#trans!listener

[nanowatzophina]

Uhm… my headcanon. And if Porter turns out to be the asshole Vincent claims I’m gonna be really mad…

But here is my Treasure, thought this would be a good proper introduction. Still tossing around names but I think I’ll name him Cress Lark. They go by he/they pronouns and they are a dork. Haven’t gotten the chance to draw it cuz I’m really bad at doing full body stuff but guy’s got a prosthetic leg. And I would die for him.

#redacted #redacted audio #gendered listener #m!treasure #nb!treasure #Porter solaire #cress lark #trans!listener #trans!treasure #art #doodles #this started out as just doodling randomly and I’m happy that this is how it turned out #morning after

[kalamity-jayne]

Hey, remember how just a few weeks ago trans folks were sounding the alarm about how The Gaurdian was seeking interviews for a story about DIY HRT?

And remember how there were a few folks on here who were saying that was misinformation cause some folks at the Gaurdian said it was false on twitter?

Lo and behold, turns out you should trust your own community more than the fucking journalists with a heavy anti-trans reputation! Use common sense next time and don't be so naive!

#Transphobia #diy hormones #transgender #listen to your own people next time #trans

[noonstate]

i need well meaning cis people to stop attemping to steelman trans healthcare conversations because it basically always ends with them just lying about easily checkable things "no minors are getting irreversible treatments" wrong not true "no minors are having surgery" also false, like instead just say the truth: currently some minors (few, but some) are able to access hrt that will have some irreversible changes on their body, some (even fewer) minors are able to access surgery.

the counter to transphobes screaming "these kids are being irreversibly changed" isn't "no children are accessing this care" it's "puberty is also an irreversible change" and "i think under 18s and even under 16s should be able to make medical decisions actually"

"no minors are accessing this care" means that transphobes can easily point to the examples of minors who are accessing that care, which just make us look like liars. sometimes teenagers and children need to make medical choices on their own. i think a 14 y/o should be able to get an abortion. i think trans kids and teens should be able to have the approriate care, which for some will just be like, picking a new name or haircut, and for some, sure, could be surgery.

#*m #so many journalists / youtubers / podcasters try to defend trans people but just like. say this shit that is basically a lie #i get why i get it's an easier convo to have but actually having the hard conversation is really fucking important. #not for the transphobes those people are fucked but like. for the well meaning libs who listen to x news piece or x podcast u know

[wis-art]

this piece is about being transgender

my ko-fi

#caris #my art #art #transgender #trans #it's about how often we are stripped off anything else than sexuality #and how we are often a subject of the political show that doesnt really listen to anything we say #playing our part in it wether we like it or not #it's a vent piece #at least i get to reclaim being hot #lol #nobody can take that away from me

[dumbgoonboy]

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

Boys whose voices get higher and whinier while ur fucking them I love you. Boys who speak in a lower register when they're around their friends but lose control when they're begging and whimpering for me I love youuuu

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

#bones barks #i get so hard just THINKING about this dude #ive been listening to whimpering audios while working on my dnd campaign #if you have whimpering audio/video on ur blog i WILL find it and i WILL listen to it #dom/me post #t4t #t4t nsft #ftm nsft #ftm dom #ftm sub #ftm top #ftm bottom #ftm puppy #voice kink #whimpering #ftnb #ftnb nsft #ftnb sub #ftnb dom #mtnb nsft #mtnb sub #mtnb dom #trans mtnb #mtnb bottom #puppyboy #bunny boy

[gorgynei]

rip and tear and maim etc. etc.

#i drew this entire thing while listening to werewolf shame by direct hit! on loop #had a really specific vibe and energy beamed into my head and just. had to draw it out. i had to #something something the inherent punk queerness of werewolves.... #aceart #ramblings #werewolfisms #werewolf #trans

[hannikin-grahamkin]

He's not my enemy. He is my homoerotic rival and if anybody but me ever tries to hurt him I will promptly kill them.

#hannibal lecter #will graham #hannigram #hannibal #this is applicable to many pairings so pls feel free to blorbo tag #this is just a thought i had while making up witty banter for a fanfic #nbc hannibal #hannibal nbc #hannibal the cannibal #i hate to say it but #drarry #draco malfoy #harry Potter #listen i hate her just as much as most trans people but the fanfiction is fair game #enemies to lovers #enemies with benefits #enemies to friends trope #nygmobblepot #idk how i didn't think of them #my loves #edward nygma #oswald copplepot #batjokes #bruce wayne #joker

[intergalacticgoose]

The “LGBTQ+ is a social contagion” theory from cishet people is soooo funny to me like you’re telling me heterosexuality is SO ingrained and SO watertight and yet SO fragile that if your kid so much as picks up a fucking Steam Powered Giraffe album they’ll turn into raging queer? Do you HEAR yourselves?????

#and let’s be real if they’re listening to SPG…they were already at the station #lgbtq #queer #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #gay #lesbian #trans #nonbinary #enby #gender nonconforming #genderqueer #gender things #down with the cistem

[inkskinned]

you have to go to work so you can pay for your doctor, who is not taking your insurance right now, and if you say i can't afford the doctor's you are told - get a better job. it is very sad that you are unwell, yes, but maybe you should have thought about that before not having a better job.

(where is the better job? who is giving out these better jobs? you are sick, you are hurting - how the hell are you supposed to be well enough for this better job?)

but you go to the doctor because you had the nerve to be hurt or sick or whatever else. and they tell you that it is because you have anxiety. you try your best. you are a self-advocate. you've done the reading (which sometimes pisses them off worse, honestly). you say it is actually adding to my anxiety, it is effecting my quality of life. so they say that you are fat. they say that all young people have this happen to them, isn't it a medical marvel! they say that you should eat more vegetables. they say that you probably just need to lose a little more weight, and that you are faking it for attention.

(what attention could this doctor possibly give? what validation? that's their fucking job, isn't it?)

there is always a hypochondriac, right. someone always tells you about a hypochondriac. or someone who is unnecessarily aggressive during the worst days of their life. or someone looking "for a quick fix". or some idiot who wasn't educated about how to properly care for themselves who just abandons their treatment. and again, the hypochondriac, the overly-cautious hysteric. these people don't deserve to be treated like humans (right), and since you might be one of these people, you also don't get treated like a human. because those people can really fuck with the system, you now have to pay for it. and besides. you're actually probably faking it.

(more often than not, you find a 2:1 ratio of these stories. for every "hypochondriac", there are 2 people who knew something was wrong, and yet nobody could fucking find it. the story often ends with pointless suffering. the story often ends with and now it's too late, and it's going to kill me.)

you are actually just making excuses. someone else got that procedure or that diagnosis and he's fine, you should be fine too. someone else said they watched a documentary about other inspirational people with your exact same condition, maybe you should be inspirational, too. you're just too morbid. your pain and your experience is probably just not statistically concerning. it is all self-reported anyway, and you're just being a baby.

(once, while sitting down in the middle of making coffee, you had the sudden, horrible thought - i could kill myself to make the pain stop. you had to call your best friend after that. had to pet your dog. had to cry about it in the shower. you won't, but that moment - god, fuck. the pain just goes on and on.)

you know someone who went in for routine surgery and said i still feel everything. they told her to just relax. it took her kicking and screaming before they figured out she wasn't lying - the anesthetic drip hadn't been working. you know someone who went in for severe migraines who was told drink water and lose weight. you know someone who was actively bleeding out and throwing up in the ER and was told you're just having a bad period.

in the ER there are always these little posters saying things like "don't wait! get checked today!" and you think about how often you do wait. how often the days spool out. you once waited a full week before seeing the doctor for what you thought was a sprained wrist. it had actually been broken - they had to rebreak it to set it.

but you go into the doctor. the problem you're having is immediate. the person behind the counter frowns and says we're not taking your insurance. you will be paying for this out-of-pocket.

they send you home with tylenol and a little health packet about weight loss or anxiety or attention deficit. on the front it has your birthday and diagnosis. you think about crying, and the words swim. it might as well say go fuck yourself. it might as well say you're a fucking idiot. it might as well say light your money on fire and lie down in it. and the entire fucking time - the problem persists.

it's okay. it's okay, it's just another thing, you think. it's just another thing i have to learn to live with.

#spilled ink #warm up #can you tell what i'm mad about today specifically #i will say that there are a LOT of things that go into this. like a lot. this is ungendered and unspecific for a reason #it isn't just sexism. it's also racism. and ableism. and honestly classism. #and before a healthcare professional reads this as a personal attack: i understand ur burnt out #we are ALSO burnt out. your situation is also dire. this is not an attack on you. #this is a commentary on the incredible amounts of bigotry that lie at the heart of capitalism #where people have to pay money out of pocket to be told to fuck off. #your job is important. so is our humanity. and if you cannot accept that people are fucking mad as hell #at the industry - you are probably not listening . #anyway at some point im gonna write a piece about sexism specifically in medical shit #but i don't want terfs clowning in it bc they can't understand nuance #> it is true that ppl w/a uterus are more likely to experience medical malpractice & dismissal globally #> it is also true that trans people experience an equally fucked up and bad time in the medical field #> great news! the medical industrial complex is an equal opportunity life ruiner :) #(if you find it necessary to go into a debate about biology while discussing medical malpractice #i want to warn you that you're misunderstanding the issue. because guess what. #cis MEN might experience this. particularly black men. particularly disabled men. #so YES having a uterus can lead to more trouble for you. but this happens a LOT. #instead of fighting those ALSO experiencing your pain.... try working WITH them. #which btw. is like. actual feminism.)

[danielnelsen]

while i get where this comes from and it’s true to an extent, i reeeaaaally don’t like how people try to explain “trans men don’t [necessarily] have male privilege” with things like “some trans men don’t pass”.

like sure that’s the most obvious example (someone who is seen as a woman won’t have the privilege that comes with being seen a man) but you’re still acting like being a passing trans man is just a free opt-in to male privilege which is………kinda the issue.

#personal #ohh don’t be weird on my post please this is just on my mind #i’ve seen it so many times just in the last few days #like yeah a passing trans man receives more benefits than anyone who’s seen as a woman #and i’m sure most people making those arguments DO understand that it’s not that simple #but very few people engaging in these kinds of discussions in good faith would argue that someone seen as a woman has male privilege #(note: VERY FEW people engaging in GOOD FAITH) #i see people be like ‘everyone thinks all trans men pass’ and like…….WHO is thinking that who’s also gonna listen to you here #maybe it’s just my grew-up-in-a-conservative-religious-environment thing but your experience is not universal #i would also like you to consider whether ‘anyone that looks like a man has male privilege’ is consistent with your other views #1k #(oh god guys please)

[kaslanist]

and my fuel are memories

#i baked 5 trans flags into this see if u can find them #anyway guess who's been listening to iron lotus so much that it's his top song of the month on spotify now #i feel a little crazed #twisted wonderland #twst #lilia vanrouge #own art #twst fanart

[nanowatzophina]

Anyone else still excited for their weddings?

Let’s be honest, Asher WOULD get married in a Jersey, Milo had to wrestle him into that tux and try his best with his hair. But he managed it.

And hey! Not a Nick Miller Jessica Day one. Not even a New Girl one to round out my pass at doing screen caps with each of the pack and their listeners!

Ref:

#redacted audio #redacted #Asher #cannot remember his last name #Ivy Barnes #babe #baaabe #beautiful wedding. I’ll be so happy #I can’t wait to hear their vows… #gendered listener #fem!listener #fem!babe #trans!listener #trans!babe

[redditreceipts]

the prospect for female class solidarity is dire, my dear friends

#radblr #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact #radical feminists please touch #gender critical #feminism #gc feminism #gc feminist #gender abolition #radfems please touch #radfems please interact #radfem safe #autogynephilia #agp #listen to trans women #misogyny #reddit #patriarchy

[humbuns]

hits them with the yuri beam

#enstars #femstars #natsumugi #shumika #hiyojun #listen i still feel like 60% uncomfortable with genderbends as a trans person myself #but they're the exception because a) they're trans-coded to me anyways and b) they also hold yuri potential #i have my reasons it's what i'm saying so don't engage if you're gonna be weird abt it #anyway you can tell what types of ships i like huh #you can't take bassist mugi out of my dying hands if you even tried #doodles

[softd0m-charlie]

this fucking guy just said "sorry that my music taste is so gay" as if we don't live together and sleep in the same bed and have gay sex and own several sex toys including the widest plug i could find in spencer's that i bought for myself a few days ago. i do not think listening to pierce the veil is the gayest thing here

#listening to ptv is pretty gay though #but not as gay as like. oh i don't know. having sex with a man who you're in a relationship with #ftm nsft #t4t nsft #trans nsft #ftm dom #ftm t4t #ftm top #t4t mlm #nsft t4t #mlm t4t #transmasc mlm #ftm mlm #mlm ftm #trans mlm #mlm #mlm nsft #nsft trans #queer nsft #gay nsft #lgbt nsft #nsft ftm

[grimark]

i do think somebody made up oingo boingo just so that the 19 year old tumblr transmascs with herbert west reanimator icons who listen to nothing except talking heads and lemon demon would also have a third band to listen to.

#also since this is getting a few notes i feel like i need to clarify. this is gentle teasing and not meant to be mean-spirited lol #i am also trans and listen to two out of three of these bands on a regular basis. love u all.