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long-distance-love · 1 year

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Just hold my face and kiss me senseless please

#danny loves #long distance couple #long distance relationship #long distance problems #relationship #yearning #long distance call #missing you #long distance love #couples in love #love quotes #love blog #lovecore #lovesick #touch starved #1k

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bloggingboutburgers · 1 year

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Don’t mind me still a bit sad at the moment y’know

#long distance relationship #binational #queerplatonic relationship #long distance problems #long distance is hard #my art #nonburger

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bikeboyblues · 1 year

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pet names & long distance

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vampireink · 9 months

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I don't just "miss you". My entire soul burns for you. My body aches to be near you. My heart jumps in my chest, wanting to be in your hands. My head spins, wanting you to steady it. I see you in everything, everywhere I look. I wish I was tucked up in the safety of your arms, listening to the beat of your heart.

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krissy25 · 7 months

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I want cuddles! I wish I could get cuddles from my favorite person. 😩

#personal post #cuddles #long distance problems #long distance relationship #ugh 😩😩😩

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marshaldoesstuff · 10 months

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I love my gf so much and it's been such a great and healthy relationship and I'm so happy to be with her...

But oh my GOSH I would not recommend long distance relationships for the faint of heart. The feeling of missing her is so sad.

#long distance love #long distance dating #long distance problems #long distance is killing me

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zootedhoot · 8 months

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Why I Still consider myself a transcel/incel even if I have a bf.

LISTEN LISTEN. (Not a volcel)

I know what you’re thinking, that I’m no longer an “incel” because I eventually found someone, but I beg to differ.

This is NOT me trying to attach myself to this label because I like it or romanticize it, I honestly am not proud that I’m involuntary celibate but shit happens.

The reason why I still consider myself a transcel, even more then before, is that this relationship is long distance, VERY long distance because I’m strictly t4t, and yeah. I feel for someone online. Now I know what your thinking.

“Just date someone near by so you’re no longer celibate.”

With who? I can’t be t4t here, let alone if most people can’t find trans people irl, the trans ppl Ik are ether taken or NOT in the mental space to be in a relationship. (Or just trenders.)

2. “Then try dating cis people.”

LMAOOO. I’m not putting myself through that again. Dating a cis woman is the absolute worse, they manipulate and play mind games with you, so you can fit in their butch lesbian fantasy. Absolutely disgusting. Cis men are slightly less horrid, they’re at least a bit more direct/obvious about it, attempting to make you more woman.

3. “Ok but you still got a bf at the end of the day, so why’d you call urself a transcel?”

The definition of celibate according to the Oxford dictionary is:

Since my bf is 1,175 miles away, we can’t do anything sexual anytime soon. And honestly, based on our distance, where he lives, and our current life circumstances, it’s most likely we aren’t going to meet, like, ever.

And no, I don’t consider “E-sex” or whatever as actual intercourse, sure it’s an inmate thing, but not actual sex.

4. “Okay, hypothetically if you did meet up with your bf, and did do the do, that’d no longer make you an incel.”

I need you too understand, that I do want to have sex. One day or another.

But due to the world we’re living in, and that I’m a dude with out a dick, I mentally can not agree too it. This is where the phrase I have in my bio, “mentally castrated”, cause that’s what I am.

I’m going to get real personal here, I was S/Aed by lesbians. Therefore can not have sex with a cis woman. Yes, that might be “transphobic” towards me, but I can’t let that 12 year old boy sobbing while being traumatized feel betrayed because future me was horny.

And It’s unfortunate, but I feel the same is true for trans men. I KNOW I KNOW that’s sooo “transphobic”, but come on, we have the same parts, female parts. And that disgusts me. Sure things like strap ons exist, but those were made for lesbians. Hell, I might have a break down if i recognize the sound.

I can’t have sex with cis guys, no matter how sexually satisfying that might be, because I’ll know he’ll see me as just a woman.

I feel t girls wouldn’t be as humiliating or traumatizing as the others I listed, but I’d say it’s pretty demasculizing for a chick top you. But I’d still take that chance, because if you couldn’t tell. I’m desperate. However, I only met two trans girls irl, and they’re both in long term relationships so we can rule out.

As you can see, this is why, even with a wonderful online boyfriend who lives in the middle of nowhere. I’m still, unfortunately, a transcel.

TLDR: I crave sex but cannot have it with my bf bc of the distance, cannot have it with any other individual ether bc of Trauma and gender.

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qpp-townie · 8 months

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Thinking about how much I wanted to scream and yell at people around ‘why am I so unlovable? why does no one want to hold on tight to me? why did you make social interaction so hard?’ but that would not have helped. It is a legitimate grief, but one I had to process and work through. If I had gotten angry at my now partner for not wanting a relationship when I first asked, I wouldn’t be cuddled up with them in bed here today.

Being queer and neurodivergent and missing out key platonic and or romantic relationships can leave you an adult with so much grief and anxiety around relationships, but getting those relationships won’t fix that, you need to grow from it yourself. You don’t need to be alone through it, but it’s work you have to do to heal. I was so insecure and felt so horrible whenever my long distance partner didn’t respond to my messages for hours or didn’t initiate hangouts. But over time I’ve learned it’s a normal thing and communicated when I need reassurance or more attention.

You deserve care or affection or respect the way you want it. And I hope all of you with that grief of not having the people you needed in life so far, know you are not alone and are not broken.

#yearning #qpp #qpr #platonic yearning #romantic yearning #pining #relationships #friendship #long distance problems #long distance romance #long distance love #friends

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long-distance-love · 1 year

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No matter how far you are, I will always be glad you exist.

#danny loves #long distance couple #long distance relationship #long distance problems #relationship #yearning #long distance call #missing you #long distance love #couples in love #love quotes #love blog #love #lovers

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bloggingboutburgers · 11 months

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Last time I had to do this was already a month and a half ago but that latest song I listened to gave me long-distance feels so don’t mind me

#long distance relationship #ldr #long distance problems #queerplatonic relationship #binational couple #my art #nonburger

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fairestopia · 1 year

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There will never be anything funnier than threatening to beat up your online friends when you meet them

#online friends #online relationship #long distance problems #infp life #introvert

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bikeboyblues · 1 year

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the half laughed "what?" while staring at each other after kissing is a feeling that i wish i could put into a little box and keep tucked away in the safest part of my heart

it's so gentle and so intimate, the moment when you both know exactly what you're thinking, but at the same time know nothing at all

and that small smile you give me before tucking my hair away from my face and pulling me back in

i wish to keep this feeling safe forever

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farsimplez · 1 year

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i was having conversations with my self about why we parted ways. it was grey. it was sudden and it hurts me so much. it started when you stopped asking me how my day was, you stopped asking me with “what are you doing” like you used to. maybe you didn’t care anymore or you never did.

then it was hours between replies and no more calls. i thought you were busy. but you didn’t come. you didn’t call or even text me. and when i realize you stopped saying good morning to me, i knew i lost you.

it was small things. our conversations got shorter untill there was nothing left. you left me without making the sound. our relationship silently crash. leaving me with tons of question; what made you stop caring about me? why did you leave me?

#words #chaos academia #thoughts #why did you leave #dont leave me #people change #dark academia #love #quotes #relationship #long distance problems #long distance is killing me

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vampireink · 3 months

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And once again I wish I could shatter the distance between us and make it cease to exist. The world does not understand how I pine for you, how my heartstrings ache as though they are teetering on the edge of snapping completely. I say I will wait for as long as it takes for us to be together, but my love, I am sure this longing will kill me.

[Kas]

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blackbird-brewster · 12 days

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So many people in my life are struggling and hurting right now and GOD I WISH I COULD TELEPORT. Having friends all over the world is great and amazing, but it's also very stupid that I can't hug them.

Let me reach through the screen and physically hold all my loves. Let me kiss their foreheads and tell them it'll be okay. Sometimes text/voice/video just isn't enough.

I need to be able to instantly teleport so I can deliver my love in person. Let me appear and help you clean your house and make you lunch and cuddle you til you fall asleep.

C'mon science. Figure this shit out.

#i feel like tumblr people understand what I'm saying here #about me 2k24 #long distance friendship #long distance relationship #long distance problems

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klutzykelzy · 10 months

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he just called and said he could do better, and he will.

now i’m crying again. i’m glad he can admit that… because i do need more love & reassurance right now.

i am not well.

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