#be who you want to be

[necroclrcus]

Does anyone have any objectum discord servers?

#objectum is valid #objectophilia #objectum #object sentience #lesboy #electric dreams #electric dreams 1984 #electric dreams edgar #lesboysarevalid #you are loved #be who you want to be

[aurkitnarulaoge]

TMI story time:

So I didn't know I had an accent until I came back to India and genuinely heard myself different and I was so socially awkward at that point that I 'took' the Indian accent and overall just avoided talking in English or even talking at all!

I didn't have the accent in Hindi (lol i hate to hear that too) but I was so hell bent on 'belonging' with the people that I tried to change myself.

And I want all of you to know you don't have to change yourself! It shows who you are!

And I got to writing this post bcz I was eating ice cream said 'thank you' to my sibling and heard the accent and sat there like "wtf I thought I lost it ohmygod"

And sat down with a tub of ice cream with a mini existential crisis...

#desiblr #desi tumblr #desi #desi tag #desi shit posting #desi girl #being desi #desi humor #desi stuff #desi academia #be who you want to be #be who you are

[hersurvival]

I love your energy, I have always wanted to be a metal front man, but most metal did not sound heavy or stimmy enough for me then I found death metal and its just what I need...iwowowj I get skurked sometimes though.

Because I have a problem where I like to gaslight myself out of being trans. I'm like: "You only wanna be a male because that genre (metal) but especially the sub-genre (death metal) is a very male dominated space. klclsdkl which just isn't true I wanted to be M even before!

I rlly wanna be known for my vocalizations. Just to be regarded as that bitch, in vocals, for certain things like a mixture of cleans and transfers to screams. 🥹 Or well...vice versa since its death metal but you get ittt

What would you band name be and debut album?

I really hope that one day, you get to be "that bitch" and you send me a tee shirt!

Just because it is a male dominated space doesn't make any difference on your personal transition journey. It would be fun to tell people, though..

Like, "yeah, I had to become a man to be taken seriously as a death metal vocalist - I started as a woman and was just not breaking through"

For the record, women who can scream make me WEAK.

And men who scream make me WEAK.

It don't matter to me 😅

#do it #scream your heart out #be who you want to be #thank you for your secrets! #answered

[christina-lynn]

For those who were curious, yes my hair is real😅

#me #girls like us #proud of myself #be who you want to be

[hancocksbitch]

I can't get out of my head the idea of @cranberrymoons Steve in their (bloody amazeballs) future fic unwittingly becoming this androgynous, gender bending style icon, as rockstar Eddies spouse, long before "it was cool" and being held as a inspiration for people like Lil Nas X and Harry Styles in the 2020:s. Like, his legacy apart from being a caregiver, parent and tutor being that he gave young people growing up in the 2000:s a role model simply by allowing himself to express himself and be who he wanted to be, unapologetically.

😍

#steddie #fanfic appreciation #gender bender #be who you want to be

[the-4l73rn4t1v3]

Habbi gay month

Here's two of my OC's ( ones with A-120 ...not relationship wise- )

#lgbtq #demiboy #bisexual #pansexual #bisexual pride #pansexual pride #demiboy pride #pride month #gay month #be who you want to be #be who you are #art #artists on tumblr #oc artist #orginal character #a 120 doors #a 120 #idk what else 2 tag this as #hiiiii

[minjae00]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH TO ALL OF YOU!!!!!

#lgbtq+ #kpop lgbt #pride #gay #nct dream x male reader #lgbt memes #lgbtq #kpop gay #pride month #queer #Be who you areeee #be who you want to be #be who you are #BE GAY FOR GOOD HEALTH

[itgetsbetterproject]

📚 QUEERBOOK 2024 is hereee! We made a book by and for LGBTQ+ youth! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Last year, we asked LGBTQ+ youth: what's your idea of a "queer utopia?"

Not gonna lie - with more than 150 bills introduced in 35 states in 2023 that aimed to restrict student access to inclusive and diverse books and other library materials, the theme felt pretty radical.

And you DELIVERED. With the help of our Youth Voices (amazing queer youth activists from across the country), we compiled your amazing submissions of poetry, short essays and letters, visual art, photography, and more into Queerbook 2024. Like a yearbook, it captures what queer youth are feeling, going through, and hoping for - right here, right now across the U.S.

It's also no accident that it's the perfect small-ish size to stash in your locker or backpack so you can crack it open any time you're looking for some queer connection. :3

Read some more about the book and grab your own limited-run copy of Queerbook 2024 now here.

#itgetsbetter #queerbook #lgbtq youth #queer youth #trans youth #queer lit #lgbtq books #studyblr #lgbtqia

[liviwaslost]

I think it’s funny and sad how so many people grow up hating the color pink because of sexism. Then they grow up and hopefully realize that they don’t need to hate on a color. For the longest time I hated the color to the point that everyone who knew me didn’t even associate me with the color, but now I love it and people in my life think about me whenever they see anything pink.

#pink #pink aesthetic #soft pink #pastel pink #pink is the best color #pink is my favorite color #pink is life #growth #growing up #be who you are #be who you want to be #lesbian

[supremeop07]

Today is your opportunity to build a tomorrow you want

#get motivated #motivateyourself #motivatedmindset #be who you want to be #development #personal development

[necroclrcus]

Love when TikTok is stupid and will send death threats over just me explaining that lesboys don’t mean straight heterosexual men …💀

#lesboy #lesboysarevalid #tiktok #you are loved #you are valid #be who you want to be #fuck exclusionists #transphobes are stupid #help me people are so stupid

[your-stranger-halfblood-things]

Mike: Do you ever act so gay that you actually forget that you like girls?

Will: I thought you were gay

Mike: I'm bi

Will: How do you know you like girls?

Mike: I don't, I just can't accept that I'm fully gay. Because, you know, family and stuff...

Will: Mike, it's important to be yourself, not mask who you are. You have plenty of people who support you, okay? No need to shy away

Mike: Thanks

Will: Yeah, no problem

Mike *kisses him*

Mike: I'm most definitely gay

Will, blushing: Kiss me again. Please

*he does*

#this post is because when i was younger i wouldnt accept that i am trans #i was scared for what my family would say but then i realized i have my chosen family of friends who support me #i relate to mike wheeler a lot when it comes to this #stranger things #byler #mike wheeler #will byers #gay mike truther #gay mike wheeler #gay will byers #be who you are #be who you want to be #byler kiss

[catsforthewin]

I Just Wanna Watch Tv...

The television invented by John Logie Baird and Philo Taylor Farnsworth.

I may not know you personally my good sirs but I am infinitely thankful to you and so so grateful for your services to the public and overall society. Your invention has helped so many minds unknowingly. The television inspires great minds, provides comfort and stability, hope for the hopeless, relief for the depressed, generates creativity in young and old minds alike. it is full of life and soul and it saved mine. It continues to do so even now and it will continue to do so for as long as I exist.

I remember coming home and racing to get everything done before the evening cartoons would start. I would receive tea and biscuits, snacks and sometimes meals. I would sit there for a few hours everyday and absorb the happiness and the magic of the shows. I would encourage my family members to join and it felt ..good. Even as I speak, even at my lowest point now, I can still feel the energy and the creativity that I have been blessed with. It hums under my skin and it fulfills me in times of need and inspiration. Though to my situations I have lost some of that magic I have no doubts that I will be able to recover it all back. Because if I have hope in one thing in this world.. it is my creativity.

Putting it into words would seem a bit difficult, but if I were to try.. I'd say it is like the stars in our skies, burning with heat and shining with light, It is like the evergreens in our forests, beautiful and vibrant and equally dangerous and deceiving, armed with the power to heal and the power to destroy, like Elixir of life and Pandora's box.

Inside the tv were beings I considered family. They came in all kinds of sizes, colors, species and shapes. They didn't judge me, hurt me, abuse me. They taught me good lessons and how to be a good human being. They played a heavy role in making me who I am today. I do not hate, I do not discriminate, I do not hold onto prejudice. I am not racist, homophobic, sexist, ableist, fatphobic, atheophobic, xenophobic, etc. I do not have that burning void of anger in me. I looked at the unknown in curiosity. I did research, learned about things I didn't understand. I do not feel anything negative towards anyone I don't know because of their identity. I would despise a person because of how they behave.

My mystical box taught me all of this. It taught me how to love and accept and heal together. It taught me that bad people aren't always evil and good people aren't always angels. It taught me to try to get people to be better but evil will get the punishment they deserve. It taught me to love animals and take care of nature. It taught me compassion and empathy, understanding and not judging before you know everything. It taught me how to stand my ground but also protect myself. It taught me that backing down isn't shameful and crying isn't a weakness, It is just how we release pressure. It taught me to trust my intuition and what to look out for in evil people. It gave me so much knowledge and so much more. Here would be a good place to stop for I am getting tired and it would take me a lifetime to write about everything and that does not seem optimum, Tehee.

This may seem like a bit of a rant but I thought that it was time to show my appreciation for the television.

so TV, this one is for you, one of my best teachers

I felt family and love from a box.. and it was glorious beyond comprehension.

#happiness #be who you are #be who you want to be #mental health #peace and love #imagination #creative #fantasy #depressing life #for me #but i hope not #for others #television #tv #i love tv #life lessons #learning #family #tumblr is my diary #lonesome

[mail-me-a-snail]

the AUDACITY OF IT ALL

#might delete these later but thats soo funny #my post #like yeah cdpr made this game where u can customize ur story and make ur own choices and #be who you want to be #but oh no youre tied to the canon names forever and ever. #like hi?

[simplyundeniable98]

no because why are eddie stan’s all of a sudden judgy? that defeats the whole point. metalheads are judge free and literally don’t care what you do. wear WHATEVER TF you want, listen to WHATEVER tf you want, like WHOEVER TF you wanna like. if you want to jam out to harry styles wearing a nirvana shirt YOU DO IT BABE. stop letting all these judgy ass children influence how you live. love you who you want to love and be who you want to be.

#thank you for coming to my ted talk #eddie munson #eddie my beloved #stranger things #stranger things 4 #joseph quinn #why the fuck did you kill eddie munson #eddie stranger things #eddie x reader #metalmusic #metallica #be who you want to be

[markofamaestroofficial]

For Love and Acceptance, and Kindness To and For All: A Christian Essay & The World’s Wake-Up Call

By Maestro

Greetings and salutations, everyone. My name is Maestro. I am a Christian, Autistic, Queer cisgender man, and I am so angry at how the world is right now. First off, so many people are so gosh darn repressed right now. They can’t be themselves freely due to how society treats them, judges them, and, in some cases, harms them for being who they are when being who you are does not harm anyone. Granted, if you are harming someone, that’s a whole ‘nother issue. If you are, you need to seriously reflect on yourself and what issues are causing you to act like a jerk to people just trying to live their lives. I would recommend therapy. That’s another tangent for later in this essay. Trust me. We will get there.

               Going back to where we started, I have been masking for most of my life. What is masking, you ask? Imagine you take a core part of yourself and push it way down. Some folks, like me, pushed it so far that that we don’t even feel and recognize that we are, in fact, suppressing ourselves. And that is so harmful especially for us Autistic folks, even if you don’t understand it. As a matter of fact, this sort of masking has caused me, and so many other Autistic folks so much trauma. The fact that me and so many other people, whether they be Autistic, part of the LGBTQ+ community, or anyone who society doesn’t understand and doesn’t make an effort to understand are ostracized just for bein’ who they are NEEDS to change.

Every single one of us is a creation of the Lord, no matter if they don’t fit into society’s mold. The fact that we even need to hide who we are and our identities, when it doesn’t even harm anyone- especially when doing the opposite and loving ourselves for who we are and having people around us who do the same is so freeing and helps us to finally love ourselves and feel free to be boldly us and happy. Doing so doesn’t hurt anyone, our actions to cause harm and repress people for being the wonderful person The Lord made them to be is what hurts people. Granted, if who you are is someone who does want to harm people, you need to, as I’ve stated, take a serious look inward. Why do you feel this way? What are you feeling inside that drives you to hurt and judge other people just for being who they are? Why, why do you want to lash out at other people like this? And if you hear this and feel rage building up inside of you, ask yourself this. Why are you feeling this way? Self-hatred? Anger towards something really bad that you had to endure in the past? Whatever the root cause, your feelings are valid. I get it. I have experienced so much self-hatred towards myself for my entire life without even realizing it until recently, and It really sucks. Darn, does it suck.

However, your feelings do not give you justification to hurt people, say things, and act in ways that make others feel like they can’t be who they are. Especially seeing as, as I’ve stated, being yourself doesn’t harm anyone. What harms people is taking actions that harm others and not treating them with kindness, love, and respect. And if you read this and feel that sense of rage building up inside you, ask yourself why. What is it that bothers you about hearing that I want people to finally be able to be accepted and loved for who they are, be who they are freely if it isn’t hurting anyone, for wars to finally end, and for people to finally stop hurting each other and finally be kind, loving, and supportive to every person on earth, regardless of our differences and what society deems as flawed when simply being who you are doesn’t harm anyone? Like I said, it’s our harmful actions that hurt people, not being who we are. Because I’m sick of masking who I am and not being able to be the fierce, loving, compassionate, justice-oriented individual that I am just because of how the world treats people who are different and treating us like we’re less than. We are not. We are just as fully people and in our own ways as everyone else is, and we need to start treating people as such. We need to start listening and believing what Jesus and The Lord taught us: love one another as ourselves and pay no one back evil for evil. We haven’t been doing that as a collective people nearly to the degree that we should, and that needs to stop. I repeat. The hate NEEDS to stop. It needs to finally end.

Whether they be neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, what have you, we have a duty as The Lord our God’s creation to love people as ourselves and pay no one back evil for evil. And by no one, I mean no one. Jesus called for us to love one another as ourselves, regardless of their flaws and the painful, messy parts of themselves, such as the trauma each of us has faced. And what have we done? Prevented people who desire get into relationships outside of the hetero norm, like myself, from marrying and being in love with who they choose and what feels right for them because of misconceptions. We ostracize Autistic people, like myself, for stimming and fidgeting and self-regulating in a way that just helps them feel better in a world that oftentimes, time and time again, treats us like we’re weird, broken, and infantilizes us like we’re helpless children that aren’t competent, capable, wonderful human beings, just like everyone else is. The reality is that we are the opposite. We are people who just as beautiful, wonderful, capable, and beautiful ourselves like every single person on this planet should be. We also go to war and terrorize, hurt, and kill people in order to solve human conflicts. The fact that that even happens in the first place is so gosh darn screwed up that it makes me sick.

I am sick of people hurting each other and not allowing people to just be themselves and love whoever they feel in their hearts of hearts that they love when it doesn’t harm anyone just because much of society is so gosh darn hateful. And, yet again, if you read this and feel that feeling of rage bubbling up inside of you- like I’ve said, ask yourself why. Take a deep look inward and ask yourself why you are so upset at me for telling people that we need to stop harming each other and finally, finally love each other for being the wonderful people The Lord our God created them to be. Whatever the reason, as I’ve already stated multiple times, whether it be self-hatred, pain that you experienced in your past, what have you, it does not, in any way, shape, or form, give you or any single individual anywhere to ever exist, who exists now, or who will exist the excuse or right to cause harm to or repress anyone for any reason when they’re just bein’ who they are and not hurting anyone.

As I’ve finally stated so many times over the course of this essay, we need to be better and kinder as a society. Heck, as a world and human race. Do you know the power that simply including someone has to impact a person, in the best way possible? Simply asking someone how they’re doing, if they can sit with you for a meal, showing them your favorite thing that you love, inviting them to hang out and finally be included by a honest to goodness, true friend that accepts them, includes them, and loves them for who they truly are can save a persons life- both emotionally, and sometimes, literally. I know, at least for me, if I was just included in things and had more friends earlier on, especially during my childhood, that actually loved me for me and not the mask that I put on for pretty much all of my life, my pain that I’ve been repressing for pretty much my whole life and caused me so much self-hatred would likely be filled with so much upfront joy and confidence. That is why the world needs to change. We need to be able to feel that way about ourselves and finally love each other as ourselves like what Jesus told us to do, since we, and I mean every sing one of us who has lived, does live, and will ever live in the future, are The Lord’s creation, and The Lord loves us for who we are, regardless of all the flaws we have inside of ourselves. As Jesus said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” (John 13:34). Praise Jesus. Amen.

#Essay #lgbtqia #Autism #Social change #I'd rather be me #Queer #Love #stop the hate #love each other #praise jesus #christianity #the hate needs to stop #let love prevail #be who you are #be who you want to be

[deadghosy]

Thick thighs>>>>

Chubby belly>>>

Doe eyes>>>

Siren eyes>>>

Lazy smile>>>

Unique laugh>>>

Cute smile>>>>

Tall or short>>>>

Scared of spiders>>>

Chocolate ice cream >>>>>

Lavender>>>>

Veiny hands>>>

#what I love in a person #be who you are #be who you want to be #don’t let anyone tell you otherwise #i love you #i love who you are