some people need to realize that people's identity doesn't harm you, like who cares if someone named bug, who uses cat/it pronouns, identifies as a fox and has xenogenders? like it's not harming you is it? let people live their life, if they are happy and they're not harming anyone or themselves, why does it matter so much? /gen
anyway ive seen too many bad posts today so queer folk w/ 'problematic' or 'contradictory' identities/labels i am kissing u lovingly on the forehead. i love you mspec gays and lesbians, i love you boygirls and girlboys and genderfuckers, i love you it/its and neopronouns and pronoun non-conformity. i love you non-transitioning and non-dysphoric trans folk. i love you xenogenders and neogenders and neurogenders and kingenders. i love you faggots and dykes and people who are both. i love you, queers without labels, and i love you, queers with a million labels, and i love you, queers who are still finding their labels, if any. i love you, i love you i love you i love you. we are all comrades in arms and i am baking you fresh warm bread.
So I disappeared for 2 months, but I finally completed this project! :D
(Though I've been making some random posts talking about it, so it's not like I was really gone, or what I was working on wasn't obvious.)
It started off as me having trouble keeping track of a couple gender terms (and also not knowing they existed before, since I've never really seen people talk about them), then I thought I should make a list, and if I was going to do that I might as well post it to help other people too. Which I started out trying to make that list on Tumblr, but I found it too limiting so I moved to google docs, which I also found too limiting (I just couldn't achieve my vision, if you will), and now I know html and css.
As usual, I kinda overdid it, but I think I should be a little proud of myself. I had 0 knowledge of html and css, and 2 months later I've made my own website.
(I could have made it much quicker, but I often had to take breaks, a bit overwhelmed by all that new stuff.)
Anyways, it has a ton of terms on there.
I have sections for nonbinary, abinary, midbinary, atrinary, midtrinary, androgyne, agender, neutrois, maverique, ilyagender, aporagender, outherine, kenochoric, and xenogender.
For 7 categories (sex terms, adult, general term, child, gender quality, gender-quality-in-nature genders, and spectrum / viagender spectrum).
And they all have sources on both Archive Today, Wayback Machine, and if still existing, the original post too. (At least to the best of my abilities, and there are a couple of exceptions that I couldn't figure out.)
I did put effort into this, but it's possible I missed something. So if I made a mistake anywhere, or if anyone has any extra information to add on, or if you just have some comments, you can tell me. My ask box is open, but comments on this post would probably be fine too.
Also, I checked on a couple of different browsers, mobile too, and read up on web accessibility and checked and all that (I tried using a screen reader, I'm not a pro at it though, so it's possible I may have missed something obvious), so I hope the website itself is useable. But if there's any bugs there, just tell me (it'll be appreciated).
I'm also thinking of making another compilation, but for flags (for all of the terms listed here), and maybe orientations too, but maybe later haha
I also don't know how to write a image id for the top picture, if anyone wants to write to one I'll add it.
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Below the cut is a short little video scrolling through the site.
Hyperxenogender is like xenogender, but more complicated. It's when your gender is so complicated, deep, infinite, unique, indescribable, alien, xeno if you will, that you need an essay just to explain what it is. It's like a xenogender, if the xenogender was it's own complicated, fleshed out universe. If the xenogender needed worldbuilding to explain. Hyperxenogenders usually have multi-paragraph definitions that are usually much more complicated and long than normal xenogenders.
Flag made by me but i think the flag looks like SHIT so feel free to make a new one
Possible suffixes for hyperxenogenders might be -hyperic, -hypergender, -hyperid, -hyperxenogender, -hyperxeno, -hypercharic, -hypercoric, -hyperkin, -hyperstimmic, -hyperspinnic, -hypersongic, etc.
I already coined a hyperxeno: KEINhypergender, or kenohyperchoric
This is an umbrella term for any hyperxenogender that is kenochoric in nature (KEIN).
Ast, meaning star & "tex" taken from Vortex. Astex.
A gender that's kenochoric-in-nature; it's stars that're vortexes or vortexes that're classified as stars. This gender is deathly, but in a cosmic, strangely comforting, way. It could be akin to black holes.
I've spent years trying to put together my gender identity since I could never find anything that really fit me. Well, I finally found stuff that really fit me today. It's multiple gender labels, but I'm okay with that. You ready to hear this absolute conundrum of a gender identity?
*Inhales*
I am kenochoric, confugender, mutogender and spikegender. Good luck Google translating that 🤪
cringe culture is dead, you have xenogenders? me too! you're a therian? same! you're a furry? same here! do you identify as non-human and or alterhuman? cool me as well! do you use neopronouns and or xenopronouns? we're the same! do you have a typing quirk and use "cringy" words? that's cool and same! do you have a unique style(scene, emo, harajuku, goth, gyaru, etc)? that's really cool! do you still watch cartoons, play with toys and still play the same games that you grew up with? because me too! you make "cringy" self-insert fanfics? that's fine! as long as what you're doing doesn't hurt you or anyone it's perfectly fine! be yourself, screw assholes <3 /gen
image id: a flag with 4 stripes, with the second and third being half the size of the rest. they are near-black, purple, dull light purple, and dark indigo. end id.
banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.
a hex flag for anon!
since hex is the kenochoric equivalent of terms like boy and girl, i based the format on these flags — i went with a similar format to the enby flag (bottom left) so i didn't end up with a flag that looked too similar to the klk flag — and used colors from the kenochoric flag.
𓉸✙ liminabomination ┈ a KEIN gender under the genderabomination system connected to being an abomination of liminal spaces, being an abomination in a liminal way, etc.
Kiaspec / keiaspec : an umbrella term for anyone on the kenochoric spectrum. It includes all kenochoric genders, partial kenochoric genders, kenic (kenochoric aligned) and adjacent genders, and genders which are in some way similar to / resemblant of kenosity / kenochoricness.
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The difference between kiaspec and kenic (kenochoric alignment):
There is overlap for sure, but they're not quite the same. Kiaspec would be a broader label.
People who are keno adjacent, or in some way similar without being aligned, and whatnot, would be included under kiaspec but not kenic. Something that comes to mind is proxvir and juxera. They're near, or adjacent if you will, to male and female, but they wouldn't be male and female aligned right?
So I would say that's the difference, but it's possible I'm just not understanding what alignment means.
I wasn't able to find a kenochoric version of miaspec, fiaspec, niaspec, and such -iaspec genders, so I made one myself :)
The k comes from the first letter of kenochoric.
And the alt term keiaspec uses the first two letters of kenochoric, instead of just the first.
The flag follows the format of 5 stripes, which all the -iaspec flags have, but with the lightest stripe second to last, like in the niaspec and abiaspec flags. With the colours just being based off of the kenochoric flag.
I originally put the lightest stripe in the middle, more similar to the majority of -iaspec flags, however it didn't quite look distinct enough / too similar to other kenochoric flags, so this alternative colour ordering was chosen.
[id: a rectangular flag with 11 equally-sized vertical lines. colors in this order from left to right: black-purple, dark purple, grey-purple, grey-pink, light pink, white, light pink, grey-pink, grey-purple, dark purple, black-purple. /end id]
Impargirl: a gender where one is a girl in a weird, odd, or strange, subverted, fucked up, incomprehensible way. one isn’t aligned with girlhood or femininity, & is completely removed from cisnormativity, (possibly heteronormativity), & human concepts of girls/women. this gender may be related to alterhumanity/nonhumanity, may be xenic/XIN (xenine in nature), kenic/KEIN (kenochoric in nature), outheric /OUIN (outherine in nature), & possibly male-aligned/MAIN (male in nature) in a weird, subverted way, but doesn’t have to be.