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svdaily · 5 months

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Stop letting other people tell you who you are.

#personal improvement #personal growth #personal development #successquotes #successtips #self love #self care #hypergamy #svdaily #wealthy lifestyle #text post #black tumblr #healing #recovery #soft life #soft black women #black femininity #soft girl

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theambitiouswoman · 7 months

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Living a soft life doesn't mean abandoning your ambition, goals, or your business pursuits. It's more about approaching these things with a sense of balance, mindfulness, and well being. Here's how you can create a healthy balance for both.

Set clear goals that align with your values and passions. This ensures that your pursuits bring genuine happiness and don't just serve external pressures or societal expectations for your life.

Prioritize time for relaxation, hobbies, and self care. Taking breaks can actually boost productivity and creativity in the long run. If you are not operating at 100 you can't produce 100.

Operate your business ethically and sustainably. This will lead to a deeper personal satisfaction and actual long term success.

While hard work is commendable and at times necessary, consistently overworking can lead to burnout. It's important to recognize when to push forward and when to rest.

Embrace a growth mindset. This means viewing challenges as opportunities to learn and grow, rather than as setbacks.

Set clear boundaries between work time and personal time.

Don't be afraid to ask for help or delegate tasks when needed. You can't do it all alone.

Celebrate small wins to stay motivated.

Be selective about the things you take on, the partnerships you form, and the way you market your products or services.

Even as you achieve success stay humble. As quickly as you make it, you can lose it.

Be open to change and adaptability. Being flexible allows you to navigate challenges more effectively.

It's entirely possible to be driven and successful while also prioritizing peace, joy, and a deep sense of purpose. The soft life isn't about doing nothing. It's about making healthy choices in how we live. It means finding a good balance between work and relaxation, being present in whatever we're doing, and valuing meaningful experiences over having a lot of them. It's about being kind to ourselves and others, making choices that are good for us and the world around us, and finding joy in simple things. Even when pursuing our goals, it's about doing so with purpose and happiness. In short, the soft life is about living in a balanced, genuine, and joyful way.

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4theitgirls · 9 months

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ways to start taking care of yourself

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physically

💕 30 minutes of movement per day

💕 research your hair type and start a hair care routine

💕 build a skincare routine - start with a basic cleanser twice a day and a moisturizer

💕 have a home spa day once a week

💕 take a multivitamin daily

💕 try to get 8 hours of sleep per night

💕 implement a nutritious, balanced diet

💕 aim to drink at least 5 cups of water daily

💕 never skip meals!

💕 keep your body moisturized

💕 start a nail care routine - start by implementing cuticle oil and a nail strengthener

mentally

💕 practice gratitude daily

💕 meditation and/or prayer daily

💕 read 10 pages of a book daily

💕 start a reflection journal - what went well today? what didn’t? how can tomorrow be better?

💕 consume healthy and productive content in your free time

💕 avoid social media early in the morning and late at night

💕 practice positive self-talk

💕 keep your space clean and organized

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golden222petal · 21 days

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#feminine energy #leveled up mindset #luxury black women #black luxury #black femininity #black girl luxury #soft moodboard #black girl moodboard #moodboard #organization #high maintenance #luxury #rich black girls #soft black women #career development #career journey

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blissfullyecho · 1 year

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activities, hobbies, and skills that nurture your femininity (pt. I)

cooking (+ points for scratch cooking or farm-to-table)

baking (+ points for scratch baking)

quilting

embroidery

crocheting

knitting

card-making

scrapbooking

flower arrangements

reading/book club

dancing

pilates

yoga

interior design/decor

painting

playing an instrument— piano, flute, harp, violin, etc.

organizing

jewelry making

homemade garment making

fashion design

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butchmartyr · 1 year

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remember when people were seeing trans girls call themselves girls while being adults a few years back and started to unironically say shit about them fetishizing or tokenizing childhood to paint them as shitty? despite this happening in the wake of and at the same time as the whole uwu soft cinnamon trans boi thing and yet nobody called those dudes pedos or anything? just think that’s interesting. be kind to tgirls

edit: this post isn’t saying trans men don’t experience oppression nor is it blaming anything on them. one side of the coin is hypersexualization and pedojacketing (and more), which I’m talking about here, and the other side is infantilization (and more). do better cmon why assume a random trans woman is against you

#honestly was a hugely radicalizing moment #was a significant part of my developing view of transmisogyny #also not super related. but man huge F to when that soft trans boy vibe escaped containment #and ppl started being silly at random tboys. that was a bummer #mine #transmisogyny #*by silly im being sarcastic and mean gross and weird

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stealingyourbones · 2 months

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Submitted Prompts #160

I was listening to that song "Space is Cool" that a fan made with Markiplier videos (what can I say, the music is really good).

And it reminded me of Danny, who's also so very in love with space.

And now I'm getting a clear mental picture of Danny full-on GUSHING about Space, in a sort of Outside POV thing.

Like, a Danny who's going to Uni in somewhere like Gotham or Star City, and got into the Astronomy club. And their "recruitment video" is just the cute freshman who adores space and will take any chance he gets to gush about it.

There's a lot of shots zoomed in on his pupils doing the cat thing of going from slits to big pools of black (like a black hole at the center of a galaxy) and his freckles start glowing in constellation patterns.

They go on an outing to the nearest Observatory, make it a sleepover thing, and sleepy Danny stretches and howls like a star, flops onto the nearest classmate and Club Member, and starts purring whenever they pet him.

He may be a meta, but they'll be damned if anyone blabbers to Batman about it.

Cue one Conner Kent coming to Gotham to tour their University, to pick where he wants to go when it's his turn next year, and find himself sitting next to Danny when he goes off on a rant about some deep space scans that caught images of Krypton before the explosion.

When asked about his opinion on the Supers, Danny, who's gotten so used to casual affections being directed towards him in the form of head scratches and hugs (they make Danny purr and light up in all kinds of patterns, so the club members do it as often as they can), pats him on the head and quietly praises Superboy for all the important work he does, and how his cloned little sister has always seen him as a mark that being a clone means nothing in the grand scheme of things, and it's who you are that counts.

Conner goes back to his parents in happy tears and with an invitation to attend Gotham U if he so chooses.

#dpxdc #bones submissions #i want an Older Danny who's so soft to the younger teen heroes #especially the ones with a darker past #he knows the struggle to make others see that you're better than what everyone thinks #Ellie melts back into her age in living yers and develops a puppy crush on Kon for being a clone and still being loved #time and therapy lead Clark to realize Superboy is an innocent kid who hasnt been alive for more than a handful of years #so they have one last screaming match #that ends with a 'i hate that i can't help but want you as my dad' 'i know. and im sorry. i want to prove to you that I can be better'#Lois made both of them go to therapy for their issues #Conner is divided between being a little in love with Danny #or afraid of introducing him to Tim and the others #joke's on him Tim is a part of the Astronomy Club #he orchestrated their meeting

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theereina · 1 year

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A Guide on Self-Development for Women

Hello, ladies! Self-development is a great way to build confidence and grow in life. I've put together a quick comprehensive guide to help women achieve their goals and become the best versions of themselves. Here are some steps to help you get started:

Set meaningful goals: Setting clear and achievable goals is an important first step in self-development. Take some time to identify what your goals are and create a plan to reach them. Having goals keeps you motivated and focused.

Develop a positive mindset: A positive attitude and outlook can help you stay focused on your goals and make progress. Start each day with an affirmation and focus on the good things in life. Celebrate the small wins just as much as you celebrate the big wins. A win is a win. Act accordingly.

Take time for self-care: Taking care of yourself is essential for physical and mental well-being. Practice self-care daily. Make sure to take time each day to do something that you enjoy and that relaxes you. Remember in every situation and setting you are your MAIN priority.

Stay organized: Being organized and having a plan for everything can help you stay productive and on top of things. Create a routine and stick to it to maximize your productivity. Use a planner or to-do list to keep track of your schedule. Organize by day, week, and month. This allows you to see the bigger picture while planning the specifics.

Develop your skills: Developing your skills and learning new things will help you stay ahead of the game and open up new opportunities. Look for classes and courses that interest you and make an effort to learn something new each day. Look at this as an investment. New skills, new money. Different skills, different bags.

Work on relationships: Building and maintaining healthy relationships is key to personal growth. Make an effort to stay in touch with family and friends, and be sure to nurture your most important relationships. On the other hand, do not feel forced to maintain toxic or unhealthy relationships. Relationships can be one of the greatest tools when it comes to networking. Both marketing and advertising can be impacted.

I honestly hope that this guide helps you on your journey to self-development and achieving your goals. This post's sole purpose was to inform the women in this community. Best of luck to all of you lovely ladies!

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sugarsprinklesoul · 2 months

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SOFT GIRL ERA PRAYER

Dear God, introduce me to the soft life.

A life of abundance, peace, and tenderness. I'm ready for the beautiful things I'm about to experience with you.

I'm done with teaching people how I want to be treated. I'm done with feeling like I have to beg someone to be around.

I'm no longer overwhelming myself because you got me. I leave all my problems and stress to you. You created us in your perfect image. We should all live a Peaceful and happy life. So I choose to direct my time into all the things that matter.

The way you love and care for me is top tier.

I will not settle for less because you showed me how I'm truly supposed to be treated and I know how I should love and treat others.

#inspiration #self love #motivation #self care #self help #self improvement #glow up #becoming that girl #glow up era #manifesation #soft girl #softcore #soft aesthetic #personal growth #self development #self awareness #self confidence #growth mindset #self growth

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audrinawf · 11 months

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don’t underestimate the power and also beauty of privacy in a world we’re everyone’s making a living off of showing their lives online.

#glow up #femininity #self care #girly blog #hypergamy #soft life #manifestation #goals #aesthetic #law of attraction #self development #digital minimalism

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xxxairheadedangelxxx · 5 months

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I think Nicole steals Jecka her first scene queen style belt. Jecka is very obviously wrapped up in just wearing and doing whatever the fuck her mom requires of her but after admitting she likes MSI Nicole kept bugging her for information and found a whole wanna be scene queen hidden behind those just a little too small hollister tshirts and unripped jeans.

slowly but surely Nicole starts swiping and then leaving more and more clothing in the scemo vibe at Jecka's house. She doesn't catch on for a while but when she does her initioal reaction is to yell at Nicole for clogging up her closet but she stops herself realizing maybe it's ok to indulge some things about herself that werent defined by her mother.

She says nothing about it but Nicole swears she saw Jecka wear the rainbow studded belt under her little Abercrombie sweater one day.

#jeckole #class of 09 #nicole #jecka #scemo #im sorry i just am so soft for these girls #nasty little bitches #they deserve a little bit of normal happiness #im sure ill write angst headcanonbs at some point but for now they are just two lesbians helping each others character development #if any of you saw this post where i swapped their names the entire time like a fucking idiot no you didnt

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queen-of-disasters-stuff · 8 months

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“I’m just a girl” >>

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st-hedge · 25 days

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It wasn’t on my 2024 bingo card that I’d draw V again. Anyway I’ll go ahead ramble in the tags

#devil may cry 5 #dmc5 #dmc v #so I’ve replayed dmc5 a stupid amount of times since March #but to be fair it’s a very short game #but I’ve developed a hobby of trying to connect dots between v and Vergil #cuz the detail is actually so good #for instance even how he holds the cane is similar to how he handles Yamato #his expressions are so alike but it’s not obvious #but then I thought #why is vergil’s humanity some dweeb who is like 20 something #he is like closest age wise to his dmc3 version #(this has probably been answered but I wanted to figure it out myself)#then I remembered the line from v about how his humanity has finally returned #so has it been subdued and dormant ever since he got imprisoned by mundus #and is that why his humanity resembles his younger self #cuz the human vulnerable side of him has been dead #this is the only edition of Vergil I won’t drop kick on sight #human v is a dork ass goth who has a soft squishy heart #and he can’t even kill his brother who he hates so much when given the chance #UUUGGHHHHHHHHHH #don’t even get me started about the ordeal with Nero #v tried so hard to just see him as a tool but he knows that wasn’t the case

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borzoilover69 · 10 months

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Another crew.. in space. Concept art for my little silly little spacequest.... yes.

(check tags lol)

#homestuck #hom3stuck #ultimate jake #le jake #dirk strider #terezi pyrope #rosebot #rose lalonde #ultimate dirk #karkat vantas #candy karkat has a fit about meat karkats davekat fit #he has things to say about karkat showing off that softness #meat karkat thinks candy karkat lacks emotional development and is still hiding in that shell #but candy karkat argues that the shell is clearly is keeping him dignified and respectable because goddamn #it is sad to see how pathetic he looks in that fugly ass time sweater #have some RESPECT #borzoi art

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bergoose · 9 days

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watcher fans understand nuance challenge

#i really think this was extremely blown out of proportion #watcher worded this really badly and should have developed the streamer better and soft launched instead of this hard launch #but in NO WAY did it warrant this gaint backlash bandwagon that people decided to make this over a BUSINESS DECISION #absolutely toxic behavior i'm so upset #watcher tv #watcher entertainment #watcher #ryan bergara #shane madej #steven lim #vee posts

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blissfullyecho · 1 year

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things i’m no longer doing for the rest of 2023

using inappropriate language this goes beyond just cursing; it also includes making dark jokes, making “seggsual” innuendos, self-deprecating humor, and verbal negativity (gossip and saying negative things about self, others, or future plans).

allowing men to take up my time without them giving any type of investment in me my time is valuable, and it’s hard to gain complete access to me, let alone a little bit of access to me. phone calls will be cut short, texts won’t be too lengthy, and if they want to see me, they need to schedule and confirm a date with me.

accepting the bare minimum from not only others, but myself also everything i do from this moment forward needs to be 110% my best. i show up, i work my best, and i leave knowing that i did everything i could in that given time. i’m not leaving any room for regrets this year.

drinking alcohol because of my job in the nightlife industry, i find myself to drink a lot more than i should to help me get through the night. i usually feel gross the next day, it adds to any mental hardships i face, and it’s just not good for my body overall. the only times i will drink this year is if it’s my birthday, new year’s eve, or any other special occasion like a holiday or a special person’s birthday— if so, i’m limiting myself to one glass of high quality wine or champagne. tequila and any other spirit is an absolute “no” for me.

not keeping promises to myself if i say that i’m going to do something, i’m going to do it. i need to build trust with myself and that will allow me to also have more positive thoughts about myself and trust that whatever it is i want in life, i’ll have it because i’m used to keeping promises to myself.

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