she wants lmao the whole point is that now she has a choice in what she does in life!
and the other thing is, rapunzel says multiple time that she likes being princess and she likes being queen. Yeah she went through some tough stuff but actively working to make things better for people in Corona is something she loves! I do not see her wanting to just... abandon all of that, and leave, when she enjoys being there for these people she cares about
So like, often this argument revolves around the idea that Rapunzel needs to be Absolutely Free and the only way to do that is for her to leave Corona but i don't know, personally i wouldn't feel free travelling constantly? Some people do and some people don't, bottom line being that freedom doesn't come in only one single form. I think in a lot of ways we're shown that Rapunzel loves being in Corona, and that it doesn't stop her from exploring when she wants to, but that she's also enjoying her freedom when she works to better the lives of people in her kingdom?
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Hi! Do you have any headcanons about Little Philza? He's always seen as a parental figure, but he deserves to relax and be taken care of too!
A/N ;; Gonna hope you meant DSMP!Philza, if not I apologize as that’s my default :]! And I totally agree! He definitely deserves to relax too!
Regresses to around 3-7, normally 4-5!
Involuntarily and voluntarily regresses, though it’s usually involuntary
His long term caregiver is Techno (completely platonic). His his long term babysitter is Ghostbur!
Philza does get scared to regress sometimes and pushes it away but Techno is always there to tell him it’s okay and it’s a perfectly valid coping mechanism.
He’s a very quiet little and tends to signal what he wants by hand.
His favorite little thing to do is play outside and you can take that out of my cold dead hands. But actually, I really think he’d be an outside little. He just likes playing in the grass! (Though he likes the inside as well)
Like campfires fascinate him, and of course Techno has a fireplace in his wooden cottage. (Usually they have to go to a different part of the SMP in order to not be in the snow)
He collects lil things. Like he has an entire collection of colorful buttons! (Mostly given to him by Ghostbur). He keeps them all in separate little boxes under his bed
He always enjoys listening to soft melodies from a jukebox. It helps him fall asleep or just relax when he’s small.
Loves petting Steve! (If you are unaware of who Steve is, that’s Techno’s pet polar bear). Steve is just so soft, how can he resist?
He also tends to be shy around others but once he warms up to them, he’s so bubbly. He also giggles a whole lot!
Wears several different colored hats when he’s small. He just takes one off like every hour or so and puts a new one on. He just likes em <3!
He has a little journal! (Alt: agere journal) it’s green with white polka dots! He frequently draws in it with some crayons and writes down what he did that day!
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As a human who has very much enjoyed your writing, I do hope that you’re able to find more happiness, and less work, in it someday. If you need to take a break to refocus and re-center, I don’t think anyone would be mad about that. I, a mere anon, don’t speak for a whole community, but you’re a person with wants, needs, desires, and only so much time in a day. Burn out is a real (and terrible) thing, even if it’s from a thing you love.
So this is one individual, who loves your writing, telling you that it’s okay to take a break if you need. The stories that you’ve shared with us are so good (heartbreaking, joyous, maddening, and more), and it would be cool to continue to enjoy your writing for a while, if your brain allows. Sending you good, restful vibes.
Oh, I’m sure I could take a break--or be done altogether--and it would be all right. There are plenty of stories coming out all the time, and I’ve already done...frankly more than I ever thought I would. But I would at least like to finish the few I’ve got started, because I really hate having things half-finished living on my hard drive forever.
I do really appreciate folks letting me know I should take breaks if I need them, though, it’s...something I have trouble telling myself. I have trouble believing I’ll ever write again, if I let myself stop to breathe, since the last time I took a break, it lasted years. I’m trying really hard to walk the line between working constantly and working not at all, while also juggling “real” work and depression cropping up every couple of days to tell me I’m worthless. It all creates a less-than-ideal creative playground. But I really am hopeful this is just a roadblock and not a “well, had a good run, you’re back to creating nothing at all until 2025″ kind of thing.
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i've spent all morning thinking he wasn't going to come, trying to get ready for time with him that probably wasn't going to happen, and so far it isn't happening, but i thought it was because he just didn't want to see me, i was so sure and sad. he texted saying he was still at work and didn't know when he'd be done, and i still felt like he just didn't want to see me, that perhaps he was lying to get out of spending time with me. but he just texted me hbd complete with celebratory emojis and 💗 and it does so make me want to believe that he does want to see me.
but i hate how emotional i am over this, how easily i feel rejected and how much that hurts and how hard it is to trust and believe that he cares about me and wants to spend time with me. because i'm still like is it real? and there's a good chance i won't find out because he'll be too tired after he's done at work and just want to go home and sleep, which i can't fault him for, but if we don't spend time together then i just won't be able to convince myself it's true