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theharbingerofxhaos · 4 months

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Our boyfriend just had a bunch of shit said to him by some moron on this site preaching anti-endo ridiculousness, citing themselves as legitimate sources, and calling him abusive.

So we want to reiterate:

We are a mixed origin DID system. We have non-traumagenic headmates. Endogenic & Non-traumagenic systems are repeatedly mentioned medically, and we are medically recognized by trained professionals, as mixed origin.

Endogenic systems are real, and supported on this page, if you have an issue, then feel free to block us.

Thank you.

-Reaper

#pluralgang #plurality #cluster b friendly #cluster b #queer system #nonhuman system #endogenic #endo safe #pro endo #endogenic plurality #mixed origin system #mixed origin #endogenic systems exist

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the-ugly-ly · 6 days

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saw this on the gram and i snatch.

because fr i love myself pretty unapologetically. i think i’m the shit and it frustrates me when other people disagree. i’ve been called a narcissist etc and what the fuck ever.

you know whose treated me the best? out of everyone i’ve ever interacted with? me bitch. who kept me alive during the shit childhood i had? me. who strived for better despite my circumstances, and went to school, and got an apartment and a car on her own? me. who dropped half her body weight and got sober? me. who went to therapy and started breaking cycles? me.

i’m the fucking shit and i’m doing it all for ME. FOR ME. because i deserve that. and if that makes me a narc and i’m gonna end up alone i don’t fucking care dawg. i’ve always treated me the best anyways. even when everyone around me told me i was worthless and deserving of all my strife i still chose to be kind and gentle with myself.

i’m great. fuck all of you.

#bpd #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #living with borderline #cluster b safe #npd traits #npd safe #cluster b friendly #cluster b stigma #cluster b pds #cluster b personality disorder #npd #bpd posting

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underwaterspiderbird · 1 year

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everybody cares about the victims until they react to their trauma in a way that they can’t spin it to use as their model victim. it’s the EXACT same bullshit mfs do with black/brown/indigenous ppl when they don’t fit their model minority. fuck ALL you abuse wolf-crying, overly-judgmental-to-others-but-never-once-to-yourself, mentally ill ppl demonizing, starbucks sucking, Renfield Movie dickriding, pop-psychology-worshipping, TERF-listening, politician-rimming bastards.

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irequirealobotomy · 2 months

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Hey btw the human brain is super fucking complicated so everyone experiences things differently and lives differently, so stop calling others fakers for being different

And: Yes, I am referring to endogenic systems here. Yes, I am referring to people who use xenogenders. Yes, I am referring to people who struggle with empathy and sympathy. And yes, I am referring to all of you that are different.

You have no proof they are faking. You have nothing. They are just trying to live their life. Go back to doing that yourself.

Sincerely,

A really annoyed punk that can’t see why we can’t just accept eachother

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obnebulant-mogai · 2 months

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NPD + ASPD adjacent flag!

[plain text: NPD + ASPD adjacent flag! /end plain text]

After months, I am still on the rocks as to whether I have ASPD, or just display traits. Maybe there are some things we are never meant to know /ref /lyr /lh

So, I made this flag for NPD + ASPD and adjacent! It is general so it can be used by anyone who has either traits of NPD or ASPD or the disorders themselves.

[ID: Two images. The first image is a flag with nine equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are dark blood red, berry red, pale brick red, orange, pale yellow, pale grey blue, lavender purple, dark blue, and purple brown. In the center of the flag, there is a white symbol. The symbol consists of an outline of a narcissus flower with the upside down scale ASPD symbol inside. The second image is a flag identical to the first, but lacking the symbol. End ID.]

Flag by me. Colors sampled from the NPD and ASPD awareness flags. Narcissus outline taken from The Noun Project.

Tagging @mad-pride.

Below the cut, I have included the transparent symbol, as well as CMYK versions of the flags! (If you(&) don't know what that means, it's basically the version of the flag in the colors that a printer would output.)

[ID: A white symbol. The symbol consists of an outline of a narcissus flower with the upside down scale ASPD symbol inside. End ID.]

[ID: Two images. Each image corresponds to one of the flags above. They are extremely similar, but there are slight differences in hue and saturation of some of the colors. End ID.]

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antis-hell · 4 months

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Friendly reminder to all my cluster b folk (and anyone else that needs it)

If someone is being nice to you and you don't feel thankful/whatever emotion you're supposed to feel apparently. That is perfectly okay

Your thoughts are only yours, and as long as you're not hurting anyone in the real world, it's okay to think/feel them<3

Thoughtcrime is not real and never should be

#positivity #cluster b #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #autism #actually autistic #friendly reminder #pd positivity #cluster b positivity

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sistrly · 8 months

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🎭 、 CLUSTER B LESBiAN ── A flag for lesbians with cluster b personality disorders ｡

#♡ 、 wish ｡#cluster b lesbian #cluster b #personality disorder #lesbian #lesbian flag #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #pride #mogai #mogai blog #mogai friendly #mogai flag #mogai safe

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ceduralshinji · 11 months

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xp / [x]p

a catchall term for safe persons, equal persons, favorite persons, etc.

how do i use it?

ex: my xp went to the store today.

ex 2: today, my [x]p drew something!

who can use it?

everyone with a personality disorder! it was mostly made for anonymity purposes, beings with PDNOS, and beings with PD-TS, but it can be used for other purposes.

this is not a gender, do not tag as such.

don't repost <3 ask before adding to wikis

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histrionarcpunk · 26 days

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Hey! My name is Arsenic and this is my confessional blog!

This blog is for mentally ill people who want to get dark fantasies, thoughts, feelings, secrets, etc etc off their chest. If its dark, please feel free to ask it!

This includes but is not limited to: attention seeking, violent thoughts, sexual thoughts, shitty things youve done, trauma, etc. This blog welcomes and encourages people with 'scary' or 'unpalatable' mental illnesses/issues to send in asks (eg. Aspd, schizophrenia, pyromania, bipolar, szpd, and more! Any mental illness is welcome.)

I have hpd, npd, conduct disorder, adhd, autism, a few paraphilias (anti contact for the big three) and probably a dissociative disorder. I am endo neutral, i am punk and scene. Do not interact if you believe in cluster b abuse, believe that all paraphiles are offending and disgusting, believe that you can be alternative and right wing, or are bigoted. Anyone else can interact as long as youre not planning to harass or be a dick.

I welcome people of all ages! When sending in an ask you are welcome to start it with '__ culture is'. You can also ask questions or give advice if someone asks. I allow physically disabled asks too. My dms are also open for questions or small talk. Put a trigger warning at the start of the ask if you think it could be triggering please! Thank you and good day!

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theharbingerofxhaos · 4 months

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As some of you may notice, we haven't streamed in a few days. This is because we are moving this week (we are not currently fully moved in, but we are moving all non essentials), and we just don't have time or energy. We are also rethinking our stream content, as we love Overwatch, Phasmophobia, and some of the other games we play, but they also are not entirely great for getting viewer interaction :( So we're going to take a break, rethink what we want our content to be, and our next stream will be from our own house!

-Cheshire (& Reaper) 💜

(P.S. an extra note:)

We also want to try doing minecraft playthroughs with @guardianssystem, with the overview topic discussing plurality, to engage in "syscourse topics" in a quiet, safe manner, which is more engaging for people, and much less intense than arguing with people online, would this be something that people watch? 💜

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the-ugly-ly · 18 days

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i’m like a mix of a vampire in that if you don’t invite me specifically i will not engage, and a god in that if you don’t think about me and praise me i lose my power.

#bpd #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #living with borderline #bpd fp #cluster b safe #cluster b friendly #cluster b pds #npd traits #npd safe #npd #narcissistic personality disorder

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trans-axolotl · 4 months

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Hi! I know there's a lot happening rn so dw about answering quick. But if you have any resources on npd or cluster b disorders in general I would be really grateful if you shared them. I want to be able to know what I'm talking about when having the hard conversation that narcissistic abuse is a harmful concept and that people with npd aren't all abusive or bad. Thanks! Love your blog

Hi!

Here's a link to a post I made a while back with some more affirming BPD resources.

Here's a link to a blog post dismantling stigma and myths about NPD.

Here's an article addressing cultural bias in the treatment of personality disorders that's analyzing a recent study and might have some helpful sources.

If followers have any helpful resources to add on, please do!

#asks #mad liberation #cluster b #bpd #npd #npd safe #cluster b safe #this was just what i had on hand. also can reccomend some cluster b friendly support groups if ppl want that but i don't think that's quite #what you're looking for rn

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thewanderinggraveyard · 1 month

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Obscurum ("Ub-skYUr-um") and Hideaway ("hIde-awAEy")

[pt. Obscurum ("ub-skyur-um") and Hideaway ("hIde-awAEy") /end pt.]

Definition: A system role defined by the alter regularly hiding within or behind other alters, using them as a facade or shield of sorts, to obscure themself from others. These facade-alters are called "Hideaways." These alters may or may not be aware that they are doing this. They can go unnoticed for a long time by both system members and out-of-system loved ones due to them appearing to not be there. They can temporarily fuse with (aka "Inhabit or Possess") another alter to further obscure their presence, and can seem to simply "become them." They may have any number of Hideaways they can inhabit when they need or want to, though usually they can only inhabit one at a time. They may seem to have no personality of their own, and finding their own identity can be difficult for many of these alters as it goes against the purpose of their role. They may also have one or more additional roles, such as a Mirror, Harborer, Prism, Masker, Host, Emotional Protector and/or Processor, Masker, Innkeeper, Interra, and many others.

Hideaways are often someone who the Obscurum either admires, wants to be like, enjoys the presence of, has an interest in or loves (this can be romantically, platonically, familially, etc.), or wants to help in some way, potentially through helping them develop coping mechanisms, emotional healing, or processing trauma they hold.

The exact reason for an Obscurum being present in a system can vary, but in general they hold the conviction, perhaps without even being aware of it, that their presence must remain unknown.

Hideaways are sometimes "Sidelined," meaning they are temporarily unused by the Obscurum, or "Vacated" which is to be permanently cast-aside in favor of other Hideaways. This could be due to any number of reasons, but a few common examples would be that the Obscurum is close to being discovered due to their influence on their Hideaway's personality being noticed, the Obscurum has found a different Hideaway which is more appealing to them and/or they have grown bored of their current one, the Obscurum and the Hideway have grown apart or are too different for them to easily inhabit the other, or the Hideaway has become aware of the Obscurum's presence and is rejecting them or is pushing them out.

Coined by us, The Wandering Graveyard, aka The Many Gates Multiplex. Others are welcome to make their own flag for this term, however we will likely get around to making our own eventually. Coined for our system's host and innkeeper, Vengeance. This term is made with NPD & BPD in mind, but is not exclusive to those with either/both disorders.

There is no DNI for this term, however our blog itself is Pro-Non-Traumagenic systems, and Pro-Self-Diagnosis. We are also supporters of those with Cluster-B PDs and do not believe in "Narcissistic Abuse." Please read our blog's DNI before reblogging this post.

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obnebulant-mogai · 2 months

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NPD flag colorpicked from Mars!

[ID: A flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are dark orange brown, dark plum red, chestnut red orange, sunny yellow orange, white, and misty blue grey. End ID.]

Flag by me, based on the flag by npd-safe. Tagging @npd-archive.

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meowtally-ill · 5 months

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Join The Void of Safety!

The Void of Safety is a mental health server focused on making safe spaces for all needs! There are special roles that give access to private venting channels. With time we plan to get more channels for whatever people need, but at the moment our current specialized venting channels are:

body issues

caregiver venting space (comes with a special casual chatting channel)

eating disorders

personality disorders

queer vent

rage room

regression vent (comes with a special casual chatting channel)

self harm

system vent (comes with a special casual chatting channel)

vent no automod

We also have a section for people to discuss games, interests, play around with bots, and more! We really hope you find our server a place to call home, and welcome the void!

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tfemithaqua · 6 months

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༉‧₊˚. The set is for the most part complete!

(These flags are for fun and was an idea by my friends. The flags were inspired by the chaotic good/evil/neutral/etc alignment charts.)

In order: autistic menace flag (top left), autistic Angel flag (top right), Autistic Nephalem (bottom left), Autistic neutral (bottom right)

(Explanation for what they exactly mean.. FLAG LORE YEAAAHHH)

• Autistic menace flag: for autistics with mischievous, chaotic, or otherwise devilish personalities. You could also call this the autistic devil flag. It is ib the evil autism flag just double the evil!

• autistic Angel flag: obviously unlike it's devil counterpart.. it's for autistics with nice, sweet, gentle, or otherwise angelic personalities.

• autistic nephalem flag: for autistics with both personalities or for autistics who are either an autistic menace or angel based on mood/how they feel.

• autistic neutral flag: for autistics who are like.. nope. Not either. (The neutral flag was not my original idea. The genius is my idiotic friend Leila.)

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I also combined the flags with sexuality/gender pride flags. If anyone is interested. This is like my own series

(ALSO ANY FLAG MAKER CAN USE THESE FLAGS COLOR PALLETES TO MAKE LIKE A UHH.. autistic Angel bi flag!! Or like an autistic Angel narcissist flag! Anything I don't care.)

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In terms of usage (applies to all my current flags):

- personal use (icons, hcs, etc.) ✅

- commercial use (with permission) ✅

- for discourse/weird shit/anything that would start unnecessary drama. ❌

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