"On Grief " by H.L. Fitzgerald
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After America cleaved herself from the motherland,
Did she crave the warmth of control she tried so desperately to leave?
What is freedom when you cannot forget?
What is it like to ride the streets, a Paul Revere, crying for freedom,
screaming to not forget the good fight, to not go quietly into the night?
Do you think she ever got to her knees and begged forgiveness for her blasphemy?
How many nights did young America spend clutching her chest,
trying to fill the void she created, the death of a dynasty that left a gaping hole of grief,
the wound that would not heal?
The pain of self inflicted heartbreak is one not so easily palliated.
The clarity of death will not come, though I'll always know the bravery it took to run.
It's Independence Day and I am homesick.
It's Independence Day and god--I want to go home.
-H.L. Fitzgerald
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I'm in my twenties and I sit and read self-help books until they're tattooed onto my eyes but not my brain somehow.
I'm in my twenties and watch videos on the internet to feel validated in my trauma.
I'm in my twenties and time is measured by the distance between psychiatry appointments,
by the changed medication and appetite, by the patterns of sleep and whether or not the night terrors have ceased because even in my twenties, I apparently still have chronic bad dreams..
I'm in my twenties and my friends are few but everything. Each one a funnel of love.
I'm in my twenties and I have been to a club only three times. Most Friday nights are my dogs in my bed with Friends on in the background.
I'm in my twenties and I know my body will likely never look better than it does now and yet I criticize it; the folds of fat that sit beneath my breasts when I put a bra on, the cellulite I've watched grow on my outer thighs, how I now have two chins when I smile. On the other hand, my cheeks are rounder and my smile actually reaches my eyes now.
I'm in my twenties with forty years' worth of baggage to unpack and muscles that ache from carrying it far longer than I have needed to.
I'm in my twenties and want to be wild and free and make love to strangers in foreign lands but go numb when I feel a man's hands on me.
I'm in my twenties and I wonder if I am meant to love a woman.
I'm in my twenties and play mancala with my pill box on Sundays, dropping each one into the slots, like day of the week panties, and I'm taken back to the clear glass marbles and wooden board and my grandmother's contagious laugh all of whom have turned into antidepressants, an ugly green plastic pill box, and sitting alone on my bed, playing a game I did not sign up for, one that I do not want to play.
I'm in my twenties and for the first time in my life, there is a future beyond twenty-seven. I don't want to belong to that club anymore. I'm not excited for the future, necessarily, but more--curious. That's a good first step, isn't it? Curiosity. Maybe, when I'm in my thirties, I'll be excited and not just curious.
I'm in my twenties and I'm learning a lot about first steps. I'm learning how to admit I've got a problem, that my life is unmanageable, that I am powerless, which, to a control freak, is no good, awful, and very bad. But here I am, being okay with just the first step.
Like I said, I'm in my twenties, and I am learning. And for that, I am grateful.
H.L. Fitzgerald
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Charging into battle, weapons drawn,
thinking myself a knight,
protector of my lady fair
and yet I was the one who dealt the final blow,
cleaving myself from the love
I so desperately wanted to save;
scapegoat for the messes made,
and the only thing I had left to give,
a sacrifice I could make,
to turn my white cloak red
and lose the kingdom I called home
doomed to wander the wastelands
of the battlefield on which I bled,
penance for my failure to be,
the only thing I promised in this life,
failure to save the only thing I wanted to save.
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Day #5
A poem that looks like a series of crossword clues and their respective answers.
Okay so the second page has the answers to the clues on the first page. The poem can either be read from top to bottom or each number correlates with each other so it can be read 1-1, 2-2, and so on and so forth.
Not gonna lie, pretty proud of this one.
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Day #4 A poem about what "family" means to you
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Day #3, a poem where there are white spaces instead of punctuation marks
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Day 2 of NaPoWriMo a poem that takes place in outer space
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A poem where the last word of each line creates its own secret line. Day 1 of NaPoWriMo
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When it rains, I like to take a bath.
When I take a bath, I like to fill the tub with salt and bubbles.
When the bath is full of water and salt and bubbles, I light a candle and pour myself a large glass of water.
When I am finished making drawing a bath far more complicated than I should, I sink down into the water which I wish I could say is welcoming. I don't often get the temperature correct and then I need to fiddle with the tap.
When I finally get the water right, I like to put on jazz and slip beneath the soap. Miles Davis sounds even better through water. Under the water, the weight of the world falls away from me. Sometimes I don't want to come up. I always do.
When I am all wrinkled and my lungs are tired of hiding in the bath water, I open the drain.
When I open the drain, I flip on the shower at the same time and I lay back to watch the race. The drain pulls the pieces of me I have shed in the bath water down into the pipes and the shower rains down on me, washing away even more, eroding the edges of me. There's poetry in there somewhere.
When I sit in the shower, I think of the ending of Homeward Bound because when I think of the ending of Homeward Bound, I cry -- something I wish I did more of. When tears mix with shower water, they seem less potent, a chaser to my liquor sadness.
When I cry, my whole body cries. I shake, I sob, I choke on my own grief spilling out of me because there seems to be no easy way of chasing it out of this body without my body fighting back, fighting to keep it inside like it is an old friend it cannot stand to lose, like it is the oldest friend I've ever known.
When it rains, I like to take a bath.
I guess what I mean is: when it rains, I pour.
~H.L. Fitzgerald
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How close is almost?
How much space lies in those six letters?
The ellipses that come after ‘typing.’
The smell of a life never tasted,
the gossamer brush of skin never touched.
We almost made it.
I almost said yes.
She almost kissed me.
He almost loved me.
I wonder if there is a universe of almost,
where all the almosts turn into truths,
where we die wrapped in each other’s arms,
old and grey,
like the couple at the end of The Notebook.
Where they wanted to run away with me
and I climbed into the passenger seat and
we drove up the California coast,
madly in love,
windows down and hair flowing freely,
unafraid of all the almosts that chased after us, with their pitchforks high in the air,
almost catching us, almost pulling us back, almost breaking us.
Where her lips tasted like strawberries
and the smell of her shampoo
lingered on my clothes like a ghost
of all the almosts that all died when her hands
tangled themselves up in my hair.
Where, instead of watching him ride off into the sunset
with the girl of his dreams,
he jumped off his stallion and waltzed into this café,
stealing me up in his arms
and together we cast our own starlight,
suns far brighter than the brightest almost.
I almost wish that was all true.
I almost wish I didn’t have the mourn the almosts that have come and gone,
leaving just a trace, just a taste, just a tease of what could have been.
Of what I had hoped.
Of what I had almost had.
~H.L. Fitzgerald
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"Unsent Messages" after Alanis Morissette's song "Unsent"
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I forgive you.
You have been forgiven long ago
For all you have ever done
And all you could ever do.
Never had truer words been uttered,
Or at least I think that's the case.
You see, trust is an expensive thing to come by these days
And the price for even myself is so great
That often I forget to pay it
And what memories or stories I purchased
Come back to me a little less reflective of their worth,
The discount version with some pieces missing
Or twisted,
Nonsensical when pitted up against
The ink penned in the half dozen journals littering my shelves.
My words leave my mouth as a great army
But come back to me all broken and beaten
Defeated by the sword of reality
Or therapy
Or maybe a little mix of both.
And all I can do is bandage the wounded
And ignore the remembrance of red blood,
Missing limbs and burnt flesh
That haunt my dreams,
Memories of the remnants of a war
That I think was a romance
Nothing but letters seeming to separate the two.
A romance from those plaid shirt autumn days
Where we drove up the mountain,
Pointing at the changing leaves and the deer that crossed our paths.
Days of running through the rain, wet heads thrown back and laughing
While the shoppers stared at us from the safety of the store.
Days of burying secrets beneath the snow
And searching through secondhand shelves for treasure hidden within
Wine drunk nights in a beaten down house that only felt like home to one of us.
Days of laughter while I struggled to drive your car,
Cursing when I stalled, and giggling when I made it.
Remnants of the nights falling asleep on a wet pillowcase, clinging tightly to hope,
Nights of driving home by myself to a cold bed,
my fingers dancing alone to the thought of you.
Nights of bargaining with God for a clean slate, a new start, the beginning of the next chapter.
Nights sleeping far from you, yet within the same four walls,
Unable to bridge the distance that one room makes feel like a chasm.
Nights of calls sent to voicemail or unanswered texts
Because this wasn't what you asked for, it was what you ended up with.
All this ripped flesh and hurt, these remnants of something that could have been great,
I've been stitching them up for months now but I can't seem to find the source of the bleed.
I think I could truly write a saga of you.
Maybe I will.
I just don't know what to call it
Or how to end it
Or even where it starts.
So at the end of it all,
Here I am standing on the last page of a book
Not knowing if I should reread it for the thousandth time
Or close the book jacket and slide it onto my shelf.
Here's what I do know though.
I'm not sure I'll ever be able to forgive you
For the arduous occupation
Of falling in love with you.
~H.L. Fitzgerald
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There are pieces of you scattered about my life.
Remnants of a love
or a story
or a heartbreak
sometimes I still can’t tell the difference.
How can so many words all mean the same thing?
I know a hundred ways to drive home
dozens of streets all leading me to the same four walls.
So, I guess that means that I also know at least a hundred ways to get lost;
streets and paths and roads
leading a hundred different ways away
from the same starting place.
Each road leads me down a lane of memories,
photo albums stored deep within
the recesses of a house that no longer feels like home
where more doors are covered with yellow crime scene tape
than those that are open to the sun and the salty air.
State lines mean little these days,
hardly more than borders to the eras of my life
The Era of Childhood, the Era of Innocence,
the Era of You, and now,
The Era of Me.
Whatever pieces I keep running across,
metastases that therapy doesn’t seem to dissipate
well, at least they’ve stopped growing.
So I do what a poet does best,
and I sweep all of the pieces up into my arms,
ignoring the sharp edges of them all
the ones that feel all too pleasant for pain
and I turned their jagged little sides
into something soft.
For what else do I know besides how to remain
the very thing that lets those pieces wound me?
To look the hurt in the face, bloodied arms and all,
and say with an unwavering voice
through gritted teeth on firmly planted feet
“Despite the pain of your pieces
I remain soft.
Despite it all,
I remain, still.”
H.L. Fitzgerald
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Soft sunlight filters through the grey curtains in my room
The beckoning of a new day
A day in my little life.
I make my coffee just the way I like
Not too strong
Not too much milk
Or foam or vanilla
Put together by my two little hands
One with a broken nail because
Even though I like them long,
I move through my little life with freedom
And don't stop to consider how it affects
These little things.
For breakfast, I make my toast
And I listen to what the little duck in my belly wants
Avocados, cheese, she tells me what to make
And I make sure she is full, happy, as a duck can be.
I try to drink a little glass of water,
Because I know it's good for me, the water,
And I'm entrusted with caring for
This little body I call home.
My little shower is hot, maybe too hot for my skin
But not my soul,
Because she relishes in the steam.
To make up for the heat, I lather up in a little soft smelling soap
Soap that makes my little nose happy
But not as happy as my legs
when I slide my freshly lotioned feet
Into soft little socks
Where my toes do a little jig in delight.
My little closet is a home for all my little clothes
And as I run my fingers through pleats of fabric
Of many textures
but few colors
I listen to their whispers, letting them decide letting them tell me which I will wear this little day.
Little jewelry; a necklace, some earrings, and my rings
Maybe a bracelet if I'm feeling fancy.
Just a few things to add a little shine.
My little bag of makeup is small,
Just enough to dress up my eyes
Which aren't little, but they are blue.
Sometimes my skin gets little red bumps,
Different from the little dusting of freckles
That appeared on my nose when I was eight.
I go about my job
Which sometimes makes me feel little
But other times makes me feel big,
Big enough to make a change,
Give a smile,
Bring some peace
To one little person in this big wide earth.
Somedays I'm quite content with it all,
A wife thanking me for bringing
A little comfort
During a time that is anything but little.
Other days, I stop at the liquor store on my way home
And enjoy a little buzzing bee circling my head,
Enough to drown out the crying
And the pleas
And the helplessness
That a little bit of cancer, a failing liver, or a not so little pandemic
Willingly hands over
To people who don't deserve it, not even a little bit.
Most nights, dinner comes in a little bag
Because I don't know how to make little portions
Enough for just me, myself, and I.
I relish in the smells and the tastes
But not the dishes.
I listen to a little music and dance a little
Laughing at my reflection in the window
Waggling her little legs about
In a beat that never seems to match the music.
I step outside and climb the little hill
That lives just outside my door.
My sky, the sky that is the most brilliant little shade of blue
Has turned colors from cool to warm
An orange blossom sunset
With a little pink piglet on top.
I say goodnight to my watermelon mountains
The same watermelons that have stood guard
Over my little home
Even when it belonged to someone else,
Centuries ago, when the river ran full,
And that makes me feel oh so little, sometimes.
As I settle in with a little book, and draw the curtains closed
I breathe a little sigh of relief.
I head to my side table.
I dump out two little pills from the bottles I find there
One little yellow pill
One little white pill.
They are chased down my throat with a little water
And I say a little thanks
For the bit of medication that keeps me happy,
That makes the bad days less bad
And most days even a little bit good.
I say a little prayer just because I can't help myself
And even if no one is answering
There's still a little hope they might.
I wash my face and apply a little lotion
Because it's winter here
Even if the little bit of white proof we got
Is all gone and melted now.
I turn the heat down a little and crawl into bed
My little body heating up the blankets.
I close my eyes and let sleep catch up with my brain
Resting before another little day,
A little day in my wild and precious life.
H.L. Fitzgerald “My Little Life”
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So once again
It is February 14th.
I won't write about the rain
(because there is none)
and I won't write about the snow
(most of it's melted now)
and I won't write about you.
Instead, I will write about the love given to me this Valentine's Day.
Love, that I've never known.
The love that took its time
in the shower this morning,
languid hands and fingers
mixing soap and steam.
The love that fed me food I adore
that bought me roses and a bottle of the merlot I drink.
The love that danced with me around the kitchen
laughing at the absurdity of my hips
and whatever rhythm they think they have.
The love that told me the dress I'm in is beautiful
and the body beneath the fabric is perfect
even though sometimes I don't feel at home
in the changes I've seen over these last months.
This love that traces the curves
and the scars
and the freckles
the love which whispers to me that I am beautiful
that the little bit of weight
makes my ass look fantastic
and I should never doubt the beauty I hold.
Tonight, this love will find me between the sheets
and touch me the way I want to be touched
and wrap me in warmth when I am finished and spent
and sleep soundly in the safety of my bed.
Then, tomorrow morning, I will wake to this love
and when she stares back in the mirror
her tired blue eyes and mussed brown hair,
I will smile and tell her that I love her too.
It's February 14th
and I'm still writing
but today is mostly about me
and only a little bit
about you.
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Do you remember the time this summer when you came over for grilled cheese sandwiches? You were sitting at the table and watching me. We were talking and laughing and listening to Charlie Parker and you sat amongst my paints and the unfinished painting of the church stood beside you. I grew so enthralled with our conversation and so distracted by your laughter and your lips that I lost track and burnt the bacon. You teased me as I scraped the black bits into the garbage, red and hot with embarrassment. Love, a lifetime with you would be a life of burned bacon.
H.L. Fitzgerald
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