#honestly........relationship goals

[sunnys-side-upside-down]

"Shh, let them sleep"

#someone defo found them being cute as hell and snagged a photo #prolly Tweetie's older sister honestly #theyre so baby grill #my little meow meows #tweelix #tweetie x helix #tweetie #helix #oc #mlp #digital art #pony #cuddle puddle #cuddles #relationship goals #I kind of want to draw OTP prompts #lemme know if you've got any #i may take a look

[thisdoesnthaveend]

"Just you and me."

Harley Quinn & Poison Ivy #3

#harlivy #poison ivy #harley quinn #dc comics #dc #harley quinn & poison ivy #harley quinn x poison ivy #honestly relationship goals

[zee-versal]

jude "if i cannot be better than them, i will become so much worse" duarte 🤝🏻 cardan "if he thought i was bad, i would be worse" greenbriar

#made for each other #they're honestly relationship goals #i want what they have #tfota #tcp #twk #cardan greenbriar #jude duarte #jurdan #holly black #fantasy #bookworm #booklr #book quotes

[uncanny-tranny]

My biggest piece of advice for folks who want to get into fitness would be: Do not follow fitness influencers (or do so very sparingly).

Please be very critical of what is being said when people talk about fitness. It's important that you learn how to exercise properly for your body, and to learn safety and harm reduction, and that isn't what I mean when I say not to follow influencers.

When you want to get into fitness, think about what piques your interest. Do you want to do cardio? Weightlifting? Yoga? Running? A mix of any of that (or none of these examples)? Think about what you think would spark interest and joy, and learn to do that fitness in a safe manner.

I think the biggest reason I even have a healthy relationship with fitness over food is because I haven't followed any fitness influencers, and out of all the ones I've seen, I would only follow one of them, maybe two. Out of all the ones I have seen, and there have been plenty. What I have done instead is research what I want to get into to make sure I am not accidentally harming my body, then, I think of my own goals and work toward them.

I'm sure this won't work for everybody, and that's okay. I wanted to make this post because I think there can be this pressure to "look fit" when you're into exercise and I think that can be a slippery slope.

#fitness #anti diet culture #honestly i'm grateful i didn't seek out fitness influencers of my own volition because i'm not sure if i would still be as motivated... #...to go to the gym if i had. what i personally think has saved my relationship with fitness is that this was deeply personal to me... #...so my ~fitness journey~ has been a very personal and private thing that i don't want altered... #...ABSOLUTELY i want to be safe about how i achieve my goals. but i am not changing the GOALS but the METHOD #i want to start running (maybe) so i have been researching how to run properly and that's about as far as i'll go #i just wanted to post this in case it makes somebody think about their *own* goals if they also want to do exercise #it's definitely complex because i can totally respect that some people follow fitness influencers for ideas and whatnot #so obviously this is just what works for *me* amd sometimes i HAVE gotten fotness ideas from these people

[ahdriking]

Y'all imma come out and say it. Sex and nudity in film and TV is cool, and I actually really like it. In fact, I'm MORE likely to watch a show if I know it has sex and/or nudity in it. Call me a freak, but I find there to be so much value in the expression of human sexuality, no matter how complex or banal. Provided it is non-exploitative to real people, sex and intimacy and nudity on film seems to me to be a vital component in the expression of the human experience.

#i cant be the only one #come on out ye lil gremlins and proclaim your depravities #in an ideal world most of the sex we'd see would be like emotionally investing and moving and predicated in a relationship with complexitie #being exercised through intimacy #like thats the goal #thats the pinnacle of sex on tv #but honestly? i'd so much rather have a million shows with bad and unecessary sex than have no shows with sex at all #also i find it titilating and whats wrong with that? #im an adult #im legally allowed to be titilated goddammit

[starlitangels]

Have I mentioned recently that I adore Vincent Solaire?

He waxes poetic about what Lovely just coming down the stairs does to him and how much he trusts his heart in Lovely’s hands and then goes back to goofy and whispers, “You also look really nice 😁” like the absolute dork he is

I love him so much

#honestly relationship goals #redacted asmr #redacted audio #Redacted Vincent #Vincent Solaire #my precious vampire prince boy #an utterly besotted sweetheart #if you don’t like Vincent that’s your right to your opinion #just know that I love him and will occasionally gush over him #gosh I need to draw him and Lovely in their fancy dinner outfits sitting on a gas station curb with a Slurpee

[madnessiseverything]

ok i do think that jesper went: i'll give him a key so he has a place he can just be <33 i will not think deeper about why or what this implies <33 this way he can come and go as he pleases :D

and when wylan said "move in" jesper went "um" because he was riding a whim and now realised that he did not think this through in the slightest and might be in over his head.

cause listen. this is new to both of them. they have no idea what they're doing, these are such specific circumstances and everything is moving very fast and maybe that's okay! maybe it isn't! who knows? certainly not them <3 they're going through this with no thoughts just vibes and i for one cannot wait for the plot angst to inevitably unfold and force them to slow down enough so they can think and communicate (which tbh they're already pretty good at so i believe in them)

#wesper #jesper fahey #wylan van eck #jesper x wylan #shadow and bone #like obviously theyre cute everythings so cute and i love them dearly #but i wouldnt be myself if i didn't latch onto the angst possibilities first and foremost #and honestly? i actually love that this is a point for them #because the whole fairytale/romance thing where you only get together once youve both fallen in love is fun sure but eh #i find it much more interesting when things like infatuation or just general crushes lead to relationships #and THEN the relationship can evolve and falling in love can further it #rather than relationships just being the end goal because thats not how that works

[buckley-simp]

I WANNA BE THE ONE BEHIND THE CAMERA SO BAD!!!

#robin buckley #maya hawke #stranger things #lgbt pride #fruity four #lgbtq #celebrity crush #cute girl #cute #adorable #cuteness #couple #couple goals #honestly #please please please #pls #i need it #pleaseee #please god #bisexual women #bisexual #i'm crying #sapphic love #lovers #love #relationship #❤️ #🥹 #i’m so 🥹🥹🥹 #eggs

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is when someone is complaining about having a crush giving them the advice of "just don't have a crush on them anymore" and taking way too long to remember that apparently most people can't do that

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod axel #join the rest of us #with the communicate or break up wheel #or join me in my 'communicate and create effective/enforceable boundaries #like if any of u ever learned about SMART goals think like #is this a boundary or is this a statement #'i don't like when you hang out with [racist person]' = communicating #'stop hanging out with [racist person]. i've told you that i don't like that.' = not effective / enforceable boundary #'i feel like you're ignoring me when i say that i would like you to stop hanging out with [racist person]' = communication #'if you continue to hang out with [racist person] i am going to reevaluate being in a relationship with you.' = enforceable boundary #if you reevalute your relationship - especially if you make it *clear* that you breaking up is an option - like. SAY IT. that's a boundary #and one you can actually act on #if you just say to not do something but give no plan for follow-through... honestly. it doesn't *work*. #like fr i am a traumatized person with triggers. saying something is a trigger isn't useful for others if i don't provide some guidance #so like. (/gen) pineapples are a minor trigger for me. i'd appreciate some caution and warnings around the topic so i can determine if i am #in a mental state where i can handle that topic right now. this includes such innocuous things as talking about if it is valid on pizza #thank you' #<- establishes communication / action plan #and depending on the person/situation i might also communicate smth like 'hey - something triggering just came up and i need to take a #minute to myself. i will be okay #but if you could let me know when the conversation topic changes i would greatly appreciate that' #just like. Communicate with Actionable Plans!

[ficsforeren]

in another universe where sex was himbo eren and yn’s main priority what would he say to yn wanted to dom him? And how would he react to anal sex with her?

bold you of to assume that in this universe sex isn't their priority LMAOOOO

hmmm i feel like when they already feel so comfortable with each other, they'll just say whatever it is that comes in mind. himbo eren never knows the right timing to say it tho so they can be like eating cereals together, watching whatever it was playing on TV, and he'll say "I kinda want you to dominate me in bed. like really dominate me. like slap my face, spit on me, choke me, put me on a leash, bite my butt and tell me i'm a whore that kind of thing."

yn will just continue munching on her corn flakes, turning her face to give him a look and after spending three seconds of staring flatly at him, she'll shrug and be like "okay. want more milk?"

eren, giving her his bowl. "yeah, thanks."

same goes with anal. i'm sure they'll be nervous at first, but he's gonna be so gentle with her (or she's going to be so gentle with him cause he's having his first plastic dick salkdfjlaskdjfklkl) it's gonna be awkward and funny and stupid but it will be fun

#relationship goals honestly #i want what they have #eren smut #eren x reader #eren jaeger x reader #eren jaeger smut #eren yeager smut #eren yeager x reader #kana answers stuff #our little secret canon #never let me go canon

[wildflowercryptid]

i finally played through the galar chapter of the villain arc in pokémas and it was pretty alright, it at least made me feel kinda vindicated about my stance on rose being a redeemable villain. i will say that i think the chapter would've been stronger if (01) bede was present & played a core role in the plot and (02) oleana switched sides to help rose see that he can't save the future if he keeps going down the same path & tries to do it alone.

#honestly i'm kinda surprised that oleana didn't defect from rose's side bc i feel like it was building towards that? #ya know w/ her immediate distrust of giovanni and the expression she makes when leon points out the issues w/ rose's methods #i feel like her leaving his side would've made things more interesting and impactful #like when even your ride or die peaces out on you you know you've fucked up and need to rethink things #i also feel like it'd reinforce the idea that rose also cares for oleana a lil better too #as for bede i just think they deserve some proper closure when it comes to their relationship w/ rose #gotta clarify that just bc i think rose is redeemable doesn't mean i excuse all of his actions #he's definitely someone who uses others to further his goals and ends up hurting a lot of ppl bc of his methods #but i also feel like he does has the capacity to atone for the shitty things he's done and do right by the ppl he's hurt ya know? #okay i really need to go to bed now especially if i wanna get up at 9 #pokemon #pokemas #mj.txt

[kdramakitty]

#summer strike #i don't feel like doing anything #kdramanetwork #kdramakitty reviews #kdrama #I honestly could go off on a lot more things #(mild spoilers ahead) #like how Ji Young got somewhat of a character arc by recognizing that academia is garbage and wouldn't make Dae Beom happy #while also still wanting to move to Seoul herself #and I don't know if it annoyed anyone but I liked the progression of Bom and Jae Hoon's relationship #it felt more authentic than everything being totally fine #(spoilers end) #and overall I just really loved that Yeo Reum didn't find a new grand goal or dream and just got to be happy #maybe it's a personal thing but I feel like being 'successful' and 'ambitious' are really ideals thrust upon us #and so it was really lovely to see someone rise above that

[lightblueminecraftorchid]

u know it’s bad when ur doctor literally goes “hey you need to take a break from Lent/going to Mass this year until we work through some stuff”.

#blue chatter #this is because I am at the point where I cannot walk into a church without shaking #I had two really bad experiences at Mass in a row and it was. honestly rly damaging. #neither of the churches in my area are really viable places for me to go right now #so either I try and find an Orthodox Church or smth #or I go to online mass #but yeah my therapist is specifically known for helping ppl work thru religious trauma n scrupulosity n such #and she was like ‘hey. building up your relationship with God is really important. if you go to those churches again it is going to be bad’ #the goal is getting to a point where I can live my faith and be close to God in a safe and healthy environment #bc the panic and guilt spirals and anger is not it girliepop #point being. I will be observing Ash Wednesday at home this year. #and be talking with my therapist about a good Lenten devotion that won’t cause more harm than it helps

[planetplutoxe]

I would not call myself a c!stagedduo apologist, more of an enthusiast, mainly because both their characters are very much insane but I also love them for that.

Like they legit kill eachother, others and themselves for science, go to limbo, and then talk about it like they just went to the beach and forgot sunscreen. They plan a grilled cheese date in the middle of a villain monologue to two bestfriends who have to chose who sacrifices their life. THEIR SOLUTION TO NOT BEING ALONE WAS TO KILL THE WHOLE SERVER.

And I'm just here like "haha evil bastards go brrrrr"

#this is all /pos btw #honestly relationship goals #staged duo #drunz #c!dream #c!punz #punz #dreamwastaken #dream smp #dreblr #dsmp finale

[polyamorouspunk]

“A healthy relationship with your FP is possible!” okay Karen.

#I’m not trashing people who have worked really hard to have a healthy FP relationship #because honestly isn’t that the ideal goal? #just the idea seems so out of reach

[lewishamiltonstuff]

I want what Susie and Toto Wolff has.

#Her Instagram stories sent me to Mars #The domestic bliss #Her bond with Toto's kids #I know she is amazing #She's always smiling #when will it be my turn #when will it be me #couple goals #relationship goals #my otp honestly #Susie #Toto #Toto wolff #susie wolff #Instagram #torger christian wolff #the wolf pack #Beautiful genes too