#just disorder things

[bli-o]

hey autistic people who get overwhelmed by large groups or noise or conversation or etc etc etc you’re not evil for wanting to leave a family gathering. just so you know.

#additionally hard when you have no diagnosis #people just think im “antisocial” and “rude” #while im over here completely burnt out #because the whole room is talking and the tv is loud and all the lights are on and every kid in the house is shrieking about something #and whoever you came with(looking at you parents) acts like you’re evil and hate your family when you even ask when you’re leaving #autism #actually autistic #autistic #autism spectrum disorder #autistic things #asd #autistic community #undiagnosed autistic #undiagnosed neurodivergent #undiagnosed autism #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #neurodiverse stuff #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurodivergencies

[uncanny-tranny]

Basically, my philosophy around disability fakers is: I would rather a thousand people fake a disability than have one disabled person suffer without care, aids, compassion, or any help.

#disability #disability advocacy #and there's a difference not many people seem to recognize between faking and realizing you don't have [x] problem... #...such as realizing you don't have [x] disorder because it is instead [y] disorder... #...or you haven't completely understood your care needs/your symptoms/what helps you... #...and some people see ANY change in your understanding of your disability as proof of maliciously faking... #...when i suppose in my personal experience people don't *maliciously* fake disability... #...i'm not saying it could never happen but that i don't think it's the *only* thing motivating people called fakers #i just think (like most everything) this is complex and nuanced because it's a *human* experience #like for me personally i /know/ i still have a lot to learn about my disabilities... #...like... i realized recently that my hands shouldn't be in AGONY when warm water is ran over them when it's SLIGHTLY cold inside or out... #...and i realized that i likely have a Noticable limb difference that needs checking out. does this sound like i'm faking... #...or that maybe i just didn't really explore my own needs and body because of a variety of factors? #i can assure you it is because i haven't really thought before about how i deserved to understand how to best help myself

[knifearo]

this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...

#and also. not the direct focus. but love doesn't make things good. you can be in love and do terrible terrible things. #people do bad things in the name of love and in despite of love all the time. #but!! imagine a world where people could exist as people and not be demonized. #sex positivity means being cool about All sex. reexamine your internal systems of moral judgement. #this goes for sex workers. for aroallo people. especially aroallo men. for aro people in general who might enjoy sex. #and frankly i think it can easily bleed into discussions about mental health disorders around 'not feeling' certain things #especially demonizing ppl who don't feel as much empathy. i think there's definitely a correlation between that and the emphasis on love. #our support needs to go out to Everybody and i think these things are all structured together in one way or another!! #it might not be immediately obvious but when i tell you it all leads back to amatonormativity..... little bit wild.... large bit wild.... #anyway. horror movie psychopath 'oh he can't feel emotions or love' damn alright. well. let's take a closer look at that. #silly that there's an association between lack of love and Murdering. feel like that might affect some stuff. #love is just an emotion/a feeling it doesn't mean anything about you one way or another #same with empathy. you can feel it all you want but it doesn't inherently change the actions you choose to take #anyway. thesis statement. there is a socially constructed link between love and morality. unlearn that. #kiss kiss (<— lovelessly) #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #talking #aroace #aspec #sex positivity

[dollkisses05]

Feeling like her rn

#coquette #lena posts #coquette aesthetic #girlblogging #hell is a teenage girl #this is what makes us girls #whisper girl #black swan #coqeutte #femcel #gatekeep gaslight girlboss #white swan #coquette girl #coquette dollete #female manipulator #female rage #female hysteria #just girly things #girly tumblr #girlblog #im just a girl #locally hated #lana del ray #this is a girlblog #natalie portman #tw disordered eating #disordered eating thoughts #eating disoder trigger warning #@tw edd #ana bllog

[angelspearlheart]

doom and gloom

#girlblogging #this is what makes us girls #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #cinnamon girl #pinterest girl #female hysteria #girly things #this is a girlblog #coquette community #coquette #manic pixie dream girl #carrd moodboard #coquette moodboard #moodboard #pastel pink #pink #pink aesthetic #soft pink #softette #soft girl #localy hated #bambi doe #just girls being girls #beautiful princess disorder #coqeutte #coquette angel #coquette dollete #coquette girl #coquette lesbian #gloomy coquette

[unknowngirlyy]

#personal vent #just girly things #girlblogging #just girly thoughts #hell is a teenage girl #femcel #girl interrupted syndrome #tw disordered eating #female hysteria #ed vent #mentally unstable #i’m just a girl #current mood #this is a girlblog #alaska young #female rage #tw mia

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

growing up with a perpetually anxious primary caregiver is such a mindfuck. that shit will rewire your nervous system

#not a shitpost #i get that parenthood and modern life in general is extremely anxiety inducing #and that anxiety is a common mental health issue and anxiety disorders exist and do not disqualify you from being a loving parent #but i am begging you PLEASE do not project your anxiety onto your kids #especially younger kids #your job is to make your kids feel safe and secure. that is a primary requirement #that doesn't mean you can't be anxious! #but just like being angry doesn't mean you're allowed to yell at your kids or slam doors or break things #being anxious doesn't mean you are allowed to surround your kids with your own fear and stress or teach them to share your anxieties #your job is to be a comforting nurturing parental figure. that means projecting comfort and love #even when it is hard! even when you are tired or angry or scared! #which is a damn hard job! and you won't get it right all the time! #but dammit babes you gotta TRY #kids deserve to feel safe and comfortable in their daily lives #you CANNOT be teaching them to expect catastrophe lurking around every corner

[thecupboardhasitsmoments]

It is so fucking funny to see singlets go 'God it felt like I was someone else back there' and you just sitting there with the occasionally someone else disorder like 'Ah yes. No clue what that feels like'

#i was reading fanfiction and this happened once #just 'they felt like they were 3 different people and it was fucking with their head' #like. ah yes. no clue what that must feel like #did #osdd system #did system #osdd #system #dissociative identity disorder #other specified dissociative disorder #system stuff #system things #did osdd #osdd 1a #osdd 1b #complex dissociative identity disorder #did memes #osdd memes #system memes #trauma disorder #complex dissociative disorder

[ohbelladonnamoon]

Woke up today missing something I’ve never had, wanting to cry and wishing I didn’t have to do it anymore

#girlblogger #girlblogging #this is a girlblog #i’m just a girl #just girly things #borderline personality disorder #borderline things #living with borderline #borderline thoughts #being borderline #bpd #bpd vent #bpd thoughts #female rage #femcel #lana del rey #lizzy grant #lana is god #belladonna.posting

[shesmanic]

#female manipulator #femcel #femcore #female hysteria #just girly things #this is what makes us girls #girly stuff #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #girl interrupted syndrome #divine feminine #dollette #coquette #coquette dollete #female rage #girl blogger #this is a girlblog #girlblogging #girl interrupted #manic pixie dream girl #this is so me #girlcore #dollcore #dollete aesthetic #boarderline personality disorder #bpd #actually borderline #lana del rey #lizzy grant #ultraviolence #born to die

[ladycatashtrophe]

"Wow, you're so self-aware! It takes most people years of therapy and dedication to get to that point." Thanks, I constantly feel completely disconnected from my physical being and the material sensation of my body, brain, and spirit/soul is so overwhelming that I often have to see myself as an objective third-party instead of an integrated entity. Father son holy spirit and all that.

#yes I know that Unitarianism and Trinitarianism are different #let me be mentally ill #maladaptive daydreaming #immersive daydreaming #bpd #borderline personality disorder #adhd #just cptsd things #gothic literature #spirituality #new age spirituality #satanism #the satanic temple #dissociation #derealization #depersonalization #metal as fuck #i have a headache

[bpd-suggestions]

What its like having quiet bpd:

#borderline personality disorder #bpd #actually bpd #borderline problems #actually borderline #just bpd things #bpd problems #bpd feels #bpd suggestion #actuallyborderline

[la1npilledg1rl]

Sad reality for most of us girl

#girl interrupted #bpd #femcel #borderline personality disorder #bpd girl #coquette #female manipulator #manic pixie dream girl #lana del rey #female rage #female insanity #female hysteria #mental health relapse #im not mentally stable #fuck the patriarchy #femcelcore #i hate men #men hater #im just a girl #girlhood #girly things #divine female #feminine urge #female experience #the feminine urge #divine feminine

[bpdiruma]

those without borderline personality disorder love to talk about how those with the disorder are "abusive" and "dangerous", but literally a majority of the time we act out because a boundary was crossed. people step all over us and we are the bad ones when we suddenly react and act out when we aren't listened to. ok

#there are a small amount of bad apples but you get the point #most of us just act out against mistreatment #actually borderline #borderline personality disorder #bpd vent #actually bpd #bpd feels #bpd thoughts #bpd mood #bpd problems #bpd stuff #bpd #bpd shit #borderline pd #borderline problems #borderline things

[angelspearlheart]

One day I too will become a rusting piece of abandoned farm equipment laying in tall yellow grass

#angels illnesses speaking #girlblogging #this is what makes us girls #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #cinnamon girl #pinterest girl #female hysteria #girly things #this is a girlblog #coquette community #coquette #farmers daughter #coquette girl #localy hated #girlblog aesthetic #girlcore #girlrotting #americana #american gothic #beautiful princess disorder #bambi doe #female madness #girlhood #just girls being girls #just girly posts #manic pixie dream girl #sparkle jump rope queen #sadgirl #born to die #ethel cain

[theinsomniacindian]

"My child is fine-"

Your child is so lonely and emotionally numb that they cope by living in a dream world to the point where they are terrified of living in reality itself

#madd #maladaptive daydreaming #maladaptive daydreaming disorder #paracosm #actually madd #actually maladaptive #living with cptsd #just cptsd things #cptsd #cptsd problems #actually cptsd #autism #autistic #asd #actually autistic #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #nd #actually neurodivergent #the insomniac archives