Sometimes you just have one of those moments where the progress we've made as a culture get thrown into stark relief. You look at something and go "Holy shit, that would never have happened when I was a kid."
Today, I had one of those moments when I realized that the teenage boys I'm working with are just. genuinely, openly enthusiastic about going to Build-a-Bear for their outing.
These are sixteen and seventeen year old boys! They just had a whole conversation about what to name their "cute", mostly new squishmallows! They're genuinely excited that they're going to Build-a-Bear this weekend and asking other kids to pick up specific accessories for them!!
Holy shit, that never would've happened when I was 16. None of the boys would have dared to be visibly interested - and neither would most of the girls! There would have been a million gay jokes and "Haha, you're a girl" jokes and "What are you, a baby?" jokes. Teenagers weren't even supposed to care about anything back then!
Less than 15 years later, and I'm watching three 17 year old boys treat all that as not even worthy of comment.
So let's call that a reason for hope. Even when the kids aren't alright, in some ways apparently they are alright. Go Gen Z, honestly. It's so lovely to watch you guys just openly doing and saying stuff that, when I was a teen, would've been a social death sentence.
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Sometimes I think about the fact that both Atsushi and Aku trusted the other to the point of confessing their deepest secret.
While fighting Ivan Goncharov , Atsushi confesses seeing the headmaster of the orphanage looming near him constantly. Akutagawa was the only person he actually opened up about it. Not the ADA members, not Dazai (even though Dazai knows how much the headmaster meant to him).
While fighting Ouchi Fukuchi, Akutagawa confesses having a lung disease, which will kill him sooner than later. Atsushi is most likely the only person Akutagawa talked to about it (if we don't include Gin and maybe Dazai).
When I think about it, I start tearing up a little bit more...
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every now and again i get depressed about the current state of the filmmaking industry and then i see a movie that makes me go ‘wow. im gonna create shit like this even if it kills me’ and i think thats an important sentiment to have in this age of ai and not paying actors/writers enough
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