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everyponie · 8 months
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If you say "i hate homophobes/transphobes" but then you hate on queer people who's labels "don't make sense" or who's labels are "problematic" to you.... guess what! You are the homophobe/transphobe! Congrats!!
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mountain-fawn · 1 year
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What if we met.. at the retro bisexual themed Taco Bell.. haha jk… unless
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femboy-catgirl · 4 months
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bi lesbian because I prefer dating women over men and saying lesbian when asked about my preferences because it is easier to explain my attraction to women that way. bi lesbian because men are cool and awesome and I'm not opposed to dating one but liking girls is more relevant to my identity. bi lesbian because I'm bi but my attraction to women is the highlight. bi lesbian because I'm a raging dyke. bi lesbian because I'm more comfortable in lesbian spaces yet I'm still proudly bi. bi lesbian because I've only gotten crushes on women or people who thought they were women at the time. bi lesbian because I like men while being a dyke. bi lesbian because saying lesbian is easier than saying bi dyke. bi lesbian because I LOVE genderfucky people. bi lesbian because I also like genderqueer non women.
I'm bi, aspec and a lesbian.
I'm a dyke, a torta (south american spanish for lesbian/dyke, technically a slur) even.
I love women.
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transfagfemme · 1 month
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dyke and butch/femme identities are fully inclusive of bisexuals if ur not a gatekeeping, baby radfem, lesbian separatist COWARD!
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hoolay-boobs · 7 months
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Bi dyke banners 💜💛❤️
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Requested by the very rad @pride-cat
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pansy-byke · 11 months
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genderqueerdykes · 9 months
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just wanted to say i appreciate both your post and last anon! i identify as a trans guy and as a stone butch and as a bi butch dyke and as genderqueer.... but not at all as non-binary, and in fact really hate being called non-binary
hey, i just want you to know that you are seen and appreciated! you absolutely do not have to use the term if it's not for you! also holy shit genderqueer stone butches unite, im also a stone butch dyke! you rule! have a great week, thanks for letting us know about your story! it's much appreciated
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equinoxians · 1 year
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everyponie · 7 months
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happy lesbian day 🌈
this is your reminder ALL lesbians are deserving of respect! Even the ones YOU don't like!
Remember to spread love and kindness to your fellow lesbian siblings today 🫂💞
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bilesbianblog · 20 days
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Someone else probably already said this but
Bi lesbian culture is Dykes to watch out for
April 3, 2024.
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violentdyke · 7 months
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maybe i don't hate men. maybe i just hate the fact i'm bisexual.
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emeldiir · 3 days
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Hello! I’ve been a bisexual sapphic for my entire life (save for the few times I thought I was a lesbian) and I am also transneutral and on Testosterone. I’ve been struggling to feel comfortable enough to ID as butch for a while because of online (twitter) discussions making it a “lesbian only term”. Do u have any advice that could help me both feel comfortable and explain to my friends how I feel? Thank you!
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Twitter is an absolute hell hole of young queers refusing to read anything about queer history and assuming that they have monopoly on queer identity and discussion.
first things first, the people who deny bisexual people our queerness are the same people who parrot the talking points that bisexuals cannot be butch or femme. this is woefully ignorant of a good 80% of queer history.
lesbian bar culture is where butch and femme got popularized within the queer community, and during the 1930s through 50s, the lesbian community included anyone who would be sapphically identified today, anyone who was transgender (man, woman, nonbinary, agender) and anyone else who resonated with the community.
butch and femme were coined within the queer ballroom scene, and the labels were spearheaded by black and brown queer people of all orientations and gender identities. Ballroom culture has catagories such as ‘butch queen realness,’ ‘femme queen realness,’ ‘butch queen up in pumps,’ and many more.
the idea that butch and femme are lesbian only arose with polical lesbianism in the 1970s when political lesbains (some who were heterosexual woman attempting to practice their feminism through the lesbian identity) attempted to distance themselves from anything remotely connected to men. this included bisexual sapphics, trans men, and trans women.
The reason i always speak about the history of the butch/femme labels is that when discussing the nature of butch/femme, when being interrogated or harassed for using the identities as a non lesbian queer person, the most important thing for us to remember is that we are historic. we have existed for decades, and anyone who tries to deny our history as not listened to their queer elders, does not have a good grasp of queer theory, culture and history, and are so focused on pushing their own harmful narrative into queer spaces that they end up a danger to the community.
the people who say this sort of stuff are more focused on being bigoted towards bisexuals then doing any sort of research to back up their claims.
I hope this helped! I’m a little scatterbrained today so if you need more information you can look through the #ro talks about butch things tag on my blog, i’ve archived a whole lot about bisexual butches and femmes.
and just to reassure you a bit, I would be more then happy to share a space beside you, my fellow butch. we need more solidarity in this world, and you are more then butch enough to stand beside me. much love <3
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bi-sapphics · 1 year
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for me, 'butch' is a personal identity and 'dyke' is a political identity. i don't feel like explaining it any further than that. it just feels right. ⚢♡
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hoolay-boobs · 8 months
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Bisexual, Sapphic and Bi-Dyke Pride 💝
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Bi dyke flag found here
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pansy-byke · 9 months
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Who wants to see some neat stuff I found poking around the Bi Women Quarterly archives
"Bistory at the Lesbian Herstory Archives"
"I talked with Joan about the principles behind the LHA and her vision of its future. She said that the LHA is dedicated first and foremost to being a lesbian space.
When I asked her what she meant by "lesbian" she offered "any woman who has at some time in her life loved another woman" She also remarked that she would rather err on theside of inclusivity than be too exclusive, which explains the large collection of materials relevant to both lesbians and gay men(such as the Gay Community News), feminist materials, and a small but growing collection of materials on bisexuality. For Joan, the mission of the LHA is "to preserve the multiplicity of lesbian presentations." There is something of interest here for any woman who identifies herself as a dyke, a feminist, a mother, a butch or a femme, a prostitute, a worker in a traditional or a non-traditional occupation, a practitioner of S&M, a woman of color, a Jew, a witch, a teenager or an olderwoman, a closeted woman or an activist, a bisexual, an artist, and the list goes on. The sheer amount and variety of the stuff is testimony to the diversity of the lesbian experience and the vitality of lesbian communities"
A poem "Here I Am" by latina bi dyke Laura Perez
"we dream a world
which bridges the barriers,
i, this
bi-coastal, bisexual
dyke of color
have living proof
the distance is
not so great"
Here's the whole thing go check it out
I also found a bi femme and trans lesbian butch couple- and my freakin heart I wish them the most wonderful things wherever they ended up in life
"How I Learned to Love My Femme Self, Butch Dykes, and Transgender Warriors" by Liz Nania
"Laurie honored my bisexuality and I honored her proud trans butchness. We often felt like poster girls for Bi-Trans Unity. She stood up for me to her separatist-lesbian friends who were disapproving of her dating a bi woman; I stood up for her when I heard trans-phobic remarks- We both know bisexuals and transgendered people are truly natural allies and need to celebrate and further develop our bonds i the community"
And here's a lesbian identified bisexual talking about assumptions
"Dont Assume Anything" by Amy Wyeth.
"They say, "Don't Assume Anything" and "Question Au- thority." No one, including gays, bis and hetero- sexuals, should assume anything about someone's sexual preference based only on the way that person looks. Everyone should question the notions defined or perpetuated by those in positions of authority (e.g. the media, certain powerful icons/members of gay culture, and cer- tain dangerous bigots) as to what a lesbian or bisexual woman looks like. Not all of us feel we are well represented by such narrow definitions."
Just goes to show how timeless the bi witticism of Assume Nothing! really is. I highly recommend just perusing through the archives or even the current isues there's loads of interesting history
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restarting-over · 11 months
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please reblog i need to know MWAHAHA
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