#afab enby things

[desiretoadore]

Being a trans afab person who loves being feminine is so annoying because no one will ever take you seriously. Like yes, my favourite colour is pink, I love wearing skirts and dresses, I love wearing makeup and jewelry and feeling pretty, but that does not make me a girl!! I am so sorry I don’t fit into your perception of gender, but I’m not doing this for you! I’m not here to preform for you, put on a show of what you think a trans afab person should be. I’m here to express my true self.

#I don’t normally like using afab to describe people but it was the best way to get my point across #trans #transgender #transneutral #transmasc #trans pride #trans nonbinary #trans things #trans tag #trans thoughts #trans tumblr #trans people #trans positivity #feminine #femininity #transgender experience #trans enby #trans problems #nonbinary #enby #enby problems #nonbinary problems #enby pride #nonbinary positivity #nonbinary pride #nonbinary transgender #nonbinary things #nonbinary stuff #enby things #enby stuff

[toxicslimemoth]

Are there any afab non-binary people out there who never knew why they didn't resonate with mother/daughter or sisterly relationships in media growing up?

I have considered myself genderqueer for a few months now and have just recently started considering myself non-binary. And ever since I started going by a different gender identity I have been looking back at somethings from my past and realising that they might have been signs that I'm non-binary.

And I think I just came to the realization recently of why womanly relationships never really resonated with me. For some reason I didn't like seeing media about mother/daughter and sisterly relationships and I didn't really know why. I don't hate my mother or my sisters so I had no idea why I didn't like seeing it in media. It almost made me wanna roll my eyes and I felt like that made me a bit of a bad person.

But now I think I just didn't like seeing them because I felt like I was supposed to relate to them since I was assigned female at birth. And those relationships were presented in a strictly feminine way that I just didn't relate to or feel connected with at all. Since I've always had this disconnect with femininity and womanhood this is probably the reason why I didn't relate to and never really liked seeing these relationships that I was "supposed" to relate to.

It's because I'm not really a woman and don't like being associated with femininity. That's the reason why I never related to them at all.

Or at least I think it is.

#i'm not the best at explaining things so hopefully this makes sense #nonbinary #enby #non binary #afab #afab nonbinary #gender #genderqueer #femininity #non-binary #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #gender identity #my posts #textposts #text posts #text post #this has been sitting in my drafts for over a month now so I'm just gonna post it already lol #non binary community

[everysongineverykey]

I WISH I COULD BE A GIRL AND THAT WAY YOU'D WISH I COULD BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND, BOYFRIEND‼️‼️‼️ AM I PRETTY ENOUGH TO LIE TO???

#LITTLE OLD ME IN A BIG WORLD AH AH AH AH I WISH I WERE A GIRLLLLL #man. i know i/me/myself is about will wood's past experiences iding as genderqueer #out of a misguided feeling that his preference for feminine things meant he couldn't be a man #and wasn't written about the trans experience #but somehow as an afab enby i have never felt more seen I LOVE THIS SONG

[blossompoet]

growing up as a afab enby is so funny like

"I´m not like other girls" yeah babe, you´re literally NOT A GIRL but it will take you another five years to realise that lol

#nonbinary #growing up nonbinary #enby things #i hate being afab sometimes #dysphoria is a bitch #“i´m not like other girls”

[ambientbroth]

I know it’s common for AFAB autistic to identify with non-binary sometime in their life due to various reasons; mine being just never actually feeling feminine & cosplaying as a woman but never feeling like a woman or being comfortable being “seen” as a woman.. you know?

I’m not sure if I’m the only one that felt that. But the relief I felt when I dusted off the non-binary label from 7th grade and started identifying with it again… ahhh

Like it was an ongoing struggle to fit my perfect inner image on what a “woman” looked like. It took hours to feel “ready” but never comfortable. Making sure that I presented as a woman to everyone in the public eye.

Now I just wear long skirts and long sleeves. Now I don’t feel the need to wear make up. Now I feel so happy in oversized shirts and feeling genderless inside. I threw away the idea of perfection, feminine, woman and just started dressing comfortably.

Did any AFAB Enbys feel this way? Can you tell me so I don’t feel alone is this feeling? If you’re a AFAB Autistic do you relate? I still wish I could detach my tits but I’m just happy to accept myself.

#enby #afab things #actually autistic #self diagnosed autisic #autism in women #autism in girls #late diagnosed autistic #non binary

[strabius-berry]

amab with butch lesbian energy

afab with yaoi femboy energy

#shitpost #i say stuff #just nonbinary things #nonbinary #non binary #amab #afab #enby #enbie #nb

[moodlesmain]

while im (takes a deep breath to hold back my rage) sympathetic to the fans of Those Wizard Books who're taking a death of the author approach so long as they're not supporting the series financially or actively promoting it and are sticking to fan communities, I really, *really* wish people would put away their merch. Because when I see someone in public with merch from it, I always have to wonder if I'm safe around them as a trans person, if my trans friends are safe. And that's a sucky feeling to have, especially when talking to people who otherwise seems perfectly fine and nice!!! A lot of HP fans are just, people!!! Who maybe don't know what the big deal is, or have chosen to deal with the problem by doubling down to spite the author!! But even when I know for a fact they're totally safe or even trans themselves, I don't want to be constantly reminded of the series whose author is an incredibly rich and powerful person whose whole agenda for the past several years has been to push back against the rights of people like me, and who people like my own god damn mother is more willing to listen to about trans people than her own nonbinary child.

I know it's irrational to feel surges of rage at the mere mention of a popular multimedia franchises, but while I know not every trans person is bothered by it, I also know that a lot of trans people and even allies *are* bothered by it. Just... begging for some understanding, and for people to just PLEASE dial back their fandom-ing in public spaces, especially mostly queer spaces. You don't know how much difference it might make in the comfort and feeling of safety for the trans people around you

#maybe this matters less in the US #or like anywhere else in the world #but in the UK............. please holy shit terfs are a bigger force here than anywhere else #PLEASE stop openly showing support for the multimedia franchise that made the one with the most mainstream influence insanely rich #that she still uses to prop up her arguments about trans people #do you know that she's claimed the fact that people still like her wizard books means that shows people support her beliefs? #do you know that she's compared queer people to the villains of her books? #do you know how much she hates us? how much she hates our transfemme sisters especially? #im just a short afab nonbinary weirdo #i'm not seen as a threat by anyone #i can't imagine how trans women must be dealing with this #vent post #technically #ugh #sorry this has been on my mind for a while and i'm in a weird mood rn #don't come at me for this just block me if you're going to be bothered enough by this #because if you do bother me i'll just block you first lmao #edit: not that not being seen as a threat is necessarily a good thing because in the case of us afab enbies we're mostly just dismissed #there's a lot of us but it also feels like we're so invisible outside our own communities #we're just assumed as queer women most of the time especially those of my generation who haven't had any opportunity to medically transitio #except the lucky few who were able to get a diagnosis relatively early in life #or had the money to turn to private healthcare #trans men who don't pass too #moodle rambles

[wronggalaxy]

Things they don't invalidate you being trans masc/ outside of the gender binary from a genderflux person—who also identities with the umbrella terms genderqueer, genderfluid, nonbinary, and trans—(this is made specifically for afab people, including intersex afabs, but if you're amab(again: intersex or otherwise) or weren't assigned a gender and anything I say makes you feel better about yourself, all the power to you) and relates to most things in this post:

1) Liking wearing bras

2) Dressing up as a girl for Halloween(imma be a supernatural 18th(is) century maid(non-sexual, don't be weird, I'm underage))

3) Liking pink(or any other 'girly color')

4) Wanting to pass, but only pass as trans, not as your gender

5) Not wanting to pass at all

6) Not being able to pass whether you want to or not

7) Using She/Her pronouns because you don't care or are just used to them

8) Using She/Her pronouns for safety

9) Having a 'girly' name

10) Changing your name from a stereotypically masculine or unisex one to a stereotypically feminine one(i.e going from a 'girl' called Hayden to a boy(or whatever) called Lilith)

#trans #transition #transgender #trans masc #trans pride #trans enby #trans experience #trans rights #trans things #trans rights are human rights #trans youth #trans umbrella #genderqueer #afab nonbinary #nonbinary #genderflux #gender expression #genderfluid #gender nonconforming #gender noncomformity #passing #trans is beautiful #trans positivity #trans stuff #trans joy #trans love #trans lives matter #trans community #trans visibility #lgbt pride

[keepmeafloat]

I feel very crummy

#keepmeafloat #lesbian #gay #me #dyke #michigan #lgbt #queer #single #sapphic #non biney #non binary #afab enby #soft butch #enby things #soft #masc enby #adhd

[liightsnow]

A lot of you guys need to have a long thinking time about why yall immediately make a character afab when making them nonbinary

#afab #amab enby #nonbinary #stranger things #genderfluid steve harrington

[la-j-suprema]

Every now and then I turn in my bed, I’m unwell.

I move around and try to find an answer to my questions. But I can’t

My biggest worry is that I’m secretly faking my transness. That I’m such a good liar that I even convinced myself

I worry that I’m just a cis girl doing what I do for attention, and that actual trans people will hate me. I worry that nothing I do will ever be enough

I bought a binder, but a part of me feels so guilty bc I already had one and my friend who is a trans man doesn’t have any. If I’m not actually trans, am I taking things from them?

I worry that I will transition and I will hate it but I worry more that I will never try out of fear

Im scared that I’m faking and I’m scared that I’m not. I’m scared that I think I’m trans and what if I lied to myself?

I dream with having a penis and I dream of top surgery but what if I’m just confused?

I dream of a world where I live as a man, and my mom calls me her son but I fear it will just be that, a dream.

And I cry at the thought that I will forever be stuck in this body and I cry at the thought that I might be such a good liar

And I never know what to do or say to convince myself that I’m not an attention seeker. I am afraid that by saying I’m genderfluid I’m actually harming the community

And I toss and I turn in my bed so scared of the truth but I don’t even know what the truth looks like.

And I hope that one day I’ll find what I’m looking for and I hope that one day I know if I’m a good enough actor or not

#transmasc #transgender #gender thingy? #afab genderfluid #afab struggles #genderfluid #gender #non binary #nonbinary #binder #transphobia #internalized transphobia #afab enby #afab problems #enby stuff #enby things #poetry? or something idk #poetry #rant #vent

[olive-garden-hoe]

Any other AFAB enbies feel more connected to stories about being transfem over stories about being transmasc experience? Idk just weird thing I noticed for me

#just neurodivergent things #transmaculine #transfem #transmasc #enby #non binary #nonbinary #transgender #afab trans #afab nb

[thejadedjester]

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#breast reduction #you don't mess with the Zohan #The sound scene #manifesting #thejadedjester #trans things #enby things #non binary #afab

[minthy]

Someone said hijabi chara and frisk..

So I made hijabi chara and frisk!!

#chara #frisk #undertale #chara undertale #frisk undertale #hijabi babies #I am not into the idea of them being afabs but look at these cuties #just an enby hijabi artist doing their thing yk ahaha

[charlieisacastle]

im REALLY hoping for an enby character to be introduced in season 2 or 3. itd be extra awesome if they are amab since amab enby people basically dont hv any rep and itd be sooooo cool to hv a neat rep like that :D

#its to the point that some ppl in the community think its more of a afab thing #also i just want an enby character #jim from our flag means death made me so happy and i just want more jdmsmdj #heartstopper #charlie.txt #lgbtq #enby #nonbinary #i hvnt read the comics so maybe its already a thing on there

[solidwater05]

I often see non-binary people say that their AGAB is irrelevant- and I get it, they're not their AGAB so it doesn't have to be important to their identity

But I feel like being AFAB is so important to how I experience and navigate my gender. How I was 'not like other girls' because, subconsciously, I didn't want to be a girl at all. How as a child I loved pink dresses and flowery shirts and makeup but I left them behind because they suddenly felt too feminine. I don't identify with my AGAB at all, but even this form of not being a girl is different from how I'm not a boy, because I was never a boy at all, but I was a girl that didn't know that he's not actually a girl.

My most euphoric piece of clothing is a purple dress shirt I wear with a pink sports bra for binding. I wouldn't need binding if I wasn't AFAB, and I wouldn't get euphoric from wearing a dress shirt if I wasn't AFAB.

If I wasn't AFAB, wouldn't use he/him pronouns and masc terms. I wouldn't want to have a vaguely fem-looking, masc-leaning, but still neutral presentation. If I wasn't AFAB, I wouldn't like oversized t-shirts with short denim shorts, and I wouldn't want to have mid-short hair. I wouldn't want to have a fem facial structure with a gender neutral or maybe ever so slightly boyish aura. These are things I acquired growing up as an AFAB person who isn't a girl and didn't have to worry about being or not being a boy, they're part of how I live and experience my non-binary identity

My AGAB isn't anyone's business but mine, but that also means that I get to choose how important it is to me

#lgbtq #nonbinary #he/him enby #agender #afab enby #ice speaks #most of these things are because i really like my obviously afab face tbh #cute and pretty (gender neutral) #long post