My biggest flex is having purple in both of the pride flags that apply to me 💜
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Day 9: Graysexual
Zolf Smith (Rusty Quill Gaming)
canon
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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.
and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.
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pride flag in science colours
inspired by @science-bastard
(note: I've added the bars as their own images alongside trans, ace, and nb flags in this style in a reblog)
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I was today's years old when I realized that people actually think that other people are attractive.
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PEOPLE JUST LOOK AT A BODY AND BE LIKE : 'whoa I wanna date, hot, sexy, kiss kiss' ?!?!?
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🏳️🌈 I made some unhinged pride flags for the discord, inspired by my love of eating magnolias off the tree and botany-related crimes.
Trans Flag/Magnolia, Nonbinary Flag/Iris, Asexual Flag/Petunia.
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Kinda curious as to if people prefer to use the umbrella terms or not. Personally I tend to use umbrella terms (for me just ace) out of total laziness since explaining all the time is beyond tedious for me 🙃
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ME-THEMED STIMBOARD
fun little one before bed :] wanted to express my transspecies & greyace identities … plus this is how i view myself/my favourite kinds of things (but not all my favourites)
🐾 🔮 🫐
🫐 🐾 🔮
🔮 🫐 🐾
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Pride moth! He’s just a little guy!!
(If you have a pride moth request hmu, they make cute wallpapers
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You know, one of the reasons it took me so long to figure out I was aromantic was because the depth and intensity of the platonic feelings I had for the select few people in my life always read, especially to other people, as being on the same level as romantic feelings. But really, I just care deeply about my friends and there are certain people that I just feel a strong pull towards in regards to wanting to be their friend. My past relationships would talk about the types of feelings they had for me and it always felt like "yes, I feel that too, but in a different way". I didn't know how to describe it or why I felt so much repulsion when people would romantically tell me they loved me while I was filled with such joy and comfort when my friends would tell me they loved me.
I'm incredibly introverted, I do not want or need to have loads of friends. But instead of people accepting that having a few, intimate friends was valid, I was told that I just hadn't met "the one", or that I was possibly polyamorous, or, worse yet, I was somehow broken.
I still struggle a lot with that imposter feeling, like I'm "not aro enough" but I am enough. I am not broken. There is nothing wrong with me. This label is as valid for me as it is to anyone else who is aro.
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yknow. i’m actually not romance repulsed. i just think i was so uncomfortable with the idea of someone wanting something i can’t give. i want to love someone forever with undying devotion and engrave their likeness into marble. and i will. have. often. is it romantic? probably not. not based on what i’ve heard about what it’s supposed to feel like, physically and emotionally.
i think as long as whoever was into me in that way knew that my feelings were adjacent but not exactly matching, and they were cool with that, that i would be alright with being romantically or sexually desired.
i still have complicated feelings about sex, but that’s less about identity. i do think i’m not sex repulsed, either. it’s weird realizing these things, using other aroace experiences to try to understand my own and understanding that my story of self understanding is my own.
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These acrylic asexual pride heart pins will be available on 1/6/23! Follow my Etsy for shop updates 🖤
www.etsy.com/shop/hedgehology
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