#i want my blog to be a safe space for others but most importantly myself

[gamer-girls427]

Thanks for everything (also I suck with words so just try to follow this ok?)

uh so, as I said I suck with words. Infact, most of the time I communicate better through drawings, kin characters, qoutes, and music. But I relize those could be interpreted in any way so I'm going to try to put this into words.

if you wanna just skip the backstory and get straight to the thanks then go below the cut off!

For a long time I've been told I'm not trying hard enough. That I "don't apply myself" that I "just don't try to connect with others" and that most importantly, "Nothing is wrong with me cognitively, I'm just to lazy to try to succeed."

I have since been diagnosed with a number things, some more notable ones being autism and ADHD.

I always felt like those things never ment anything since for awhile I didn't get accommodations. Instead I just had more reasons people didn't want to be around me.

I discovered this fandom the year before tspud released so stuff related to this game was few and far between. But this game was always a safe space for me. A safe space I got shamed out of liking because it was too silly and childish, or in the words of my parents "all you do in this game is die over and over!" And "What's the point if it just makes fun of you for playing the game?"

This was what I had though in a time where I didn't have much else. I was being bullied, I was getting sexually harassed, and then my best friend left me for not being cool enough for her. Tbh I hated myself because all I would get in response was the same thing, that I "just don't try to connect with others." That "everyone was really nice, you just have to give them a chance."

I was alone, and no one was listening when I would talk about how I was struggling. The most I got was the guy who sexually harassed me got suspended for 1 DAY.

Fun fact, I once reached out to one of the devs of tsp, and they mocked my username and sent me a gif telling me that "I'm a nerd, leave me alone." So you could imagine how hard it was for me to reach out to artists I admire...

But I did, and now I literally cannot go a day without checking Tumblr at least once. Not only that but I feel validated by you guys. I feel inspired to start doing things I haven't done in a long time!

So... all I have to say now is:

Thanks to @file-unknown24 for showing me not everyone on the internet is a perv and introducing me to tumblr.

Thanks to @adventurecrimez for being my girlfriend.

Thanks to @mpils for being the first Tumblr blog I ever sent an ask to (IDK if you remember but I was that really shy anon from 2 years ago who said they really liked your art. I sent it on new years day when I was having a sugar crash lol.)

Thanks to @test-url-please-ignore for our very brief interactions (also I just have a weird obsession with British stuff so it's cool to know someone from the UK...)

Thanks to @insomniphic tolerating my DMs.

Thanks to @steampoweredwerehog for just tolerating my hyperfixation on their TSP AU as well as helping me be respectful while still being able to use my cryptid OC.

Thanks to @oswinunknown for showing me it's not weird to draw you and your comfort charaters hanging out (and following my Dungeons 3 roleplay account).

Thanks to @owlfromthemeadow for following my main account and tolerating my midnight DMs.

Thanks to @xandyprojects for drawing N!

Thanks to @finnleywiththesillys for doing roleplay with me and just being a cool person 😎

Thanks to @juaneloriginal for drawing people's narrators and having some very huggable narrator designs.

Thanks to @emmyisstrange for tagging me in reblog games (I freaking love those so much you don't understand!)

Thanks to @starpeep16 for helping me feel more confident in finishing that one drawing I was doing as a gift to steampoweredwerehog. (Maybe I'll post it some time?)

Thanks to @villiun for taking an intrest in my stuff!

Thanks to @corelex for also liking D&D and having the idea of basing a warlock patron on someone else's Narrator!

Thanks to @lee100pad for talking to me (even if it was only one time)

Thanks to @incorrectstanleyparablequotes for giving me somewhere to dump my dumb neurodivergent thoughts (when it comes to qoutes).

And lastly, thanks to @sowaran and @goony-gooner for being my friends in general.

You all mean so much to me and I don't think this post, or any other post, can express that fact.

#the stanley parable #tsp #the stanley parable ultra deluxe #vent? ish? #love you guys #thanks for existing #thanks for everything

[earthssprout]

happy new year to you & yours, friends ! 🥳🌷🍃 I hope you all had a wonderful & safe time while celebrating, if you enjoyed any such kind of merriment at all 🥺

as I mentioned in the tags on a previous post, I've been meaning to share how I intend to handle Ari's blog as I struggle to balance real life responsibilities & writing. after much discussion with close friends & exploring important parts of myself on my own, I've decided to put Ari's blog on an EXTREMELY LOW ACTIVITY status, of which will remain so until the end of my studies. seeing as I'm pursuing an English degree, there will never be a semester when I'm not writing a bajillion things a week to satisfy course requirements & perform well academically. this, of course, takes precedence 🥺 it is my future, after all !

with all that being said, I don't want to separate myself from this space entirely, so I won't be putting Ari's blog on an indefinite hiatus. however, during the rare opportunities given to me throughout the semester which allow me to be somewhat present on here, I'd like to keep my "obligations" to roleplay as low as possible. therefore--for at least the foreseeable future--I will no longer be accepting new threads or engaging in starter calls/posting my own. if we had any threads going before, consider them dropped. I plan to make this blog what you might call ... " ask - centric " ... meaning that the only method of interaction I will be accepting for a while are asks. I will be answering prompts that are sent in to me, as well as sending the same to others. any asks that I send, however, will not be continued ( except for perhaps on the very rare occasion ). my partners are welcome to continue the ask if they would like to, but just know that it's highly unlikely I'll respond to anything that is turned into a thread. I may, however, toss the response into the treasure box tag ! 🌷🍃

I understand that this, in turn, somewhat prioritizes the relationships that Ari has already built with other muses and, in a way, limits opportunity for her to create new ones. while this restriction isn’t something I’m intentionally enforcing — rather, it is a passive effect of the current state of affairs — given the busyness of real life & all else that is equally important to me, I simply don't have the energy to juggle many things at once on here--in fact, I've been unable to do so for a long while, & I'm only now facing & accepting that fact 😔 the most meaningful & important relationships that Ari has made with other muses were primarily built by lots & lots of ooc discussion, so while I am not opposed to starting new things & building similar relationships, the chances of such happening are much higher with those that are willing to engage in thoughtful discussion about our muses despite my circumstances — plotting over interaction, to put it simply 🌱

regardless, I will still be very slow on here, and I expect I will keep a similar pace when responding to im’s as well. even though asks will be the only interactions/things I respond to on here for a while, please don’t expect me to reply to such with any haste either. I may have the time and creative energy to respond to five asks in a single day, or I may lack both for a month straight. this is, unfortunately, something unpredictable, and therefore I cannot make any promises about how often I'll be here 😔 overall, the greatest shift this blog will be experiencing is how much creative energy I can spend on it and where I decide to invest that. I don’t want to abandon this space entirely, as it is a comforting place to be, and Ari is still very much alive and well in my heart ! I want to comment on posts to support my fellow writers, participate in the occasional dash shenanigan, post random thoughts and ideas I have about Ari throughout the day, and maybe even still actually write ! however, some balancing is in order; I want to improve upon my writing through practice, but most importantly, I enjoy this hobby again 🌷🌼😭

to anyone that isn’t interested in writing with a blog that has such sporadic activity and limited methods of interaction, I completely understand. I always want to be a person that encourages others to do what’s best for them, so if parting ways because of this change is what you need to, then please do so. you will be missed, of course !🌷 but know that this decision to limit my interactions so severely is because I have the same desire in mind — I have to do what’s best for me, in a way that cares for my mental health and nurtures my creative spirit 🌻that being said, this may change. I may limit my interactions even more in the future ... I may open everything back up again ... who knows 🥺

since everything in my ask box is covered in about seven thick layers of dust, I'll also be deleting everything in there too--starting completely anew !

to those who remain, thank you for your ongoing understanding, patience, and support 🌿 at some point, I’m sure, Ari and I will see you outside again ! 🐸🌱🪻🌷🌳🐝

#( ❀ | ooc ) #( ❀ | psa ) #long post cw #( tumblr keeping my tags despite my long absence is truly the 8th wonder of the world 👀 #ANYWAY 🌷 here's the promised post! #it got lengthy in spite of my best efforts but. cmon guys. you've been here long enough to know that I'm incapable of condensing anything #much less a post like this one ... 😭 )

[thepinklink]

Hey! Listen!

You’ve stumbled across my blog! Before you scroll any further, let me introduce myself a bit more :)

You can call me Plink, Link, Plinky, Legend—I’ve been referred to as all! Feel free to give me your own special nickname if you want! I love nicknames!

I’m in a lot of fandoms, but the ones highlighted on this blog are The Legend of Zelda, specifically Linked Universe! You may see a bit of Ninjago, Star Wars, or even Trollhunters—if there’s a specific fandom you want to talk to me about, feel free!!

Legend is my favorite Link, so almost everything I post regarding art and fan fiction is about him XD I’m not incapable of drawing, writing, or discussing the other boys!

My ask box is always open, and I love to talk!!! Feel free to send me drawing/writing prompts, or just talk to me! You can send me an ask anytime, although I may not answer right away XD

Finally, I’d like to ask you to please be kind. My blog is a safe space for everyone, no matter how you identify or what you believe. If you come here with hateful and/or harmful intentions, I am inclined to defend my blog and those who reside in it.

Thank you for your understanding, and most importantly, please have fun!!

Cheers,

COMMISSIONS: CLOSED

[sisterssafespace]

Assalam ‘alaykum sister…

First of all I want to thank you for this safe space you’ve created, I was looking for someone to advice me in real life but I couldn’t find anyone, alhamdulillah I remembered this blog.

In these past two months I’ve been getting to know a guy with marriage in mind.

It’s the first time he hadapproached a girl so he’s a bit clumsy but I feel like he tries his best.

Lately we were discussing about mixed friendship, mind you, we both live in Italy but I was born and rised here while he was rised in Egypt.

I lived my whole life in contact with the opposite gender so I kind of created my boundaries (religiously speaking) and found my balance.

During these discussions I brought how in the future InshAllah, if Allah grants me a family and a house I want it to be always full of friends (by friends I meant man and women) or how I like to play cards during breaks in uni with my male colleagues (I’m a stem major). He was quite bothered by this, he said that he knows himself and knows that these things will be a problem for him in the future.

He went on bringing up how in Islam it’s not permissible to have these kind of close interactions to the opposite gender, I know it shouldn’t have but it kind of irked me. We decided to genuinely look up these things and understand if we can arrive to an agreement

I have a really bubbly personality… I fear that if I was to compromise on this I’ll lose a part of me. But I don’t want to end things with him because I got attached (I know I shouldn’t…)

I’m 23 and I don’t know if I’m making the right choices, I fear I’m hurrying myself to get to know another person while I’m lost between uni and trying to form my own views about the world while trying my best to preserve my deen.

In your opinion, what’s the approach I should take? Which things should I keep in mind while getting to know another person?

May Allah grant you all that your heart desires and may He nourish your life. Allahumma amin

Assalamualaikum habibty, First of all, thank you for the sweet words at the beginning of your ask, may Allah swt use us for the benefit of our ummah and the women of our ummah ameen. I also want to express how impressed and proud I am of the way you speak, which can only reflect the growth, sophistication, and politeness you have; I really loved how you speak and voice your thoughts! May Allah swt bless you! If we were to know each other irl we would have absolutely been friends because you sound mature, calm, confident, warm, and especially elegant in the way you speak to others and very respectful, Allahuma berik laki I am totally inn love with your manners! And that is why I will allow myself to speak to you as your older sister if you accept that.

So, I have a couple of points I want to tackle. Firstly, and most importantly I need you to be completely honest with yourself and with Allah swt. How so? Now in your ask you kept mentioning that you want to preserve your deen the best that you can, you struggled a bit and then you found your balance etc etc, and then you said that you don't want to lose a bit of your personality or a part of yourself by giving up these friendships for this guy. Let me tell you sweetie, you shouldn't! You shouldn't give up ANY part of you for any guy, but you HAVE TO give up whatever it takes FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH SWT. What I mean is if you were to stop the free mixing (because playing cards with guys is free mixing, let's call a spade a spade and name things for what they really are) because a guy asked you to, it will not sit well with you if you are not convinced deep down that it is impermissible and plain wrong for Muslims to do so, and you will end up resenting the guy whether it is this potential suitor or the next guy or just your future husband, in general. The thing is, you remind so so so much of my old self, tbh the community I was raised in doesn't differ much from the Italian community and basically my whole life I was friends with guys and it came very naturally to me because that was the norm in my environment so I do know and I do understand very well your position right now; however, it is simply not permissible my dear, now that you have access to this piece of information you can't just overlook it - you can ask any Sheikh or Imam, in Islam we do interact with the opposite gender but with rules and restrictions, Allah swt instilled these conditions or boundaries to protect us, not to ruin our lives or make us less of who we really are. And let me tell you something that I have also experienced firsthand, whenever you give up something or a certain relationship in your life FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH SWT, Allah WILL replace it with another relationship a billion times better; for me for example, when I decided to give up my mixed friendships, Allah swt made me meet the most amazing sisters who completely changed my life and continue to do so and to be there for me, to teach me and inspire me everyday! But I know it is not easy to give up your lifestyle and what you were used to, and basically, that's all you've known since forever, but honey, you have to always remember that Allah swt puts us to test, to check the level of honesty and sincerity when we say that we do believe. This is your test and you have to prove to Allah swt that you are sincere in your faith and obedience to your Creator. I just need to highlight that if you choose to do this and cut off your 'extracurricular' interactions with the opposite gender, you need to have the intention that you are doing so for the sake of Allah swt and not for the sake of this guy; which brings me to my second point:

YOU ARE STILL YOUNG! There is so much you need to learn and discover about your own self, your faith, and work to be the best version of yourself you can be. Personally, I don't approve of getting attached to a guy so soon and biding your life to his choices or decisions, especially that there is nothing serious between you two. You did say he approached you with the intention of marriage, well he might as well approach your family and make it halal, that's one - and two I honestly do not believe that a guy in Italy hasn't approached a girl for a serious talk before but idk, Allah knows best. So to wrap up, as an older sister, I advise you to take a step back and evaluate your life, and ask yourself " is it worth it?" these friendships and this 'fun' is it worth the moment where you're gonna stand up in front of Allah swt on judgment day and be asked about it? talking to this guy right now, is it worth it? Always consider the moment you're going to be asked about whatever you're doing in front of Allah swt and decide if it's worth carrying on.. P.s. About you always dreaming of having a house full of friends and hosting parties and having fun, I just want to say there is fun on the halal side of things, in shaa Allah one day when you have your own home and your own family, you can host your friends still and make a separate gathering, all the girls together all the guys together, you will meet a wonderful community and you will befriend a lot of amazing women and you can all be friends and it will be your social circle and you'll visit each other and your husbands will be friends and your kids will be like cousins and everything will be better than you could have ever imagined, only because it is a situation and a scene that pleases Allah swt so He swt will bless it :')

Work on yourself, on educating yourself religiously, on getting closer to Allah swt, on becoming a better version of yourself and you will see your life transforming to a level you wouldn't have ever dreamt of my dear! May Allah swt bless you immensely and help you see rightfulness and make the right decisions in life!

I hope to hear from you soon!

Fi Aman Allah,

A. Z.

#sisterssafespace

[leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesworld]

Hey everyone, it's Lynnetty here, but you can call me Lee! I'm diving into the world of Tumblr for the first time, and I couldn't be more excited to connect with all of you and share stories.

Let me give you a little peek into who I am. I come all the way from Africa and I'm a few years old (let's keep that a mystery for now, shall we? 😂). I have a deep passion for reading and writing stories. I'm always eager to explore new talents, whether it's art, dance, sports, you name it. Oh, and one more thing, I'm pretty open to questions, but just a gentle reminder to be mindful of sensitive topics. I want to create a safe space here, not just a typical blog but a place where we can uplift each other and make everyone feel welcome.

Now, let's talk about my love for Kpop. I stan multiple groups, but my heart will always belong to BTS. Some may wonder why BTS holds a special place in my heart. Well, there's this misconception that if you're a BTS fan, you're either new to Kpop or just trying to impress others. But for me, BTS has been more than just a music group. Their songs have touched me in ways I can't fully explain right now. Thanks to the seven incredible members, I've learned to love myself more and see the world from a different perspective.

Despite my deep love for BTS, I'm actually quite diverse when it comes to music. I appreciate good music across all genres. As long as the vibe is right, I'm all in!

When it comes to storytelling, that's where my heart truly lies. I love crafting both fiction and fanfiction. If you want to explore my writing, you can find me on Wattpad and Quotev. However, I'd recommend checking out my Wattpad account for the latest stories, as my Quotev account needs a bit of updating and reorganizing.

I'll be sharing my stories on Tumblr soon (once I figure out how this whole app works, haha!). I can't wait for you all to read what I have in store. If you decide to follow and dive into any of my books on Wattpad, I appreciate you stumbling upon my Tumblr account and joining me on this creative journey. Thanks for stopping by! 🌟

RULES:

1. Let's keep it positive and respectful - no room for hate speech, racism, prejudice, or any other form of negativity. We're all here to uplift and support each other, so let's spread kindness and love!

2. Treat others how you want to be treated - let's create a safe and welcoming space for everyone. Encourage each other, share your thoughts and ideas, and let's build each other up!

3. Sharing is caring - if you want to repost or any of my content on your account, just shoot me a message and get my permission first. And when you do share, don't forget to give credit where credit is due!

4. Respect the hustle - I pour my heart and soul into everything I create, so please don't take that away from me by stealing my work. Let's all be original and support each other's creativity!

5. Most importantly, have fun! This space is all about sharing and enjoying each other's company. So kick back, relax, and let's make some beautiful memories together ❤️

Thanks for understanding and following these rules! Let's make this space a place filled with positivity, creativity, and good vibes. Enjoy your time here, beautiful human! 🌺

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[yeonjunsbxtch]

Welcome to the Madhouse

CAUTION: EXPLICIT CONTENT

Welcome to my blog! Please do not go any further if you are a minor. I write smut, extreme angst and occasional fluff.

Important Info

Again, this is an 18+ blog. If you are a minor, please turn back now. Thank you.

Requests are closed until further notice. I am in college so my updates will be slow.

Please do NOT repost, translate or copy any of my work. My writings come from the heart and they have have a special meaning to me. Reblogs are appreciated!

I do write about some pretty triggering topics. Warnings will be put at the top of each story. Proceed with caution anyways.

BE RESPECTFUL. I will not tolerate disrespect towards myself and others. This is a safe space for everyone and hate will not be tolerated.

And most importantly, my writings do not reflect any of the characters mentioned. It is fiction. FICTION.

About me

Hello! You can call me Jade. I do prefer to keep some of myself anonymous. I don’t really care about being known, I just want to create. My pronouns are she/her/they. I am an INFP so I am pretty introverted.

I’ve been a moa since pre debut and have followed txts journey since.

Fun fact, I am a shifter and a master manifester 🙊 check out my side blog shiftingforyeonjun for tips, success stories and more!

Right now, I only write for txt. I do want to write for other groups eventually but I barely have time to write for txt.

Most of my stories will be longer. Most of my smut will have a plot. I will occasionally do drabbles but expect most of my work to be 2k to 6k+.

If you want any hints at my upcoming fics, take a look at my profile theme 👀

Feel free to ask anything!

tomorrow x together - masterlist

tomorrow x together - mood boards

Spotify playlists - playlists that inspired my fics!! You’ll also get a sneak peak of what I am working on!

Writings in progress

Sick of you - Choi Beomgyu x Reader 6k+

Take It out on Me - Choi Yeonjun x Reader 2k+

Run To You - Choi Yeonjun x Reader 3k+

Pull Me Deep - Choi Soobin x Reader 6k+

Burn Me Down - Choi Yeonjun x Reader x Choi Soobin (full length story, word count not yet available)

I will provide updates on my progress with my stories just so that I don’t leave anyone hanging! I only post previews when I am half way done with the fic so that means the higher the word count, the longer the wait. I appreciate everyone’s patience ❤️

I do keep track of those who request to be tagged when I release a story. So don’t be afraid to ask to be tagged!

Optional for extra support 💓

Buy me a ☕️

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[alexandriteobscuraarchive]

I think I might've missed the posts about the situation but why did you split your blog up and (most importantly) are you doing okay? I know that was something that was a big source of stress for you. Also can people follow your new blog?

((First and foremost: thank you for asking if I'm okay or not. I know that's a rather easy thing to just assume one way or another online and I appreciate the care and effort. Also I'm sorry if you missed anything important, I tried to reblog the related posts a handful of times but you can't always reach everyone, you know? It wasn't intentional I assure you. To answer if I'm okay or not I'm....getting there, is the best way to put it I suppose? I'll try to keep this brief.

I'm taking a slight break (not a hiatus and while I do occasionally slap a post on the dash I'm not really speaking or engaging ic) from this blog because; and I'm trying to keep this is a simple as I can, I'm dealing with a lot of feelings of anger and resentment towards this blog (which I know is unfair to the people--which is pretty much everyone here---who haven't done anything wrong but I'll spare detailing you the intricacies of my deeply rooted anxieties and etc) which is harder for me to reconcile/progress with in a positive way compared to feeling stressed and lonely over on the new blog at the moment and so I'm choosing to focus my efforts over there because I feel like I can progress in a positive/healthy way, enjoy what I'm doing in a safe space, and so on. I am incredibly stressed---what I did and am still working on diligently to the best of my ability every day---is stressful to the point of being overwhelming if I think about it too hard, look at everything on the whole, etc, but it's necessary. It's necessary to enforce boundaries and not neglect myself a space where I can write what I want and what I love so dearly and that makes it worth it.

I split my blog up due to a lot of unwarranted harassment (anonymous for the most part but some people weren't, all of them have been blocked) that has been going on for months a thing that only increased in severity in spite of my earnest attempts to understand or work through what was going on, reconcile any expressed 'issues', repeat and thorough attempts to explain my side of things including offering to help people around the content that they professed to hate so strongly (said hate which bled over to me as a person and writer/roleplayer in general) and so on. It became untenable incredibly quickly---and if you followed me to alexandrite (which had a different name/center muse originally but I digress) from my former rp blog you'd know how severe the harassment there was and how I promised myself I'd handle such things in the future--- and this is me doing that. This experience on the whole was incredibly similar to the one that happened on my og blog and I promised myself that I wouldn't go through that again if i could help it.

I deserve to be treated better; both by myself and by everyone else, and this is me doing that (meaning treating myself better at the very least rather than staying in a hateful/hurtful environment) even if most days it makes me want to scream. Did I want to split everything up? To be completely honest no I did not. But I think in the end this is the best solution for everyone involved---but most of all this is the best solution for me---and once the stress ebbs a bit (and by a bit I mean a lot, a fucking lot, because I'm kinda drowning rn lol) I'm hoping to feel more secure. I'm....getting there, like I said. One thing at a time, always one thing at a time. I'm already doing good things over there and soon I'll be doing good things over here again too. Both blogs can (and will) coexist and we can all have fun together no matter where you follow me or who you want to interact with....eventually. I wish that people would realize how they treat others---that driving someone out of their own space when they've done nothing wrong, when the only thing they've done (or tried to do) is share something that they love with their friends/writing partners---isn't okay. I wish people would realize that how I was treated was not fucking okay (and most won't unfortunately) but I realized it and that, at least, is important. I said 'this isn't okay' and did what I needed to do not only to better myself (which is something that is incredibly hard for me to do; honestly it would've been impossible for me to do even a year ago) but to keep doing what I love. I'm trying to focus on that. I'm trying to let that drive me forward over everything else.

And to end on a further positive note: Yes, you can follow my new blog if you want to, all that I ask is that you make sure that your interest in the blog and the muses featured there is genuine and that you actually want to interact with them before following. If you liked them (any of them) and wanted to interact but never had the chance for whatever reason, or if we started something but never finalized anything yet, so and so forth, you're welcome to come on over because I'd love to have you. And if you don't (because as I've said a hundred times to idk how many deaf/closed ears) have any interest that's okay too. They're not for everyone and it's a lot to learn/take in even with my offering to help people in a variety of ways (an offer that is always open!), I get that and hold no resentment in that regard whatsoever, all that I ask is that you understand that I'm taking care of myself by doing this...all of this...and that I appreciate you too. The people who remain here waiting for me to come back and post for the muses here are just as appreciated as the people who follow me on my new blog. I love all of you very much no matter what and I look forward to writing with you all again, it's just that some of you will see more of me than the others will, at least for a little while.

If you want to follow my tcol blog you can go here @constellationcrowned (you'll see my self promo for the blog over here periodically as well, it's obvious af lol) or if you have any questions please feel free to contact me privately either over there or on discord. And thank you again for your kind words anon, truly, I hope you have a nice day/night and I look forward to potentially writing with you soon no matter where that might be.))

#harassment mention tw #anonymous harassment mention tw #anxiety mention tw #;;ask response: ooc #anonymous #seriously; thank you for asking after me; I really do appreciate it and I will be back here soon #long post #obviously I'm not going to detail the harassment I received; no one needs to hear that and I don't need nor want to think about it anymore #this is a chunky post that probably needs a proof but I don't care; hopefully everyone will understand me #to be entirely frank it was I do this or delete entirely; that's how severe things were and how badly they were affecting me #now if you'll excuse me I've got stars to read and a bird (and friends) to screech about

[kirimoochi]

learn about me.

based on my previous mutual tag game (i originally reblogged it but my answer is sort of long hahahhh)

✦ what is your blog's goal/intent? (what made you start one?)

from the beginning, my blog has always been a safe space for me to vent or express my feelings. despite being a writer since i was twelve, i’m not very good at communicating or talking about my emotions. it’s sort of ironic that someone like me, who’s a big chatterbox, can’t say the truth or be honest. 

when i first started writing it was for selfish reasons. i didn’t have anyone writing for my favorite characters so i decided to do it for myself. it would eventually develop into writing for others because of the massive support i got on tumblr and quotev. but now, after a few years, what i want to do with my writing is to express how i feel, and let others hear my voice, in the hopes that they could connect with me.

✦ what is your story? (what made you get to this point? any memorable experiences you want to share?)

as for my story. i’ve had a lot of friends in the past that have abandoned or used me, so it’s in my nature to put distance between anyone. i became a very self-conscious person, and that would affect my relationship with others greatly. when my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, history started to repeat itself once more. friends i went to for comfort and help had abandoned me. and i would eventually come to learn that one of them had been using me to get closer to my ex, and he would confess to her when we broke up. i couldn’t express to her how i truly felt at the moment when we talked again, but if i were to tell her now, it’d be that i was heartbroken and betrayed.

however, i’ve met many amazing people on this site. and i have many supportive friends outside of it. i understand that while i may not have had the best experiences, and it caused me to form thorns around my heart, it shouldn’t hold me back from the people who do care about me. 

i’m still learning to put down my walls, so i’m not entirely perfect. i’m still struggling to talk to my friends about how i feel. i’m still struggling with being mindful and listening to others. i’m still struggling at managing my emotions. i’m still struggling to lower my pride. but most importantly: i’m trying not to hurt others just because i was hurt. 

 i’m just hoping that you could have patience and wait for me on the other side.

✦ what is your biggest dream?

my biggest dream is being happy. i know that sounds extremely vague because happiness is not sustainable, and its not something you can actively keep in your life forever. you're bound to feel other emotions. however, what it entails is doing things that will make me happy, or at the very least, as happy as i could be.

i'd like to write for video games or tv shows. i'd like a nice, comfortable home. i'd like a nice car to drive around in. i'd like to see my friends more often. i'd like to take my family out to eat.

though besides all of that, i would like to get married to someone i really love. i am a hopeless romantic and i still have eyes for a special someone.

✦ if you had to use one song to describe yourself, what would it be?

try again by JAEHYUN.

✦ what mythical creature would you be and why?

hmm...although i made this question myself i think my answer is going to have to be really abstract and not mythical at all.

i'd like to be a star. i've always envisioned myself as one, and its very clear in all my writings that i have a strong fascination with the concept. it was something i had brought up to my ex-girlfriend and i've kept it in my heart to this day. starlight was what she called me, and i still find it to be one of the prettiest nicknames i've been given (her calling me dumpling was a pretty close second).

the origins of why i feel a close relationship with a star is sort of tragic. i always felt a hard time connecting with anyone because of my niches and hobbies. and even though i would be praised for my work, it all seemed meaningless when i had no one by my side. a distant star remains alone, even if they are the brightest to shine.

it has changed overtime though. and i've come to appreciate the beauty of them, and i don't see myself as the same person i was a year ago. i have wonderful friends who are also stars. and stars don't have to be lonely when they're surrounded by equally beautiful people.

✦ share with me your favorite fic on tumblr!

my favorite one is going to be afraid to lose you by awlumii (truthfully i like all of their works, however this one is still stuck in my head). the ending is slightly suggestive but nothing nsfw.

#₊˚ ᗢ kirimoochi #thanks to june for asking me to answer it jasdjsadjkad #i just woke up from a huge nap and i have a migraine #but i wanted to express to everyone more about me #and who i am as a person #im more than just a kazuha simp!!! im a girl simper too!!

[aceofwhump]

Well it's officially the end of another year and I felt like I simply couldn't let it end without taking a moment to thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you, my dear beautiful Ace. We may not know each other personally, you may just be a random nerdy stranger off the internet but I cannot begin to tell you how much I freaking adore you and how much have done for me this past year. How much joy and comfort you have provided me with. Sometimes life can be hard and whump is one of the things that brings me happiness and I know this blog is always here should I need to escape from it for a little while.

You are a shining light in this community, a ray of sunshine but most importantly you're a wonderful person, a kind, generous, compassionate, caring soul, who has provided such a safe space for many people, not only gracing us with your awe inspiring talent and providing us with such marvellous content but your beautiful, beautiful heart.

No matter what, you're always there ready to lend a listening ear, to offer advice or reassurance, to fulfil our gif requests or answer any whump related questions we may have. No matter what, we can always rely on you to be there for whatever we may need or require. We are all so blessed to have you. You're like a big sister to us all and we'd be so lost without you, my angel. Not only are you a gift to this community but a gift to this world. It needs more people like you.

And finally and perhaps most importantly, I wanted to say that thanks to you I have accepted who I am, both in terms of my enjoyment of whump and my asexuality. I come out of this year feeling less alone. I come out of this year understanding myself a lot better and no longer feeling like a sadistic, cold, emotionless freak and that is the greatest gift anyone could have given me. I hope this year is kind to you and gives you everything you've ever dreamed of. You're one in a million and I love you 3000 ❤

I am legitimately crying right now, nonny. A lot of happy tears happening right now. Lots and lots of happy tears. I did see this last night and I've read this so many times now and I've cried every single time. This is the absolute nicest thing in the world. I cannot even begin to properly explain how touched I am by this message. Thank you thank you thank you!!! I...I literally have no words. There are no words to tell you how much this message means to me. I'm going to save it in my phone and any time I feel down I'm going to pull it out and read it because it fills my heart with such joy I could burst.

I'm so happy that I can provide a place for people to feel happy, safe, and accepted. I love what I do here. I love talking with you all about whatever you want to talk about. I love being a place you all feel safe to come to when you want to talk or need help or have whumpy needs or questions about anything. I love that so much. I love you all so freaking much. So so much.

God bless you my dear. I'm blown away. I wish you the very best that life has to offer this year. May it be full of love and happiness and may things go easy for you.

#sweet messages #i'm crying again #i feel very loved right now #thank you nonny #thank you #mod replies #ask #anon #for later

[butch-reidentified]

Detrans female lurker here. I wanted to chime in with some thoughts on voice training. I think you’re correct that most ftms don’t really end up with a fully male-passing voice, but I unfortunately did and it used to be a huge insecurity and source of anxiety for me. The idea of training my voice sounded really intimidating at first, but I decided it was worth a try and I’m really glad I did. It took me a few months to get decent results, but now my trained voice sounds almost exactly like my pre-T voice, just a bit raspier. I see a lot of detrans women who feel they’re stuck with a voice they hate and I want to offer some reassurance that this isn’t the case—they can change it if they want to. Voice training can be a pain but it really does work, and it becomes automatic once you’ve been at it long enough.

Unrelated: thank you for being a voice of reason and nuance. Like you, I don’t regret my mastectomy, and when I first started orbiting radfem spaces I was very put off by all the “mutilated and ruined” talk. I find it deeply hypocritical, and I’m glad there are people speaking out against it.

Hi! So happy to meet you! I always felt pressured to hide that my surgery helped me, since it doesn't serve the common agenda of many radfems/gc folks, but one of my most core rules for myself is total honesty. I genuinely take great pride in approaching all things with nuance and caution (my nickname in a certain section of facebook back in the day was Queen of Nuance lmaoo). It makes me really happy to hear that it's noticed and makes a difference for others.

I think being vocal and honest about our positive experiences with surgery could also be a key step in helping to repair relations between radfems and trans folks, since there are many people in both groups (and some people who belong to both!) who aren't on the extreme end and see the potential benefit in building a bridge.

It also helps show genderists that I'm coming from a place of understanding, empathy, honesty, and genuineness, not hatred of trans/dysphoric/gnc people (I am dysphoric and gnc, and it could be argued I am trans in a medical but not ideological sense).

I also, VERY importantly, want this blog to be somewhere other radfems and others questioning gender ideology feel 100% safe to talk to me, ask questions, or express opinions that parts of radblr might react more harshly to. I don't think there's anything wrong with that - women are not required to be patient, educators, etc., and I certainly feel the need to scream and rant and lash out my fair share - but if we want to put the good of all women and girls first, and reach other women/girls and show them there is safety in sisterhood, some of us need to take that patient, nuanced role on sometimes. I find that people go from hateful to open pretty quick once they realize in one-on-one interaction that I'm not some trans-hating bogeyman, just a regular woman who understands dysphoria and wants everyone to be as healthy, happy, and free as possible.

Thanks for the voice training info btw! I definitely believe in the power of voice training. Despite some radfems claiming otherwise, when done right for a prolonged period of time, you can do most anything with vocal training, and it does become your "real voice." I think a lot of radfems who haven't known many MTFs irl think their voices are all fake and that if, say, they talk in their sleep, it would be in a regular deep man's voice. That's not true. Now, my experience is pretty limited to gender critical transsexuals rather than gendies, but I often discuss my mtf best friend on here, who's stayed over at me n my wife's house many times and is a hell of a sleep talker 🤣 At least in her case (and again, I use "she" bc my brain has only ever perceived her as female so it feels dishonest not to, not because she has asked me to or cares in the slightest), I can 100% confirm that the trained voice is permanent and never disappears - I mean it is like working out one muscle group a ton and letting another atrophy, so it makes sense. So it's not like voice training means talking in a fake voice for the rest of your life, which is what a lot of people seem to think.

I'm glad to hear you have no regrets about surgery and are happy as you are :) I'd love to chat more with you and hear your perspectives and opinions!

#mine #ask #radblr #non anon #non anon ask #detrans support #detrans woman #detrans #gender nonconformity #gender nonconforming #voice training #detrans voice #not trans or cis

[jolvika]

5 Ways to Create a Safe Space

I want readers to enjoy everything they view here, want them compelled to engage in the comments or even use some of the tips I share.

I hope they see a bit of themselves in my writing, knowing that they are not alone in the way they think or life.

Most importantly I want readers to see this as a safe space to learn about themselves whether by exploring new topics or ideas, finding inspiration or just doing some late night reading.

“Writing is my safe space. It’s where I can be vulnerable, wild and free. I can express myself in ways I never could face to face”

What is a Safe Space?

Safe space can mean something different for all of us. It can be a place, a forum or even a person, it could be a feeling of inclusion and acceptance amongst our peers, friends and family.

My definition of safe space is a place (physical or online) in which a person feels free to be themselves without bias or hate.

No matter how you define it, we all want to experience a safe space where ever we find ourselves going. It can lead to better discussions, deeper connections and overall a better time for everyone.

If you want your readers to feel comfortable whenever they visit your page, than look no further. Here are some tips on how to create a safe space for everyone…

1) Encourage and Welcome feedback

I don’t know about you, but whenever I read a well written piece I comment and clap. Most times these exact articles that I enjoy, encourages feedback from the reader.

That in itself gives the reader more motivation to really examine what they read as they would be giving their take on it in the end.

If you would love feedback on what you have published, do what I do and simply encourage readers to give their feedback and respond back as well.

Maybe try writing “Please feel free to comment, like and Share” or even asking the reader open ended questions that can lead to opening up the gates on comments, connection and engagement.

These simple acts make the reader feel more included and valued, so why not give it a try!

2) A Pep-talk never hurt nobody

Part of the reason I love writing is because it gives me the opportunity to encourage others, foster curiosity and build a community by the words I put out there into the universe.

By offering some positive encouragement I believe anyone can achieve that and more.

The fact of the matter is there is so much hate and hardness already in the world, so I want this blog to be a place of positivity and motivation for others. Whether you’re feeling down, wanting to change your lifestyle or just read for the heck of it, I hope readers enjoy it here.

When a person is respected and motivated, they feel safe. Just remember kindness goes along way.

3) Be mindful

As readers, it’s also up to us to always be aware when leaving comments or feedback.

Even when offering constructive criticism we can do it with kindness, because at the end of the day we surely would never want to break someone’s spirit. That’s some serious bad karma in my book.

There is a fine line between disagreement and disrespect, staying on the side of disagreeing but being still respectful is always the best step to take. This can be applied to any form of communication really.

Again just be mindful when communicating, be aware of your tone when writing and all shall be fine (at least from my experience).

4) Think it through

We all have those days were an event may not be going how you wanted, or maybe you’re in the middle of an all-out debate online over differing views regarding politics.

Whatever it maybe, these things can effect a person’s mood and in turn that can affect how a person communicates in that given moment.

Take the time and think about what you want your article to be about.

Do you want to inform your readers, give tips on a certain matter or do you want it to be a vent on all what’s wrong with having pineapple on pizza (personally I don’t mind it).

5) Be yourself

Whether you’re running a blog in relation to the tech industry or just a daily diary, be yourself and you would attract the right audience.

By attracting the right audience, you’re able to connect with likeminded individuals and foster a relationship.

When a person finds a community with similar interests or viewpoints, they tend to be more open to subscribing and you as the writer feel more in tune with your readers. That connection is the building block for creating a safe space.

It can be as simple as sharing your view points on a matter close to the heart, linking a favorite book that you think your readers will love or even being more vulnerable with your writing and putting it all out there, as vulnerability fosters closeness

Don’t be afraid to be yourself!

“Having a safe space to imagine and dream and (re)invent yourself is the first step to being happy and successful, whatever road you choose to pursue.”

- Ashley Bryan

Conclusion

At the end of the day we want all social platform to be a safe space.

A space were you feel free to say what’s on our mind and not be afraid of judgment. A space that has warmth and encouragement. A space that keeps both the reader and writer engaged, connected.

I hope the tips seen above is able to help anyone create a safe space. Feel free to share your favorite way of fostering a safe space!

Happy Reading!

#safe space #writing #writers on tumblr #writersociety #words #writerslife #writer aesthetic #communication

[cabinofimagines]

Because of your rough and poorly made responses, this blog is stopped. Improve your attitudes or else stop answering your followers aggressively, it doesn't make you better 🤮

I wanna be very clear about this and I hope you read carefully cause i'm not gonna repeat myself

I'm assuming you're talking about the last ask where the anon talked about their cousin bc on the first one I made sure to explain my intention was to not sound rude but to explain why I think is bad to have such mentality and demean yourself over that kind of stuff

This blog is run by adults, and we're extremely careful now about what kind of things we allow in here, bc we're aware most of our active followers are minors. That ask was well-intentioned but it was talking about some contents we are not comfortable sharing in the blog anymore. That's why I said in the tags not to send more about it.

Maybe I shouldn't have posted it at all, but we thought it was a little funny how they wrote the whole thing so nonchalantly and if you really have been following us, or used to anyway, you would know this is how we've always responded. We've gotten weirder asks, we've deleted those, this one was only a little TMI, so we thought it was ok to post as long as we made it clear we weren't encouraging them to send more stuff like that.

We're not trying to be better than anyone else, if we don't want to be reading asks like that one we're gonna say it and that's it, we've established many times this is our blog and we're going to prioritize our preferences over the followers' every time, cause we're the ones handling it.

We've turned this blog into something that actually gives us joy and that inspire us to keep creating content that many people appreciate, more importantly, it's turned us (the admins) into really good friends, and if you think i'm going to let one of them be uncomfortable having to read those kind of asks they don't like to read, you are sorely mistaken.

I said what I had to say about the whole subject the first anon brought up, I posted the other cause, even though it derailed in the middle, still had a nice message in the end, so I let it pass. And i'm answering this one to remind you we are not working for you and we don't really have to explain ourselves or appeal to you, but we still try to keep our blog as a safe space for all of the visitors. If you think that setting boundaries makes us rude, then you did the right thing by unfollowing us.

Have a good day/night.

-Danny

#i'm not answering anything like this ever again so i hope i made myself clear #asks and replies

[borderlinescorpio]

First Post - Main Goals 🤎

A couple of things about me; I’m 25, from Scotland and obviously have BPD. To say that I was shocked would’ve been an understatement, but the lack of self awareness I had at that time in my life, only 2.5 years ago.. wow a lot has changed since then. I understand myself a lot better now, the tricky part is trying to overcome it in times of weakness.. which seems to happen often.

I have a lotttt of stories under my belt that I feel I 1. Need to get off my chest before I explode and 2. Other people could seriously learn from, I’m also willing to give any advice I trust my knowledge in, on the basis that I am a psychology student. 🤎

This blog is mainly for the venting and education of myself due to the fact I have only just been diagnosed since Oct 2020. I'm still navigating my way through and don't know anyone else who has BPD.. I thought who better to share a community with, than those who understand? I will always trigger warn before posts as I can be an extreme over-sharer when venting. It would be lovely to meet friends along the way and most importantly, I'd like to help anyone I can who's struggling to come to terms or cope with their own diagnoses. I am currently studying psychology and have a lot of personal experience in mental illness due to having undiagnosed BPD & cPTSD that began presenting itself at around 12 years of age.. So any support I am able to provide, I absolutely will. I also have an uncle who suffers with schizophrenia, meaning I’m very understanding about ALL mental illnesses, this is a safe space for everyone 🤎 Throughout the last 12 or so years of navigating mostly undiagnosed (until 2020) severe mental illnesses, I have also acquired a lot of problems with addiction along the way and would love to share that too.. there will also be appropriate trigger warnings and there will be absolutely 0 glorification of substances of any kind🤎

🤎 Venting - I will most definitely be ranting and venting on here, as I’m going to try and use it as an outlet, so feel free to vent with me in the comments section if you can ever relate! I don’t get offended by any of that ‘trauma dumping’ stuff, if you have something on your mind let it out.

🤎 Advice/discussion posts - I may post asking for fellow pwBPD’s opinions and advice, ofc you don’t have to engage but the more the merrier🥰

🤎 Some posts will have mature /triggering content, I will ALWAYS give trigger warnings so that people know what they’re about to indulge in. Due to the natures of the events in my life that have led me to this point, some controversial subjects unfortunately cannot be ignored

I just want this to be a little safe haven, where I can come to blow off some steam in a healthy way, and positively make some impactful friendships 🤗

#trauma #ptsd #eupd #living with borderline #living with ptsd #mental health #mental illness #mentally fucked #actually bpd #actually borderline #actually ptsd #addiction

[rara-glowup-journey13]

2024년 3월 30일 | Thoughts

This isn't easy for me to do. But being overweight and feeling insecure all the time is harder. I have to do this for myself. For all the pretty clothes I want to wear. For all the pictures I want to take. And for the little me that's been always bullied for being chubby. I'm academically successful and go to one of the top universities in Korea, and it wasn't easy for me to get here. For my studies, determination and consistency were the key. I had difficult days where I lost hope and wanted to give up, but I didn't because of how much I wanted to have what I have now. Now, it's time for me to apply the same principal and strategy to losing weight. I have lost weight before but I always keep gaining it back, because I'm sadly never consistent when it comes to dieting and working out. But I know that a lot of other people were just like me and they somehow found the strength to fight all the negative feelings and thoughts that were stopping them from becoming a healthier version of themselves. Now it's my turn. April is about to start soon, and I want to make it one of the best months for me this year. I will make it happen. I will eat healthy everyday, I will study everyday and get closer to my academic goals, I will workout at least 3x a week (for a starter), I will journal at least once everyday, I will invest time on weekends to read. I will make this happen, because it's all up to me. To motivate myself, I will stick notes next to my desk to remind myself of why I wanted to start. I will re-position my desk and try to make small changes in my environment to feel like it's actually a fresh start. I will organize everything and make sure I plan all the meals of the week on Notion and check the groceries I'd need for them. I will focus more on positive affirmations and try to fall in love with myself the way I am right now. I believe that loving life while you're trying to become healthier is such an exciting thing. You wake up in the morning and you feel happy because it's a new day and a closer step to your weight loss goal. I used to have those thoughts before, but I can't seem to find them again this time and I don't know why. I will try to find a way to feel that way again, and I will dress well, do my makeup, take pictures and go out with my friends to feel better. Even though it's honestly not easy at all for me to socialize a lot because of the hatred that I have for myself. It's difficult and I feel so overwhelmed when I think about it. Because honestly whenever I go out I feel like people are staring at my body and judging how fat I am. And fyi, I live in South Korea and the beauty standards here are insane but I honestly never fit in my country's beauty standards either; only body wise. I know I have a pretty face. Anyways, most importantly, I will keep updating this blog whether what I'm feeling is good or bad, I will share my wins and failures here. Nobody is even reading this and that makes it such a safe space for me.

Now I'm gonna enjoy the rest of my day, resting, plotting and scheming.

Tomorrow will be Season 1 Ep 1 of my glow up journey. A skinny healthy me, here I come. 💪

#its my time #this is my year #april is the month that will make a difference

[kithtaehyung]

hi, ryen! i just saw it was 3tan anniversary and tho i’m late i wanted to leave a little message too!

i’ve said it about a hundred times already, but three tangerines is so special to me. this world you’ve created and to which you dedicate so much of your time and heart has become nothing short of comfort to me. reading your words, regardless of how angsty they often can be, feels like a hug. from yoongi slowly coming down to vulnerability, to reader slowly opening up to change and affection – these are the characters whose struggles i’ve followed hand in hand, by your side!

i know i’ve been absent and i’ve missed this community a lot (saw there’s a discord happening too, and imma apply to it asap!!), but i’ve never left, cus three tan is always with me. it’s with me when i take some time to breath and remember that i deserve to be loved, when i speak myself despite being afraid of how i’ll be perceived, when i watch fireworks or simply when i remember a dialogue, a scene, and i smile. you’ve achieved something so beautiful and so especial and i hope you know that.

i’ve written reviews that aren’t nearly enough to express my love to your and your work. i’ve cried, i’ve laughed and i’ve kicked my feet. 3tan yoongi, very much like real life yoongi, is a safe space for me and many others, and he was written by your hand. by your care with your characters, by your preoccupation with always giving us the best, by your moments of pause and ponder and by your incredible talent. every lil hiatus, every interaction, every thirst days in the side blog, every ask game, every teaser you’ve posted, are all pieces of the beautiful now two-year-old mosaic of three tangerines, and it’s been an honor to be part of this journey, even if i’m a lil away.

you KNOW how much this series means to me, how much it has changed me. your talent, your skill, your creativity and your vision has lead us all to breath together with these characters, to feel their pain but also, and most importantly, to grow with them, and i lowkey hope this journey never ends – and i know that, even when the last chapter comes (LONG IN THE FUTURE!!), this will stay forever. three tan will have as many birthdays as its readers.

i also saw that you’ve been through some stuff lately, and i hope you’re feeling better. i hope this community can inspire some well deserved peace in you and you can have a tranquil day! 

oh and i know im slacking but i’ve read busted!! i’ve been very busy with a research project so writing a review became kinda impossible, but i’ve loved it (i wont comment much here cus this message already long af and i prefer to write decent reviews lol).

anyway, thank you. really. thank you so much for this.

LUAAAA it's been ages since you sent this but i told myself i would sit down and reply to you today bc it's been way too long sitting in the drafts. gonna put this under a cut bc there's a lot i wanna say and cry about :')))

i’ve said it about a hundred times already, but three tangerines is so special to me. this world you’ve created and to which you dedicate so much of your time and heart has become nothing short of comfort to me. reading your words, regardless of how angsty they often can be, feels like a hug. from yoongi slowly coming down to vulnerability, to reader slowly opening up to change and affection – these are the characters whose struggles i’ve followed hand in hand, by your side!

thank you. like. first of all, thank you for everything. you've been such a wonderful part of this journey, and i honestly still don't know what i did to deserve this level of love. i legitimately cried when i got this message all those days ago, because ngl it was sent during a rough time. you have no idea how much i needed this, and i truly cannot thank you enough for basically saving my writing motivation bc it felt like i was one foot out the door with everything that was going on at the time. this was something i didn't tell y'all, but it's true.

i know i’ve been absent and i’ve missed this community a lot (saw there’s a discord happening too, and imma apply to it asap!!), but i’ve never left, cus three tan is always with me. it’s with me when i take some time to breath and remember that i deserve to be loved, when i speak myself despite being afraid of how i’ll be perceived, when i watch fireworks or simply when i remember a dialogue, a scene, and i smile. you’ve achieved something so beautiful and so especial and i hope you know that.

this world is special to me, as well, and all of you are part of that. thinking of you all every single day alongside these characters has just become part of my life. and it's gonna continue to be this way for a very, very long time. we've been living lives with them - growing, changing, improving - and that is wonderful to witness.

everything you've mentioned about when you think of them? same. i just saw fireworks yesterday, and i thought of that balcony. and everything that has happened since that night fireworks was posted. as we approach the new year, you best believe i will be thinking about all of you once again.

i’ve written reviews that aren’t nearly enough to express my love to your and your work. i’ve cried, i’ve laughed and i’ve kicked my feet. 3tan yoongi, very much like real life yoongi, is a safe space for me and many others, and he was written by your hand. by your care with your characters, by your preoccupation with always giving us the best, by your moments of pause and ponder and by your incredible talent. every lil hiatus, every interaction, every thirst days in the side blog, every ask game, every teaser you’ve posted, are all pieces of the beautiful now two-year-old mosaic of three tangerines, and it’s been an honor to be part of this journey, even if i’m a lil away. you KNOW how much this series means to me, how much it has changed me. your talent, your skill, your creativity and your vision has lead us all to breath together with these characters, to feel their pain but also, and most importantly, to grow with them, and i lowkey hope this journey never ends – and i know that, even when the last chapter comes (LONG IN THE FUTURE!!), this will stay forever. three tan will have as many birthdays as its readers.

3tan yoongi means just as much to me as y'all, and reader, and everyone that's involved in this series. to know that he's like that in your life like irl yoongi? i want to cry. for real, it means so incredibly much to me that you've found comfort in both of them. i don't know what else to say other than it's the biggest damn honor i could ever think of.

even if i'm a little far away sometimes, just know that i am always coming back to 3tan. i work on it the most out of everything i've got going on, to the point where it's become part of me and my daily routine. the goal is to finish it out just as strong as it's been going thus far! and that includes all the fun times we have on this blog and discord and elsewhere!

i also saw that you’ve been through some stuff lately, and i hope you’re feeling better. i hope this community can inspire some well deserved peace in you and you can have a tranquil day! 

it's okay, love. there's been some tough times recently but we push on. my only ask of y'all is to be happy, healthy, and come say hi once in awhile<3 i do wanna keep talking to you all!

oh and i know im slacking but i’ve read busted!! i’ve been very busy with a research project so writing a review became kinda impossible, but i’ve loved it (i wont comment much here cus this message already long af and i prefer to write decent reviews lol).

you're totally ok! whenever you get the chance, you write to your heart's content and i will eat it up multiple times over just like your other wonderful fantastic amazing commentary pieces. i definitely wanna keep those forever.

anyway, thank you. really. thank you so much for this.

thank you, as well. it's been quite the journey, these two years. looking back on everything, it's unbelievable how much we've been through! but we will keep making fun memories and keep being there for each other, and everyone in the 3tan crew. thank you again, lua, and i hope you have a wonderful rest of the year and a prosperous 2024!

#thank you.. just. thank you #lua! #asks:3tan #3tanniversary #3tan2yrs #lovely people #*ryenfictalk #3tan #calm tag #long post #mailbox💌