#closeted aromantic

[sapphic-titties]

my mum: *mentions my future husband*

me, a lesbian aromantic:

#lgbt+ #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #funny #dumb lesbian #lesbians #lesbian #lesbian problems #closeted #closeted lesbian #aro #aromantic #aromantic problems #closeted aromantic #awkward situation

[that-bisexual]

”There aren't any queer kids at my school”

Yes actually I’m sure there are and they're too scared to tell anyone but their close friends. Maybe if you didn't live in little cishet bubble you would know

#lgbtq #lgbt #pride #queer #lgbt pride #bisexuality #lesbian #gay #gay pride #pansexual #closeted bisexual #trangender #genderfluid #nonbinary #agender #demigirl #aroace #aromantic #asexual

[jayyfruit]

i saw a beautiful piece of fanart featuring al’s limp wrists so uh i’ll just drop this compilation here for you people

there are a couple ones i wasn’t sure about but i figured it’s better safe than sorry lmao

#honestly whoever animated these scenes can platonically marry me rn #this is mostly just so i can be reminded every morning of how fruity alastor is #my guy’s closet is glass 💀 #asexual #aromantic #alastor #hazbin hotel

[parksrway]

multiple times now I've seen people genuinely claim that the solution to aphobia is for asexual and aromantic people to stop talking about their asexuality and aromanticism. if you think like this you need to be put in a meat grinder like actually

#'yeah guys the solution to aphobia is for aces and aros to just shut up!!' what if i destroyed everything you loved actually #and i assume the solution to homophobia is for gay people to stop talking about their homosexuality right? #same thing with transphobia? #yeah guys the solution to your discrimination is to just stay in the closet!! thats totally a normal thing to suggest!! #oh no suddenly thats homophobic and transphobic to say #but its fine to say it about aces and aros bc everyone hates us i guess #aphobia #asexual #aromantic

[shmaroace]

being openly queer is so so terrifying but seeing other queer peoples' reactions when they see me makes it worth it

#idk i just love other queer people (esp. closeted) seeing me and the little sense of community and stuff #and i love seeing other openly queer people too !! you give me so much hope every day #this isn't really an aro post but like. #queer #lgbtq #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual

[fragrant-stars]

Ok so I'm tired of misinformation and the erasure / rewriting of queer history. Running a poll to test something out:

Please reblog so more people can put in their votes, thank you!

#asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #aroace #agender #aspec #lgbtqia #lgbt #queer #queer history #ace pride #aro pride #agender pride #poll #a is for ally #a is not for ally #queer elders #lgbtq+ #closeted #closeted queer

[noa-ciharu]

One of the things noone talks about about growing up as queer in extremely queer-phobic society is how it can damage your ability to connect to people on deeper/emotional level. Because friendships are all fine and dandy, but when you get too close to someone questions of who you like would inevitably come up. We live in cisnormative heteronormative society after all

And kids/teens aren't stupid, they can tell something is off. So whenever difficult questions come up you either have option to lie or tell the truth and pray 1:9 chances are in your favor and your "friend" isn't queerphobic and won't tell you to seek therapy. And even if by some miracle they aren't, they'd still avoid talking about your sexuality/gender experiences because deep down it does makes them uncomfortable. That's closest to accepted you've felt irl, so you keep quiet

At school you hear peers talking about hanging out after school; open hanging out, everyone's invited. When school bell rings you're packing stuff and going right home

#in that manner I'm sometimes envious of westerns how they talk about lgbt+ stuff so freely irl #when here i never met a young queer person #and even if there are some they're in closet with internalized queerphobia and woud never openly talk about it #understandable tho #lgbt+ #lgbt #queerphobia #aromantic #asexual #aroace #lesbian #gay #bisexuality #transgender #tagging most bc im curiosity of this is unfortunately common experience or just something that simply happend to me #regardless of my identity

[vaggieslefteye]

Ace in the hole

#hazbin hotel #alastor #rosie #hazbin hotel alastor #hazbin hotel rosie #radio demon #when i tell you this line warmed my heart i MEAN it. i'm so happy he's aroace and that they did this #my videos #asexual alastor #aromantic alastor #aroace alastor #''i know you're an ace in the hole'' = ''the closet is so big it's not even a walk-in anymore it's your whole damn house'' #video edits #hello rosie!

[space-raccoon1]

Being a closeted Aroace is so difficult sometimes because my friends will go into full detail about how badly they wanna fuck some guy and I’ll just be sitting there like

#aroace #aro pride #closeted #aromantic #asexual #asexual pride #relateable #aromantic pride #aromantic problems #aroace problems #asexual problems

[totallyveryallosexual]

Bought really pretty mushroom earrings today and it is the start of what my aesthetic will be when I move out of my parents house for university and cut off all my hair, buy a binder, and start living as androgynous as fucking possible

#queer #closeted #closeted queer #agender #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aro #ace #lgbtq #going to be living my androgynous dream. am I a girl? am I a boy? guess what motherfucker I'm none of them (and all of them) #autistic #neurodivergent

[sapphic-titties]

reason #242234 why i don’t want to come out as aromantic:

explaining to my mum that i don’t feel romantic attraction, but i do feel sexual attraction

#lgbt #lgbt+ #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #funny #aromantic problems #aromanticism #aromantic #aro #help a lesbian #dumb lesbian #lesbian problems #lesbians #lesbian #closeted aromantic #aro pride #aro post #aro positivity #aro problems

[cherrytea556]

To all the closeted aroaces, I wish you the best. I hope you can be your true selves from the outside and that the ones you care for will eventually (or even more hopefully, sooner) understand you.

#aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #closeted

[sillygeeseys]

Hey! Quieter/closeted LGBTQ+ people, I made a post for the loud + out folks, and you guys deserve one too that's just a tad gentler, I feel like y'all don't get enough recognition y'know?

Some encouragement under the cut 💛💛

(Exclusionists/any of that bullshit DNI I will block/delete, this is MY hype post)

Hey, it's ok to stay quiet/closeted. If this is how you feel the safest, I completely understand and support that

It's normal for the closet to be an awful place, no matter how safe it makes you. I hope that one day you can come out, no matter how far that feels, and are met with love

I hope that anyone keeping down a big voice gets to be just as loud as everyone else is one day, you deserve it after all this time

If you feel safe, and happy just the way things are with you, then I'm so proud. I'm so proud that you got to figure out just what you needed.

You're struggles aren't any less important just because you're in the closet. You're dysphoria is just as bad, the things people in your life may say can hurt just as much, and not having anyone to go too is never ideal. You're not crazy, you're not faking anything, it's not any less valid.

You're not in the wrong for being quieter, sometimes the community gets really angry at people for not getting loud, but sometimes you just physically can't do it. You don't need to feel guilty at all for that regardless of what people say.

You don't owe anyone your identity, ever.

#gay #lesbian #non bianry #nonbinary #aroallo #aromantic #aroace #asexual #agender #transgender #bisexual #panromantic #biromantic #please tell me if I'm missing any #it's 2am #encouraging words #gay encouragement #closeted #introvert

[draakart]

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These colourful sausages are up on my Redbubble! Check notes for the l-nk!

#reptiblr #blue tongue skink #queer #artists on tumblr #reptile #lgbt #asexual #aromantic #bisexual #closeted #trans #transgender #gay #mlm #genderfluid #demigirl #intersex #nonbinary #non binary #pansexual #polysexual #polyamorous #demiboy #lesbian #didn't have anything new to share #so figured I'd put these here :) #oh if it doesn't show up in the notes #try checking on mobile or you can access my carrd via my bio! #draakart #2020

[aro-culture-is]

Semi-closeted AroAllo culture is trying out dating again because most people in your area only want to sleep with you if you're dating them, then talking to someone you find super attractive and they end up wanting to be fwb instead of romantic partners, then them being surprised you're actually super into it even though they suggested it.

Like, this is the BEST case scenario and they don't even know it.

.

#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #closeted aro culture #alloaro culture #aroallo culture

[shmaroace]

sorry but i'm that person who makes their sexuality their entire personality. actually in fact i WILL be obnoxious about being aroace and there's nothing you can do to stop me :)

#i know it's annoying but i'm so proud of being aroace and how far i've come #in the past few years i've gone from #not knowing anything about the queer community and being super closeted #to being a (mostly) out and proud aroace/trans person #like yeah i'll shout it from the rooftops because im finally happy with myself and my labels #isnt self love important anyway? i love myself and i will be obnoxious about it. not sorry #aro #aromantic #arospec #ace #asexual #acespec #aroace #aspec