you don't always need to be working towards big goals or trying to radically change your life.
you're allowed to just take time to exist, learn about yourself, what makes you happy, and enjoy being here.
taking time to rest and recover does not make you any less then people that doing different things.
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things july taught me
if you want it, go and get it
you attract what you need
smile a bit more. sometimes life is more wonderful that way
its okay to be all over the place & to not have your life together
sometimes people let you down. thats okay
forgiving hurts and forgetting is easier but it will be okay. things take time to heal
talking to people actually helps sometimes…
the amount of effort you put into something may not directly translate to the results you want to see
trust your gut. its right.
its okay to be angry at those you once held dear
everything will be better in the end. maybe not alright, but better.
trust yourself > anyone else
cry about it. like actually. its so theraputic. cry about everything and nothing but don’t mope about it forever :-)
do what you love with 100%
dont be codependent on people — people will inadverdently hurt you in some way or another. depend on yourself first and foremost
its okay to be disappointed in those you hold close
sometimes people come for a season and they leave right after. give grace and be thankful for their presence, and don’t fixate on their leaving forever :”)
if it hurts you that badly, its not a small matter
love people so loudly they never doubt that they are loved
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anyway. shout out to selfshippers who write for their ships.
selfshippers who write long fics and drabbles and anything in between. selfshippers who like to plan their fics beforehand and those who prefer not to do any planning at all. selfshippers whose fics adhere to canon and those whose fics change it completely. selfshippers who take days to finish one fic and selfshippers that can finish ten in a week. and especially selfshippers who write for other selfshippers, too — who write gift fics, who roleplay other's f/os, who send headcanons and scenarios and letters and so much more.
there is so much love and creativity baked into every word you put to paper that can never be replicated. and your f/os love you so, so much for it. <3
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this post is a reminder that you are allowed to take up space in this world just as much as everyone else is. it does not make you selfish or a bad person to consider your own needs and feelings in how you live your life.
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thinking about asking to touch my f/o's hair and having them smile at me and lean closer to me as a green light to go ahead (´ ω `♡)
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things june taught me
loving yourself before loving others will always come in clutch
its okay to restart things you've worked so hard for
sometimes friendship hurts, that's normal
people will walk away from you. don't take it personally
sometimes people will choose to hurt you and that's on them, not you
and sometimes you fuck up a little. that's also fine. part of being human is forgiving yourself
find those who are willing to stick with you through stuff, not just tell you that everything is going to be alright
it's okay to doubt. sometimes we need that extra bit of reassurance and that's totally okay
count your blessings. remember those who were there for you, and pay it forward
people change and its not because of you
sometimes, sucking it up is the best option
no need to force yourself into places which you don't fit into
find that place that you fit into. let it come naturally. you attract things you need.
make the effort for the friendships. yes connection is good, but make the connection last
priorities should be priorities.
you cannot juggle more than 3 things on your plate at any given time. actually you can but you will not get it done well
be patient. good things are coming. better things are coming.
emotional maturity will get you places
delusional hours can be fun, actually
stop reading too much into things, you're hurting yourself
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teehee könig with a s/o that loves sanrio !!!!! he makes matching build-a-bear plushies with them and makes them a sanrio bouquet !!!!! he buys them their favorite character's merch !!! pajama pants, he's got u baby !! könig is probably loaded so he loves showering u in gifts;; he also probably buys a few plushes or keychains of certain characters that remind him of u...:(
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