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padfootastic · 9 months

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Hey, do you think Sirius was good at hiding his through and emotions, or do you think he was more someone who wore his heart on his sleeve?

oooooh definitely good at hiding his thoughts!!

i actually think he had bitchy poker face most of the time, to the point people got surprised when they see him break character and emote. (and why his/james relationship is such a !!! thing)

and i see it as a control thing for him; u decide how much of urself u wanna show the people around u. developed as a survival/coping mechanism during his childhood where he could rile his parents up by pretending to not care.

i also think the most visible emotion for him was anger, and that’s also mostly bc he’s so terrifying when he’s in a rage lol.

#sirius black #idk about canonical basis for any of this #but this is what i think #i think a lot of sirius’ behaviours come out of an abusive childhood tbh #but again that’s a lot of conjecture #i’m also not using poa as an example of emoting #bc it was such an extreme situation #and i dont like him being called dramatic bc of the shack scene #and i don’t think it was most accurate anyway #this is what i think sirius was pre azkaban and how he’d be if he didn’t go there #now james tho. he feels like the heart on a sleeve kinda person #but—u can def see shit playing out on his face in real time #not that it HAS to be a binary #bc he grew up in such a safe loving atmosphere where he never rly needed to hide #pen’s asks

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apollos-boyfriend · 10 months

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just saw a clip where f1nn5ter was saying how at this point, he can’t be cis, but at the same time, he doesn’t feel like he’s trans—he’s just neither. and someone in chat was like “you can’t be neither cis nor trans that’s not how it works” i love finn but why is his chat so fucking bad 😭 stop recreating binaries for the love of god, identity does not have to fall into these neat little boxes for you to police

#icarus speaks #neg #AND THEN PEOPLE WERE TRYING TO GIVE HIM LABELS???? LIKE HE DOESNT KNOW????#not only has he been at this for two years but one of his closest friends is a transwoman #i think he fucking knows what non-binary means 😭#containment breach #<- i haven’t edited this one yet b it just in case

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shutinthenutouse · 7 months

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nipuni · 1 month

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THE DOCTOR We had a pact, him and me. Every star in the universe, we were going to see them all.

My version of The Master and The Doctor in their Academy days 😊

A speedpaint video of this will be available at my Patreon on april 1st!

#doctor who #thoschei #doctor x master #academy era #my art #My thought process for their appearances here was sort of an average between their incarnations #the doctor is mostly taller and has messier and usually lighter hair while the master is shown to have had black hair in a flashback #also since Hartnell had white hair as an old man and we are not sure what color his hair was I thought what if it was always white #I've seen most draw him as blond but couldn't find any sources for it so I just went with this instead because it looks cool #I had fun making Prydonian robes designs!! I would love to design a bunch of Gallifreyan fashion for each Chapter and House it seems so fun #I also wanted to draw a Gallifreyan night!! since I never see any depictions of it even tho the planet should have nights #even if it's a binary system since the orbits would have to be very large for gravitational stability both suns would set at similar times #anyway I'll stop talking lmao 🫡

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souplups · 2 months

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in memory of Nex Benedict, i am sorry you will never have the chance to become who you were made to be. my heart aches for you and all of my trans siblings. this is not the world you deserve.

#my grief lately has been extra heavy #nex benedict #if you can go donate to a trans or non-binary person's fundraiser

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999999999inadream · 8 months

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toby fox needs to add like a bit of narration in deltarune abt kris like "they themmed they/themily down the stheirs" cus i cant go on seeing them constantly get he/himmed in yt comment sections

#this is my punishment for actually looking at yt comments isnt it #deltarune #kris dreemurr #maybe im looking too much into things but...#it also feels sorta. misogynistic when ppl default to he/him for androgynous/non binary characters #like ive seen multiple ppl use “well its understandable that ppl assume kris is a he when they have such masculine behaviours/hobbies”#the masculine behaviours and hobbies in question are being a prankster #i shit you not #like they called pranking... masc?? huh #can girls and others not get their silly on anymore??#also like i said before with the exception of like frisk and chara like almost every nb character is masculinised #like napstablook monster kid #god there has to be more but my memory is shit atm and i also have to go eat dinner #but i wanna talk more abt like why it feels so misogynistic to me #i thinnk it has to do with the fact that defaulting to he/him just makes women feel like an afterthought. ig like unless its confirmed then #they must be a guy to be relevant or smth #and also like how much they gender entirely non gender specific things (see: pranking)#ofc it wouldnt be BETTER per se if they imagined these characters as girls but its smth ive noticed and i just get frustrated cus #it feels sexist but i cant FULLY articulate why #i feel like i had the answer a lil while ago but i forgot #i might come back to this who knows #wow ok rant over #for now

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cosmiccomics23 · 3 months

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"average bug has 3 dead non-binary siblings" factoid actually just statistical error. average bug has 0 dead non-binary siblings. Genders Hornat, who protects a cave and has over 10'000 dead non-binary siblings, is an an outlier adn should not have been counted

#hollow knight #hk hornet #cosmic's talking #spiders georg #given the world of hollow knight i'm actually geussing avarage has at least one dead non-binary sibling #*GUESSING FUC

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aaa-battery-not-rechargeable · 7 months

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i met a queer high schooler today, at my job

throughout the interaction i had with them, i watched them become more relaxed and open, simply seeing me as a queer adult doing my job

i sort of feel like i served as an example for that student, of a queer person existing successfully in society.

i could pick up on their habits mannerisms and fashion, and related my own experiences to that. they were visibly disabled, so i wanted to ease their mind about accessibility concerns in the building, so i mentioned my heart condition and trouble with walking up stairs. they were immediately more comfortable. we used the elevator

i complimented their nonbinary pride flag bracelet, and pushed my hair aside so they could see my name badge with my pronouns, and they smiled.

it's so freeing to be seen without the expectation for any explanation, and i know that so i wanted to give them that peace of mind. i wanted to show them that the world outside of high school is survivable. hope is not crushed, i am here, i am visibly queer, and so it is possible for them too.

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catpcgames · 5 months

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Omg Hilda said non-binary rights

#hilda the series #hilda netflix #hilda #hilda season 3 #nonbinary #unlabeled #technically it's genderqueer rights #or just queer rights #but non-binary rights has a better ring to it

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karoochui · 6 months

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I think we need to rizz the boys up

Like imagine sun donking u with his shovel bcs you were too much

My yn isn't the type to be directly flirty but they are a bit too blunt so this checks out anyway i think

Moon version

#i love to think sun has a tendency of repeating things #fnaf daycare attendant #fnaf security breach #fnaf sun #sundrop #dca x reader #dca x yn #binary resurgence: round 2 au #binary resurgence #mikas stuff #my asks #help i just realized the 'bonk' is written backwards #How the fuck

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nonasbirthday · 2 months

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of course you can read necros and cavs as a parallel to the gender binary bc A) you can do whatever you want forever and B) yeah there's plenty of textual evidence comparing the necro-cav bond to a marriage. however one thing i think many of these discussions keep missing is the fact that most people in the nine houses are not necros or cavs and do in fact exist outside of this binary. which would make it. not really much of a binary

#get ur warm takes here #i know other people have said this already but i really feel like this binary idea has proliferated recently #but i get it i mean in the books we have almost zero exposure to House citizens living outside this 'binary'#so it is a binary in the sense that you can apply it to our major characters who are from the nine houses #but i'm just not sure about extrapolating it to the whole fictional society #i do think there are comparisons to be drawn here i just don't think enough discussions account for this third group being most of #the population.#like do a thematic analysis for sure but personally i would stop short of saying 'joh created a new gender binary and forced everyone into #it' bc. what about all those other offscreen characters who are neither necro nor cav #the locked tomb #nonasbirthday

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doctorsiren · 8 days

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“Every thought is sabotage

What a fool I am

But how long can we keep playing?

Game after game

No losing game after losing game”

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shutinthenutouse · 10 days

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genderkoolaid · 2 months

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i think trans-affirming cisfeminism's problem is that it views trans people as a way of analyzing cis gender relations, so trans women are going from the status of cis men to cis women, & trans men vice-versa. there is no appreciation for "trans" as its own status, because that would require viewing transphobia as something the patriarchy does on purpose instead of like. something it trips into on its quest to oppress cis women exclusively. and this is also why by and large feminism (including trans feminists) has fucked sucked at talking about NB/GQ people's experiences without binarizing them

#m.#honestly i think understanding all of the different versions of transphobia #are vital to understanding transphobia holistically #like the idea that that trans people are patriarchal bycatch is very similar #to the idea that trans men are never targeted on purpose & only experience ''misdirected'' oppression #the need to force trans experiences into the cis man/cis woman binary is a form of exorsexism #i think a lot more has been said abt transmisogyny but the idea of trans people as being acceptable victims of #violence bc we arent ''real women'' or ''real men''#something something this is why:#transunity

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jadethest0ne · 2 years

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I had an interesting conversation today about gender and identity with a cis man who happened to have scars that looked like top surgery scars. He said "they're not from as noble a battle wound as top surgery" and I just keep thinking about how badass that makes trans mascs sound (and he's right, y’all are badass)

#different post from me today but that line has been rattling around in my head ever since #trans #transgender #non-binary #lgbt #queer #top surgery #battle wounds #conversations #cool #jadethest0ne #pride

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junotter · 9 months

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All the jokes about Ken and horses are good but I just wanna say it's such a good parallel to how actual young men get swept into misogyny and the patriarchy.

Like they're told to believe it means men get to be cool and manly and have this power but with that comes extremely rigid commands of what they can be as a man and a cycle of self hatred for never matching those gender roles perfectly. Patriarchy tells men that if they just do exactly what is expected of them, then they get all the "cool stuff" that comes with. That doesn't work though when there's only a small group that actually gets that power, but men will keep trying to fit into those roles in hopes that they can.

In the end there are no horses or the myth men are told, it's just endless cycles of self hatred and ingroup fighting.

#barbie #barbie movie #barbie spoilers #ig #ive got a lot more on how barbie looks at feminism and the patriarchy cause god they did it #not to say there isnt faults such as very little conversation about intersectionality #but i can also understand the impossible task of talking about EVERYTHING in one movie #not everyone will be happy and thats fine #anyway i think something barbie did really well is fight this battle of both wanting so deeply to love (romantically or not) men but also #not dismissing the fact its mens job to solve their problems themselves #that even if women need to be the front runners of breaking the patriarchy men cannot rely on them to solve their own problems completely #also just god im so glad this wasnt a girl boss slay movie #women deserve respect and love and life regardless of accomplishment #we should not have to be ceos and presidents and world problem solvers to gain equality #i can also understand if nonbinary people feel left out/disconnected from the movie #but as always gender abolition and acknowledging the gender binary (ie the one societially impossed) go hand and hand 👍#just incase cause idfk terfs dni the barbie movie is not for you #barbie literally states constantly that her gender has nothing to do with (non existent) genitals so f off

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