#grow up

[aegonswife]

just saw the hotd writers drama. like theyre rly out here recreating the dance of dragons irl while i just wanna diddle my clitty to hotd smut 😭😭😭😭😭

NAH YOUR SO REAL.

but im sorry they genuinely are and we lost good decent writers because they dont seem to know what respect actually is.

girl i feel u w the diddle my clitty too me too girl me too girl.

#aegon ii targaryen #hotd #house of the dragon #tom glynn carney #aegon ii targaryen x reader #aegon targaryen #aegon targaryen x reader #aemond targaryen #daemon targaryen #rhaenyra targaryen #matt smith #ewan mitchell #jace fanfic #jace velaryon #jacaerys velaryon #harry collett #dance of the dragons #team black #team green #alicent hightower #olivia cooke #heleana targaryen #phia saban #grow up

[therunnerwizard]

I just stumble into a discourse about how Aang doesn't respect/love Katara enough because he doesn't build a statue of her, and how if Katara ends up with Zukko he will obviously build one for her as a token of his love and respect.

Tbh, I can't even take that seriously, I mean? in what world do you think Katara needs anyone to build a statue for her? If Toph can go anywhere and build herself a statue I very much believe Katara can do the same thing. She doesn't need any man or woman to build a statue for her, nor she wants one (for now), I think that's why we don't see any statue of her.

And Aang literally built a whole island of Air nomads with so many cultural influences from Nothern watertribe. Air nomads are mostly donned in gold, yellow, and orange, but you can see that Air Temple Island has so many blue/navy right from the structure of the temple itself to the dining halls, not to mention that the practice ground has yin and yang symbol which is obv a waterbender culture.

You don't have to lie through your teeth and say Aang doesn't love Katara enough cause he doesn't build her a statue when he fuckn builds her a whole island rich in his and Katara's culture. He builds her a home, a forever one.

#kataang #kataang end game and you loser just don't want to accept it #grow up #katara #aang #aang x katara

[yeesiine]

Being toxic isn't cute. Grow up and learn how to love correctly.

#grow #grow up #love #correctly #toxic people #isn't cute

[kitdiefly]

#witchblr #pic from pinterest #witchcraft #beginner witch #hozier #witch aesthetic #autumn #halloween #pumpkin spice latte #witches of tumblr #fall aesthetic #witchcore #dreams #grow up #adulthood #whimsical #cozycore #light academia

[despairots]

- “but but angel dust is just a fictional character its fanfic 🥺” he’s gay. it doesn’t matter that it’s fictional, we barely get any representation and the second we do, u guys erase it. it’t not even funny, it’s disgusting, especially if ur saying this as fem aligned. u literally have no right to speak on this, ur opinion is INVALID. if you’re not gay/male aligned, u don’t get to speak on our discomfort towards ppl erasing gay rep, it’s disgusting, and it shows how much u care for representation. u have a LOT of straight characters, and its shocking how u choose the gay ones who CLEARLY wont fuck u or date u if they have the chance. again, if u r not gay/male aligned, disrespectful shut the fuck up, and stop talking as if u can talk about our discomfort.

#⑴ kaz’s rants! #angel dust #angel dust x male reader #angel dust x reader #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel x male reader #hazbin hotel x reader #hazbin hotel angel dust #it’s not even funny anymore #its so disgusting #grow up

[uglynavel]

I've only recently started shipping Zutara (I've mainly been a zukka/meiko shipper) and I gotta say y'all are the strongest warriors. I don't know how you all have stayed sane all these years with the majority of the fandom harassing you and actually calling y'all stupid for thinking two fictional characters had chemistry

Literally like every other post in this tag is people being vile and hateful towards y'all

#pro zutara #all these years everyone told me zutara shippers were the most toxic in the fandom #when it's actually the other way around #like people genuinely get angry at zutara #it's not mentally healthy #grow up #most of us are in our 20-30s #it's so childish to bully people over a ship #atla #zuko atla #Katara atla #zutara

[doriandrifting]

Sometimes it really hits me that we’re being called delusional for thinking Mike’s queer when his entire S4 arc is not being able to tell his girlfriend that he loves her until his gay best friend who’s in love with him begs him to in a life or death situation and he still struggles. Heteronormativity is one hell of a drug 😭

#babygurl ur my—the heart #he’s just being a teenage boy!! #girl he’s an inch away from kissing his gfs brother #a dead body couldn’t stop his pining #grow up #byler

[firerubyjam]

I would do anything to change the way my brain works

#night thoughts #i am alone #i love you #poetry #i love her #deep thoughts #i love him #quotes #relationship #deep thots #love heals #healingjourney #growth #100 days to grow up #grow up #growing #mentally fucked #mentally tired #mental therapy

[another-anime-daydreamer]

Hey guys, I know she’s really beautiful, but don’t forget SHE IS A REAL BEAUTIFUL HUMAN behind her tumblr account, so treat her like one. R-E-S-P-E-C-T her as a person because she is one. Don’t be creepy and nasty and weird. Let her enjoy her tumblr experience in peace. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

#y’all need to chill #it’s 2024 #grow up #stop being boys and start being men #stop tumblr horn dogs #don’t be weird #don’t be gross #respect her #respect tumblr women #mine #I’m sorry y’all have to deal with such filth

[a-not-so-sure-artist]

These if not Undertale, early Minecraft and a bit of Fnaf were my go-to favorites. I’d really like it if some of these returned with a sequel or something, I really miss ‘em :’)

#no straight roads #gang beasts #fran bow #octodad #jazzpunk #henry stickmin #pikuniku #grow up #abzû #who’s your daddy? #Like if you remember any of these! #I’m still into NSR to this day lol #human fall flat

[gayvampyr]

im sorry but this shit pisses me off. i don’t care if it’s a joke. where’s the punchline. even in 2022 gays still do not have equal rep in shows. the fact that only in the last couple years have we gotten actually semi-decent queer rep shows how much queer media is still needed. a lot of people still don’t even know what the word “bisexual” means, much less terms like “asexual” or “aromantic” or “nonbinary”. whether you’d like to admit it or not, it matters that a show actually has a bi character and explicitly says the word bisexual— a popular show at that. ik some of you guys have forgotten that the rest of the world isnt as acquainted with queerness as your online lgbt friend group, but a show on a major streaming platform saying “bisexual people exist” is important. it needs to be said, and it needs to keep being said until people stop forgetting and erasing bi people.

and yeah, the line “masculine guys can be gay” might seem like a stupid obvious thing, but a lot of people don’t consider masc guys to be gay at all, just like they don’t expect lesbians to be fem. i’ve been told several times that i don’t “look gay” and that i must be confused because i should like “boy stuff” and dress masculine if i really liked girls. people need to be reminded that anyone can be gay, as ridiculous as it sounds. we need to be seen as more than a stereotype and im sick of you “edgy” gays shitting on every piece of queer media like it’s twilight.

the show that these tags are in response to isn’t even adult media. honestly it’s hardly even YA. this show is for kids and teens who are discovering who they are. growing up, i never had ANY sort of representation. i didn’t grow up thinking it was okay to like girls, or that i could be interested in people other than boys, or that i even had the option to not like boys at all. queer representation is not only important, but it’s crucial. straight people get to see themselves everywhere, and never as comedic relief or the butt of a joke. queer kids grow up thinking that what they are is humiliating, that they should be ashamed of being those people who get laughed and made fun of on tv (and irl). in 99% of media, gay and trans people have been a laughing stock. the most representation a queer could get a decade ago was a white cis fem (but not TOO fem) gay man who was only a side character, was never shown with a partner, and served primarily as a clown, like queerness is a circus and cishets are the audience.

so i don’t CARE if young queer media is cringe. i don’t CARE if you don’t like it or if you think it’s forced or stupid or pointless or even if it’s just for a corporation to profit off our existence. the point isn’t why it was made or how bad you think the writing is, the point is that it exists and that there are now young queer people who can finally see themselves, not as a joke but as real people, on screen and go, “that. that’s what i am.” and im elated for this younger generation to be able to say that when i couldn’t. so i don’t care if you’d rather just be called a faggot again like in the good ol days when we were dropping like flies and everyone hated us. if cringey tv shows and bad writing is the price for queer kids to understand themselves better and for cishet people to get a better understanding of queer people, then it’s a small price to pay. shut the fuck up and let queer media exist

#text post #long post #heartstopper #gay #lesbian #wlw #mlm #queer #this show is for young people #grow up #top posts

[oliviasturniolo21]

Honestly I really think some of the sturniolo fandom to hear hear this..

Coming from someone who used to get jealous over everything, I think I have a fair perspective on this. Though you love them, they are 20, they live in la, they are hooking up. Hating on the females in their life isn’t gonna stop that, it’s just gonna make them go private abt it. I get it, it’s hard watching people you love go date around, but what you need to keep in mind is, they have 5 mil followers, there is only 2 straight men, they arnt gonna date a fan. Unfortunately they aren’t gonna date you. It’s just a fact, yes an upseting one, but still one. It’s time to accept that. They are gonna need to start dating, if they aren’t already. They aren’t gonna do youtube forever, and you’re not gonna be a fan forever, that’s not a bad thing, it’s very normal. People move on. They are at a prime age to get out there, let them. If you really love them, you’ll want them to be happy. Hating on females that come into their life most certainly isn’t making them happy. I’m very curious, to the people who really think they have a chance with them, how old are you? How often do you get out of the house? Do you socialize at all? because something tells me, to really think you have a chance with them, something out of those questions has to be a little screwed up, don’t you think? Let Madison Beer be, she has been in 2 videos, ik she’s beautiful and we are all fairly jealous, (rightfully so), but that does not mean anyone just gets a pass to load their insecurities onto the poor girl.

Sorry for the paragraph, it just kinda felt necessary ngl.

@freshlovehacker @sturniolopepsi @sturnioloskies @sturniolosluvv @sturnsclutter @sturnphilia @daddyslilchickenfingers @daddyslilchickenfingers2 @strniohoeee @sturnslove @soursturniolo 💋🥀

#chris sturniolo #matt sturniolo #nick sturniolo #oliviasturniolo21 #sturniolo #sturniolo triplets #chris girl #madison beer #madi filipowicz #liv_writes #stop the hate #wtf #why are they like this #grow up

[poorslaindoll]

I’m gonna be so fucking real with y’all rn.

So I’ve more or less been casually keeping up with Hazbin Hotel since the pilot days. I did some fanart at some point and did a cosplay once, but I currently do not consider myself part of the fandom (certainly not the hatedom bc y’all are kinda ridiculous). But anyway I’ve seen a lot of the criticisms for the show and have seen the episodes (I’ve also seen all the Helluva Boss episodes and this all applies to that show as well). And while I have a handful of criticisms of my own, none of them involve the amount of cursing in it???

Because like…

I do NOT understand why everyone gets so pissy about the cursing. Like maybe it’s because I’m a homestuck fan and that comic curses more than both Hazbin and Helluva probably ever will combined and I see nothing wrong with it? Like cursing isn’t the punchline like some of y’all seem to think it is. That’s just how some people talk and for the LIFE of me I do not see why people are clutching their pearls about it. Like is there some social standard about swearing that I missed? I know some people prefer to not curse and that’s fine and up to personal preference. But like… Growing up on the internet in the 2010’s alone got me so desensitized to profanity that I literally could not care less when someone drops the fuck word.

I curse like a sailor, most of my friends curse like sailors, and even my super religious mom curses like a sailor sometimes. So every time I hear someone complain about it I’m just like… okay??? Get over it??? I understand that there’s a time and a place for the use of certain kinds of language, but you’d think that an adult show targeted for adults about a place where everyone’s an asshole is an appropriate instance for swearing to be allowed.

Sorry if that comes off as harsh or insensitive for some reason. It just really baffles me and I am so genuinely confused about it all. This isn’t even an "oH tHeY’Re iN heLL" thing either. I just don’t understand and low key feel like I’m either going crazy or just really missing something here.

#hazbin hotel #helluva boss #homestuck #probably putting myself in the line of fire for this post ngl #and I don’t know how else to phrase this but like #grow up #genuinely #it’s not that deep #as for the show I think it’s okay #but my standards for media are apparently not that high #since I don’t seem to understand what all the fuss is about #and yes I know Vivziepop is controversial and I know all the problematic lore #and frankly I’ve heard worse #this isn’t me being an apologist or anything #it’s me being apathetic

[despazito]

Can't believe there's a stigma against bi men I don't want any man who wouldn't suck off another dude to be in my presence

#grow up

[ticklish-wallflower]

psa for the tickle community-

just want to put it out there that @/knismosexual has their likes public and has a ton of transphobic posts in there, amongst other things

(btw if you agree with that bullshit, block me)

#wallflower speaks #tickle community #tickling community #feel free to rb to warn others #the takes in this community sometimes are WILD #those takes in general are just awful to begin with but like come on #grow up #i also have screenshots in case anyone needs proof if the likes get locked

[runawaymun]

Hey, I don’t post about ROP that much directly on this blog bc I have a ROP blog for that, but I want to say something to the Silm fandom at large as Season 2 is gearing to come out:

It’s totally fine to critique the show, the costuming, the writing, etc etc, but please be fucking normal about the actors themselves. They don’t deserve to have their physical appearance or personalities or w/e attacked just because you don’t like the show.

And also, keep your negativity out of the tag. It’s just basic fandom ettiquette.

I went on a blocking spree two years ago because of this and I’ll do it again if I have to.

#the amount of people being mean about Rob’s looks was insane #and also Charlie #and also people literally were calling Ben fat for no reason #grow up #anyway #I don’t normally try to start shit but I won’t hesitate 🔪 #trop #the rings of power #lotronprime #rings of power