#who is trans and gay

[madohomurat]

trans women are everywhere and are so eager to be seen and heard but only if they feel safe around you. if you hardly ever have trans women interacting with you, especially online, then consider there might be a reason for that and you should address it

#the same thing happens with black people #black people are everywhere! especially online! black gay and black trans people! #but when your community is suspiciously devoid of them then theres something wrong and you need to acknowledge it #even if its not intentional you need to think about how theres minority groups who do not feel safe around you at face value #this is why loud and outright support and solidarity is so important #black people and trans people and etc minority groups will assume you are unsafe unless you explicitly state otherwise #you can't just sit there and say 'well they didnt approach us so its not our fault for not including them!' #like did you TRY to get them to approach you?? #cy texts

[deep-space-lines]

happy trans day of visibility it was nice seeing u all. see u again next year 🫡

bonus rainbow flag version. im probably gonna make a few more For Me when i am not sleepy bc i can Edit That Thing, if u wanna request a specific flag version or smth leave a comment and i’ll see if i can get to it <3

#my art #gabriel ultrakill #ultrakill #gabriel ultrakill supports trans wrongs! #there should be a pride flag specifically for people who are pathetic gay catholic heretics #not to get personal in the tags but today has been A Day. #this family is falling apart around me but we stay silly #so i’m glad i was able to get this done even if it was late #gabriel ultrakill save me. save me gabriel ultrakill

[oldbookshop]

thinking abt how david tenant's nonbinary kid will grow up with a doctor who that is unashamedly inclusive of trans people. they'll see their dad on TV with a trans girl who saves the world.

#doctor who #fourteenth doctor #david tennant #the star beast #doctor who 60th anniversary #14th doctor #aiden text #I didn't know what being nonbinary was until I was probably 13 #and i was scraping youtube for coming out videos and shitty short films about trans ppl #I loved doctor who and jack harkness but gay rep wasn't the same

[softd0m-charlie]

normalize doms (NOT SWITCHES) who say things like "okayy :3" and "YAYYY YIPPEEE" and kick their feet and jump up and down and make little noises outside of sex

#“this but I'm a switch” no. shut up. this isn't about you #i am talking about doms who are also silly and autistic (me) #you don't get it #ftm dog #ftm dom #ftm top #ftm nsft #nsft ftm #ftm puppy #nsft t4t #ftm t4t #t4t mlm #trans nsft #t4t nsft #mlm t4t #t4t puppy #t4t ns/fw #t4t top #topposting #nsft trans #queer nsft #gay nsft #sexualizing autism #autistic things #ftm ns/fw #transmasc mlm #ftm mlm #mlm ftm #trans mlm #mlm nsft

[satelliteduster]

oh my god i forgot to post my absolute favorite strip from gay comix (issue #2, 1981)

#this collection is full of so many hilarious vignettes #between the fictional and biographical they range from hilarious to saddening but theyre all candid looks at #lgbt life in the 60s 70s and 80s #id recommend it if you're interested in older underground work #edit: for ppl who notice the opening blurb i will say this: #1. Many artists in the underground comix scene (yes the lgbt ones too) delighted in being overly provocative for the sake of it #hence the cringeworthy 'political unity is not the goal' line #2. i worried abt this too when i started going thru the issues but there are quite a few strips and comics focusing on the trans experience #that said. there are unfortunately not a lot of transgender artists involved in this collection #3. given the preceding two points i think its fair to say that a good chunk of the strips in gay comix just. Suck #but like they actually said it's important that we're capable of recognizing that a full 40 years down the line #so we can actually learn something from the life experiences the mistakes and even the lack of perspective tht sm of these artists displayed #nocturnal writings

[anonymousmothman]

I'm so tired of queer infighting... "What about he/him lesbians" "What about the creator of this flag" "What about aroaces in relationships" "What about them saying a slur" "What about-" YEAH WHAT ABOUT IT??? A homophobe isn't gonna give a fuck about all the minute little details theyre just gonna hate us all the same. "You're one of the normal ones" they're fucking using that shit to make sure YOU kill your other queers, and by the time you're the only one remaining, they're gonna kill you too. Get over it stop fighting. I fucking hate this community.

EDIT: I'm not sure how Tumblr editing works so no matter if you've already seen this or haven't seen it before, please check out this addition (on mobile rn idk how to link stuff to words). It's very important and I'm not going to take out the sentence it's referring to as it is a mistake I made and I will not pretend like it did not happen. Do not hate your community. I love this community.

#queer #lgbtq #gay #trans #lesbian #aromantic #asexual #aroace #bisexual #twitter ppl gonna have my head on a fucking pike for this one #im tired of explaining shit to people who dont wanna learn

[transmascissues]

gay trans men: isn’t it fucked up that so many cis gay men proudly talk about how disgusting they think our bodies are, get violent when they realize they were attracted to one of us, push us out of community spaces because they don’t think we belong there, invalidate the orientation of the cis gay men who enter into relationships with us, accuse us of raping the cis gay men we’ve had sex with, aggressively misgender us and make assumptions about our bodies, act like their personal lack of desire to be with us means we must be fundamentally unattractive and morally reprehensible, and generally treat our existence like a personal attack worthy of a violent response when all we’re trying to do is exist?

those cis gay men & their friends: oh my god, you’re literally trying to force your disgusting female pussy onto gay men! this is conversion therapy! you’re a predator and a rapist and you deserve to die!

gay trans men: …we literally do not care if you have sex with us. nobody said anything about that. a lot of us are t4t, asexual, and/or already in a relationship, and the rest of also don’t want to have sex with you that badly because we would much rather be fucking someone who actually likes us; this has never been about who we personally want to sleep with. we’d just really appreciate it if you could treat us like human beings and not actively try to make the gay community hostile toward our existence. you don’t have to be attracted to us, just don’t be awful to us? and maybe, once you have that part down, ask yourself why you were so quick to assume a subset of queer people are all violent predators?

those people: HOMOPHOBES! EVIL GROSS FETISHIZING RAPIST HOMOPHOBES!

#it really is like talking to a brick wall. an aggressively bigoted brick wall #i promise none of you are such spectacular lovers that we’re going to those lengths to fuck you #the more mad we make you the more likely it is that none of us would touch you with a ten foot pole #like. ​me and my five year committed gay relationship do not want to fuck you #and even if it ended tomorrow. i still would not want to fuck you personally #bc i 1) am primarily t4t. 2) have fucking standards. and 3) have no interest in fucking people who don’t want to fuck me #this was never about wanting to get in bed with you #we just want to exist in peace #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

[pharoahkingkiller]

Time for inspection baby. Bend over and open your mouth. Let me fuck my fingers against your tongue. Get them nice and wet for me. When I put them in your hole it's already so warm and wet for me. Shhhhh. Enough sweet, hold your hips still while I inspect whats mine. I don't care how your legs shake. Take what I give you. What do you say pet?

#spiritual domme #t4t nsft #trans nsft #ftm nsft #queer nsft #autistic nsft #gay nsft #nonbinary nsft #t4t mlnb #you know who you are

[mothras-in-my-belly]

My sexual, romantic, and gender identities could all be honestly summarised as "absolutely not, but maybe, in this very extremely specific way that barely makes sense to anyone"

#and that's on being queer i guess? #lgbtqia #queer #nonbinary #trans #aroace #aromantic #asexual #agender #genderqueer #gray ace #gray aro #demiromantic #demisexual #lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #not really any of these #but maybe #sometimes #who knows! #not me

[achillean-yearning]

the undying want to nuzzle into the crook of the neck of a guy, press my nose against them, be enveloped in their comforting smell, have them play with my hair or maybe just play some game while we talk, or don’t talk but definitely just enjoy each others presence and that we’re finally able to hold each other…

this post/account is from a gay guy about another guy. women don’t reblog.

#is this long distance or after pining for ages? #who knows! #why not both? #both is always good! #gay #mlm #nblm #achillean #non binary #t4t mlm #mlnb #nblnb #mlm yearning #mlm thoughts #trans mlm #gay mlm #nblm thoughts #nblm yearning #mlnb thoughts #t4t mlnb #mlnb yearning #t4t #t4t yearning

[this-is-me19]

Found this on Facebook the other day and thought I’d share:

[ID: A friendly reminder that you don’t need to fully understand the nuances of gender identity to know that each individual person knows who they are better than you ever will.]

#lgbtqiia+ #friendly reminder #gender identity #each individual person knows who they are better than you ever will #every time my father-in-law says shit related to this I’m gonna start quoting this to the best of my memory at that time #personal #pronouns #trans #lesbian #gay #queer #intersex #agender #queerfluid #genderqueer #gender-fluid #asexual #genderfluid #pansexual #bisexual #omnisexual #I see you #I hear you #I validate you #sorry if I’ve gotten some #adhd problems tagging

[uncanny-tranny]

At some point, I think people have to contend with the fact that misgendering isn't a completely a universally agreed upon concept in the specific sense that misgendering can be very personal.

What may be misgendering to you will not be to other trans people - even if they have the same gender as you. You may be misgendered if somebody used the wrong label to describe you (e.g., somebody calling you "girl," even if it is slang), but that does not mean that that will apply to everybody.

It's important to recognize this because so often, people will say things like, "you can't use this label/phrase/term for any trans person who is a [gender]! And if any trans person who is a [gender] uses those labels/phrases/terms, they're wrong and bad!" and that is simply too broad a generalization.

It's fine to be uncomfortable with certain things like this. It is fine if you don't want to be misgendered, and indeed, I share in that sentiment. However, that does not mean that your comforts and discomforts apply to all trans people or all trans people who share your gender. There's a difference in that, I think.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #dysphoria tw #some other trans men do /not/ feel misgendered by being called/labeled as a lesbian/woman/wife and i do! neither of us are bad for that! #some trans women are misgendered by being called 'straight' if they like men! some trans women are misgendered by being called 'gay'... #...when they are attracted to men and neither of those women are bad people/bad women for their desires and who they are #what you do is listen to individuals and what they feel misgenders them and work with them without judging or being shitty to them #do you have to 'get it'? no! but you don't have to be awful about it either #and if it bothers you /so/ much then do both of you a favour and walk away

[bougiebutchbitch]

haters fear my ability to look at their toughest most badass hypermasculine blorbos and say 'so, he's trans yah?'

#trans #batman #sir crocodile #izzy hands #yondu udonta #bruce wayne #maito gai #if he counts lol. and kakashi #max rockatansky #deadpool #who is not hypermasc in canon but somehow gets treated that way by a significant propoprtion of fans

[oro-junestar]

why do people gatekeep queer identies?? like,, isn't the whole point of the queer community that we're sick of being told who we are and aren't allowed to be?? stop shunning queer people for being queer in ways you don't like

#this one goes out to all my #he/they lesbians #enby and tmasc lesbians #xenogenders #nonbinary #trans besties who don't medically transition #trans besties who hardly transition at all #autigender #bisexuals pansexuals omnisexuals and polysexuals (pls stop fighting u are ALL valid) #aroace #aroace who are also gay lesbian bi etc #and INFINTELY more queer identities who are continuously bullied just for being themselves #queers can we stop shunning other queers please it's not cool #anyway more tags #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #transgender #trans

[polyamorouspunk]

I want to push a boy’s beanie off his head while I make out with him so I can start playing with his hair <3

#boys #mlm #mlm yearning #mlm thoughts #gay mlm #trans mlm #t4t mlm #nblm yearning #nblm thoughts #t4t nblm #nblm #alternative boys #hipster boys ? #gamer boys #boys who wear beanies you get it #go forth and reblog

[pharoahkingkiller]

Making them feel Safe enough to go nonverbal during sex💙🥰 Rubbing on them slow and gentle until they are squirming and trying to beg🥰💙🥰💙 Shushing them with kisses and reminding them they don't need to speak because I know what they need🥰💙🥰💙🥰💙

#spiritual domme #t4t nsft #trans nsft #ftm nsft #nonbinary nsft #queer nsft #gay nsft #autistic nsft #you know who you are