#bisexuality realization

[heretherebedork]

Bisexual realization S-tier!

@absolutebl followed by him instantly dreaming of his brand new crush rejecting him for being bi. I feel like this is the most accurate depiction.

#oh! my assistant #oh my assistant #오! 나의 어시님 #koreanbl #korean bl #korean boys love #korean series #korean drama #kdrama #korean ql #kql #bisexuality realization #this was so good #and adorable #i love him

[number1abbasupporter]

Sirius: i’m gay

James: that’s cool mate

James: everyone has gay thoughts though

Remus:

Peter:

Sirius:

Remus: boy do i have news for you

#i love the trope of bisexuals not realizing that not everyone has gay thoughts #it’s so funsies #this was basically inspired by the hand that feeds #my first fic i read 😍 #there was a scene kinda like this but i def think it was diff #i barely remember #marauders era #marauders #james potter #sirius black #bisexual james potter #remus lupin #james & peter & remus & sirius #hp marauders #marauders fandom #incorrect marauders quotes

[gay-fae]

hey shout out of recognition and validation to all the queer people who didn’t exhibit many queer behaviors or have queer many experiences when they were young!! shout out to trans women and trans men who didn’t feel bad about or uncomfortable with their AGAB when they were younger and didn’t gravitate toward the “opposite side of things”. shout out to nonbinary and genderfluid ppl who felt content with their AGAB all of their childhood or even teen and adults years. shout out to lesbians who didn’t have any crushes on girls growing up and liked traditionally feminine things and shout out to gay men who didn’t have any crushes on boys growing up and liked traditionally masculine things. shout out to bi and pan and omni people who only had hetero attractions growing up. shout out to aros and aces who thought they experienced crushes or attraction or whatever while growing up and didn’t feel excluded by being surrounded by allo people. shout out to literally any queer people who didn’t “show the signs” growing up because that can make you feel invalidated or worried that you’re faking it and you shouldn’t feel worried about that! When we say that everyone’s journey and experience is different, that includes you!! Happy pride month <3

#pride #pride month #happy pride month #lgbtq #lgbt #gay #lesbian #bisexual #pansexual #transgender #nonbinary #genderfluid #asexual #aromantic #aroace #queer #fable’s stuff #i personally exhibited many signs of being aroace but genderfluid? NOPE #when I realized I was genderfluid I worried PROFUSELY that I was faking it for attention or something #because growing up I HATED being referred to as anything REMOTELY masculine and never wanted to “play the dad’’ when playing games & stuff #i was very comfortable w being a cis girl and being feminine and had no desire to be masculine!! #but now I DO experience the desire to be masc and androgynous as my gender shifts and that doesn’t mean im faking it #sometimes our brains can just switch up on us bc they’re developing #or sometiems our childhood influences can affect our development and make things manifest differently #whatever it may be #it’s okay and there is nothing wrong with you

[steddieas-shegoes]

When Eddie comes out to him, Steve makes a big mistake. His first reaction was to thank him for trusting him, which is what Robin told him to do in this situation.

But his second reaction was to say “I also like guys.”

Eddie blinked at him, clearly confused and defensive, like maybe Steve was making fun or not taking him seriously.

“Uh. You do?”

“Yeah man! I mean, no one else knows, but yeah.”

Eddie smiled and thanked him for trusting him with it, said they should hang out more, and recommended a queer bar in Indy if he needed a safe place to explore.

And Steve smiled and nodded like he couldn’t agree more.

As soon as Eddie was gone, he rushed to the phone in his kitchen and called Robin.

She called him an idiot, a dingus, a bisexual disaster —whatever that was—, and told him he absolutely wasn’t allowed to go to a queer bar without her.

She did at least agree to keep up the lie until he could find a way out of it without Eddie thinking he lied to hurt him or something.

But he started hanging out a lot more with Eddie and finding that they had more in common than he originally thought.

Eddie took Robin and Steve to the queer club and Steve…felt at home, felt welcomed, felt like he belonged. Robin kept giving him these looks all night, and Eddie kept dragging him to meet people who he cared about, and one of the guys on the dance floor kept pulling him out there to dance with him.

He felt free and alive and-

Queer.

It hit him as the guy, Paul maybe, was pulling him closer by his waist as his hips rocked to the beat of a song he didn’t recognize but felt like something he wanted on a mixtape. It hit him that he liked this because he liked dancing with Paul like this. He liked this because he saw himself visiting more, even without Eddie and Robin. He liked this because he could picture making out with Eddie in the bathroom.

He froze.

“You okay, sweet thing?” Paul asked him.

“I think I’m in love with my friend.”

Paul’s eyes widened momentarily before patting Steve’s hip. “Is he gay, honey?”

“Huh?” Steve was already trying to find Eddie in the crowd. “Oh, yeah. He’s here tonight.”

“Shouldn’t you be dancin’ with him then?”

Steve finally looked back at Paul, who had his hands on his own hips now, teasing smile on his face.

“Yeah. I should,” Steve thanked him, apologized for any misleading, which was immediately brushed off. Paul was here to dance, he didn’t much care for who he was dancing with.

“Send that beauty over here. She looks like she needs some lessons,” Paul pointed to Robin, who was still looking a little nervous despite the friendly bartender handing her sodas every time he passed by her.

“She’s gay, man.”

“So am I! Doesn’t mean we can’t dance!”

Steve laughed. “You’re right.”

He walked over to Robin quickly, avoided getting pulled back into the crowd.

“I’m in love with Eddie.”

Robin rolled her eyes. “I know, dingus. You literally risked your entire reputation to come to a queer bar to try to impress him.”

Steve balked. “That’s not what this was!”

“Uh huh. Well he’s sulking in the bathroom if you wanna go tell him.”

“Sulking? Why?”

“He saw you dancing with that guy. Think he assumed you were interested in him.”

“Not a chance. I prefer long hair and ripped jeans,” Steve winked. He turned to walk towards the hall with the bathrooms when Robin stopped him.

“Don’t do this if you’re not 100% sure,” she said seriously. “Eddie really likes you and it would destroy him if you were lying to make him feel better.”

“I wouldn’t do that,” Steve started, but stopped when Robin gave him a look.

“You’ve literally been pretending to be queer for the last two months because he came out to you and you accidentally came out to him. You’re lucky it wasn’t a complete lie.”

“Yeah but I wouldn’t fuck with his feelings like that.” Steve knew what it was like to be led on. He wouldn’t do that to Eddie. “I’ll be careful with him.”

“And be careful with you.”

He saluted her as he walked away.

When he found Eddie sitting on the counter at the sink in the bathroom, he was swinging his legs back and forth and humming something distinctly less pop than what was playing on the dance floor. No one else was in here, but that didn’t mean no one would walk in.

He walked over to Eddie and placed a hand on his knee.

Eddie immediately stopped kicking his feet and looked up.

“What’s with the face?” Steve asked, reaching up to touch the line between his brows that always appeared when he was pouting.

Eddie shrugged. “Just not feeling it tonight I guess.”

“The music isn’t really your thing. Kinda surprised you like this place,” Steve said as his hand drifted down to his wrist. “Seems closer to a small club than a bar.”

“You seemed to be enjoying yourself.”

Eddie’s tone was sharp, laced with jealousy. Even if Steve hadn’t had his realization five minutes earlier, he would’ve seen what that was from a mile away.

“I was until I realized I’d rather be out there with you.”

Eddie snorted. “I don’t really dance.”

“But you’d dance with me if I asked, right?” Steve’s fingers circled his wrist and he tugged Eddie off the counter. “Even if I asked you to do it right here with no music?”

“Steve, what are you doing?”

“Dancing. Or trying to.” Steve rested his hands on Eddie’s hips and started swaying them in sync with his. “It is hard without music.”

“Why don’t you go back out there?” Eddie’s hands went around Steve’s neck.

“Because you’re not out there. I don’t wanna be where you aren’t.”

“Steve-“

“You know I didn’t actually know I liked guys until tonight?” Steve huffed out a laugh. “Well, I really like this one guy. Not sure about others yet.”

Eddie was silent, but didn’t push Steve away.

“He was hiding in this bathroom though. I didn’t really think he’d join me out there, so I brought the dancing to him,” Steve winked.

“You like me? You? Like me?”

Steve nodded.

“And you just realized this?”

“Kinda.”

“In a queer bar?”

“Mhm.”

“That’s pretty gay, dude.”

Steve snorted and smacked Eddie’s chest. “That’s the point.”

Eddie moved in impossibly closer, no room for Jesus between their chests anymore. “So you lied when you came out to me?”

“I panicked! But it doesn’t actually count as a lie if I’ve seen the light.”

“Was it a rainbow light? Or the reflection of the disco ball in the glitter shorts Perry was wearing?” Eddie joked.

“Perry!” Steve smacked his own forehead. “He’s nice. Made me come tell you how I feel.”

“Oh. He did?” Eddie seemed shy for maybe the first time ever.

“Yeah. Said I should come dance with you if I’m in love with you.”

Steve hadn’t felt like this in a while, and hadn’t left his heart on his sleeve like this in even longer. As Eddie’s face went from shy to shocked to flustered, Steve thought about how long he’d been dancing around these feelings.

But no more dancing around them. Now it was time to dance with them.

“Can’t believe you just said you’re in love with me in the bathroom of a queer bar. Don’t even think they clean this place,” Eddie laughed, letting his forehead fall against Steve’s.

“I’ll tell you again outside.” Steve kissed his cheek. “And in the van.” His nose. “Your house, my house.” The corner of his mouth. “Everywhere.”

Eddie licked his lip, skipping over a soft kiss for a hungry one. It was hot, desperate, impatient. Everything Steve hadn’t known he needed.

Then again, he hadn’t even actually known he liked guys until tonight. Maybe he was just late to learn things about himself.

#steddie #steve harrington #eddie munson #stranger things #headcanon #robin buckley #drabble #Steve Harrington is a bisexual disaster and in this essay I will #coming out that’s funny as hell #Steve coming out before he even realizes he’s queer is the epitome of cinematic masterpiece #alas I’m high and could only write this

[spoopdeedoop]

this is where nine hours on a plane with unsupervised procreate access has gotten me

#based off a post i saw ages ago #april is NOT STRAIGHT BY THE WAY she just didnt realize they were making puns on their sexuality #my art #april rottmnt #donnie rottmnt #mikey rottmnt #raph rottmnt #rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt fanart #save rise of the tmnt #if anyone’s interested to hear my sexuality hc’s!! #april’s a lesbian; donnie’s aroace bisexual; raph’s aroace; mikey’s panromantic ace; leo’s gay #obviously

[clementartz]

unspoken truth

#yosuke hanamura #souyo #persona 4 #p4 #persona 4 golden #p4g #shadow yosuke #ivegotnoromeo art #something something the realization you might be in love with your best friend who is a dude #and who you call your partner but strictly platonically of course because you’re not gay #(but maybe you are) #but nooooo you can’t be because you like Girls you’re the Girl Liker you can’t like guys that’s weiiird and baaaaad #(<- too emotionally constipated and full of internalized homophobia to realize bisexuality is a thing) #anyways i hope atlus makes his gay confession canon whenever they remake p4 or i’m actually gonna 💥

[very-feral-lesbian]

buck kinda pulls like… despite the content of their relationship, he picks hotties

#i realize i forgot a few and the pic for lou is bad im so gay that i thought that pic would slay #911 #911 on abc #911 abc #bisexual evan buckley #evan buck buckley #evan buckley #bi buck #taylor kelly #natalia dollenmeyer #ali martin #tommy kinard #911 season seven #911 photos

[teaboot]

I have to remind myself that my characters don't have to be tortured or dramatic to be interesting.

My first DND character was a balding, paunchy, post-middle-aged human man whose wife had just left him and whose kids had grown up and moved away.

He quit his menial job and decided to take up music, something he'd never been very good at that didn't pay the bills, and become a bard.

He was bad at it. Really, really bad. His instrument was shit and he'd never had any formal lessons. On top of that, he was pretty tone-deaf.

BUT. He could play very, very bad noises very, very loud.

On our first campaign, he was cornered by a sea dragon and had no weapons, but by making a loud, horrible noise, he was able to startle it badly enough to lose grasp of the boat.

After that, he used it to herd a small crowd of goblins into a trap by sounding far bigger and more numerous a foe.

He never got much better, but he did grow his confidence, and won the affection and respect of his companions, who grew to support him in ways nobody else had before.

I had to stop playing him for a while after that, but last I had him, he was developing an interest in color and flare and fashion that he'd never paid much attention to before.

He didn't lose weight, or grow his hair back, or magically become younger, but he felt brighter, lighter, like he had a new lease on life, like he had something to offer and maybe he deserved to have a bit of fun, now and then, with good company.

He began to wonder if that was what he was missing, before. If perhaps that was why his marriage had wasted away. A lack of drive, of hope, of pride and passion.

I don't know where he would have gone on from there. I don't know if I wanted him to reconnect with his kids, or his ex wife, or his home town. Part of me likes the idea of finding his own way- settling and becoming good friends with his ex, something platonic but warm and fond, and reaching out to his kids and being there for his grandkids and someday passing away bright and loud and loved of old age, asleep in his bed, to be celebrated after by the loudest funeral with the worst music played by the most awful musicians his community had to offer, loud and proud and full of good humor.

Maybe they'd throw a festival, after that. An annual one, with firecrackers and trumpets and clanging pots and pans to scare away the monsters like he did, the roaring hero who came into his own a little later than usual, but wondrously all the same.

A symbol to show that you don't have to bend and squish and contort yourself to fit the space you're in- you can find another space, one that's just your size, and exist there exactly as you are

#He started out as a joke and his name was Jeff Jefferson #He was scared of lizards and allergic to tree nuts #And I loved him #There was a bisexual realization subplot #It was glorious

[buttsoclock]

*slams fist on table* PUBLISH THE DISSERTATION YOU COWARDS

#I am completely kidding #mostly because I realize that this would mean revealing early drafts of the script which would not happen #but I genuinely would love to read it #I want to see where the show initially went wrong and how they corrected it #and more than that #I love the thought of Joey Batey passionately arguing for good representation #and I wanna heckin see it #anyway I successfully quit this hellsite for three whole damn years #and a stupid bisexual disaster of a bard reels me back in #jaskier #the Witcher

[acrolius]

steve has always known that he was bi, he just didn't realize it wasn't a universal experience. he thought that was something that everyone felt, everyone found people attractive regardless of gender.

he has a crush on tommy h that results in steve being tommy's most faithful friend and lacky, steve wanting to stay by tommy's side even when tommy is mean to others and mean to him.

it's easy dating nancy, they form a picture perfect duo that meets everyone's expectations. nancy doesn't think it's strange when they watch grease and he calls danny zuko good-looking.

he's never met someone so open about liking people of their own gender until he met robin. he doesn't think it's weird that she has a crush on tammy thompson, just that it's strange that she's telling him. all of his non-girl crushes were kept a secret cause his parents expected him to marry a nice girl one day and it's not like he could marry a man in 1985.

eddie is surprised when steve kisses him first but to steve, it's the easiest thing in the world. steve doesn't freak out and run away as eddie worries he will, just simply grabs eddie's hand with a soft smile and a promise of something more.

#bisexual steve harrington #ally me used to say everyone is a little bi before realizing no its just me #stranger things headcanons #steddie #robin buckley #steve harrington #eddie munson #tommy hagan #steve x tommy #stranger things

[pxparkerr]

peter parker bisexual moments

#there’s a lot of evidence that wade likes peter so I wanted to shine light on some of the times it’s pretty clear he reciprocates #also from the last issue: peter unintentionally pushes wade to kill when he doesn’t want to. and then collapses with his head in his hands #once he realizes that’s what he’s done. he cares about him so much #didn’t include it because that could be interpreated as platonic #BUT the sequence of ‘sure. love.’ then peter’s silence before he fucking hugs him I #out of the blue. #spideypool #peter parker #deadpool #wade wilson #comics #peter parker bisexual moments

[rotisseries]

stranger things textposts you say?

#stranger things #stranger things textposts #byler #ronance #mike wheeler #max mayfield #robin buckley #nancy wheeler #dustin henderson #lucas sinclair #erica sinclair #el hopper #jason carver #yuri ismaylov #mike wheeler sword post for the sword mike wheeler bitches #also I realize that with the bisexual lighting post not only have I implied bi max and lucas but also bi dustin #which is fine just not my usual headcanon #y'know what maybe the interpretation of that one can be that he's saying it to the two bisexuals sitting next to him

[vivienna-vivid]

I love Heathmael as much as all of y'all but you gotta see how funny this ship is now after Canto V.

Ishmael all her life believing herself to be an exclusive woman lover with her undying love of Queequeg and the sparks of obsession with Ahab (she had the smallest crush on Ahab when she first boarded the Pequod, you cannot convince me otherwise).

And then she has her bisexual awakening in Canto V.

Imagine the sheer hilarious anguish she's feeling as she realizes that fucking Heathcliff is her bi awakening.

Heathcliff, who's always bickered and fought with her from day 1.

That very same Heathcliff who saved her just like what Queequeg did all those years back.

"Do I like men?" Ishmael thinks to herself one night.

"No. I just like Heathcliff." She retorts to herself before SCREAMING into her pillow. She refuses to think about this thought further but she knows that Heathcliff awakened something in her and she hates it.

#limbus company #ishmael lcb #heathcliff lcb #heathmael #ishcliff #shout out to emi for selling me on heathmael theyre so fucking funny to me now #the sudden realization that youre bisexual but your awakening is your annoying shonen anime rival like what do you do with that info??? #you cant fucking admit that! you cant even admit it to yourself without wanting to jettison yourself off the bus #''he just reminds me of queequeg!'' -> (realizes that she just equated heathcliff to her wife and starts to see the similarities) -> SCREAM #congrats on the bisexuality ishy rip to your ego #vivien talks

[fallout-lou-begas]

star wars queer headcanons are really funny to me not in a "haha cringe" way but because anything you headcanon for anakin obviously applies to darth vader too and the sentence "darth vader is bisexual" is just really so hilarious to me. imagining darth vader in full armor drinking iced coffee, cuffing his jeans (worn over the armor), sitting weird, and other extremely online bisexual cliches

#funniest possible headcanon is that anakin is bisexual but didn't realize it until after he became darth vader #or like mid-fight with obi-wan #getting melted in the lava like NOOOO STOPPPP YOU'RE BEING SO...BIPHOBIC....AAAARGHHHH #star wars

[littlebirdy0301]

#i love him your honor #hank green #vlogbrothers #nerdfighteria #he knows he’s trending for “thirsting after a dnd boy” and I love that #Dnd boy in question: #Brennan lee mulligan #And honestly. Same. #I wonder how many other ppl saw brennan’s dungeons and drag queens look and went “oh shit I may be in love with this man” #All it took for me to realize it was a lil fancy makeup and pretty elf clothes & I think that says something about me #I like pretty nerd boys what can I say #I’m just like hank fr #D20 #dimension 20 #dropouttv #lgbt #bisexual #lgbtq

[gender-fluidbees]

#bi #bisexual #bi pride #bi curious #bi awakening #bi realization #lgbtq #wlw #stranger things #robin #robin buckley #ronance #nancy wheeler #byler