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writewrapped · 1 year

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Mengandung

Beberapa waktu terakhir, aku menyadari kalau sebenarnya aku adalah orang yang mengesampingkan khawatir dan rasa takutku dengan sembrono, dengan membiarkan, tak memikirkan dan hadapi semuanya saja. Tanpa persiapan yang matang. Usut punya usut, ternyata hal itu membuatku sampai sini.

Jatuh cinta pada pria yang sebelumnya tak aku ketahui bagaimana sifatnya. Memilih menikah dengan pria yang belum lama aku kenal. Memilih untuk punya anak. Semua tak ku pikir konsekuensinya, hanya berdasarkan dari rasa ingin dan prinsip jalani saja. Alhamdulillah-nya, Allah baik. Perasaan cintaku ditumbuhkan ke pria yang baik dan memperlakukanku dengan mulia, penyayang, lembut bahkan Allah memilihku untuk menjadi jodohnya. Memberikanku anak yang baik dan lucu dari proses melahirkan yang normal dan lancar.

Aku berpikir lagi, apakah itu karena aku memasrahkan semua kepada Allah? atau memang aku yang sembrono?

Ngomong-ngomong tentang melahirkan. Aku baru bisa membahas ini sekarang, karena baru saja ada waktu, ya, sudah hendak 6 bulan usia anakku sejak lahir aku baru bisa menuliskan ini semua. Setelah sembilan bulan proses mengandung, akhirnya lahir juga. Mengandung membuatku banyak belajar, belajar sabar dan tentunya tersimpan kebesaran Allah dibalik ibadah itu. Dalam sembilan bulan semua aktivitas yang aku lakukan berpengaruh kepada janinku. Melakukan hal bersama-sama. Terlihat sendiri padahal berdua. Punya teman berbicara. Hebatnya, semua amal yang aku lakukan pun dilipatganda. Luar biasa mashaaAllah. Allah Maha Baik. Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah. Segala puji-pujian hanya untuk Allah. Diberikan kesempatan untuk mengandung dan melahirkan adalah hal yang luar biasa. Ternyata nikmat menjadi perempuan ada di kedua peristiwa itu.

Ketiakku menghitam. Leherku bergaris hitam-hitam. Perut dan pahaku secara tiba-tiba muncul stretch marks. Aku tidak bisa melakukan aktivitas yang dulunya bisa aku lakukan. Aku bahkan gampang lelah. Semua itu sempat ku sedihkan, tanpa ku nikmati sama sekali. Sekarang semua itu telah berlalu, ketiakku kembali bersih. Leherku pun tidak bergaris hitam lagi. Walau stretch marks masih betah menampakkan diri, aku kembali menjadi perempuan yang dituntut untuk melakukan aktivitas lebih banyak dengan keadaan dan kondisi tubuh yang berubah.

Mengandung. Proses yang luar biasa. Sembilan bulan, Allah menciptakan manusia di perutku, walau seolah-olah semua organ itu dibuat ditubuhku, aku meyakini semua itu sangat bergantung pada kehendak Allah. Allah berkehendak membuatku mengandung, memberikannya ruh dan mempercayai anak sholeh kepadaku. Itu saja sudah membuatku merinding. Jika ilmu sains membuatku berpikir bahwa asam folat membantu pertumbuhan otak, harusnya logika dan hatimu sampai untuk bertanya,”Bagaimana cara otak itu berfungsi?”, jika mata telinga dan hidung tercipta dan ada, bagaimana agar mereka semua bekerja? disitulah aku merasa iba pada para penganut tidak ada tuhan, bagaimana bisa mereka melewatkan tanda-tanda kebesaran Allah yang ada disekitarnya?

Setelah itu semua, aku pun sadar, mengandung adalah awal. Pintu gerbang untuk kehidupan yang sesungguhnya. Kehidupan baru, peran baru.

#mengandung #hamil #melahirkan #anak #ibu #momtobe #Mommy Life

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omg-whathaveidone · 9 months

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Hey corporate USA.

No. I don't care about managing my day better for wellness programs when I NEED TIME AND MONEY for my BABY!!!!!!!! I'm a caretaker fulltime....not your minion...you are NOT A PRIORITY.

Do you want to keep me here for your antiquated rules doing your daily tasks? PAY ME. Help me provide for my BABY. Is this too much to ask???

Baby's some day grow up to work for you so maybe help their mom and family become stronger...

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dizzynfalling · 2 years

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Jesse being adorable. ♡

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kikisglobe · 2 years

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Do people get business from Tumblr? If so, what do you do?

#business #business woman #mom boss #boss mom #mommy life #mompreneur #small biz #copywriter #ghost writer

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rightshewrites · 2 months

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🌟 Back on Track: Finding Motivation in the Beauty of Parenthood 🌟

Let me tell you, I've got a whole new level of motivation that's lighting up my creative fire. Allow me to introduce you to my greatest inspiration: my beautiful daughter.

Life has a funny way of taking us on unexpected journeys, and somewhere along the way, I found myself missing the joy of blogging. The thrill of pouring my thoughts onto the digital canvas, connecting with kindred spirits, and sharing my perspective with the world. But something was missing, and I couldn't quite put my finger on it.

Then, like a burst of sunshine on a cloudy day, my daughter came into my life. She brought with her a love so pure, a joy so contagious, that it ignited a spark within me. Suddenly, I realized that my motivation had been right in front of me all along.

With each smile, each milestone, and each precious moment shared, my daughter has become the driving force behind my return to the blogosphere. She has reminded me of the power of storytelling, of the importance of leaving a legacy, and of the incredible impact our words can have on others.

As I embark on this new chapter of my blogging journey, I can't help but feel a sense of excitement and purpose. Through my posts, I aim to capture the magic of parenthood, the ups and downs, the triumphs and challenges. I want to share the lessons I've learned, the joys I've experienced, and the growth I've undergone.

But this journey isn't just about me. It's about all of us, coming together as a community, supporting and uplifting one another. So, let's connect, let's engage, and let's inspire each other to keep chasing our passions. Together, we can create a space that celebrates the beauty of parenthood, the power of storytelling, and the magic of connection.

Thank you for joining me on this exciting adventure. I can't wait to share my thoughts, experiences, and musings with all of you. Let's make this journey one to remember, shall we?

With love and gratitude,

The Unknown.

#back on tumblr #finding my peace #daughter #beautiful daughter #first time mom #stay at home mom #single mom #sahmomlife #sahm #motivational #mother #mommy #mommy life

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ipostmysimpingstuffanonymously · 2 months

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This week's Discord Prompt!

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Find @cocoabell drawing here

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empressyana · 11 months

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A MUST HAVE for Spring cleaning.....

Guess what I found on Amazon! When I say I have scrubbed every floor, tub, walkway, etc. Lol! This brush has changed the way I think of mopping. Check out the adjustable head. I love this new electric brush. We use Mr. Clean & Faboloso Yes, as a mother and wife, I like to keep my floors clean. I have always wanted a better way to mop. Now I have found a better way. I am so happy to share this…

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#atlantamom #atlantawife #atlwife #being present #Chicago #electric brush #Empress Yana #Georgia #homecleaning #ittakestime #mommy life #ordertoday #rituals

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cloudymichellechody · 11 months

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Park fun!

#mommy life #parktime #photos #mine #summervibes

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kittyeatzboyzz · 5 months

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unamammabianconera · 1 year

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Benefit, ti ringrazio infinitamente per i tuoi prodotti fantastici ♥️💙💖 #benefitcosmetics

#benefit cosmetics #new brand #gifts #benefit san francisco #advice #mommy life #25 years old #famiglia #previews #makeup preview

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dizzynfalling · 2 years

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My little girl started Kindergarten yesterday! It was crazy emotional for a lot of reasons. Obviously beginning with the standard, “my baby is growing up so fast” feelings. Those really didn’t hit me right away. It wasn’t until she was walking through the gate to go join the rest of her class when she suddenly turned, ran back, and hugged me tight. She said, “Bye, Mommy. I love you!” and went back through that gate with confidence and a hunger for knowledge and adventure.

It was then. That’s when I felt it all.

I waited until I got to my car before I let it all out. That’s right, I was THAT mom. I sobbed. Ugly, messy, snotty, blubbering bawling.

But it wasn’t solely because the stress of getting her ready, physically and mentally, had fallen off my shoulders.

It wasn’t only because of the memories of holding her in my arms for the first time in the hospital, watching her take her first steps, hearing her first words. Not only because of how big, smart, and beautiful she’s gotten.

It was the realization that I almost didn’t get to witness this. That I wouldn’t have been here for this. My heart felt like it was bursting from all the love and appreciation I had for this moment. I thanked God. I got to take my daughter to her first day of Kindergarten. I got to see her smiling face, the twinkle of excitement and wonder in her eyes, feel the warmth in that last hug before school starts, and feel the love behind that, “Bye, Mommy. I love you!”. Throughout this entire journey, I have felt so humble and blessed, but this was so much more.

So yeah, I was THAT mom.

And I’m proud of it. ♡

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writewrapped · 1 year

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Thank you, ghazi. You complete us. Your present help us learn what family is. We thought we have completed, but then u come and tell me hold my beer. I love you, hope we can be the right and best parents figure for u

#family #little family #mysonshine #mommy life #love of my life #my life #love #madly in love

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bunniibpd · 2 years

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12 years later, i'm still suppressing my emotions

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astrallar · 6 months

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Ok, so here me out here

#The intrusive thoughts won out and I drew Mommy Halsina #BG3 #Baldurs Gate 3 #Halsin #not gonna lie I am fearing for my life a bit #itll be like opening pandoras box on live television I dont know whats gonna happen but future me can deal with the consequences of this #but I personally think she is super gorgeous and strong and gentle and ughhhheverything she is everything to me

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empressyana · 1 year

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In my feelings!

Create boundaries with EVERYONE to keep your own mental balance. Empress Yana Jay Feeling so anxious. Yet proud! I’m ready to stop absorbing others’ emotions and start living out loud! I’ve come so far! I’ve survived so much. I have so much to share. But I see your stare. I don’t care Growing up afro latina I’m use to the stares & hate I’m use to not fitting in. Sometime it be like…

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#atlantapoet #atlantawife #being present #consistent #dailyprompt #empresslyfe #empressyana #Feel the feelings #Georgia #Illinois #mommy life #poet #self live #writing

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