#I’m tagging this to be safe

[duck-that-does-stuff]

WHY THE FUCK DO ALL THE GODS KEEP FALLING INTO THE ABYSS????

#sn #shining nikki #shining nikki spoilers #I’m tagging this to be safe

[dogkin]

I’m making a collection

#mine #oliver.txt #mlm #i need to find more of these if you guys have any pls give #nblm #nblm safe #t4t nblm #nblm post #mlnb #achillean #gay mlm #I’m sorry for the spam tagging (if this counts as that) I just need to find more of these 😭

[dear-ao3]

mercedes:

lewis hamilton making the biggest surprise career move since danny rics went to renault before the season even starts and a whole year before his contract even was up:

#yeah safe to say i’m loosing my fucking mind #not a tag #from saph #f1 #this is NOT news i need to be hearing at 9in the morning on a thursday #lewis hamilton

[stbot]

I've been thinking lately... maybe I should stop worrying so much about why I feel something and just feel it.

#grease rise of the pink ladies #grease rotpl #rise of the pink ladies #rotpl #cynthia zdunowski #grease spoilers #cynthia rotpl #shy guy rotpl #short king ‘wait does this mean i’m a thespian?’ cynthia #shy guy 'i'm jewish though?' edward #baby boy shy guy!!!! my son my child!! #queer solidarity love to see it! #i think i need a gif tag #not to prev tags myself but uh: #cynthia and shy guy are like Peak high school gays trying to date each other bc they can't accept they're gay but know the other is Safe #like i really didn't expect for this to be where his v obvious crush was going but i'm here for it! #love them love this #love to see cyn getting their shit together to apologize #cannot wait for next week!

[pollyanna-nana]

I think it’s so interesting that Kui decided to show us how differences in lifespan affect tallmen and elf relationships from both angles with Kabru and Thistle and also how that reflects real-life abusive situations. And then goes on to deconstruct that by showing how genuine understanding and respect CAN exist between the races with other characters!

Kabru being raised by an elf (who is shown to only have a superficial respect for short-lived races, the same one might have for a pet in a lot of ways) and treated like a child even though he’s in his 20s. After all, a 20 year old elf would be a kindergartener, and Milsiril seems to have a rather toxic combination of overprotectiveness and dehumanizing tendencies that leads to perpetually seeing the children she raises as children, even well into adulthood for their race.

And yet, we see with characters like Otta that this doesn’t have to be true of EVERY elf (nor should it logically be, especially those who spend actual time around short-lived races.) For all the jokes made at her expense I actually think it’s really interesting that she’s also canonically queer since recognizing the agency and maturity of short-lived races is in itself a type of queerness in elf society from what we’ve seen. Senshi too, as funny as his misconstruing Chilchuck as a child is I think it’s really important that he realizes his mistake and rethinks his assumptions on short-lived races following his example. It doesn’t HAVE to be the way it is, but it will take work on each side to improve things.

Then on Thistle’s end… woof. Complete opposite of Kabru, it was difficult for the tallmen of the golden kingdom to comprehend how someone in their, like, 60s could still behave like a teenager and chalked that up to a personal and moral failing rather than literal differences in biology (kind of an autistic mood but that’s a conversation for later.) It’s just as disturbing as Milsiril’s treatment of the children she adopts really, since they explicitly didn’t want an adult that could exert their own agency and control over their situation. And the thing is it’s not like that’s totally uncalled for, the previous points show how a non-insignificant number of members of long-lived races do genuinely see short-lived races as inferior, or are otherwise ignorant, like with below.

It ended up working out just how they wanted, because Thistle’s child-like innocence and singleminded desire to make the only family he had happy meant he was never going to do anything he didn’t think would help them… which then backfired, because of course it would. It’s overcontrolling and manipulative parenting, but with the added spice of lifespan differences and magic. Kabru ended up detesting the elves that raised him and wanting nothing to do with them, and Thistle basically had a massive breakdown trying too hard to please everyone. Infantilization vs adultification, as some have said, with predictable results.

#polly speaks #dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi spoilers #dunmeshi #delicious in dungeon #kabru of utaya #thistle dungeon meshi #child abuse tw #to be safe #ask to tag #sorry for the milsiril hate I’m willing to hear perspectives but everything about her icks me out #dungeon meta

[adoralea]

skater girls and their besties.

#sonic the hedgehog #sth #stellar the hedgehog #camellia the cat #penelope the red panda #selene the snow cat #sonadow fankid #sonadow fanchild #sonic art #sonic fanart #sonic the hedgehog art #sonic the hedgehog fanart #adoralea art #I FINALLY FINISHED THIS THING #OH MY GOD IT TOOK ME WEEKS TO WORK ON THIS THING #a lot of screaming and crying was involved #of course I’m exaggerating #sonadow #shadow the hedgehog #cw eye strain #cw eyestrain #eye strain cw #eye strain #eyestrain #eyestrain cw #tagging just to be safe

[planetaryplut0]

A rant, which I typically don’t do.

You are NOT “transabled”. You are not “transid” or “transx” or whatever. YOU ARE AN ATTENTION SEEKER.

There are REAL people with REAL disabilities that struggle daily with ableism and depression because of their REAL disability, not the fake “UwU I’m so cute and silly! I have transautism transadhd transdepression transosdd transdid transfreckles transthisandthat!”

I get it-you want to feel like part of a group. You want attention, you want friends. But minimizing the struggles of real disabled people, or saying you have whatever when you DON'T is not the way to do it. Essentially, you’re just being ableist.

Tldr: Get off the internet, you’re not disabled.

Also, I HAVE autism, and I, a “cisautistic” person, find it absolutely horrific that people WANT to have autism. Sure, it may give me “superpowers”, but often, it just makes life harder. Disabilities MAKE LIFE HARDER. Be thankful that you have a body that works in the way it should, and a brain that makes life easier, not harder.

#Transx #transid #radqueer safe #radqueer #transabled #pro transx #I’m tagging it like this so you’ll see it :)

[schermit]

I’ve been thinking a lot about the Reddit situation today, and it’s really a shame that we’re losing access to so much information if things don’t improve over there. I’ve seen other people mention the fact that any time I googled a problem or similar I’d append “Reddit” to the end of the search because all of these niche communities had passionate people recording detailed (albeit sometimes incorrect I’ll admit) information that will be much harder to come by if the site doesn’t survive. It reminds me of a situation very similar to this, when in nineteen ninety eight the undertaker threw mankind off hell in a cell, and plummeted sixteen feet through an announcer's table. And now senior tumblrists, watch the Reddit refugees potentially lose their minds lol. Don’t know if I did the meme justice.

#196 #reddit #reddit migration #reddit blackout #reddit api #friends #reddit memes #Reddit information #be better spez #late stage capitalism #I’m going to miss my little communities I would visit on a daily basis #okay I think these tags have went on long enough #you’re not even safe on tumble Redditors #gotcha #maybe #hope this brings good memories #shittymorph

[gaytedlasso]

the strength of weary hands

~

Dean hand studies

a belated birthday gift for @chrispineofficial

#Allison has shown me how compelling deans hands are #I’m still a Cas hand man but I can contain multitudes #sketch.art #allison tag 💅 #dean's sketchbook #spn art #spn fanart #safe dean content #becauseofthebowties #tuserpris #cowboycoven #cw gun

[frilledshark-enthusiast]

Stop scrolling to save sites like ao3 and tumblr

Sign petitions stopping this bill, KOSA would allow the right to sue and take down websites like ao3 and tumblr for having queer content and being a safe space for queer people

#autism #fuck proshitters #hazbin hotel #metal family #helluva boss #dee metal family #fic ideas #hazbin angel dust #ramblings #metal family dee #I’m tagging everything I got #queer fiction #queer safe space #ao3 #KOSA #please #why do they hate us #important #PSA #ao3 is down #ao3 fanfic #tumblr #hellsite (affectionate) #hellsite #stop kosa

[radiohead-spiderman]

I walk out with a microphone and speak “Stripping away a female character’s traits and personality for a male character is wrong and is not a cool thing to do,” everyone cheers.

“Especially if the male character treated the female character like shit and wished death on her multiple times,” everyone cheers again.

“If the only way you can make your ship work is by completely desecrating one or both of the character’s personalities, maybe it’s not that good of a ship” everyone cheers and claps.

I say “Dramione” and get booed and thrown rotten tomatoes at.

#i am but a jester being punished for the truth /j #this is a /hj #not gonna tag Draco’s name so dr*Mione shippers don’t see this #I’m an asshole who’ll slander a ship I find revolting BUT I would not force those shippers to watch me spout out my hatred #anyways #anti dramione #dramione hater #I hate dramione #anti jkr #harry potter #hermione granger #romione #dramione shippers this is not a safe space for you #in the genuine way I do not think you want to be on my page because I’m slandering something you like and that’d bum me out of I had to see- #someone slander something I like #censoring dr mione because I find it gross and so people who ship it don’t see it is so funny to me

[marokra]

psa for fanfic writers: theres a non-zero chance jimmys looking at fics next btw. if you don’t want your fics on youtube set em to user only 👍

#better to be safe than sorry #personally i’m fine with him seeing any of the stuff i wrote but i know there’s people out there who don’t want their fics reacted to #jimmy if you're seeing this PLEASE for the love of god reach out to fic writers and ask permission before you react to them #trafficblr #third life #last life #double life #limited life #secret life #mar’s tag for rambling #traffic life series #traffic series #hermitcraft #mcyt #mcytblr

[that-nerd-who-writes-fanfiction]

Am I writing a frankly ridiculous number of Merlin and Arthur “almost” hugs into my fic?

Yes. Yes I am.

What about it?

#it’s mostly them pulling each other into their chests #y’know “for protection” #Arthur: stay close Merlin it’s not safe out here #Merlin pressed against Arthur’s side and holding onto his arm to stop Arthur running off: keep your head down before we get caught #bbc merlin #merlin #arthur pendragon #merlin emrys #merthur #ao3 fanfic #merlin bbc #headcanon #i’m bad at tagging

[frozenjokes]

When Mumbo returned, hungry and irritated about still being hungry, Scar was looking for clams. That seemed to be his favorite activity, sifting through the sand, digging up clams, piling them up, then at the end of day, scattering them back in the sand. Today, Scar was lining up his clams on the shore, letting them sit in the sun for whatever reason. Mumbo wondered if he ever planned on eating them, or if the clams were just toys to humans. Maybe Scar didn’t understand how to get inside them? Mumbo snorted, bubbles floating to the surface. Humans probably thought the clams would just open up for them if they waited long enough.

But not even his sour mood could withstand Scar’s bright smile as the human spotted Mumbo returning; its entire body lit up, every single encounter met with the same excitement as the first time it saw him. Sure, Mumbo was more easily flattered than most mermaids he knew, but anyone would break under the weight of that joy. Was Scar that excited to see everyone, or was it just him? He hoped Scar knew he felt similarly. He wished he could tell him.

mermaid fic art let’s goooooooo (fic here) can’t wait for them to kiss

#art is platonic but the fic has hermitshipping in it so I’m going to tag it anyway methinks to be safe #hermitcraft #hermitshipping #redscape #gtws #mumbo jumbo #mumbomaid au #goodtimeswithscar

[theywhowriteandknowthings]

Warning: Discourse incoming.

I told myself I’d never get involved in these kinds of discussion because I’m a firm believer in “You do you/No Kink shaming etc.” But this one is a fairly serious one. It’s long, I’m not putting a cut in there, but please just hear me out.

There’s a disturbing trend in some fic writing I’ve noticed lately, and I have to say something about it.

We all know I’m a sucker for dark fics, be it CNC, dubcon, even non-con and horror elements, so I’m not here trying to tone/content police people’s writing. I want to make it very clear that this is not about vilifying people who write dark stuff, or things I’m not into. Hell, if I don’t want to read something, I check the tags and warnings and nope out before I get the ick. (As everyone should, there’s no point getting yourself wound up or triggered by content you can just simply scroll by.) 

However, this is where my current concern comes in. 

I’ve seen lots of very prominent writers not giving adequate warnings or disclaimers about the content they write. 

I’ve come across a lot of content where Joel (sorry buddy you’re the worst offender here, Ilu tho) is being labelled as a dom – and even more worryingly labelled as a soft dom – when the relationship is not about safe dom/sub relationships/kink. 

If Joel is spanking you so hard you can’t sit down in lieu of “teaching you a lesson” when there’s clear lack of enthusiastic consent (or often any consent at all) this is not s/m, this is abuse. 

If you’re having your readers receive physical or sexual punishment for actual life slip ups/non-role play scenarios, you’re glorifying abuse.

If you’re not labelling your fics correctly, you’re being negligent to your readers, and this should be a safe space for us all to read and create without being unduly triggered because we had inadequate or no forewarning.

For example:

Javi P kisses a girl, you make him pay for it in a way that is clearly pre-established (you have to spell it out people) as consensual in your relationship? Kink.

Joel spanking the shit out of you because a man flirted with you in a bar? Abuse. 

Din edging you until you cry because you were competing in how much you could make the other jealous in a pre-agreed dynamic? Kink. 

Joel denying you sex, or fucking you without prep/making you cum because you did something to annoy him/he doesn’t agree with and you aren’t enjoying yourself? Abuse.

I thought we were over this with the discourse that came about around 50 Shades, but clearly not. So please, tag your fics with appropriate/adequate warnings. As a survivor of sexual abuse and grooming, I need to know if your fic is going to contain and/or glorify these things. Again, I’m not saying don’t write these things, but it is your responsibility to tag adequately.

It’s a simple concept that I see applied across the board with age gaps and power dynamics, and most of the time people get it right. But when posts with 1k+ interactions are explicitly abusive, with no warnings other than S/M dynamics or “soft dom!Joel” when it’s anything but soft, aren’t just triggering to some, they’re harmful.

You can’t have a healthy relationship with Joel (again sorry buddy) if that relationship contains thinly veiled or brazen abusive elements. 

If you don’t know the difference between coercive behaviour, sexual or physical abuse, and safe, consensual kink, you need to educate yourself for your own benefit, and that of your readers. 

Feel free to reach out to chat with me about this, I’m not here to run and gun, but I will not tolerate any form of abuse or unkindness (on either side of the aisle) here.

#Fic writing #discourse #Cw discourse #tw discourse #discourse tag #abuse #abuse mention #tw abuse #I’m sorry Joel #You’re just the most popular target right now #joel miller #joel miller fanfiction #pedro pascal characters #joel miller x reader #Let’s make this a safe space #For all parties #the last of us fanfiction #Content warning #tags #warnings #warning discourse

[stbot]

Cynthia & Lydia - 1x08: Or at the High School Dance...

#grease rise of the pink ladies #grease rotpl #rise of the pink ladies #rotpl #grease spoilers #cynthia rotpl #lydia rotpl #cynthia x lydia #cynthia and shy guy are like Peak high school gays trying to date each other bc they can't accept they're gay but know the other is Safe #like the way they're dancing is just sooooo...... #cynthia was so out of line tho and they need to apologize #and lydia was Extra Mean too #the two of them need to fix their shit asap #bc now they're collecting collateral damage and that is Not Okay. #i still love them tho!! #also love the way lydia cut in lmao #short king ‘wait does this mean i’m a thespian?’ cynthia #known thespian 'i've studied your gait' lydia #i think i need a gif tag