#emotional dependency

[stuffforme2]

Michael and Nick have similar issues with feeling lonely but also they are completely different.

Nick feels lonely because he changed himself entirely, his identity, smile, interests, etc, for the people around him. He feels lonely because he is without himself.

Michael feels lonely because he IS lonely he was without friends for most of his life but he never changed himself. He kept his identity, smile, interests, etc. But he was lonely until he met Tori.

The two, logically, would be become dependent to their important people, Charlie and Tori, but for different reasons that include their loneliness.

Charlie helped Nick wake up. He helped Nick realize that he was lost without himself that he was entirely unhappy and needed help. Nick is dependent on Charlie because Charlie was the only thing that Nick could find in himself. Nick is lonely without his identity and since Charlie is helping build Nick's identity back Nick is dependent on him.

Michael would be, logically, dependent on Tori. Tori is his first friend we can assume in years. The first person to get him and actually try to understand him. She is the first person to not immediate judge and then ignore Michael entirely. Michael would be dependent on her for companionship. Michael spending most of his time with Tori, thinking about Tori in a way that can seem obsessive, makes sense because Tori broke down Michaels immunity to feeling nothing to being alone. He wasn't alone finally and he got used to not being alone. So if Tori left for even a week or two he'd begin to feel lonely again which will cause him to break.

Anyway YUUUUHHH.

#alice oseman #heartstopper #solitaire alice oseman #hstv #hstv s2 #school suuuucks #michael holden #micheal holden #nick and charlie #charlie spring #nick nelson #tori spring #victoria spring #narlie #this winter #emotional dependency

[sacredsilencesblog]

- I’ll love you forever sid

- you will?

- yes that’s the problem

#emotional dependency #emotional #dependency #cassie ainsworth #skins aesthetic #cassie skins #tcw #i’ll love you forever

[deprixpainsblog]

Ich mache mich jedes mal emotional abhängig.

#thoughts #depressiv #depressing life #einsam #emotionaleabhängigkeit #emotionalstörung #emotional dependency #abhängig #mentally fucked #ptbs #actually mentally ill #depressing quotes #this is depressing

[esuemmanuel]

Ella me ha dicho “¡Ámame!”. Pero ¿cómo puede pedir algo que ya lleva dentro? ¿O es que, acaso, no es consciente del amor que hay en ella? ¿Por qué le pedirías a alguien que te ame cuando bien te estás amando tú? ¿De dónde surge esa necesidad de sentirse amado? Ah, tantas preguntas para sólo una respuesta: dependencia emocional.

#esu emmanuel #el hombre de la soledad #escribiendo en soledad #escritores en tumblr #the man of solitude #writing in solitude #poetas en tumblr #writers on tumblr #poets on tumblr #pensamientos #poeticstories #dependenciaemocional #emotional dependency #2023

[gabs0531]

Your silence was equivocal to abandonment in my desolate heart

#heartbreak #art #sad thoughts #alone with my thoughts #silence #abandoned #emotional dependency #desolate #heartbroken #love quotes #obessive love

[heartpetal]

Bloody hands

Your worst enemy is yourself when you have zero self esteem and zero courage to take your life into your hands.

When you'd rather blame others to not face what's wrong, than asking you why you let someone behavior control your mood.

That's where the impostor has a home, when you'd rather call dependency "love" and give your power to the first who shows up.

'Cause I'd rather be passive than taking my responsibility, hoping someone would take my wounds and turn them to ashes.

When you lie to yourself saying you need someone who's not you, you made a mess full of anger 'cause deep down you know it's not true.

It's not about them, it's all about you

The next time you search for a backstabber look into your hands, you will find out it has always been you.

#original poem #writers and poets #poetry #spilled ink #artists on tumblr #female writers #literature #poem #writers #unsent letters #emotional dependency #addiction #love #self awareness #self love #self care

[poognthebrainbois]

"Listen, I love my grandmother. But I don't like her."

- my coworker today, after I told her about my struggles with my mom recently.

And yeah, I think that's how I see it too.

Ironically enough it's my grandmother (on my dad's side) who says to me all the time,

"Not only do I love you, but I like you as a person too."

I just find it interesting to get that sentiment from another angle, and to have it fit so well.

#mom issues #shitty parents #my dad basically gave me permission last night to cut her off once I move out #i hate that this is so difficult #i really wanted to try with her but she's not putting anything in and I can't keep throwing effort at a wall #wisdom #emotional dependency

[liahleeh]

q conexão oqkkk isso é dependência emocional

#emotional dependency

[nicki-nicks]

¿?

A veces siento que eres tan distinta, te ves tan distante pero cuando pienso siempre has sido así… noto en tus ojos un reflejo de soledad, tal vez por eso actúas así. Siempre que te quiero dejar no puedo, hay algo que me ata a ti, creo que es amor o dependencia, aunque cuando lo pienso son lo mismo entre nosotras… esa sensación de desinterés si me voy, duele, pero realmente no lo siento, solo está ahí, ese dolor constante de que no te importo, me has dicho tantas veces que sí te importo, pero las acciones hablan más que mil palabras supongo, pero a pesar de eso yo sigo siguiéndote, sé que soltar es difícil pero nunca pensé que era tan difícil. Tal vez ese dolor en el pecho pudiera ser por ti, cuando lo pienso tal vez el problema estuvo desde el principio… esta sensación ya la sentí antes, supongo que la ignoré, solo porque… ¿te amo? No termino de entender, si todo ese amor nunca existió y solo amo tu atención… pero si fuera así, ¿por qué te sigo amando?

#im gonna cry #emotional dependency #suicid3 #? #sad poem #poetry

[yukiimufinz]

Me trying to plan what to do next year bc my life didnt end when I stopped depending on him or when I finished primary school

#thoughts #2024 #new year #primary school #emotional dependency

[sacredsilencesblog]

she’s so me, I love loser boys!!

#emotional dependency #this is a girlblog #tc community #cassie ainsworth #cassie skins #skins gen 1 #skins aesthetic #skins uk #sid skins

[soulinkpoetry]

Emotional dependency can only take you down a road full of suffering.

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#emotional dependency #suffering #emotions #soulinkpoetry #poetry #she writes #thoughts #feelings #poets on tumblr #mental health

[thatperfectgirl]

Emotional dependence

Imagine that you are a little summer flower. We take care of you, we water you every day. You are happy like that. One day the gardener who watered you as you pleased went away on a trip. Another gardener takes care of you in turn, but he waters you too much, so much that you end up withering away. This story is not about flowers.

#my writing #citation #quote #emotional dependency #flowers #summer #figure of speech #metaphor #maturity #women #glow up #mental health #positivity #self care

[moranbarry]

Movie of the day...Now I just want a hot chocolate.

Buffalo '66 (1998)

#buffalo '66 #90s movies #cult film #film photography #christina ricci #coquette #tumblr girls #photography #aestehtic #alternative #sadgirl #pinterest #dramatic #gif #layla #emotional dependency #crazy #sweet #independent film

[gabs0531]

There is no such things as an “effortless” relationship. So if you feel like things are coming “natural” know it’s the other person that’s nurturing and loving the relationship so it will grow. Don’t take advantage of that or them because there will be a time when they have no more to give, when they are empty and drained, and you lose them.

#art #heartbreak #sad thoughts #love quotes #alone with my thoughts #depressing shit #emotional dependency #desolate #i feel empty #effort

[xx-webfoxxez-xx]

A small series of sketches about severe co-dependency, each one was made during a meltdown last year.

#these have never seen the light of day so why not post tem anonymously here #art #vent art #bpd #actually bpd #actually cluster b #emotional dependency