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authorred · 1 year

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Yandere Spencer Reid heacanons because I was inspired |Part 1|

Preface: It’s hard to imagine the upstanding, moral Spencer Reid as an obsessive, compulsive lover who would do anything and everything for your love. Lucky for you, I’m here to help you imagine.

Yandere!Spencer Reid is chefs kiss. Exactly what I need (and want awooga)

Part 2 here Part 3 here

Warning(s): Mentions of violence, stalking, kidnapping, psychological abuse, (un)willing reader (depends on if you fw this imagine), spiral into pure criminality

He is first horrified when he begins to feel the obsession or possession

When he first meets you is when he first begins to get those feelings

Tries his absolute hardest to logic his way out of it, or to control it, or to seek help

Tries his best to communicate to you as a healthy, normal person would, but he can’t help but find those thoughts creeping in again

He believes it’ll be better if you’re away from him, but his thoughts and feelings change to hardcore yearning

Knows it’s not love he’s feeling, and is potentially dangerous to you

Might spiral down into a breakdown (or a few) because of it

Will genuinely think of himself as a horrible person who thinks he can’t get help

If you try to help him he’ll vehemently decline it and will tell you it’s a bad idea

Others at the BAU try their hardest to help him, but the thoughts are still there

If Reid sees you interacting with someone who seems interested in you, his mind will implode

Will be constantly trying to justify the person’s ‘disappearance’ to himself for hours whilst alone

Will come up with the excuse that the person is dangerous to you, or has the potential to be (his calculations will be slightly skewed)

At first, he’ll ask Morgan or Hotch to help him ‘deal with’ the person, but since the person is literally innocent, they can’t do anything

He gets frustrated but brushes it off as paranoia

Spencer starts to find himself hovering near where your house is just to ‘check in’ on you to see if you’re alright

To him, he’s just being protective over you. He wants you safe

But he also knows if he springs all of his thoughts and worries on you, you’ll hate him

Whenever he thinks about you hating him he feels like he can’t breathe

He needs you to like him--love him, even

As weeks and months go by, he doesn’t fight his impulsive thoughts as much as before

Whenever you’re near, you have 100% of his attention. He barely looks away from you if you’re within his line of sight

He’s a nervous wreck when you talk

He’s scared he’ll mess up and say something that’ll fuck your friendship up

He’s not good at mincing words, so he has to carefully curate his sentences

When you smile or laugh at something he says, he feels high

When you mention someone who’s not a part of the BAU, that high disappears instantly

It’s replaced with a cold disinterest in whoever it is you’re speaking about

He tries to manipulate the conversation to see if he can pull more info out of you about the person

He takes advantage of his access to FBI equipment and software to find the person

He makes sure to cover his tracks thoroughly and will not rest until he’s sure any audit trail or history or whatever isn’t linked back to him

When he finds the person’s personal info, he finds himself ‘checking them out’

Will take walks in front of their house, or follow them

Does this for every person who’s not an overt threat

He will, however, drop whatever stalkerish shit he’s doing if you call or text him

If someone does ask you out, or you mention going on a date, or talking to a person of interest, haha

Someone’s going to die

Once Spencer gets the necessary information, he’ll stalk the person out

He might have a conversation with them, profile them, and then talk about their relationship to you

He’s more than likely not strong enough to physically overpower a person of above-average strength, but he’s got the brains to make the odds even

Will create an elaborate plan to get the person to come to him instead

Whenever he does manage to kidnap/isolate the person, he won’t kill them immediately

He’d have a genuine heart-to-heart with them

He’d say you’re his. He’ll say he’s yours, and whoever tries to take you away (be it romantically or otherwise) will be met with a steep response. He’ll say he loves you, and will do anything to be sure you’re with him, and only him

Probably kills the person by slitting their throat. A bullet is too easily identifiable

He’ll comfort you if you’re saddened by your date’s/person of interest’s disappearance

When you hug him, his entire body goes hot

He hugs you tightly (probably a bit too tight)

He verbally comforts you as best he can, and assures you you’ll go on other dates (hopefully with him)

He’ll gently rock you if you’re hugging for a long time

If you pull away first, he’ll try to keep you in the hug, but will let go if you push him away

He’ll let you sleep on him, and he’ll stare at you while you do

He’ll think to himself about how beautiful you are, and how you deserve everything, and how much you deserve him especially

He gets a lot pushier after that, especially when it comes to you getting close with others

Will physically hover closer to you

Will glower at anyone who looks at you a certain way

Will never let you privy to these thoughts and habits and behaviors of his until he’s sure you can handle/accept them

He will definitely try to gaslight you and/or emotionally manipulate you if he thought it’d make you like/trust him more

You’d trust him, most likely. He’s Spencer mf Reid, why wouldn’t you

He wouldn’t psychologically manipulate/abuse you that much, and wouldn’t physically put his hands on you unless he had to

He notices the obsessive and compulsive thoughts calm when he’s around you, so he wants you next to him almost 24/7

Gets very disenchanted and uninterested when you’re not around

The team believes him to be down bad

They think he’s a puppy in love with you and find it adorable

Will mention you often to get him engaged

Sometimes he’ll just push through a case due to the thought of seeing you after

If he gets injured on a case, his first and only thought would be his desire to not die and leave you behind. Anything else comes secondary

If you’re a mother figure, or give off ‘motherly’ vibes, that’ll make this worse

If you initiate any form of physical contact, he will beam

Literally treats you like an actual god(dess) (aside from the occasional emotional manipulation but yk)

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total-drama-brainrot · 6 months

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RR AU where Nowen is canon. They're boyfriends, your honour.

Their alliance with the Sisters is formed through Owen and Kitty's common goal of making their grumpy partners lighten up and enjoy the competition; their conjoined efforts to do so are the groups' main subplot.

Additionally: Kitty, in an effort to help her sister get over her breakup, also tries to set up Emma with multiple other contestants to her chagrin. Owen enthusiastically assists Kitty in her matchmaking, dragging Noah along for the ride.

(Emma and Noah bond over their shared exasperation, and they become an iconic wlw/mlm duo.)

Also, Noah is nicer to Owen. I really don't like his characterisation in RR- especially towards Owen.

Instead of the Reality Tv Pros they're called the Media Darlings.

#total drama #platonic male-female relationships? in my total drama? unheard of.#owen and kitty friendship is real. they enable eachothers' silliness.#me on my platonic nemma soapbox once again.#ridonculous race #td owen #td noah #rr kitty #rr emma #rr the sisters #media darlings au #nowen #thoughtless posting #total drama AUs

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whatohitsonfirewelp · 1 month

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Buddie may never go canon. And that’s okay.

It doesn’t change that Buck, Eddie, and Christopher are a family.

And honestly? I truly believe I might even like this more. The idea that hey, yes, a bisexual man and a straight man can continue to be best friends, co-parents, to show vulnerability with one another and still keep it platonic.

That men overall are allowed to show their emotions and be human and love each other without it inherently being sexual or romantic.

Especially when one of those characters is a Hispanic man, because men of color have so little freedom to express themselves and show their love loudly and openly for their family.

Because Evan Buckley is Eddie’s family.

And they don’t need to be a couple for that to still be true. And if you don’t think it’s possible for two grown men to love each other and still be a family without also being in love, then you need to take a good long look at yourself.

The idea that he can’t is rooted in homophobia and sexism.

#I will always love and adore buddie #but god if it isn’t a beautiful thing to see Ryan share how he feels and have it be so real #because what Ryan wants to happen whay he’s saying is happening that’s so beautiful #so many men don’t allow themselves this #but Ryan is showing that it’s okay!!#it’s okay to cry in front of your male friend!!#it’s okay to let him take care of you!!#it’s okay to create a family with your best friend and still not be in love with them #like hello queer platonic relationships exist #ALSO #FEMALE CHARACTERS DO WHAT EDDIE AND BUCK DO #AND THEY ARE RARELY SHIPPED #BECAUSE ITS ACCEPTABLE FOR FEMALE CHARACTERS TO COMFORT EACH OTHER #AND BE VULNERABLE WITH EACH OTHER #BUT ITS NOT WHEN ITS TWO MEN ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE IS QUEER AND ONE IS STRAIGHT #911 abc #eddie diaz #evan buckley #buddie

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possamble · 2 months

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realizing im kind of a weirdo about laios and marcille

#possramble #ignore this im just babbling but #the thing is that like. i don't ship laios and marcille together. their relationship is so so important to me in that laios comphets himsel #and THINKS that he might be in love with her but he isn't and that's my insane obsession #platonic soulmates for real but they're so sweet together that i fully expect them to be shipped together #like i get it. that's almost the appeal for me. if dungeon meshi were any other series there'd be an epilogue where they get married #convention dictates that they're meant to be together as the male protagonist and his beloved female deuteragonist #but dungeon meshi DOESNT do that and i love it so fucking much they're the comphet besties ever for my strange little brain #like if i ever did an arranged marriage au it would absolutely be laios and marcille having a platonic political marriage and then just #the most insane mutual pining with marcille and falin while laios and marcille struggle their way into becoming best friends #the imagery of the king and his beautiful court mage being tender to each other and everyone thinking they're in love is like catnip to me #like yeah they'd be like that and have no idea people think they should be together and the subversion makes me so obsessed #the more people ship them romantically. the more i enjoy their platonic dynamic it's like some sort of weird comphet fetishism idk #people think they're in love and im outside the window like YES... YES!!!#but also the second i see stuff of them kissing on the mouth or fucking im like oh god no i went too deep in here i gotta get out #don't wanna see that. i'll go feral over the idea of laios and marcille being arm-in-arm like king and queen but they would not fuck.#i want marcille to be his default comphet beard and dance partner/plus one at official royal events but they're not kissing.#she's there on his arm because he's scared of the other noble women tryna get him and being a baby about it #and people see them muttering to each other and laughing and generally being very sweet and think that they're dating but they're not.#she's actually covered in hickies from falin underneath her dress and is gonna get dragon dicked right after the party is over #like she's in her bedroom and falin's helping her take her ridiculous dress off while listening to her complain about politics #and falin is the person she goes home to the person she falls asleep to and wakes up with #they're a triad of utter devotion to each other but only farcille's side of the triangle is romantic #it's almost like an open secret because they're not trying to hide it at all but people assume and are surprised to find out #like people are so right about her relationship with the toudens but with the siblings' roles switched #love of her life & irreplaceable life companion. does anyone get it #anyway. i don't know what's wrong with me #it bothers me that they're not the undisputed most popular het ship for marcille on ao3 #it's unnatural. marcille being paired with any other man should be a fringe case.

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shinigami-striker · 4 months

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Chynna Philips (voice of Kitty) | Monday, 02.12.24

Happy birthday to Chynna Philips, voice of Kitty (Johnny 13's girlfriend) in Danny Phantom (2004-2007).

Trivia Fact: coincidentally, Chynna Philips (voice of Kitty) happens to be married to Willaim Baldwin (voice of Johnny 13).

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markedbyindecision · 1 year

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Amenadiel & Charlotte Richards in Lucifer 3x23

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misfitmiska · 1 year

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With the Hell’s Paradise anime seemingly going strong even though it just started airing I’m really REALLY hoping it becomes popular on this hellsite so that I can finally talk to someone about the amazing deconstruction of masculinity and femininity in this series like holy shit guys it’s really good I swear.

Also I wanna meme about Gabimaru being a wife guy.

#hells paradise #jigokuraku #PLEASE there is just so much to talk about in general #the fact that we have a male-female lead duo with a strictly platonic relationship #the fascinating way nudity is used in a completely desexualised horror-like manner #(actually i’m not sure how much of the nudity is going to make the cut in the tu anime hgfchjhgf)#fricking YUI i love her so much #also yuzuriha and sagiri are GAYYYYYY #like please i need people to get obsessed with this series i really want to talk to somebody about it

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kiwisandpearls · 1 month

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the statements “platonic relationships should not be undervalued” and “it’s ok to ship wlw ships and mlm ships even if the characters involved have no canonical romantic interest in each other” are not mutual exclusive.

#talk away ⌞🍵🍋 ⌝#I’m aroace let me tell you #I absolutely agree and wish people would put more emphasis on platonic relationships #and I wish people would stop downplaying them #platonic relationships can be just as if not more important than romantic ones #at the same time tho #I think it shouldn’t be frowned upon for people to ship two female or male characters together even if they are canonically just friends #yes the statements “there’s no heterosexual explanation for this” when two characters who have a platonic relationship #are being intimate is very annoying when you look at it through the view of #amatonormativity #trust me again I know how annoying those types of statements are #and while a lot of people rightfully criticize it for that #I’ve noticed a lot of times people more seem to criticize that type of thinking #not because it an amatonormative way to view those relationships #but because (whether consciously or not) they’re putting down certain shippers for shipping wlw or mlm ships #that they see as just being friends therefore everyone should see them as friends #and if you don’t your wrong and are shoving them into a relationship that isn’t canon #I think I kinda lost my roll saying that but that’s the best way I can put…nicely at least lol #mlm ships #wlw ships #fandom discussion #kinda?#shipping #queer ships #queer #lgbtqia #I got inspired to make this post via discussion about farcille (dungeon meshi) that I’ve seen more specifically on YouTube #romantic relationships #platonic relationships

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transfinan · 11 months

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Them 🥰

#Queer-platonic interfaith relationship of all time #the last kingdom #liveblogging tag #uhtred #Hild #One thing I truly love about this show is that the female chatacters are so well done #If anything it's the male characters that are just there for plot #Abbess Hild #Hild tlk

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kaltacore · 3 months

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fandoms are so damn weird about wlw ships. if you're into a wlw ship that involves less prominent female characters and/or if they hang out with local popular mlm ship the general assumption is that you are not really into it and just don't want one of the girls to get into yaoi's way especially if you headcanon her as a lesbian. if you think popular m/f ship is boring the general assumption is that you hate women because there's NO way you're genuinely interested in a wlw ship involving the same girl and aren't just a petty misogynistic yaoi enjoyer. if your wlw ship happens to be popular (a miracle really!) there will be people who call it boring ass forced obligatory yuri nobody can be interested in. if your wlw ship has good characterization and drama and is a big deal in canon everyone will move on from it immediately because 'everything that could be said about them was said in canon already' so it's not interesting to have fun with. maybe i'm reading between the lines a little too much but it really feels like some of you believe a relationship between two women can't not be boring and if anyone gets invested in that ship there's no way they're not faking it

#this also goes for platonic relationships really. and a lot of things that involve female characters #there is a lot of fandom misogyny to unpack. and this in particular. was especially loud the last few days #it's so funny and also extremely sad that people straight up forget that wlw ships exist #and when they're reminded of it there will always be a problem with it. it will always be boring. its shippers will always be disingenuous #sorry guys. but your lack of capability and even understanding of the idea that someone can be invested in female characters #is a skill issue. the one that needs a little reflecting on #because everything i listed above is never a problem when it's about male characters. makes you think really. why is that!#fandom critical

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noirineverysense · 6 months

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imo I get that people often don't ship black women bc they don't care about them. But I also feel we put too much emphasis on romance and desirability when it comes to talking about black female characters.

#I think this goes especially for black female characters with white male main characters #I think there's so much energy being put into seeing black women as desirable enough for the white man #and not enough into deconstructing why getting with the white man is the goal here esp if it's not the character's goal #this is about carmy and sydney but it's about a bunch of other black female characters too #saying you like platonic relationships isn't just a way to say you don't care about the character #I care very much about both the character and the relationship #platonic relationships aren't below romantic ones #sydney adamu #the bear #fandom racism

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slutisnotabadword · 2 years

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MCU’s biggest fumbles:

1. A proper, rated r Black Widow movie AFTER Iron Man 2.

2. Steve’s Nomad story after Civil War

3. Not making Stevenat or Winterwidow happen.

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ramblinseahorsey · 2 years

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Everytime I see a piece of media talk about the need of an extremely powerful love, and the love ends up being platonic, my heart grows three sizes.

#PLATONIC! LOVE! IS JUST AS LIKELY TO BE STRONG AND LONGLASTING AS ROMANTIC!!#PLATONIC SOULMATES ARE VALID #PPL WHOSE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIP IS PLATONIC THEIR WHOLE LIVES WHETHER THEYRE AROMANTIC OR NOT ARE VALID #good tropes #writing #rambles #want more earnest emotional shouts of i love you in stories thst isnt automatically assumed to be romantic #this is one of a billion reasons i love wander over yonder so much #yes i do like seeing content of them romantic too #but i cannot get over how happy i am they are platonic in the show #i seek out romantic in fandom more 4 them 2 mix it up; like many parts of most fandoms do; explorin the opposite a canon 4 curiosity #but honestly any content of seeing them hold each other makes my heart sing #cause it reminds me no matter what the relation ship they!!! love each other so much!!! to the end of time!!!#still NEED me more media with main characters who unabashedly show affection and protectivness and casual closeness and tender i love yous #esp between male and female characters of the same age #NEED 2 see more love and eternal loyalty and cuddles in stories; not just with romance or family #that way not only will saying i love you 2 someone without getting weird looks be more normalized; more affectionate love in stories in gen #i feel VERY strongly on this can u tell

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softpadawan · 10 months

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I don't necessarily eniteley hate Saberza. Hell, I feel bad that the line about them being siblings is about to get some people hella fucking dog piled. Because the level of vitriol they're about to catch is gonna be unnecessarily bad and for a fictional ship, at that. But, I'm not gonna lie and say I'm upset that some people are gonna stop shipping it. Cause that line was music to my fucking ears.

I hate how the ship appears 98% of the time. It's so fucking boring and such a fucking Het (Derogatory) Ship, even if they're both queer. It also appeals to the group that defangs female characters so they're the correct kind of soft for shipping.

Let, Sabine and Shin Hati be Feral Queers with each other. Want Ezra with a Wren? Tristan is right there. We can be so much more interesting and fun that the flour take of Sabezra.

I feel bad that the line about them being siblings is about to get some people hella fucking dog piled. Because the level of vitriol they're about to catch is gonna be unnecessarily bad and for a fictional ship, at that.

I truly, honestly sympathize with the Sabezra shippers and hope (a fool's hope; SW fans are the Worst™) that the fandom at least has the decency to practice the "block and ignore" and "your ship is not my ship and that's ok" policies because, like you said, it's all just make-believe crap and no reason to be an ass to people online.

But yeah, nonny, I also share your sentiment about the whole "thank fuck we dodged another boring-ass vanilla het ship"—and I don't say that out of hatred for M/F ships, but more so the absolute gut-wrenching failure on the part of professional writers to build a legitimately interesting, believable, complex (not conflicted, but complex in the sense of being fully fleshed-out, built upon something other than just raw sexual attraction) relationship between a male and female character without gutting their entire development arcs and reducing them to soppy banal cliches. (Like what you mentioned about writers "defanging" female characters to make them softer and more likeable. Yeah, that shit reeks. I'm not going to fault fanfic authors for not having unlearned this subtle-yet-deeply-ingrained flavor of misogyny yet—it's going to take a while to root out something so pervasive and insidious—but I am going to hold the professionals fully accountable for delivering egregious, sophomoric drivel and telling us it's Grade-A storytelling.)

Fantastic M/F ships can be done. Look at Pacific Rim. Literally any Hayao Miyazaki film featuring two main characters of the opposite sex.

Or maybe it's time to forget the "confirmed ship" stuff altogether and leave the entire relationship open to interpretation, like what people have been doing with Sabezra for the last nine years. (And what canon queer relationships/characters have been dealing with for decades, relegated to hints and easily-censored dialogue, keeping it "toned down" and "wholesome" to appeal to straight audiences who still hate them at the end of the day. But I digress.)

Bottom line, I think if writers spent more time focused on the story and individual characters instead of trying to set the boy up with the girl, it would do wonders for the quality of storytelling as well as preventing this caustic Pavlovian reaction we (I) are starting to have any time we're offered male/female romance onscreen. That's my opinion, anyway.

#didn't mean to turn this into a salt deposit but here we are #star wars #star wars rebels #ezra bridger #sabine wren #ahsoka #this isn't my ship but i'll defend anyone's right to ship it #they ain't real guys #male/female relationships #platonic ships #fandom #softpad answers

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incorrectinfinity · 2 days

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One of Denji's first and best friendships being with Power, a woman, is so fucking important to his character holy fuck.

#🎀.txt #he thought he was interested in her but once he realized he wasn't their relationship being purely platonic is a fucking godsend #having it be brought up after they'd known eachother for months #and having Denji reaffirm the fact that there was literally not romantic/sexual feeling between them #it's so good I need more male female friendships that are PURELY FRIENDSHIPS

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thirstyvolleyballhoe · 1 year

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parks and rec is such a good show and gave us so many great memes and yet it's so underrated in pop culture

#i just feel like it should have the office levels of fame #it's just so good!!!#i love it so much!!!#also it's like one of the only shows i know with platonic heterosexual male and female characters whose relationship is equally important #to the plot as the romantic ones #ron and leslie have made me cry more times than ben and leslie have #parks and rec #parks and recreation

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