#bi for couples

[thebestestdancers]

if you think i am going to care abt mens opinions on lesbianism please consider:

killing yourself is faster and has a more positive effect on society

i have three (3) weed smoking girlfriends to fuck rather than waste time on your essays about how men are oppressed or whatever

yes im a mean nasty bitchy exclusie im sorry that trans men arent magically also lesbians the afab connection is meaningless to me :( sorry for not buying into bioessentialism i guess

if you arent a lesbian you should be embarrassed #skilldiff #gws

in order to comment defending your points in including men in a community of women* who are exclusively attracted to other women* you must first go to my pinned post and open that kofi link and send a minimum of 3 dollars. if u send more than 10 ill even deign to read your essay to make fun of you before blocking and moving on w my day. 😁👍

[steamylite]

screenshot redraw for a discord collab :)

#bubbline #vampire #my art #sapphic #marceline #marceline abadeer #adventure time #princess bubblegum #marceline and bonnibel #bonnibel bubblegum #adventure time marceline #adventure time bubblegum #marceline the vampire queen #princess bonnibel #marceline x princess bubblegum #bubblegum x marceline #sugarless gum #sugarlessgum #marceline x bubblegum #cute #couple #girls love #love #yuri #bi #bisexual

[sarasade]

One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".

Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.

That's the TL;DR version of this post. 

ANYWAY here is the long version

Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".

One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.

Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.

It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.

This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.

People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.

I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.

Anyway if you want to read more:

- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info

-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos

-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.

-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa

- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.

-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge

#Also I don't mean that you can always tell if someone is a transphobe or a TERF based on a couple of things they have said. #My point is that sometimes ok people can have very regressive ideas too. #This is not a call out post about how we should go around accusing anti-fujoshi people #todd in the shadows #hbomberguy #sarasade text #even I've got those “Fandom is mostly straight women fetishizing gay men” comments once and it begins to sound kind of passive-aggressive #when you're a bi woman. Lot of fandom stats at AO3 show that fandoms are montly bi women. who are these people calling straight exactly hmm #also straight women are completely ok leave them alone. I know I know Yes I'm so brave for saying this #cw: transphobia

[evil-sometimes]

I am completely obsessed with a crown of candy. like caramelinda and lazuli were IN LOVE. imagine you're caramelinda. you are married to the love of your life. and she dies. your country is unstable, you need to remarry, politically. you have to remarry to her baby brother who up until now has just been a reckless prince getting up to stupid shit in the war. and now he's your husband. and now he's king. you have two daughters with him. he is a useless ruler, so you manage everything. you try to keep your family safe. your daughters grow up and take after their father. they take after lazuli. they are reckless. they just want to fight things, and you feel like their jailer, trying to impose rules, trying to keep them safe. you love them and would break apart if anything happened to them. you miss your wife. you have been married to your husband for 20 years now. he has been by your side longer than you even knew your wife. you deserved her, not him. it is impossible not to love him. but never like you loved her. he is still an irresponsible reckless warrior. he is a coward. he is your partner in life. you have children and a kingdom together. one of your daughters dies. she dies sneaking away after you told her to go to bed. you are queen. you are supposed to be able to protect her. you had ordered people to follow her and keep her safe. she still died. you want to blame her. you want to blame everyone. you want to blame yourself, you tried so hard to keep her safe. you cry in your husbands arms. you find out your wife kept secrets from you. you have to leave your home. your family is in danger. your family is protecting itself. you feel like dead weight. you miss your wife.

#a crown of candy #caramelinda rocks #queen caramelinda #amethar rocks #king amethar #dimension 20 #i just needed to write somethng about this #caramelinda and amethar's dynamic has been spinning around in my brain like a microwave plate #note i have not actually finished acoc or watched ravening war #but i needed to get this out .... #(edited post to take out line about lesbians cause i got a couple notes about cara being bi)

[suja-janee]

(Mostly) Harumi centric doodle page for a friend

#mortal kombat 1 #mk1 #mortal kombat #harumi shirai #tomas vrbada #mk smoke #kuai liang #mk scorpion #hanzo hasashi #I still don’t know how to feel about her and Kuai Liang #unless nrs releases more content #I dunno I think they have potential to be a cute couple but for now it’s still sus #also! I love to hc that harumi got Tomas to open up to kuai #cause uhhh the Lin Kuei kinda killed his family #so harumi is like ‘ey bro they’re not so bad when you get to know them… except for bi Han… fuck that guy’ #bi Han would highkey make a tree house and put up a ‘no girls allowed’ sign and she never forgave him for that #if bi Han ends up being the reason she dies in this timeline it would kinda be funny cause he’d be like ‘I never liked you’ #and she’d be like ‘me neither you stupid boy’ #and he’s like ‘yknow what this isnt even about kuai liang anymore- screw you’ #doodles #my art

[adventuresofafuncouple]

How's your weekend going? Ours is great!!

#sharing couple #shared wives #wife #sexy #sharing wife #hotwives #perfect wife #sharedwife #bi wife #share my wife

[bi4bination]

#Inspired by gonum's post #(Posted by Mina) #korrasami #Korra #Asami Sato #The legend of korra #Bi4bi relationship #Bi4bi couple #bi4bi #Bisexual memes #Bi memes

[pluviaart]

I am alive. Here's some Destiel I had laying around ✨ I'll be posting some older art that I have because unfortunately I still don't have much new content so... Take these for now!

#digital art #drawing #art #artwork #cute #fanart #supernatural #supernatural fanart #destiel #destiel fanart #gay couple #gay #spn #spn fanart #kisses #forehead kisses #digital drawing #digital #bi #bisexual #homosexual #angel wings #angel #gay angel

[remixingreality]

#ai art #male art #sexy mutants #cyclops #wolverine #scott summers #logan howlett #bi guys #xmen fanart #ai gay couple #true romance #hairyscruffguys

[dallas-big-boy]

A little slippage this morning

#big boy #dallas #fat bear #bi #bear chub #guys with beards #bi daddy #bear daddy #chub #chub4chaser #fat tummy #fat boy #fat belly #thicc as fuck #daddy bear #bi for couples #big boi #bi for bi

[tolbyccia]

pov you didn’t ask

#merylwood #stryfewood #meryl stryfe #nicholas d wolfwood #wolfwood #trigun stampede #trigun #jayadoodles #i know merylwood is the accepted popular ship name but stryfewood sounds so much cooler to me ): #im queueing this like a million years after doodling it. can’t wait to get jumpscared by it in my notifs #worlds most annoying bi couple ever (all i draw)

[ladyl0v3r]

#lesbian #bisexual #lesbian love #lesbian couple #girls who like girls #lesbian goals #lesbians #lésbicas #lesbian kissing #girls who kiss girls #lesbiana #bi women #wlw #sapphic #sapphics #kissing girls

[steamylite]

bubbline kiss

#bubbline #vampire #my art #sapphic #marceline #marceline abadeer #adventure time #princess bubblegum #marceline and bonnibel #bonnibel bubblegum #adventure time marceline #adventure time bubblegum #marceline the vampire queen #princess bonnibel #marceline x princess bubblegum #bubblegum x marceline #sugarless gum #sugarlessgum #marceline x bubblegum #couple #girls love #love #yuri #bi #bisexual #cute #femslash

[seraph5]

McWexler my beloved 💖

#mcwexler #kim wexler #saul goodman #better call Saul #couple goals #big bi for bi energy #jimmy mcgill

[icanotbelieve]

#lesbian #bisexual #bi women #lesbiana #lésbica #bissexual #wlw #loving girls #girls who love girls #lesbian love #lesbian couple #lesbian romance #girls who like girls

[auxilioooo]

SPOILERS FOR THE MARVELS

In the memory flash back where Carol reflects on her time on earth with Maria, she has long hair. This basically confirms she cut her hair somewhere between the last three years of the blip. In other words, this kinda confirms that Carol cut her hair for Maria

#i’m going through emotions right now #i had therapy right after i saw the movie #and the new AJR album has a lot of emotions #Carol and Maria where a couple #you can’t convince me otherwise #marvel #ms marvel #kamala khan #captain marvel #carol danvers #the marvels #mcu #monica rambeau #photon #ms. marvel #maria rambeau #carol x maria #lesbian #bi #and they were roommates #the marvels spoilers