#aroace autistic culture

[aroace-autie-culture-is]

aroace autistic culture is realising that MaYbe the reason why back in childhood your favourite character from Frozen was Elsa is because she is clearly on aroace spectrum and is probably autistic.

Aroace autie culture

#aroace autie culture is #oooh I love this take #I have always headcanoned Elsa as aroace but I never thought about the possibility of her being autistic #it makes so much sense though!! #aroace autistic culture #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #autistic #autie #actually autistic #actuallyautistic #personally I always loved Anna the most bc I’ve always loved the bubbly kind quirky characters like Riley from GMW and Cat from Victorious #and also Anna has my favourite hair colour #but I have always loved that Elsa didn’t have a love interest

[moonsporemoth]

Autistic culture is watching humans interact with each other like someone at the zoo.

#lgbtq #aroace #fandoms #fanfiction #genderfluid #autistic community #autism #autistic culture #actually autistic #autistic things #autistic artist #autistic adult #actually neurodivergent #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse stuff

[lokiiied]

i hope all my fellow aspecs have had a lovely and relaxing week ! and if you haven’t yet, i hope you can use this halloweekend to treat yourself and restore your full power. 😈

my library did a thing ! (i got a mystery bag) so here’s some books written by ace authors and/or featuring ace characters:

happy reading !

#i actually started in the lives of puppets in august and had to take a break bc of studies but i love it so far ! #ace and autistic rep!! #and robots!! #literally aroace culture lmao #and gay rep obvi #tj always delivers #ace #asexual #books #ace books

[aro-culture-is]

Aroace autistic culture is people telling you you're aroace just bc you're autistic, and you know it's possible, but reminding yourself that it doesn't make you any less valid bc whether or not it's caused by neurodivergence or not, you're still aroace

correct :)

#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #aroace culture #autistic aro culture

[druckkugelschreiber]

Pretty sure a big part of my anti "people of the same unit/ workplace can't fuck" attitude is majorly informed by me being aroace. What do you mean you can't think and be objective around people you're in a relationship with? What do you mean you'll play favourites just because you fuck them? What is going on???

#aroace #asexual #aromantic #pretty sure me being autistic as fuck also doesn't help #and part of it is culture 100%

[fanthirtheen]

I'm sorry please ignore this but why does everyone hate Alastor's haircut? Is an undercut not an incredibly normal hair style? Does it have to do with the cut of the non shaven part? I genuinely don't get it is this just the latest trends that I've never understood in my life, where undercuts are actively not cool?

A haircut is a haircut, there are a lot of different ones, and cartoon characters always have exaggerated hair anyway? Cartoon characters, especially mmain characters and returning characters, have to have iconic hair that's easily identifiable, and he literally just has an undercut?

I'm really sorry guys to stick this in active tags but I am a little uncomfortable with not understanding what's wrong with his haircut

#look people can hate on whatever but i just dont get it? #it just seems like a weird random thing for a bunch of people to decide unanimously is 'bad' #my autistic ass needs to brush up on pop culture again because i dont see any difference in his haircut and anyone elses' #or does it have to do with my lack of attraction of any kind toward people visually #you could not force out of me whether someone is 'hot' or not #and if thats the issue that people just dont find him attractive like that #good? #because he is aroace and would not have any interest in being attractive toward people #alastor #hazbin hotel

[aroacearchangel]

allo people ask “how did you not know you were aro?” as if the way romance is considered a requirement in our society means that it’s also the single most confusing thing I’ve ever tried to figure out. as if asking questions about romance isn’t near-pointless, the way people answer them.

“what does romance feel like? you’ll know if you feel it!!” wow, so helpful. I really get it now.

“god, i hate my partner, i want to make them stop talking forever, their every breath irritates me, sometimes I wish we weren’t together lol! love makes you do ca-rayy-zay things!!” do you even like each other? why waste your time? how am i supposed to want this?

“what do you mean you can’t tell if you have a crush? do you want to kiss them or not?” ohhh I get it now!! people apparently don’t kiss their friends, even if the idea of holding them to romantic expectations makes you uncomfortable!! /sar

“marriage has to be built from love” well i do want a life partner, I suppose I’ll just have to figure out this whole romance thing to get there.

#aro #aromance #aromantic #allonormativity #aroace #autistic #autism #aspec #aspec culture #aspec stuff

[ndtransaspeccultureis]

Autistic aroace genderqueer writer culture is making all your characters aroace nd/autistic and/or genderqueer/trans. Whether by accident or not, they all end up that way lol.

#autistic aroace genderqueer writer culture #autistic aro #autistic ace #autistic aroace #autistic genderqueer #autistic writer #aroace #aro genderqueer #aro writer #aroace genderqueer #aroace writer #ace genderqueer #ace writer #genderqueer writer #characters #nd #trans #yeah i definitely do this quiet a bit

[autismserenity]

aces still aren't straightces

I made this button/shirt design back in 2016, before I even realized I was ace, and mostly forgot about it.

On Discord today, in a group chat with autistic ADHD aroace friends, I started catching up and asked why one of them was looking for alternative to the word "value." This led to the other friend saying, "Hi" and then "Everyone has value," which:

I had to put a stoned frog on.

And an oppressed toad.

And put them up in my Zazzle store. (After I figured out whether I had used RedBubble or Zazzle.)

Fun fact: there's no difference between frogs and toads.

They're like fruits and vegetables. There isn't an actual scientific category for a vegetable. Or a toad. We just call frogs "toads" when we think they're ugly or bumpy. But every toad has value.

I started out with this cute pastel sloth design that had butterflies and flowers around it. But I felt like it was still too Conventionally Acceptable.

You can still get it on a racerback tee, though. Or anything else your little heart desires.

Oppressed Toad looks great on a black shirt, imho.

Although I kinda like the idea of wearing a bright red v-neck version around, as a kind of warning: DO NOT IMPLY TO ME THAT SOME KINDA PEOPLE AREN'T AS GOOD AS YOU TODAY.

On the back, each of them has an exasperated frog yelling our follow-up thoughts: "optimizing for 'value' feels capitalistic because capitalism has co-opted even the concept of human worth"

Except that I put Stoned Frog on the back of a denim jacket.

Zazzle lets the customer put a design they like on pretty much anything now. You can be looking at a shirt with the stoned frog, and decide you'd rather have it on this brown, full-length apron.

So I could just leave the button up there. But I decided I wanted to make two obvious shirt options. One with red 3/4 length sleeves and a fun. .curly lower-case kind of font:

And another raglan 3/4 sleeve baseball shirt (or whatever you call them) with black sleeves and a super bold, all-caps font.

Plus the same font on a racerback tank top that can come with black piping outlining the neck and sleeves. Straps?

anyway I had fun lol

#wall of words #ace culture #disability rights #actuallyautistic #aroace culture #autistic culture #adhd culture #positivity #be kind to yourself

[gothfatherr]

Chimken strips??

comfort food for neurodivergent queer folks

#aro spec #neurodivergent #my adhd #adhd #aromantic spectrum #aro #aromantic #aromantic pride #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #neurodiverse stuff #autistic culture #adhd culture #trans #bisexual #ace #asexual #aroace #nonbinary #ask

[alexithymia-culture-is-what]

aroace (n probably autistic) alexithymia culture is wait, people actually. FEEL stuff? like are all those weird songs about "totally unrealistic feelings". actual human experiences???

you mean that [incredibly specific physical sensation i cannot. for the life of me. articulate] has a name? everyone else is not pacing circuits and making increasingly less coherent attempts at explaining an emotion down to its -quarks- when asked?

x2 what combo

one must give every last detail about a feeling, lest it be Catastrophically Misinterpreted due to the horrific Omission Of Information. you must know EXACTLY what its like in this [meatbag + one (1) single braincell] package deal or you cant really understand, which is Bad

and then as someone else described perfectly, being unable to choose a gender and pronouns because. i -know- theres some schrodingers gender particles in there, but i dont strongly feel towards anything, other than sure as heck not cis, but not the opposite either

this blog really resonated with us, sorry for the rambling . . "

no it's okay ramblings are appreciated. a lot of this is a mood

#aroace alexithymia culture is #autistic alexithymia culture is #alexithymia #alexithymia culture is #actually neurodivergent #neurodivergent

[aroace-autie-culture-is]

Aroace autistic culture is

“Am I actually crushing or am I hyperfixating on a person again”

Aroace autie culture

#aroace autie culture is #aroace autistic culture #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #autistic #autie #actually autistic #actuallyautistic #hyperfixation

[moonsporemoth]

What do you mean I now have to decipher if its my autism or me (possibly) being a nonhuman that makes me not feel human at all in an alien way?

#lgbtq #aroace #fandoms #fanfiction #genderfluid #autistic community #autism #actually autistic #actually autism #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #autistic #asd #autistic culture #autistic things #autistic artist #autistic adult #nonhuman #nonhumen #alien #robot #science fiction #sci fi

[necromancy-and-tax-evasion]

Little old me.

#my art #art #artists on tumblr #artwork #artist #digital art #oc #ocs #oc's #original character #axoltol #transgender #demiboy #voidpunk #nonbinary #aroace #gender nonconforming #neopronouns #angelgender #autistic culture #lgbtq community #lgbt art #lgbt pride #lgbt representation #Taxie

[aro-culture-is]

Autistic (alloplatonic) aroace culture is having to un-confess a crush, because it turns out those intense emotional feelings are likely just platonic which you interpreted as romantic

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#aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #arofroggy #autistic aro culture #aroace culture #alloplatonic aro culture #oh fuckin mood but [redacted/unknown] attraction

[killedthedreamerdream]

Okay I rewrote the song All I Want from High school musical for it to be about my aromantic experience, I hope some of yall can relate too! (I wish I could sing but I really can't so here's the lyrics)

I found a girl who told me I was a star

She held the door, held my hand in the dark

And she's perfect on paper, but I'm lying to myself

Why do I convince myself that I need to be saved?

But now she's just part of my past

She said she liked me, but it didn't last

Cause the second I figured it out, she pushes me away

And I won't fight for love if it makes me feel that way

And I say that I'm through but this song's still for you

All I want is love that last, is all I want too much to ask?

Is it something wrong with me?

And all I want is to love you, but my expectation's far too high

Tried my best, but what can I say

All I have is myself at the end of the day

And I think that's enough for me

Now I miss the day when I was young and naive

I thought the perfect guy would come and find me

Now happy ever after it don't come so easily

All I want is love that last, is all I want too much to ask?

Is it something wrong with me?

And all I want is to love you, but my expectation's far too high

Tried my best, but what can I say

All I have is myself at the end of the day

And all I want is for that to be okay

#aromantic in a relationship #aroace #aromantic #asexual #autism #arospec #lgbtq #actually aro #aromantism #autistic girl #all i want #high school musical #olivia rodrigo #music #aro culture is