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fadeintoyou1993 · 1 year

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NATALIA DYER as Willis Things Heard And Seen (2021)

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quiltsinfilm · 7 months

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Anon spotted these in Things Heard & Seen

Send in any quilts you spot either with a screenshot to the submissions or as an ask if you don't have screencaps

#quilting #quilts #things heard & seen #things heard and seen

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vampirecorleone · 2 years

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365 Movies Challenge #285; Things Heard & Seen (2021) dir. Shari Springer Berman & Robert Pulcini: “You know what they say about temptation. Easiest way to kill it is to just give in.“

#365 movies challenge #365 movie challenge #things heard & seen #things heard and seen #netflix #gif #mine #made by me #photoset #gifs #gifset

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starry-bite · 11 months

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2, 6, and 11 for the 3 things ask!

aww thank you dear!!

2. 3 movies you have rewatched many times

i am a constant rewatcher of things so i'll give my most recent: glass onion, dnd: honor among thieves, and the laundromat

6. 3 characters that inspire you

i tend to relate to characters deeply more than be inspired by them, but a few who fit this description are:

elizabeth mccord - madam secretary: i was obsessed with this show in middle school and am rewatching now so i can finally finish it, and i just find elizabeth so comforting. she's not saintly by any means, but her dogged faith and morality in the face of often-ugly politics and a crumbling world are reassuring to me. the series is aspirational, and elizabeth inspires me to hold onto my stubborn hope.

justine sokolov - things heard and seen: kind of left field but i LOVE this movie for its reversals of female stereotypes in horror, and i just remember being so floored by justine the first time i saw it because she broke so many scripts i anticipated. she felt so wholly herself, so ungoverned by fear.

bibi garvey - bad sisters: inspires me to be gayer, hotter, and better at archery and murder

11. 3 books that you would recommend everyone to read

station eleven by emily st. john mandel

- oh my god this book. i am not usually a dystopia girlie, but this story of the human spirit sustained by community and art. agh. also just a gorgeous ensemble piece that plays with time and weaves past and present together with elegance and heart. also! scenes set in malaysia!

where'd you go, bernadette by maria semple

- love this as an artist who goes a little insane when art is inaccessible to me, as someone in mother-daughter relationships, as a person on the earth. i first read it in a library cafe in singapore over one afternoon which was especially intense because it broke a years-long reading block. broke my mentor's reading block too!

the bluest eye by toni morrison

- i just finished this book, and it is heavy and imperfect and horrible and true. chicken toni for the soul. helped to quantify some nebulous pains and feels important to understanding the longstanding, layered, generational impacts of racism on a society. our society.

#grem leans #ask game #@vega #glass onion #dnd honor among thieves #the laundromat #elizabeth mccord #madam secretary #justine sokolov #things heard and seen #bibi garvey #bad sisters #station eleven #where'd you go bernadette #the bluest eye #miss toni summer

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notastranger · 4 months

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the signs as paranormal movies - Leo ♌️

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andthebeanstalk · 11 months

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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scrambleseggy · 3 months

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When people think women aren’t capable of misogyny I have to laugh because misogyny isn’t men just being creepy and weird and rating women on reddit. It’s not just statistics on violence and crime stories, even though that is a big part of it.

It’s also republican moms and mean girl sisters who encourage competition between women as peak femininity. It’s also women who think having friends is an equivalent to a bravo TV show that includes hair pulling and slut-shaming. It’s also women who tell you certain things make you ugly and “look like a man.” Women who make fun of feminine features in men. It’s women who think the best way to deal with a patriarchal system is by trying to befriend it so they can try to benefit off of it by “not being like other girls” — the way people boil feminism down to the proximity of femininity and masculinity on the internet really bothers me. Some of the worst misogynists I’ve known in my life have been the republican women I’ve grown up around.

#it kinda reminds me of terfs whos entire politics rely on things they think makes a woman #and its the most dystopic 1950’s housewife shit youve ever heard #feminism #transandrophobia #last tag bc some things ive seen regarding arguments in it seem a little relevant #it’s something I want people to keep in mind #the whole manosphere shit goes beyond just meathead podcasts dudes #like we should all know this by now???

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brookheimer · 10 months

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people acting like twitter's new post count is gonna cause a mass exodus to tumblr.... this website's demographic has not changed in 865578 years and it sure as hell won't now. this is the site for people who were weird and unhappy in middle school. everyone on here has either been around since they were weird unhappy 13-year-olds or joined when they were weird unhappy 13-year-olds, left because they thought they were normal for a while, then came crawling back again when they realized deep down they were still weird unhappy 13-year-olds. what does this site possibly have to offer you if you grew up happy well-adjusted and unaware of homestuck

#like have you seen that poll of when people joined tumblr and it's ALLLL early/mid 2010s if not earlier??#twitter's fuckups have brought some people over but like. not as many as yall think #and thank god for that. i am very happy in my small corner of this website where i am surrounded by people with good taste and good takes #LOL #i'm the second category btw. weird unhappy 13yo --> No Im Normal --> oh ok no i'm not but shhh keep it on the dl (tumblr) this time #instead of running around asking everyone if they've heard of this thing called homestuck and giggling whenever anyone said bucket #...dark times.#but no like it's so funny to me that people think normal people will actually use tumblr. the stigma around it ALONE will drive em away #which like. fair honestly lolll #100 #this time on posts i didn’t expect to get notes #lollll #500 #1000

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hellmandraws · 8 months

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Not gonna lie, I'm super excited about the upcoming One Piece live action series! It's out Aug 31 on Netflix. I actually think it's gonna be good! 🤞🤞🤞