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#yes i wanted top surgery and bottom surgery yes i wanted to be a male but i dont anymore can u please accept that!!!!!!
n0ct0urn1quet · 2 years
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god we need to be nicer to people who used to be trans and have detransitioned or to people who used to identify as trans but dont anymore . please
#this is mostly jus personal#and its not abt anybody here#but just. please ?#esp if its like. 'oh but ive known u since u were trans and since u arent anymore i still wanna call u by ur other prns!!!!!'#or 'oh well if u detransitioned ur transphobic bc u said u wanted top surgery and bottom surgery and now u dont so ur a transphobe#cause u faked it >:((((((('#i just. hrrhghghhg#yes i wanted top surgery and bottom surgery yes i wanted to be a male but i dont anymore can u please accept that!!!!!!#i do not fukcing care if u 'liked me better when i was a guy' because that is a horrible fucking thing to say and fuck you for saying it#god#sory this isnt about anyone here this is just abt school friends from last year one of em reached out to me and i made the horrible choice#of agreeing to talk with them n catch up and i was just casually like 'oh yeah im not trans anymore im just a girl now lol' and they fucken#just. took that personally ??? n were like 'uhh idont think u can do that ??' n i try to be nice but i am m not good at standing up for mys#elf so now im just ignoring them LOL#anyways friendly reminder that my pronouns are in fact she/her and it/its and occasionally xe/xem but only if we're close#and PLEASE do not use he/him for me or they/them. please!#also lol i like how htat friend was like 'well i liked u better when u were a guy ur all snooty now' when they knew me for like.#3 months max SKDJKKLG#'i liked u better when u were a guy'!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u knew me for not even half a year and i can tell u i am much happier Being A Girl#than i am being a guy <33#so <3333#i LOVE beingng a girl i love being a girl who lieks girls i love it when my gf calls me her wife and her girlf and it makes me go :]#so <3 do not call me a he or else i will scream and most likely cry SJKDLKJKG#also shoul prolly say this : YES ppl can rb this is a vent but all my personal stuff is in the tags so i dont mind if ppl reblog#just do not b a clown on my post ok thx
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oppopotamus · 5 months
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..!!!!! i saw sukuna req hehe.. i am here to request my beloved..! can i req top sukuna w ftm bottom male reader(๑>_<๑)
primal dom sukuna with a oral fixation! licking reader's face like an animal mid fuck.. n reader always has a tummy bulge while they fuck cus of how big sukuna is! sukuna holding reader's hand against their own stomach so that reader can feel how deep kuna is inside of them, him pushing down on it to make reader squirm n shake as he slides in and out of them, feeling their insides clench around him with each thrust..
Belly bulge
ryomen sukuna x male reader
THIS WAS SO HOT ONG TY ANON MOUTH WATERING
Warning: NSFW, ftm reader, reader has top surgery but not bottom, belly bulge, face licking (sukuna licks your face like once), breeding?, fem terms used to describe readers genitals
"Hey!" You giggled as Sukuna pushed you onto the bed.
Sukuna smirked, climbing on top of you on the bed, giving some ticklish kisses to your neck, causing you to laugh and hit his back.
"Kuna'" You laughed again.
"You love it." Sukuna whispered, running his hands under your shirt.
You just moaned in response as Sukuna gently dragged his nails up and down your stomach.
Next thing you know, Sukuna is tearing your shirt off and kissing your scars. You grian at the feeling and run your hands up and down his naked back, of course he doesn't have a shirt on, he never wears shirts.
"(Nameeeee)." Sukuna whines, looking up at you with the best puppy dog eyes he can manage. He looks a bit silly but you think it's cute anyways.
"Yes?" You ask, bringing your hands up to play with his hair.
Sukuna doesn't respond, he just lifts your shirt up and over your head, kissing down your stomach then licking all the way back up to your neck.
Sukuna lets his hand travel to your waistband, pulling your pants and underwear off in one go.
"Mine." Sukuna repeats the word 'mine' over and over again, just to make sure you heard him the first ten times.
You just roll your eyes and smile as he gently caresses you all over, you had always expected Sukuna to be rough and unforgiving during sex but truthfully he's the opposite, he's not the king of curses, no, he's the king of foreplay.
You shiver as he gets closer to where you actually want him to touch you, but he pulls back and you whine and the loss of contact.
You look up to see Sukuna taking off his own pants, letting his dick spring free. God, his cock made your mouth water, it was just too good! For a supposedly evil and devilish guy his cock was heavenly and angelic.
"Gonna fill you up, yeah?" Sukuna looked down at you as he grabbed his dick with one hand, slapping it a few times against your pussy.
You wriggled your hips, trying to get him to hurry up. "C'monnn." You whined.
Sukuna smirked and slowly pushed it in, making you gasp. Every inch he pushed in made you shiver.
Once he was all the way in he looked at the little bulge in your stomach and laughed.
"M' too big for ya."
He slowly thrusted in and out before getting faster and faster, making you both moan louder and louder.
You smiled up at him dumbly. "I can... take it.."
Sukuna smirked and pressed his hand against the bulge in your stomach.
"Aah-!" You moaned out when he pressed down.
Sukuna gripped your hand tightly as he forced you to press your own hand against your stomach bulge, his hand resting on top of yours.
"You're... in my tummy.." You moaned out, eyes slightly rolling back.
Sukuna laughed. "That's right, baby."
He pressed down harder on your hand which caused you to press harder on the bulge.
"NGh-" You moaned, loving the feeling of it.
Sukuna bent down and licked your cheek. "Gonna fill you up so good... gonna cum in you."
You grunted as he thrusted into you even harder.
Sukuna moved his free hand and rubbed at your clit with his thumb, making you moan louder and caused your legs to shake.
"Feeling good, baby?"
You just nodded in response, too far gone to even think a response.
Your legs shook beside you, you could feel yourself coming closer to that release you craved.
With every thrust and rub you moaned and gripped tightly at the sheets.
"You gonna cum?" Sukuna asked, smirking down at you, his thrusts get harsher.
"Y-Yeah..." You nodded and used one hand to grip tightly onto the wrist of his hand that was rubbing your clit.
Your body shook as he pressed his thumb down on your clit as you shouted and released.
"Good boy... not much longer, I promise. Just gotta fill you up." Sukuna whispered.
You whined at the overstim, though it didn't last long before Sukuna came in you, giving a few more thrusts to make sure his cum stayed inside you.
Sukuna layer on top of you, not removing his dick, he didn't want any of his cum spilling out of you.
You both laid there, breathing heavily, you wrapping your arms around his back.
"Told ya that I was gonna fill you up." Sukuna smirked and you just laughed.
"You did."
srry if this was bad i havent written in a while and im sick
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official-megumin · 5 months
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there is always this discourse about if transfem and transmascs have it worse
And like, I know it's not really quantifiable and measureable to find the objective suckiness of being trans.
But like
Man it's gotta suck to be a trans guy. This is coming from the perspective of a trans girl btw.
I know that not all transmascs care about passing and having a "fully male body", like everyone decides for themselves what they wanna do. But let's see this from the perspective from a trans guy who wants to be as close to a cis perisex man as possible, this guy is also perisex afab, meaning normal development and stuff.
Ok, so for this man to "finish" his transition, he would need like, what? 3 surgeries. All of which are gatekept. He would need top surgery, tit chop as you say.
This is already a lot, and it sucks fucking dick that y'all have to wait for that. But other than that already sucky and gatekept surgery, we also have phalloplastry, which many countries including Denmark, doesn't offer at all because it's more complicated than vaginoplastry.
This is also a hugely impactful surgery, and I assume that for many trans men, it also doesn't really feel good enough because no semen and dick pump. Of course I'm no expert, so don't take what I say as gospel, I might flat out be wrong about many things.
But that still isn't it. By now we have moved past surgeries the average transfem would "need"
Like yes, many trans women end up getting BA and FFS to combat dysphoria on top of bottom surgery, but they aren't "required" in the same way. So let's round it out and say one half of both of those surgeries count, so that means that transfems on average get two gender affirming surgeries. Which means that now, transfem and transmasc surgery counts are the same.
But wait, there's more!
There are also hysterectomies to remove the uterus and ovaries. Which again is very extremely gatekept because "devine femininity"(bleugh)
That's three surgeries to transition "normally" for a transmasc versus the two of a transfem, already there it's more sucky.
Of course this is not taking other typically gendered features into account like hip and shoulder width, which is too variable to really take into account here. Also it is not as widely different between the sexes as some people claim.
But this is just the surgery front.
I can't even begin to imagine how dysphoria inducing dealing with menstruation must be to a trans man.
Like periods suck dick, I know that from personal exprience. It hurts like shit for like a week at a time and there's blood everywhere.
But for trans men you add fucking dysphoria on top of that???? Hellish, the female reproductive system is so invasive and intrusive. For transfems we can just y'know, not touch the thingy and we won't have to worry about a visceral bloody reminder every month that stays even after hrt starts.
Really what I want to say is that yea sure maybe transfems struggle more with sexism and such whilst transitioning, I'd argue even that is not quantifiable and will be hugely variable on how the individual looks(speaking from experience as a trans girl who has not once had transphobia aimed at her in person in public from strangers)
But the physical struggle of transitioning? I think that trans masculine transitions take the cake by far here. Like objectively too.
And all the transmascs out there at all, doesn't matter how dysphoric you are, or how far you wanna take your transition. I respect you so god damn much, and I'm in awe of all of you. You're genuinely incredible
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xiaojunsdiary · 7 months
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yoon jeonghan x male! ftm! reader
prompt: you’re the newer member added onto seventeen around aju nice era and you have a secret that you’ve done a pretty good job hiding until someone finds out
warnings: minor transphobic comments ONLY because jeonghan doesn’t get that you’re trans right away but he’s really sorry about it, jeonghan is NOT transphobic!!! angst, body dysmorphia, body image, insecurity, me projecting, i accidentally switch between 2nd and 3rd POV, slight suggestive at the end
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mn had already felt like an outcast when he had joined seventeen. he wasn’t completely fluent in korean, could barley hold a conversation but that could be delt with. what really made him feel like an outcast was the lack of a certain body part.
the members didn’t know this. no one really did except your parents, the company, and best friend back home. and you planned to keep it that way. the company required you to get top surgery before you could join in seventeen. you didn’t mind, in fact you were thrilled. they paid for it as well as your testosterone.
but that didn’t stop the thoughts that filled your head all the time. from being around so many beautiful attractive men made you feel so insecure.
especially jeonghan, who while carried feminine qualities, still looked masculine. like a man should.
the members never treated you differently, they didn’t even tease you about your smaller frame. they didn’t have any reason to. especially woozi.
but the thoughts never stopped flowing through your head.
“why can’t i gain muscles as easily as them? why can’t i have a naturally masculine physic.
why couldn’t i have been born male?”
it hurt. a lot. knowing that even when the bottom surgery could’ve been provided, you still could never be fully satisfied. you had to wait a little while before you could get it done. and while you longed for a penis, the thought of truly changing your identity scared you.
while removing your breasts was scary, you were 100% sure about it. but your vagina…you weren’t. and that had caused a second wave of thoughts to go through your head as you turned the shower handle off, cutting off the endless stream of hot moisture.
as you got out of the shower, you tried not to think about the internal battle your mind had just went through and grabbed a towel to wipe off any access water.
while you were drying off your back facing the door, your worst nightmare happened:
the door began to open.
how could you not remember to lock the door?? the one rule you had bestowed upon yourself and you manage to break it. your eyes shown true panic as jeonghan opened the door.
“hey, mn, do you want-“ his words were cut off as he stared at you. he didn’t immediately look away as normal men wouldn’t,
“we’re all guys, why does it matter?”
they would normally say only you weren’t. or you didn’t feel like it.
“j-jeonghan!! can’t you ever knock??” you exclaimed wrapping the towel around your lower area quickly, a blush appearing across your cheeks.
“you’re a…woman?” he asked. he cocked his head to the sign as he examined your face for a reaction. your eyes glossed over after his accusation.
“no! i’m not! i’m a guy, j-just like you!” you pitifully stuttered.
“yes, you are. you have a vagina”, he continued, not understanding the power that sentence had on you.
“but i a-am”, you cried, a stray tear cascading down your right cheek.
“then how do you explain-“, he says while walking towards you, closing the door. he cuts himself off mid sentence as his eyes fall to your chest. a very faint line of a scar, underneath where your absent breasts once were. his eyes widen a little at his sudden realization.
“ohhh, you’re…” he trails off as he looks into your face for conformation. you nod your head weakly as the tears you were holding it release themselves.
“you c-can’t tell anyone, hannie, please” you begged, “please don’t out me. i love seventeen. i don’t wanna get kicked o-out.” your sobs getting mildly louder as your begging continued, the sound breaking his heart, as well as your own in a way. your knees gave out as you collapsed to the ground covering your chest.
“i won’t, i promise,” he said as he kneeled down with you, wrapping an arm around your shoulder, squeezing you tighter.
he removed it only to bow all the way down to the ground.
“i’m so sorry, mn. i didn’t mean to misgender you. i’m so, so sorry. please, forgive me. i’m really sorry. i’ll do whatever you need for me to make you feel more comfortable” he said while continuing to face the ground.
you quickly pulled him back up off the ground with a fierce blush on your face.
“th-there’s no need for all that, hannie. your apology was enough.” you state fixing his long hair.
he stared at you closely, really looked at you. he put his hand on your thigh that was midly exposed, the other hand on you right arm.
“are you okay? like do you feel okay now?” he asked, softly rubbing your thigh in a comforting manner.
you nodded.
“are you sure?” he pried.
you let out a small laugh at his urgencry.
“i am as of right now, hannie. thank you” you gave him a bright smile with a small bit of pink dusting your cheeks.
“you’re welcome,” he said, analyzing your face with a matching smile. his hands found their way onto your waist with a gentle grip. you could feel your face heating up.
“can i show you how much i adore you and your body?” he said, rubbing your sides softly.
you looked away, shy, and nodded your head.
“okay”
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if i do a part 2, it’ll be smut. y’all want that??
started: 09-24-23
finished: 09-24-23
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nothorses · 1 year
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Hi there! I have a quibble that I hope comes across as good faith and not anon hate: you quote statistics from the 2015 Transgender Study in a way that I think decontextualizes them. For example, trans men are more likely to be denied coverage for surgery (but not top surgery, which is considered cosmetic for trans women. Also, FFS was not included in the study and is almost never covered). Trans men face more harassment from police but trans women are more likely to be incarcerated, etc.
The point of the post (which is here) was just to debunk the myth that trans women are categorically "more oppressed" across the board. The stats I pulled were just a number of (fairly random) examples to that end, and I clarify in the text of that post, in reblogs, and in subsequent posts that the point is not to create a definitive list of The Ways Transmascs Are Most Oppressed- it's to demonstrate that the common assumption that trans women always have the highest rates of violence/discrimination in all areas is, y'know, patently not true.
All of those statistics represent only a narrow slice of a much more complicated issue.
To use your first example, "trans men are more likely to be denied coverage for surgery (but not top surgery, which is considered cosmetic for trans women. Also, FFS was not included in the study and is almost never covered"...
From the 2015 USTS Report:
"Transgender men (57%) were more likely to be denied surgery coverage than transgender women (54%) and non-binary people, including non-binary people with female on their original birth certificate (49%) and non-binary people with male on their original birth certificate (35%)" (p.95)
To my knowledge, the USTS did not actually outline surgery coverage rates for specific surgeries. But they do talk about the rates at which different people want, or have had, specific surgeries:
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So, right off the bat: you can see FFS (Facial Feminization Surgery) reported in Figure 7.14. But what strikes me more about these charts in this discussion is that it really does speak to a more complicated issue on the whole.
You could absolutely say trans men (26%) have top surgery more than trans women (11%), but that would also be misleading. 97% of trans men have had or want to have chest reconstruction or reduction, compared to 51% of trans women who have had or want augmentation mammoplasty... well, yeah, it makes a bit of sense that trans men have had this kind of surgery more. They want it more.
But for kicks, let's look at the "have had" vs. "want someday" ratios, for a better picture of what those denial rates might be: 37% of trans men who wanted top surgery (97%) have actually had it, vs. 27% of trans women who wanted it (51%). We don't know that "denied coverage" is the reason all of these people have not gotten it yet, but it's probably a factor; and yes, that does indicate a 10% gap with trans men ahead.
And for kicks, let's apply that same concept to a few other procedures. To use your other example, 14% of trans women who want FFS have had it. But that's also not a super popular surgery for trans women; electrolysis/laser hair removal is the most popular, and 50% who want it have actually had it. In comparison to the most popular surgery for trans men- top surgery; 37% who want it have had it- that's a 13% gap with trans women ahead.
Granted, electrolysis is generally less invasive and more accessible (though it also requires repeated appointments), but I also couldn't tell you how often it's covered by insurance.
You might also compare bottom surgery rates: 66% of trans women want or have had vaginoplasty, vs. 27% of trans men want metoidioplasty (meta), or 22% want phalloplasty (phallo). Of trans women who want it, 18% have had it. Of trans men who want it, 7% (meta) or 15% (phallo) have actually had it. That's a gap of 3% or 11%, with trans women ahead in both cases.
You may also note that for trans women, surgical procedures are not super popular; vaginoplasty is the most sought-after surgery, and it's also third on the overall list of procedures for trans women. Trans men do not have non-surgical transition procedures listed (or generally available, afaik). Which is, imo, important context for another relevant statistic: "Transgender men (42%) were more likely to have had any kind of surgery than transgender women (28%)".
My point is, again, just to say that this stuff is complicated. I grabbed those statistics because they were a quick way to demonstrate the more general point that this is not a black-and-white issue, that trans men do not oppress trans women (and vice versa!), and that trans men are not actually More Privileged In All Areas.
And like, yeah, when you look closer at the issues those statistics reference, there are more layers- that's the point! It's a 300 page document, you could have a lot of conversations around all of these numbers and what they mean.
The fact that I didn't have all of those conversations in that post was not an attempt to hide these complexities. It was a request that we start to engage in them, especially without gearing it toward the question "who has it worse?", when the actual questions we need to be answering are "why does that happen?", and "how do we solve it?"
What I wonder, also, is- what is your point in bringing this up? The examples you brought up were lacking context, and in one case fully untrue. I want to assume good faith as well, but your ask comes off as if you're trying to argue that transmascs never actually struggle in a comparable or unique way.
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is dave trans?
[(Answering OOC is the easiest way to explain:)
Kind of, yes? Ever since I really thought of him as a comfort, I’ve absolutely headcanonned him to be intersex to some degree. I don’t really know why, it just feels right.
So Dave was born an XY Intersex, looking pretty androgynous, being both treated as a boy and a girl depending on the person. As he grew his hair out, he primarily was treated as female (nobody ever cared to ask his name so they couldn’t tell). Turns out, even though he was fine with being treated as female overall, he got a lot of gender euphoria from being referred to as male. But he lived from ages 6-17 being primarily treated as female. Techincally, biologically, he leaned towards the female sex in anatomy anyways, so it got harder to tell past puberty.
After he met Henry, he confessed his dissatisfaction with being female. Henry, being who he was, used this as both blackmail and a carrot on a stick. Using the idea of top + bottom surgery was something Dave had never even dreamed of (and at the time this sort of thing was VERY uncommon, and Dave never thought of it). At some point, Dave did something good enough, or had some kind of breakdown, or even both, that ended up making Henry actually commit to doing it. After that, DSaF canon follows up until the comic starts.
I’ve had SO MUCH brainrot over this, and I thought it’d be worth making Dave more funky than he already is. I love drawing top surgery scars (it’s a comfort thing), so I just kinda went ‘screw it’ and added them. Later I wanted to add lore, and I thought that there wasn’t enough intersex rep, and I wanted to try my hand! I tried to do as much research as I can in the subject, to make it accurate :) Open to correction though! Basically the man is VERY gender apathetic but liked being a dude the most. He got insecure about his female body :( So like yeah just very funky silly weird :D I love him
TL;DR: He is/was a biologically leaning female (XY) intersex individual with a personal male lean. Was treated like a girl until he met Henry who gave him gender reassignment surgery.]
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transgenderpolls · 2 months
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the hypothetical trans person in question:
doesn't HATE being trans and doesn't mistreat other trans people or anything like that, but personally has no pride in it and would do anything to have been born cis
has completely aspired to a cis-normative life and body, and succeeded in achieving all the paperwork, and all the hormones/medical procedures that they'd need to make them pass 100% of the time as cis male or cis female to even the eye of the most hypervigilant transvestigator, even while in nothing but underwear or even nude
this doesn't necessarily mean they've gotten bottom surgery, just that at the very least they're VERY intuitive with prosthetics or gaffs AND that they have sex in a very cisnormative way. (ie: a trans woman who only bottoms or if she tops she wears a strap, or a trans man who wears a realistic, hard packer even he's bottoming, and only takes it in the ass)
DID experience a period of their life where they didn't pass, and they absolutely went through a whole journey, but it's long over.
basically, they're definitionally trans but functionally cis, and they like being functionally cis. they don't mind not being part of the trans community and they would take it as a compliment if you told them "you're basically not even trans."
they don't necessarily eschew anything remotely gnc or anything, but there's nothing at all "genderfucky" about them.
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shigarakisbabyy · 1 year
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Come on, big guy- Bottom!Sub!Endeavor x Top!Dom!FtM!Reader NSFW
Hello everyone!! This is a NSFW fic of enji todoroki and a trans male reader!! I hope you all enjoy >:). Reader is assumed to be on T and have top surgery, and has a tdick.
Also! I posted this same fic on my ao3 but with Hawks replacing the reader (but still FtM)
Warnings: mentions of bottom surgery, porn without plot, strap ons, sub!enji, dom!reader, bondage, blindfolds, oral, praise, master kink, spanking, gags, light degradation, orgasm control
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The average person wouldn’t look at Enji and think he’s a submissive. No, based off all appearances he seems to be the dom in the relationship between you two, but no one knows Enji like you do. They don’t know how sweetly he begs for you, how he relishes in being tied up and tortured for hours after a long patrol. It’s a stress reliever for him, a way he can let go of all responsibility and duties and just be your good boy.
So when Enji came home looking utterly exhausted and tense, you got the ropes and toys ready to make him come completely undone and forget all about his day.
And now, here he was, kneeling for you with a blindfold covering his pretty turquoise eyes. His arms were tied behind his back in intricate knots, and his mouth was open and waiting for you to start using it.
“You gonna be a good boy for me?” You asked, gripping onto Enji’s hair and tugging it backwards so he was looking up at you. Of course you already knew his answer, but it was nice to hear him say it.
“Yes,” He said, his voice breathy and quiet. In everyday life he was loud and violent, yet when you had him in the bedroom it was hard to get him to speak above a whisper, save for his moans.
“Good,” You replied, shoving his face towards your groin, “Then suck.”
Instantly he latched onto your tdick with his lips and tongue, sucking away. You had him trained well, as he knew exactly how to drive you completely insane with his mouth. The twirling of his tongue, the sucking, the gentle grazes of his teeth… it was hard to make yourself last very long before cumming all over his face.
You threw your head back and moaned, deep and rumbly. You pushed his face deeper into you, grinding against his mouth for more friction.
“Fuck yeah baby,” You groaned, biting your lip, “Fuuuck yeah, right there. Good boy. Gooood boy, Enji.”
His cheeks lit up red with your praise, making you lightly smile. A hardcore villain couldn’t get to him, but the minute you called him your good boy he was putty in your hands. What a fascinating and alluring man Enji Todoroki was.
Shaking, you finally came from his skilled tongue, your juices coating the bottom half of his face. You panted and released your grip on his hair.
“Clean it up,” You commanded.
He quickly started licking up and down the insides of your thighs, then lapping up the wetness left over. You shook from the overstimulation yet you didn’t stop him, because you knew that tasting you was his favorite part.
One of the best parts of Enji being so submissive for you is that he doesn’t have to be. If he truly wanted, he could easily overpower and dominate you thanks to his strong muscles and large stature. But he chose to give himself to you, to let you control him, and he kept choosing it every time. He wanted you to own him. He wanted to be weak and needy for you.
“Such a good boy f’me,” You said, petting Enji’s hair, “Doing everything master tells you to. So obedient.”
He whined into you, flustered. You then pulled his head back, your juices glistening over his face. He panted heavily, his tongue falling out of his mouth like a dog. The sight made sparks erupt in your stomach, desire shooting through you. Desire to destroy him even more.
You put your finger through the loop of his collar and tugged it up, telling him to stand. He quickly obeyed. “Get on the bed.”
You helped guide him there, then pushed him down onto his stomach and quickly got on top of him. He was a gorgeous sight from behind, with contoured and perfect back muscles, a deliciously tiny waist, and a perfect ass that would make most women jealous. The plug you had put in him earlier with a pink jeweled base shined in the light. He seemed to be made to be a bottom.
You brought your hand down on his left ass cheek, making him lightly jolt. “You want my cock?” You asked. You had a plethora of straps to choose from to fuck Enji with.
“Y-yes,” He whined, pushing his ass back against you. You brought your hand down on his ass again.
“Yes, what?”
“Yes, master.”
You reached over onto the nightstand and grabbed one of the straps you had laid out, the bigger of the two. The strap was girthy and long, but you knew Enji could take it. You had trained his ass well. You quickly attached it to yourself, putting your throbbing tdick through a small hole in the base so you could fuck him and get pleasure as well.
You pulled his plug out which elicited a small whine from him, then set it on the nightstand. You grabbed a small bottle of lube and coated the strap in it, then slowly started plunging it into his hole.
“Hmm,” You said, “I wonder how pretty you’d sound if I gagged that mouth of yours.”
Enji whined back to you, but you weren’t sure if it was from your cock or the thought of being gagged. You took the latter and grabbed a ball gag you set in the nightstand and made quick work of putting it on him. Slowly, you sheathed the entire strap inside him
“You like that?” You asked, smiling because you knew Enji couldn’t reply in anything but whines and moans.
You started out slow with little thrusts, then slowly worked your way up until you were slamming into him. He twitched and cried beneath you and pushed his ass back against the strap, bucking his hips. You gripped the rope that tied his arms behind him and pulled it towards you, arching his back to help keep him still.
“You like when I fuck this ass?” You grunted out, “You like when I make you my bitch?”
Moaning into his gag, he made a noise that resembled a yes. You groaned out from the feel of the strap on your tdick, not as good as Enji’s mouth but still pleasant. You couldn’t wait to get bottom surgery so you could feel Enji from the inside.
Today was actually a light day for you two. Most days when you both wanted to get kinky, there were nipple clamps, a lot more bondage, edging for hours until you eventually let him cum and then overstimulated him, and paddles for spanking him with. But right now you just wanted to make Enji feel good and do the things you knew for certain he loved.
You brought your hand down on his ass again, then again, then again, until bright red marks adorned his cheeks. He looked so gorgeous when he had your markings on him, you thought. So pretty when he had signs of your ownership.
His moans grew louder and louder, telling you that he was about to cum. You took the gag off him and threw it to the floor. “I hope you’re not thinking you’re gonna cum without asking me first.”
“P-please,” He groaned, “Wanna cum, please.”
“Beg better and I might consider.”
“Please!” He twitched frantically beneath you, so close to the edge and trying so hard to keep himself from going over, “Master please. N-need to cum! I-I’ll be good, I promise!”
You smiled and gripped his hair with your other hand and pulled his head back. “Cum for me, baby,” You groaned, close to the edge yourself.
He moaned violently, almost screaming, as he came. You wished you could see his pretty, blissed out face instead of the back of his head, since he surely looked heavenly.
With a few more thrusts you were cumming as well, biting your lip and groaning. When both of you were down from your highs you both breathed heavily. You took the blindfold off him and undid the ropes tying his arms back. You slowly pulled out of him and took the strap off you, then set it on the nightstand next to the other one. You could tell that both of you were done for the night.
Falling onto the bed beside him, you held your arms open for Enji which he quickly accepted, resting his head on your chest and hiking his leg up over yours. He was like a big teddy bear after you played with him.
“Everything okay?” You asked, petting his hair and massaging his arm where you knew the ropes dug in, “Anything hurt?”
He hummed out a no and nuzzled his face into your chest. Your heart swelled from how cute he was.
“I love you baby,” You said, “Love you so much. You’re so pretty and sweet and you’re such a good boy for me. I love you.”
He whined into you and mumbled an “I love you” back. You kissed the top of his head and slowly, you both drifted off to sleep.
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youropinion-iswrong · 5 months
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ghost trick character's genders
along with some other hcs relating to them! warnings for ghost trick spoilers and mentions of dysphoria, surgery, and pregnancy
everyone's under the cut 👍
sissel: he's a cat he doesn't know what a gender is, BUT. he was a female cat during his ten years living with yomiel (hence why he was named after yomiel's fiance). after thinking he was yomiel for a while he just. kept seeing himself as male afterwards and everyone else did too. this cat accidentally got his gender transed
lynne: a sillygirl. a sunshinegirl. a boyfriendgirl. a deadguygirl. perhaps even a puppygirl. just nonbinary woman works too though. does no sort of physical transition
missile: dog
jowd: trans man, started transitioning in like his early-mid 20s. decided to pause his medical transition to carry his and alma's child despite his dysphoria, he wouldn't do it again but he's never regretted it. now is on t and has top and bottom surgery
alma: trans woman that's also a man but not and doesn't have any gender. oh and a bit multigender. usually not genderfluid though. don't worry about it do you want chicken she's ordering some for her family. started having Gender Weirdness as a high schooler and eventually was peaceful with her gender not making sense to anyone else, because it doesn't need to! fluctuating dysphoria but the body is usually worse than social. has been on and off e throughout the years and has bottom surgery
kamila: a budding sapphic who eventually blooms into a butch lesbian. yes as her gender. also has many xenic girl varieties like her sister and general gender weirdness like her mom
cabanela: yeah i have no idea what's going on here. he simultaneously feels Very Cisgender and Very Transgender to me. idk what he is we just need to acknowledge he kind of sucks more. and that can include him being cis. either way he does drag and this is important to his gender despite not being a woman in any way
pigeon man: trans man, started transitioning within the year he quit his job at the police force. he's only binary in the sense that he doesn't give a shit about finding labels besides "man". on t with no surgeries and doesn't plan on any. everything about his transition in all three timelines is identical to the minute somehow.
yomiel: it's... complicated. he was a trans man who came out in his mid-late teens, and was on t with top surgery when he died. he had a bit of a thing about being a Normal Binary Passing Man, but being dead and unknowable with no human friends and a disconnect from his body for ten years really fucked with that. like all social conventions, he has trouble readjusting to gender in the new timeline, but he's started reconnecting with femininity and exploring more labels. mainly just says he's transmasc, still taking t.
fiansissel: trans woman with extra woman and a side of fries and dip. sorry i don't have more for you girl you have the potential to be so interesting just by being in love with yomiel but that's the *only* thing you had the time to be ingame
other random chars: memry is transfem, emma and the minister are painfully cis but supportive, amelie is a demigirl, park guy is some sort of nonbinary in an insane dollar store soda flavor way, bailey and his 'friend' are both cis but in a hand-wavey "not unpacking that" way
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levmada · 2 years
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Your trans Levi gives me life. Would you consider write more? As soon, as you take requests again of course!
I honestly love this! One of the best written things I have ever read! I want trans Levi in my life. His body being worshipped by y/n when he feels insecure, y/n taking care of him after top surgery or when he struggled with the hormones, him pleasuring y/n for the first time, y/n just cuddling him and y/n standing by him in Public and stuff…
Honestly I’m hospitalized rn and I was so happy my request got answered! Amazing job
Also to recognize me: I’m 🌻
Love you! (Also sorry if I used any wrong terms, im not familiar with trans vocabulary)
nooo you did perfect!! i wanted to respond right away
reminder that i am trans and not appropriating or talking out of my ass lol
//male terms for afab body parts, some gender dysphoria, needles mention, very light mention of homophobia
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i think it takes him a long time to get comfortable with sex, especially before he starts on any hormones, gets approved for top surgery, and (gender dysphoria is different for everyone who identifies as trans but) since he isn't interested in bottom surgery, it's a whole mess for him. at first, he always has a loose top on, wordlessly requesting you not to touch his chest, so your hands always stray around his hips and thighs instead. he needs you to say to him, Look how hard you are for me as you lap into his soaking cunt, spread open so he gasps from every press of your tongue. Pretty boy as your fingers curl inside him with the head of a purring vibrator rolling snug circle around his clit. Leaking so fucking much.
Levi doesn't like to make noises, both because letting you know how good you're making him feel is mortifying, and because he can't control the pitch of his voice when you fuck him good, and you always fuck him good. he'd rather give you his tongue, his fingers, suckling your nipples until they're peaked and tapping your clit with vibrations. grinding his strap inside you as deep as he will go. he prefers to make you scream.
hc that levi HATESS needles (for canon reasons..) but shots are the most effective way to take testosterone and it’s fucking grueling to convince himself to ask if you’ll help. he kinda walks up to you in the kitchen after you pick up the first prescription and locks his arms around your waist.
You giggle. “Yes?”
“Do me another favor.”
And you smile.
The first couple times, he looks away, pinning one leg of his boxers up while you inject his thigh. It’s kind of cold, and he hates needles, but there’s a happy flutter in his heart with every round of hormones. Because holy shit he won’t have to live the way he used to, obsessively lowering his voice and keeping the WikiHow article in his bookmarks of how to imitate a man’s body language, walking shoulders squared without subconsciously swaying his hips, drawing liner on his brows to make them look more masculine, the oversized clothes, getting looks whenever you’re shopping for clothes and getting MORE looks when it seems like two women are in a romantic relationship—boo fucking hoo. At least, he won’t have to obsess over that shit AS much.
you comment all the time on the changes to make Levi feel better about his anxious suspicion that nothing’s happening, even though he doesn’t worry openly. A lot of weight that used to fill out his hips and chest redistribute to his back and his biceps. He grows a LOT of hair, dark hair on his arms and dusted across his chest and thighs. When you’re swapping kisses in bed—his breath still hitches when he can bear to get rid of his shirt, which isn’t often—you focus on his neck, sucking little marks, and skip over his chest. His belly packed with soft muscle, and a new trail of hair below his navel. You keep your gaze on him as you lick downwards, starting from right there.
All the sex is a good thing. Testosterone makes it so the littlest thing sets off desire, and all the sudden he’s rolling his hips against your ass in the mornings (and even in the middle of the night…), his palm sneaking up your shirt and swallowing up your breast, whispering for you to spread your legs.
Along with this comes a shorter temper. He’s irritated more often, and at small things. Where he didn’t before, he’d openly glare when another man gives you a second look when you’re out, and get fidgety when he’s driving, for example. Hell, when you’re driving he’ll call the other dumbasses on the road out for what they are lol. He really needs you to even him out and tell him to let it go while he processes all these emotional changes.
The way he processes his emotions changes. Occasionally he gets a bout of acne. His voice cracks before it starts to naturally lower. It’s a whole second puberty.
Top surgery is a long and grueling process. It's pretty common that right afterwards, the patient gets a serious bout of fear and anxiety, due entirely to a physiological sense of loss, not regret. It's normal. Levi is pale and quiet as he rouses from the anesthetic, and he knows it's a temporary feeling, but he'd still rather sleep it off, silently requesting you keep holding his hand. He'd squeeze whenever you tried to pull away.
The physical soreness is pretty bad too. For like a month, he isn't allowed to pick up anything heavier than 10lbs, and while the drains do their thing (probably the grossest part of the whole ordeal imo) he makes a face and looks away whenever they have to be changed. For the first month, his chest is just bandages and these ugly catheters for fluid and blood he has to be careful not to jostle on the daily. Top surgery is a big experience, it takes a while to recover from.
But when he’s healed… all that remains of what used to be there scars lining the bottoms of his pecs and nipples… he can’t hide the smile that spreads across his cheeks in the exam room. You’re grinning at him behind your hand.
Levi is not the proud-of-his-body type but it feels AMAZING to walk around and go to sleep with his shirt off. He can donate all his binders, so he can say goodbye to the back pain and soreness and crippling chest dysphoria since you always remind him to please take it off before you go to sleep. Later down the line when he’s less sore, you worship his chest with your mouth, making up for all those times before. Suckling his hardened nipples, leaving bright red marks.
And like… the only thing he’s more thankful for than successfully transitioning is you, who in the first place accepted him as a man before he even got properly started. Every step of the way you’ve been his rock, and he makes sure you know he's thankful every fuxking day.
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morbiderotica · 1 year
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could i please request near x trans male reader (if you don’t write trans its okay, just male reader is good) and they want to have sex and its Near’s first time but reader is slightly more experienced and shows him how to do it and takes care of him. thank you and i love your writing by the way
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─ ★ pretty baby … ftm!reader ... DISCLAIMER! im not trans im genderfluid so im sorry if this is inaccurate! near has top surgery, neither have bottom surgery. afab genitals mentioned.
Near's breathing was heavy. You could tell he was nervous as you straddled him. Seeing him in such a state was enthralling, especially knowing you were to blame. The way his hair fell just above his eyes, and his, usually pristine, white shirt all wrinkled and half unbuttoned.
"Are you okay, baby?" It was a teasing remark and he knew that. He couldn't help the sharp breath he inhaled at the pet name. Your hands rested on his chest, just above his scars. "I'm... I'm fine." His voice was breathy.
He shifted underneath you, not in uncomfortableness, but in need. The sight of you on top of him was becoming too much to bear. His hands came up to your shirt, silently lifting it over your head and revealing your binder.
Near's fingers traced the hem of the tight piece of fabric. His eyes were blown with lust as he did so. His dark brownish grayish eyes turned black and doe like. "I would like this off." He tugged at the binder with bated breath.
You nodded, letting him take it off slowly and gently. The piece of fabric was discarded onto the floor, and thrown into the evergrowing pile. Near's hands delicately trailed over your torso. His touch was so light, it almost tickled. His eyes hovered over your body, soaking in every part of you.
Near didn't know what to do next, just laying there, staring at you. You took it upon yourself to move your hands down to his shirt, unbuttoning the first button. "Is this okay?" You asked before continuing to undress him. He nodded quietly, too enamored by you to form words at this moment.
You continued unbuttoning the shirt, letting your hands hover just a little too long. "You're doing that on purpose." You'd be a fool to think he would notice the games you were playing. "Am I?" You unbuttoned the last button, letting the shirt open to reveal Near's milky skin.
Your hands traveled over his skin, stopping above his scars once again. "Yes. You are." His voice was low, perhaps trying to conceal a sound of pleasure. "I suppose I am." Your hands brush against his sensitive nipples. He closes his eyes and lets out a breathy moan.
"I.. I need you, Y/N." His eyes looked up at you, filled with desperation. You knew he was clueless about what to do next. The extent of his touching himself didn't go past mere experiments and he sure as hell didn't know how to touch you.
"You have me." Your games were torturous to him and you can tell by the look on his face he was unamused, which only made you more amused. You guided his hands to your hips. His fingertips played with the waistband on your pants. "Off?" You whispered and he nodded. You quickly took the pants off and returned to your spot on his lap.
You were fully naked. Near had seen you with little clothing before, but that didn't compare to what you looked like right now. His hands returned to your hips, aching for contact.
You took off one of his hands that rested on your hips and placed it on your cunt. He gasped at your boldness. His fingers played around gently, trying to give you pleasure. "There you go." You moaned when he harshly pressed on your clit.
"Does that feel alright?" His voice was raspy, something that it wasn't usually. "Yes." You moaned again when he repeated his action. Near was inexperienced, but he was a quick learner.
You fucked yourself against his hand. He watched you intently, making sure you were enjoying yourself. "Pretty boy," Near mumbled. You felt your face heat up and fall through your entire body. His hand which had previously rested on your hip, trailed down to your thigh, smoothing the bandaid that lay on your skin, reminding him he had to take his testosterone too.
Near slid his finger through your slit, stopping at your entrance. "Can I?" You nodded eagerly and Near complied, sliding his finger into your hole. You bit your lip as Near fingered you.
"You know," You gasped when Near curled his fingers. "For someone who is supposedly inexperienced, you're doing really well." Near smiled, almost cockily.
Then he inserted another finger, pumping two fingers at a slow but pleasing pace. "Near, please, more." You requested, and he complied, pumping in and out of you faster than before. His free hands rub circles on your thigh. "Does that feel good, Y/N?" You nodded through moans inexplicably.
"You're doing so well." You absentmindedly praised, close to your orgasm. You bent down, your mouth attaching to Near's neck, leaving dark marks in contrast to his pale skin. His fingers still working you wonderfully.
You let your breathy moans float around in the air. Your eyelids half open. "Near.." You whined, fucking yourself harshly against his hand. "Fuck, right there, please!" Near stayed silent, though he was enchanted by your state.
You hid your face in his neck as you came on his fingers. "Fuck.." You took a second to catch your breath as Near pulled his fingers out. You sat back up, once again resting your hands on his chest. "That was good, really good. Thank you." Your speech was slightly slurred.
"Can I return the favor?" You pawed at the waistband of his white pants. He nods slowly, eager to see what you have in store for him. You pulled his pants down, opening his legs slightly.
"Is it alright if I touch you?" You wanted him to be as comfortable as possible, with consent for everything you did. "Yes, it is alright. In fact, I would prefer it." His chest was rising and falling heavily. His eyelashes flicked perfectly as he blinked.
One hand rises to his stomach, pushing lightly, while the other went to his cunt, rubbing it gently. He let out a soft moan, obviously trying to conceal the fact that he even made a noise. You lowered your mouth towards his hole.
"Can I?" Your breath fell onto his cunt, making even more heat pool around. "Yes." He bit his lip in anticipation. You licked a long strip down, landing at his entrance. Your tongue lapped at him, making him moan quietly.
"You are very good at that." He praises and sets a hand on your head. You smile and continue your endeavors. Sucking his clit harshly, your hand still roaming around his stomach. Your lips were starting to swell a little.
You moan when Near gently pulls your hair. "Do you like that?" He asked, seemingly trying to find your favorite pleasure spots. "Mhm." You mumbled into his crotch, your voice serving as a vibrator for a second. He pulled on your hair again hoping to achieve the same results as before, and he did.
You moaned quite loudly. Near was rougher this time, testing your limits. You rolled Near's clit with your teeth, making his body shake slightly. "Do that again." He demanded with his grip on your hair tight. You complied with his demand, repeating your actions.
"Fuck..!" Near rarely cursed, reserving it for when he knocked over a tower of cards he'd been working on, when he was stumped on a puzzle which wasn't very often, and especially when he was with you when your bodies were pressed together.
The room was warm, beads of sweat sticking to both of your bodies. "Y/N." He moaned before he came on your mouth. You lifted your head up and wiped your mouth with a smile. "That was excellent. Thank you, pretty boy."
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i tried my best to research and to make this as accurate and comfortable as possible which is why this took so long to come out im sorry😭 i tried not to be too descriptive. ive never written trans characters so please give me feedback! my dms are open >.<
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l1tw1ck · 2 years
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Yours, Mine
You're the unlucky, or lucky, subject of Ajax's affections
FTM!Yandere!Ajax x Top!Male Reader
Part Two: Mine, Yours
Warnings: Non-Con, Stalking, Drugging/Aphrodisacs, Mentions of Murder
Words: 763
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I've been watching you for months.
I set up cameras all over your apartment. Inside and outside.
I know the shows you like, your quirky habits, the food you like, the friends you bring over, how you act when you're drunk, how you look when you masturbate, what you masturbate to, and the one night stands you bring home.
The one night stands that I kill when they leave your apartment.
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"Childe? What're you doing here?" You ask, standing in the doorway.
"Do I need a reason to visit my dear comrade?"
"Well, we're not actually that close so...kind of." You shrug.
"I wanted to see you. Can I come in?"
"Um...I don't know."
"Do you not trust me?" He frowns.
"Isn't it obvious? You tried to drown Liyue and you almost killed my friend Aether." You look at him angrily. "I don't want you in my apartment."
Ajax's 'Childe persona' falls for a moment, you could see how upset he was and it scared you.
"Why can't we let bygones be bygones? I've already apologized to him!"
"...You won't hurt me?" You ask. You could defend yourself easily, you even have a vision, but Ajax kills for a living. It didn't sound like a fair fight.
"I promise."
You sigh and let him in. He grins and walks around your apartment.
"Should I make tea?" He suggests.
"I...I'll make it." You shake your head.
"Thanks comrade!" He walks over to your couch and relaxes into it. He probably thinks you can't see him sniffing the pillows.
Does he think your place smells?
You shake off the thought and wait for the water to boil. You pour it into two tea cups and bring them over to the living room.
"Enjoy.." You say unenthusiastically, placing them on the coffee table.
"Oh, do you have any sugar?" He asks.
You nod and go to the kitchen to grab a small jar of sugar.
"Here, use as much as you want." You place the jar on the table and hand him a small spoon.
"Thanks."
You drink your tea and let him talk to you about whatever. It didn't interest you much, it was mostly about the action parts of his job. You started tuning him out, not really intentionally. You were feeling sick, everything was fuzzy and you were struggling to stay awake.
Ajax says something but you can't make out any of the words. The last thing you remember is falling into his arms
You wake up gods know how many hours later in bed, naked. The first thing you see is Ajax's creepy face then the camera in his hands, then his naked body, and then his butt resting on your lower half. Your uncomfortably hard dick was touching his back, begging to be touched.
You're too delirious and out of it to say anything.
He traces the scar under your chest.
"I wish I could've paid for your surgeries...I know it was expensive." He sighs. "You won't have to worry about money anymore."
"I'll make sure you live like a king." He lifts himself over your dick and quickly sinks down on it.
"Yes~!" He bites his lip. "Fuck~"
It doesn't take long for Ajax to start riding you. He was so intoxicated by you and euphoric over the fact that you were finally taking his virginity, he could come in seconds.
You wanted to tell him to stop, to leave and never speak to you again but the drug he gave you was making you so horny and needy. You needed him to keep going, to not stop and keep riding your dick.
"Ooh~ gods yes~!" He moans, body stalling as his orgasm approaches.
You couldn't do anything. It was kind of like watching a movie, a really blurry movie where you could feel everything. As if you were the cameraman for a bad first person porno.
He leans over and kisses you, your mouth didn't move at all. He had to pry your bottom lip open so he could stick his tongue down your throat. Even though it was a one sided kiss, he was happy you were his first.
He keeps moving throughout his orgasm, his happiness giving him strength. He could go all night.
And he did.
He never got tired of riding you, when you passed out you'd wake up to him still bouncing on your cock.
You didn't know when it ended, you just woke up and he was gone. You weren't in your bed though, you were tied to a chair and visionless. You couldn't do anything, you just sat in the darkness while going in and out of consciousness.
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possiblyancientlemon · 2 months
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About me: 25, transmasc, he/they, on T, post top surgery. Mostly into cis guys, but will take a breeding from anyone.
exclusively sub and bottom. Always open to be dominated by men. My asks are open and I definitely want to hear everything you want to do to me. No limits in messages. Yes, send me rape threats please 🤤
kinks include:
breeding, preggo, creampies, anything cnc or somno, praise, encouragement (borderline light degradation), male domination/ superiority, being pimped out, group stuff, dp, anal stuff, whipping, bruising, TPE, a bit of med kink, dollification, CORRUPTION!
I also loooove to be introduced to new kinks+fetishes, no matter how disturbing or niche they might be. Please groom me, make me thin and pretty, make me your toy. I will do anything for you in chat, if you live close to me, I will let you do anything to me irl too.
Things I'm not a fan of:
Leather, boring chats, boring opening messages, people who spam me and won't even follow, detrans stuff
my limits:
anything underage, scat, actual transphobia, homophobia, racism etc., extreme violence, real nc, there are safewords for a reason, and again actual transphobia
anyways welcome to my blog, if you're a minor fuck off.
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multigenderswag · 11 months
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people are only trans/nonbinary allies when it suits THEIR identity and it sickens me.
it’s so widespread I can’t even do anything about it except seethe in silence because I don’t want to get hunted down and embarrassed again.
if people could look outside of what accepting trans/nb people would mean for THEIR sexuality for one fucking second i guarantee you there would be less discourse in this dumpster fire of community
yes, this is about man lesbians/woman gays.
I saw someone call a demiboy lesbian “straight” and then have the audacity to say “nonbinary lesbians are valid!1!”. PICK A FUCKING SIDE.
hi yes last anon i forgot my last point so-called “trans allies” also like to ignore the idea of male and female not being mutually exclusive. I pray they get their asses handed to them one day by some fellow multigender folk because at this point direct confrontation is the only that that’ll get them to see the cold light of day and stop being part of the problem. they don’t like to accept us because they can’t handle the thought of being attracted to the opposite gender, even if it’s in the most slim way- so much so that they can’t see that *we’re not forcing them to DATE us, we’re asking them to ACCEPT and INCLUDE us.* if there’s someone in a community they don’t want to date it’s fine until that person happens to be genderqueer/trans/enby. and that’s very telling about how accepting they really are.
Trans liberation, and honestly any kind of activism for any marginalized group, would not be possible if people only ever stood up for their own identity. We need to support each other in order to have any strength.
Some people really will only expand their view of sexuality and gender until they find something that fits, and then stop there, and don't bother learning about or advocating for anyone else. And that's not how activism works! If aroallo people like me never made any effort to understand and accept and stand up for asexual folks, the aspec community as a whole wouldn't get very far. And like you said, if trans/nonbinary people only cared about their own gender identity, and never made an effort to learn about and stand up for the variety of trans/nonbinary identities that exist in the community, the trans community wouldn't get very far!
It's disgusting to insist that someone's sexuality is something they say it isn't. Did that demiboy identify as straight? If the answer to that is no, don't call them straight. It's very simple, really.
Did they not hear the contradiction? Do they listen to themselves speak? At this point, I'm convinced some of the "lesbian means NON MEN loving NON MEN" crowd includes nonbinary lesbians because they see nonbinary people as women. Nonbinary can mean woman with short hair or woman who uses they/them pronouns or maybe even woman who got top surgery, but god forbid nonbinary lesbians call themselves men or go on T or get bottom surgery or be someone who was assigned male at birth and doesn't want to medically transition. Basically, they only support nonbinary people if they can conveniently view them as "basically a woman."
There's no way to be a trans ally if you view "male" and "female" as mutually exclusive or as polar opposites. That shit is Gender Binary 101, and deconstructing it should be one of the first steps of being a trans ally. It shouldn't be something that other trans and nonbinary people believe so commonly. Not only does this mindset exclude multigender people who are both men and women, but it hurts binary trans people who are connected to or feel like they used to be their assigned gender.
"We can't accept men who identify as lesbians, because then they will invade lesbian spaces and force lesbians to date them." Does this sound like TERF talking about lesbian trans women, or a so-called trans ally talking about multigender lesbians? Trick question, it sounds like both, because they're practically indistinguishable from each other. So many trans allies, even trans/nonbinary people themselves, will make the exact same arguments as TERFs and not see a single thing wrong with it, and it's awful.
You're not helping the trans community if you only accept identities that are convenient for you.
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crowberry62 · 2 years
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Hi! I was wondering if you could do a papa III x trans ftm reader, us trans guys dont get a lot of love, also have fun with it! Have a good day! <3
-Bonk
As a trans guy I fully agree
Papa emeritus iii with trans (ftm) s/o
If you wear binders …BOOM… you get a shit ton of new binders
If you choose to go on testosterone the will help give you the shots or help you apply the gel
If you choose to get top surgery he will help you through the time leading up to it and the time afterwards
And yes he will film videos of your ramblings from the medication to show you later( don’t worry he won’t show it to anyone else)
He does the same if you go through bottom surgery
When asking about bottom surgery is first question for you is “do you get to choose how big your dick is?”
If you haven’t gotten your name change(and you want to change your name) then he will pay for you to get your name changed
He pays for all medical expenses.
He’s not trying to say you can’t take care of yourself it’s just one of the ways he trying to support you being trans/transitioning 
Takes you to pride
Also lots of pride flags
Drop kicks anyone who uses the wrong pronouns for you on purpose
Helps style your outfit
If you like makeup then he will do your makeup
Terzo doesn’t really align with one gender. He is male presenting and mostly uses he/him pronouns but is fine with any pronouns
if you are feeling dysphoric then he sits you down and does a self care day with you
He also has to explain what being trans is to his dad( not because nihil is transphobic, hell he’s probably pan but he doesn’t know much about trans people)
I hope you like this and thanks sending in a request Bonk!:D
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mikewheelerfan2022 · 1 month
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Is it just me, or does the reveal that Chihiro is actually a boy feel kind of…transphobic?
Everybody immediately comes to the conclusion that Chihiro was a boy pretending to be a girl. Which, in canon, is true. But the only reason they thought that was because Chihiro had (presumably) masculine privates. But 1. Intersex people exist. And 2. your privates don’t determine your gender. A lot of trans people aren’t able, or just don’t want, top or bottom surgery. And that’s totally fine!
So it feels weird that everybody immediately jumped to the conclusion that Chihiro was male. I mean, yeah, Chihiro was killed in the male locker room and had access to there. But trans people are very often forced to go into the wrong restroom or locker room.
Honestly, in my opinion, it would have been way better if Chihiro was trans (MTF). And there still would have been a reason for Chihiro to want to get stronger. It’s a killing game, it makes sense for somebody to want to be able to overpower any potential attackers. And yeah, this kind of screws up Mondo’s murder motivation, but I’m sure the creators could figure it out.
And yes, I do know this game came out in 2010. But it was just a thought.
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