#AutiGender

[sleepycatten]

PSA

If you want to be a girl, you can just be a girl.

If you want to be a boy, you can just be a boy.

& your options aren't limited to the binary.

Maybe you're a combination of genders.

Maybe you have no gender.

Maybe your gender is fluid.

Maybe it's intrinsically linked to your neurodivergence.

Or maybe it's something else entirely.

You can just be you 💖

#trans #transgender #NonBinary #agender #BiGender #genderqueer #genderfluid #NeuroQueer #AutiGender #queer #LGBTQIA+ #2Spirit #2 Spirit #Non Binary #LGBTQ+

[07170]

AUTISM AND TRANSSEXUALITY GO HAND IN HAND | 2022

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#dedicated to autismgender #autismgender #ftm #mtf #trans #transsexual #digital #series #collage #truisms #digital collage #autigender

[clownrecess]

You do not have the right to touch someone's disability aid without asking, whether that aid be a wheelchair or an AAC device.

"It's just a tablet, though." No, it is not. It is my voice. Touching or moving my device without my permission is like touching my mouth without permission, it's weird, gross, invasive, and rude. Stop.

Pushing someone's wheelchair without permission is like picking them up and moving them out of the way eithout permission, its weird, invasive, gross, and weird. Stop.

#actually autistic #aac user #situationally nonspeaking #disability aids #aac device #aac users #proloquo2go #nonspeaking autistic #nonspeaking #nonspeaking not nonverbal #wheelchair #neurodivergent #autism #autism acceptance #disabled #disability #disabilties #disabled not special needs #autigender #alternative and augmentative communication #high support needs

[oro-junestar]

why do people gatekeep queer identies?? like,, isn't the whole point of the queer community that we're sick of being told who we are and aren't allowed to be?? stop shunning queer people for being queer in ways you don't like

#this one goes out to all my #he/they lesbians #enby and tmasc lesbians #xenogenders #nonbinary #trans besties who don't medically transition #trans besties who hardly transition at all #autigender #bisexuals pansexuals omnisexuals and polysexuals (pls stop fighting u are ALL valid) #aroace #aroace who are also gay lesbian bi etc #and INFINTELY more queer identities who are continuously bullied just for being themselves #queers can we stop shunning other queers please it's not cool #anyway more tags #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #transgender #trans

[nightfallsystem]

normalise..

autistic people who dont stim

autistic people who stim publicly

autistic people who stim a lot

auitstic people who arent "seen as autistic"*

autistic people who arent diagnosed

autistic people who self diagnose

autistic people who got diagnosed as an adult

autistic people who cant get a diagnosis

autistic people who do not want to be diagnosed

autistic people who dont get special interests or hyperfixations

autistic people who are proud of their autism

autistic people who are very social

autistic people who are not social

autistic people who can make eye contact

autistic people who cannot make eye contact

autistic people who view their autism as a good thing

autistic people who are "cringey"

autistic people who use autigenders/neurogenders

autistic people who talk a lot about their autism

And lots more! all autistic people are valid!

( anti self dx, transautistic/supporters, pro-cringe culture, anti-xenogenders/anti-neurogenders DNI please, your comments will be deleted. )

#autistic #autism #actually autism #actually autistic #endo safe #neurodiversity #actually neurodiverse #neurodivergent #neurogender #autigender #stimming #autistic community #actually neurodivergent #neurodivergencies

[jasontoddssuper]

Not once but TWICE have i been bullied by and then purposely misgendered by a Harry Potter/Marauder's Era fan for saying liking something by one of the most powerful terf's alive makes you a bad person on my own blog so i don't wanna hear SHIT about how y'all totes love trans people because you 'reclaim' fictional rich people and wizard n*zis and then literally just put two words('Fuck Jkr')in your abouts.Only supporting trans people who agree with you isn't supporting trans people you cunts

#anti harry potter #trans #transgender #trans pride #transmasc #transmasculine #trans men #demigirl #genderfluid #bigender #xenogender #femme #nonbinary #genderqueer #autigender #catgender #dragongender #gamergender #softgirlgender #ftm #transfem #trans women #💌 #mal dont look #letters from summer #pop post ⭐️

[sweaty-confetti]

any other autistic trans people feel like gender is just a performance for them, but one performance is more comfortable than the other? like at my core, i’m not sure what gender even is, but given the choice, i want to be a boy. and i could be agender i guess, but i enjoy the performance of being a boy on a daily basis. and the performance of being anything else except a boy is tiring and feels inauthentic. i’d love to hear others’ opinions on this

edit: autistic cis people you’re free to share your opinions on autism/gender as well !

#emo moss talks #trans #autistic #autism #autigender #transgender #transsexual #trans pride #transmasc #transfem #autistic trans

[catgirl-kaiju]

i feel like my gender at this point is woman+ with the "+" representing bonus gender content unlocked by autism

#shitpost #comedy #humor #gender #my gender #trans #transfem #nonbinary #autigender #actuallyautistic #autistic #neurodiverse #neurodivergent #trans woman #trans girl

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Gender Autism Pride Flag

Gender Autism or Autistic of Gender: describing someone who experiences autism as a result of one's gender; for when one experiences gender in an autistic way, or autism in a gender way; or someone whose gender has autistic traits.

Despite its definition, this is for autistics only (as if it was a reclaimed term). I didn't think autigender transcripted my feelings just as saying "gender autism".

#transcriptation #gender autism #autism spectrum #actually autistic #aa #actuallyautism #actuallyautistic #autist #actuallyautist #mogai #autigender #pride flag #neurogender experience #asd #pride flags #pride month #mod ap #lgbtqiapn+ #genders

[genderkoolaid]

Hey, I had read a post from you a while back where you mentioned that people can be queer solely because they're autistic, even if they're still cishet, and I was wondering if you could explain that a bit more? I've been frustrated for a long while with how I'm expected to look and act as a cis man, and that's lead me to blogs like yours.

So, its been pretty well established now that autistic people* are more likely to identify with queerness, in gender and sexuality and anattraction (aspec).

One factor in this is that autistics tend to not pick up (or want to follow) arbitrary, often unspoken social rules. So many autistics don't understand or want to follow rules about what defines men and women and how those groups Should behave and why only these groups can exist.

But there's also deeper issues in how gender roles themselves reject autistics. For example, autistic people tend to use and move our bodies differently. For me, I tend to be somewhat clumsy and generally "ungraceful," which goes against the expectation for women to be good at using the body in structured and pleasing ways. We may not speak in ways men and women are socialized too. Stimming can be a very visible sign of neurodivergency, which is often dehumanized and therefore de-gendered; our physical mannerisms aren't not stereotypically masculine or feminine, but simply inhuman. And sensory issues may influence the way people present themselves, like an autistic woman shaving her hair or an autistic man shaving his beard, or wearing certain clothes that aren't "properly" gendered. I've also seen discussions of kink that talk about how autistics tend to have different ideas of pleasure and pain, which shapes how we engage in sex.

And gender tends to be a highly communal identity- while autistics are often alienated from community. We don't pick up, or fit into, "man" or "woman" culture of allistics, which can often be very exclusionary for anyone who doesn't conform to that mold. (For me, I coped with this in middle school by having a friend group entirely composed of undiagnosed & likely queer NDs, so we didn't have to worry about being weird little freaks around each other. Highly recommend this). This alienation can also effect how we form romantic/sexual relationships, and how we engage with the expectations around what it means to be a "boyfriend" or a "girlfriend."

There's this quote from bell hooks on queerness that I really love: “'Queer' not as being about who you're having sex with (that can be a dimension of it); but 'queer' as being about the self that is at odds with everything around it and that has to invent and create and find a place to speak and to thrive and to live.” Autistic people are frequently at odds with everything around us, and have to create or find new places to speak, thrive, and live. I tend to center queerness on gender and desire (or lack thereof), and being autistic can have an effect on any or all of those categories.

Basically, if you feel like queer is good at expressing your relationship with your gender/sexuality, and/or that queer community/queer theory feels like a safe place to explore and engage with those things then I welcome you here for as long as you want to stay.

*this applies to all ND groups, but we're just focusing on autism in this post

#m. #ask box #autigender

[labryin]

☆. Genderitism・A gender system dedicated to autism / the autistic experience and it's ties to gender. This gender system is when one's gender is intertwined with their autism and [x].

This gender system also encompasses many definitions, such as one's gender is related to [x] due to their autism, one's gender is related to [x] because it's their special interest.

This gender system is diverse and encompasses all, the only thing that ties it together is the unique experience of autism and gender.

The [x] can be anything, which is the point of the system. [x] can be biohazards/biohazitism, minecraft/minecrafitism, and more.

For autistics only.

#☆ manical laughter #genderitism #gender system #autigender #autistic #mogai #mogai flag #mogai safe

[sirenium]

'I'm autistic and I understand gender!!' Cool, I'm autistic and also understand the concept of gender. However, my understanding of it may be considered 'atypical' due to the fact that perhaps I understand it more than the average allistic; I'm able to put two and two together that since gender is constructed, the way it presents can be abstract due to even the designated 'normal' boxes being abstract. And you know what? Some people may even classify my understanding as a lack of understanding because I don't see the societal construct as a rigid box with rules.

It's almost like autistic people aren't a fucking monolith; some autists will understand gender in a way that aligns with societal expectations, some will have a different understanding of gender, and some of us will just downright not understand it at all. Get your head out of your ass and realize the people who want autistic people dead, the ones who see us as lesser beings, don't care if you're a 'normal' gender or plantgender. The problem with us, in their eyes, is that we're not allistic. Simple as that.

#ableism #actually autistic #autistic #autism spectrum disorder #asd #actually asd #autigender #xenogender #xenic pride #xenogender pride #xenic #xenogender safe

[punkeropercyjackson]

Transandrodorks are so ugly about femme transmascs,they be like 'you F*MBOYS make other trans people view us as just pinkie pie ass girls pretending to be men to be quirky!!!'-Whomst are these 'other trans people' you speak of?????You?Like genuinely what the actual fuck are they talking about,they are deadass the only trans group i've been consistently given shit for being a male trans femme and i think someone needs to tell them cooties aren't real

#trans #transmasc #transmasculine #trans men #demigirl #bigender #genderfluid #xenogender #black femme #transgender #transfem #transneutral #catkin #dragonkin #ghostkin #plantkin #autigender #pinkcore #pastelcore #softcore #indiecore #seacore #gamercore #girlboy #nonbinary #genderqueer #demiboy #agender #💌 #summerposting

[objectum-gendersylph]

AUTIPET

A gender in the genderpet system related to being an autistic pet, autism and pets, or being autistic with pet-like components. For autistic people only.

#autipet #mogai #coining #xenogender #xenogenders #genders #mogai flag #mogai coining #mogai term #neurogender #xenogender coining #flag #term #xeno coining #autigender

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Autidollic

A gender under the genderdollic system related to being autistic and being a doll, a doll who is a autistic, or just being a doll and autistic etc.

Gender system by @chronoport

#sage’s liom coins #sage’s gender coins #mogai coining #mogai term #mogai label #liom coining #liomogai #liom gender #mogai gender #mogai identity #gender system #genderdollic #dollgender #autigender #neurogender

[patchoulicigarettes]

I say “my gender is my own” but deep down I know my gender is autistic nonbinary transmasc tumblr user

#transmasc #actuallyautistic #autigender #nonbinary #enby