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ivan-serrure · 1 year

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#ah to get to kneel before a man. etc etc #ivan serrure #t4t #trans #trans art #lgbt #queer #trans artist #transmasc #bi #gay #trans man #catholic imagery #nb #nonbinary #angels

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genderqueerdykes · 1 year

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i've seen a lot of people express the worry that they can't claim they're nonbinary until they start hormones or get surgery. i just wanted to say this absolutely isn't true. you don't even have to change your presentation, the way you dress, the way you speak or act, or anything. you don't have to change anything to be able to claim that you're nonbinary. you are a nonbinary person from the moment you realize and accept it. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary before transition. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary if you never transition

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emotboyswag · 1 year

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The conversation of when is too late to medically transition is coming round again, which it does periodically, but I have never really resonated with the phrase "it's only too late when you're dead" before. But now I realise it is so incredibly true. It fucking sucks to wait, seeing everyone around you start medically transitioning sooner and faster than you is so disheartening. I came out at 11 and tried to start hormones, I've been on the NHS waiting list for years and I desperately tried to convince my transphobic parents, I tried to get a job to pay for it etc. So it wasn't for lack of trying that things happened as they happened and I didn't start hormones until I was 18.

For 7 years I watched everyone around me transition and it felt like I was running out of time. Whenever the conversation came around about when was too late to transition I always thought to myself "its too late for me". Still these days I feel like I'm running out of time for top surgery. I have been binding ever day for 7/8 years and I'm kinda coming to the end of my rope with it, every day it's just a little harder to bind, which is devastating. I don't know what I'll do when I can't bind anymore but for me at the moment surgery is prohibitively expensive and I'm not in a safe environment to get it. I'm looking into alternatives like trans tape (but I do have a larger chest).

ANYWAY I do understand when ur in the moment of waiting that it feels like you are running out of time, my life didn't even feel like it started until I was on testosterone. A few months in after seeing some changes and finally being convinced it was real and not just hand sanitiser I finally took my first breath tbh and I have not looked back since. But before starting it was just a waiting game and I thought I'd be too old for there to be any differences which is silly really because people start in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond.

Its only too late to transition when you're dead also applies to coming out. Not everyone "always knew" not everyone had the language or ability to express themselves at 3 years old, not everyone understood or thought about gender aged 3. People come out as kids and teens and young adults but people also come out at every stage of life.

I don't admire Caitlyn Jenner by any means but she was 65 when she came out

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jul/16/we-really-are-trailblazers-coming-out-as-trans-in-later-life

Article about people transitioning later in life ^

It really is only too late when you're dead

#trans #transgender #transsexual #ftm #mtf #enby #nb #nonbinary #lgbt #gay #t4t #hrt #testosterone #hrt testosterone #estrogen #hrt estrogen #trans man #trans woman #coming out #bestposts

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chimeramoth · 7 months

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shout out to all the weird horse girls and weird wolf girls who are now faggot cowboys

#this about weird girls who grew up/are now trans men/trans masculine #i am one of them #trans #trans masc #trans guy #trans man #queer #nb #lgbtqia #shitpost #gay shitpost #gay #cowboys #yee and haw

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samarecharm · 5 months

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it happens alot

OG link (ha) and image under the cut

lol

#persona 5 #akira kurusu #ren amamiya #listen. look at me. I draw the roughest women and sweatiest bears. its my favorite pasttime. I know damn well he does not look fucking butc #I was tempted to change it to lesbian instead of butch but like #thats not whats in the IMAGE .....head in hands #IN REALITY he is just a very pretty lesbian that is also sometimes butch if u get to talk to him #like oops haha its just that *gestures to all six feet of him*#padding out the 'hes nb but also its cause he doesnt care at all' hc #also. man i need to draw him more; he comes out looking so baby everytime #too used to drawing gay old bears and furries so when my brain says hey ur drawing a Young Man im like GOT IT......baby time #ah well #at least he looks more like Him in my wip #Oh u know what? i was going to add more tags about him but i have a BLOG w a POST button. love that shit <3

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smokbeast · 4 months

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Seeing allot of trans stuff lately. I don't do this but obviously trans people and all people of LGBTQ+ are welcome here!! If you are a terf or sick mf I will stomp on you till you die you are not welcome here.

Also merlot, frak and soma are trans! Allot of my ocs are of the queer skellies and my goobies alike so hehe :]

#just letting yallknow this is a safe space! obviously i PFNGNn it be funny if a ttans dudes blog eouldnt be but i wouldnt be surprised #with how some people are tbh. but JUST SAYING HERE IS SAFE THATS THE POINT IM MAKING SKSMG #but ye merlot is a genderfluid trans woman and frak is a trans man #soma is fem nb! im not picky about pronouns so yall can have fun but just wanted to point that out ^^#many of my ocs tend to fall down genderfluid trans categories cause that's how i see myself usually!#so no worries if you confuse pronouns or anything you can always ask it wont bother me!#trans #smoki rambles #also lesbians trans and cis alike are all welcome here and gay men trans and cis as well there is nO shame being cis and queer i just wanna #say that too cause i know thats not told allot when i mean everyone is welcome EVERYONE is welcome trans cis nb EVERYONE i love you all #i respect all people and everything cause however you are as a person that makes you happy makes me happy #i respect women i respect men i respect thems i respec everyone big huggems to all!

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alilaro · 5 months

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its so funny hbomberguy uploads a video like once every millenia, but when he does he manages to send every person he scrutinizes into oblivion, never to recover

#hbomberguy #not to be a hater but.... 🙈 i fucking hate james somerton and internet historian so much YESSS #internet historian is an edgy right-wing dickhead that makes edgy 4chan videos and hosts racists (including himself)#and james somerton is THE WHITE CIS GAY MAN QUEERS ARE WARNED ABOUT #plagiarism aside he prioritizes white gay men as the worlds biggest victims CONSTANTLY; and invalidates nbs women and poc #the video he did on jeffery dahmer made me want to scream in anger bc he goes on and on about gay men and how women dont care about them #but doesnt fucking mention a god damn thiny about how he targeted black gay men over white bc he knew he could get away with it #like he talks about queers but he only gives a shit about white gay men. thats it.#anyway sorry im tired and bitter but byeeee to these youtube bitches pls dont come back lmaao

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totallynotaraccoonindiscuise · 9 months

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im bored so I'm doing lgballt requests again

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blogalreadydoesntexist · 8 months

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'saying lesbians only like non-men is exclusionary!' yep!!!!!!!!!!!! that is the point!!!!!!!!!!! t4t is exclusionary and im that!!!!!!!!!

#al's general discourse #all the !!!s are for emphasis because GOD #watching their excuses while on a block purge.#my guy im nb and i dont feel comfy calling my probable relationship les if i dated a girl because i am Way Too Male Feely For That #watched one try and say that gay men and lesbian women can date and have sex and shit like uhhhhmmmmmmm? what the vivziepop #bi lesbian believers feel like 2013 30y.o anime yaoi buyers #and that my friends is basically what viv is (i think shes 30????? idk man but either way she feels fetish-y as shit)#anti bi lesbian #anti male lesbian #men cant be lesbians #nonbinary isnt a third mythical gender #gender is three umbrellas #ugh anyways #tw #cw #cw homophobia #cw transphobes #tw transphobes #tw queerphobia #tw homophobia #this has been stewing in my drafts and i finally decided to say it now that ive got a fallback for toxicity

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ivan-serrure · 1 year

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more sketches <3

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theyloveflynniexxxx · 11 months

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happy pride month to all the girls, the boys, those in between and those outside, the pre-op and non-op trans people, and the post-op trans people, to the gays, the lesbians, the bisexuals, the pansexuals, the asexuals, and to those anywhere in between, to those without labels, and to those with many, to the mascs and the femme alike, to the androgynous and to the combinations, to those who confuse others and to those who confuse themselves, happy pride month. you deserve the world.

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pallpokipoki · 8 months

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Transmascs: "Trans solidarity! Trans solidarity!"

While trans women have elaborated tme/tma theory (a sex-conscious antifeminist framework that inverts feminist class analysis, justifies anti-afab hatred, misogynystic social dynamics under non-sex explicit ''progressive'' language) that they are institutionalizing.

It was developed by baeddels on pre-2017 Tumblr to address ''intracommunity issues'' how ''afab people use their afab status to oppress trans women''. Now, you know where this theory comes from.

Transmascs/afabs. You guys are useful idiots when you endorse this theory even in restricted contexts, it's fundamentally against your interests as an afab person. It serves to destroy afab-solidarity while cultivating an amab-solidarity among gnc/trans people, to silence you and make you subservient to ''TMA'' (amab trans/gnc) people interests since you are positioned as being part of the privileged, oppressor class ("TME") because of your agab.. Good luck when it will be fully institutionalized in leftist spaces and in broader society. You'll be even more silenced (and hated) than you are now (which is bad enough).

The criticisms I've read from some transmascs about this theory don't go far enough.. They don't recognize its antifeminist inversion, misogyny, the sexist dynamics it creates/reinforces and the amab-dominace/solidarity it allows and justifies. While the critics admit that it's a sex-conscious theorical framework masquerating as a sex-blind one, they still reject sex-consciousnesss as a priciple and as a basis for social/political analysis and organizing. Which is extremely harmful for afab people.

Sex-blindness is a way of concealing afab and transmasc oppression, preventing political organization and silencing you, and thus maintaining your oppression.

This is an example of a trans woman radicalized by tme/tma theory.

and it's our future in queer/trans/leftist spaces if we don't succeed in countering this theory.

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ohdeargodwhy · 11 months

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James "I'm really excited about the final t-shirt" Lance I cannot deal with you

#there is 100% a story arc with trent crimm's tshirts #ted lasso #stop! stop! stop empowering my delusions!!!#trent crimm #james lance #'a man; a person; becoming more comfortable with who they are'#nb trent truthers also winning this interview #the gay mug also thanks to james lance #peanut butter and biscuits podcast btw #james lance based his black mirror character on charlie brooker haha nice

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bagelbucket · 5 months

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bold take we aren’t ready for is that people think they’re trans just because they don’t align with society’s “ideal” gender roles when in fact it’s just their personality. or because of internalized biphobia.

#but we AINT ready for that conversation #you’ll say you don’t wanna wear dresses or paint ur nails once and oh damn you must be a transman #and not because of having a literal actual trans experience #<- not aligned with your !!biological!! gender #people will misread this but like. you can be a biological woman and call urself a girlie and use he/him pronouns I genuinely don’t care #literally I do not care what u do #but there is a thing in noticing!!! where kids or adults realize they don’t align with how the world views their gender #and people say they must be trans #or because they’re straight or gay but . Because they might be butch or flamboyant. they think they HAVE to be trans bc #god forbid they’re just a feminine man or androgynous woman or masculine woman or nb man or person or !!!#anyways.#gender is a spectrum along which anyone can reside #while also feeling in touch with biological gender #(biological gender = sex)#anyways. Hey #bagel talk time #queer discourse #ANOTHER BOLD TAKE: transgender doesn’t exist because GENDER is a spectrum of experience DIFFERENT from sex #you can’t be transGENDER because gender is already a fluid human experince #we’ve just…..put ‘man’ and ‘woman’ into boxes based on gender roles and expectations #you can be transexual tho because that’s literallyyyyy the entire thing. that’s what it is.#<- all said by a person who thought they were transexual because they were experiencing (and still do) behaviors and traits different from #what society expected and HUNDREDS of people told them they were trans #almost went on hormones and changed my body because I was convinced #and that wasn’t the case for me #I use he him they them pronouns because I’m comfortable with them and because I feel masculine and androgynous sometimes #is it apart of the ‘trans’ experience? sure yeah!! 100%#and not everyone feels that way of course. but like. I’m not actually trans.#I just experience fluxes in gender #I’ve had a trans experience through finding myself but I’m not gonna call myself trans because I haven’t changed my body

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red-rover-au · 1 year

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10 minute sketch to get this out there

#everyone can think what they want about Leo being gay or Raph being straight but I KNOW that Mikey is a gay man I know he is #and almost everyone agrees on Donnie being ace and nb #shaking hands with ppl who think he’s bi or bi ace we both know he’s Purple and that’s what’s important #rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt fanart #michelangelo #leonardo #donatello #raphael #rottmnt donnie #rottmnt raph #rottmnt mikey #rottmnt leo #pride #headcanon #art #my art

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warriors-pride · 5 months

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Gay, aroace, non-binary, ADHD and autism (or just neurodivergent) Echosong ❤️

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