#life issues

[noa-ciharu]

I really wish romance was less idealized. I really wish it wasn't put on such high pedestal and regarded as "ultimate life achievement" and something that everyone aims for by default.

I could go lengths about amatonormativity and harm it has on aspec people - but truth is amatonormativity harms everyone. There are people out there that genuinely believe it's better to be in unfulfilling or dysfunctional relationship than to be alone. There are people out there that would pursue relationships at any cost or try to prolong current dysfunction ones just out of fear of being alone. There are people out there that start thinking they're damaged goods if they've been single for some amount of time; that they have no value because "noone wants them"

List goes on and on, and that's just personal beliefs and world views; even if subconscious. Add society's pressure into mix and you get bomb ready to go off at any moment

#amatonormativity #aromanitc #aromantism #life issues

[nellysview]

I don’t feel really well. I thought everything will be fine by now but it’s worse. How do I even know if this is true. It feels like it’s true. Why does it feels like my heart is broken but it isn’t. When can I stop pretending everything. I don’t want to. I am so sick of all of this. Why can’t the world be okay? Why can’t I be okay? I have seen a video of me talking to my future self I it feels like this is a other person. This person who is talking is loud and doesn’t care about all of this. This person thinks her dreams are just dreams and that all of this will never come true. This person dreams every night about this girl and can’t imagine her life without them but now.. I should be happy. That’s what they all say. You should be happy. You have everything you want. There is no reason for you to be that way. Should I end it? Should I end her? Idk

Idk anything. Why am I crying all night just because I miss her. Why am I still thinking I don’t deserve her? Why is she still so mean and loud in my head. WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING? IDK! IDK!

Get out of here. Let me live my fucking stupid life and get out. Now.

(Sorry needed this as a diary and as therapy)

Thanks and I am sorry if you understand it:/

#mental heath tw #mental problems #i am fucked #god i hate it so much #i hate her #i hate my body #I hate myself #i am fine #and stupid #sorry for this #anger issues #life issues #overthinking #therapy #feels like therapy #send help lol #or not lol

[fvckbluelives]

#life #life issues #diddy #p diddy

[adorkabletwilightandfriends]

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[lesbianishstuff]

I need advice and the reason I’m coming on here is because nobody knows me in real life so they won’t know the people I’m talking about.

I’ve been working a part-time job for the past three years. For the most part, I like the job because I can set my own hours and I can be outside not having to deal with people.

I broke my foot in July (from over use. I work a desk job, a side gig mowing lawn, on the weekends I ride horses, and this 2nd job I’m speaking about here.) I informed my part-time job, which is very physical, about this, but told them I would keep working as I had a walking boot on. I worked for a month before the pain in my foot got really really bad. I went back to the doctor and she said I needed to cut one physical thing out of my life for a month and see what would happen. I chose the second job as it pays the least. I’ve been working there for three years making $12 an hour. It is cash money which is nice. 

I’ve been off for the past month and my foot is getting better although I still have some pain. I went back to the doctor last Tuesday and she said I can start my walking routine again, but she cautioned me about starting my second job again that it is an overuse injury and even though it’s only 4 to 5 hours a week it is very physical. Since I’ve been off, I realized how nice it is to have free time no longer working 14 hour days. (I work 10 hrs at my desk job, then go clean stalls for a few hours)

I really don’t wanna go back to this job although I will miss to the cash, but I don’t know how to break it to them. They’ve been good to me, but also promised me a raise which I’ve never gotten. another issue, they have me on their life 360 and can see everything I’m doing (that was part of the deal getting the job so they could see where I’m at on the farm if Something Happens) and I have a feeling in their opinion that I’m active enough and can come back to the job.

I just feel extremely guilty, like I’ve done something wrong for not going back to this job even though the doctor told me it probably wouldn’t be in my best interest. 

Help

#help #advice #life issues #work life #I’m being an asshole

[alast4r]

Huhu, my schedule is packed tomorrow, from 8am-5pm I ain't gonna be seeing Tumblr nor my works. I genuinely had a rough day as well, I ended up leaving my wallet which had a lot of cash and IDs on a public transportation so I had to run back there in this shitty heat just to find the exact driver I rode and gladly he found my wallet but I feel so anxious about it. Anyways I'll just stay up the entire weekend and finish writing my drafts, hopefully. Nicknaming all of you treats now btw 🍬

#hazbin hotel #hazbinhotel #alastor #alastor hazbin hotel #alastor the radio demon #alastor x reader #hazbin #hazbin alastor #radio demon #rant #personal rant #life issues #alastor smut

[sweetfreedom2107]

I'll waste all my time on you only for you to leave me in the end. That's how it goes.

Hurt people hurt people.

#hurt #reality #feelings #emotions #heartbreak #love #poem #life #young love #unrequited feelings #heartbroken #heartache #breakup #sad #relationship problems #relationship #broken #sad truth #spilled words #poetry #poetic #prose #literature #life issues #problems #relatable #relationship issues #short quote #short quotes #life quotes

[thewanderingcotabus]

Tape TALKS!?! - What happened?

A few weeks ago I pined a post of the hanging in there star meme and added a youtube video of a C40LF (bus) being driven to the scrap yard to all my blogs  and I mentioned I wasn’t ready to explain what happened yet. A couple weeks ago I recorded a summery of what happened since then. Of corse the video got stuck in processing and I forgot about it till I got an update a few minutes ago and then checked the video to see if it ever got published and it did. I’m making a mini update to this video as I post this. I’m not great at making videos without a script so this may sound crappy and not well made but given whats going on It was the best i can do on short notice

#youtube #The bus driver speaks #life issues

[mrsannahotcherweasley]

i don't think literally anybody is gonna see this but if somehow someone does.....does anyone else have mommy issues from their childhood even though your mom doesn't act the way she used to, but now she likes to use the fact that she doesn't cause you trauma anymore and that she's a better person now as an excuse for the way she used to treat you?? does that make sense?? and if so, is it only me??

#mommy issues #daddy issues #life issues

[girlandthedarkness]

sometimes I feel alright, but sometimes I remember how my mom left the house for a whole day after an argument with my dad when I was a child, and I really thought she will never come back, I remember calling thousand times but she never picked up, I wanted to go with her when she was packing a few stuff and she really said that she doesn't want to take me...

#y'all i think i might diacoverd where my attachment issues come from #and why i will never bevome emotional attached to someone ever again #like she really left me and my sister in a potential dangerous situation #i feel even more sorry for my plder sister who had to endure those childish antics and take care of me as well #parental trauma #mommy issues #daddy issues #life issues #trauma #anxiety disorders #attachment issues

[lobotomynursery]

i have bpd how i supposed to jus don’t care about when i feel like a piece of me was ripped off lol

#diary #vent #bpd #bpd vent #bpd problems #personal text #traumacore #life issues #mental disorder #toxic relationship #mental health

[fvckbluelives]

I can’t believe it’s been 10 years that I’ve had this blog. When I started it, I was deploying to Afghanistan and I coped by using Miss Jay Alexander gifs, relatable posts and memes about the feels, enjoyed the eye candy. It continued past my deployment and helped me get through drill weekends (I was in the National Guard for a while) and school. Over time this blog changed to align with my ever changing views. Which leads to my next points

Obviously my views and life has changed over the years. First I haven’t been in the military in years (got out as soon as my contract ended). Second, my views are way more progressive (they already were but I built on it). Overall, when you know better you do better and this couldn’t be any more true lol. Of course there are things that have remained the same, like my love of aesthetics, deep relatable posts, and funny posts that are unique to tumblr. This site has met so many of my needs regarding the various interests. I had no idea when I signed up for my account on my way to Fort Hood, Texas that I would be still be using this blog to this day 😂. It’s home, and will always be that for as long as this site is up!

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

#life issues #10 years

[bewithsrini]

#life issues #study blog #self improvement

[helpinghand01]

Hi

I am a student. In class 12.

I just need help..... It's there anyone psychologist or a good talker here just to talk out with me...!

It's like for me, losing hope to live on...!

#help #actually psychotic #psychology #pls help #help help help #help help #someone help #help me #help pls #help please #help me pls #sucied #wanna sucied #study #study problems #life problems #life issues #hate to live #getting lost #can i make it? #alone #sorry for being depressing #depressed #depressing post #tw depressing stuff #depression

[faerociousbeast]

i love this theme but i need to change themes but i like this one too much

#tumblrina problems #mental health #life issues #about me

[p1rateg]

this video is so helpful and useful to everyone, esspecially if u have been though some shit (relationship, boyproblems, or anything in life. The messenge is, and you get all the right answers or advice to your problem.

I love this! ❤

I agreed with her words.

There was a time when i crying, and thinking back to my ex where i found this video it helped me understand "there is no end to go back to"

And the way she describe it helped me to feel good about what was happened to me.

#life issues #thewizardliz #Youtube