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creature-wizard · 1 year

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Cruel people often try to justify their cruelty by convincing themselves and others that there's a correlation between cruelty and intelligence, but in reality cruel people are just closed-minded assholes who only care about their own benefit. There's nothing "smart" about that.

#people #cruel people #cruelty

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eternaldisguise · 16 days

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I was attached to a false hope...

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arewedoneyet · 2 years

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#kinnporsche #build jakapan #biblebuild #bible wichapas #bible summetikul #bbb #be on cloud #why they tease us like that #cruel people #instagram #kinnporsche cast

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thic-honey · 2 years

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I have bad hearing, it’s like my brain wont capture every word someone says or it didn’t capture them correctly. I am completely functional, just some areas are lacking a bit. Throw in someone who speaks fast, uses words I don’t understand, has an accent, or a speech impairment and I’m doomed in that conversation. I know it’s frustrating for others and sometimes I can become upset because they are upset and frustrated with me, and it’s this situation where no one is wrong or right, just something that both parties deal with. Which I don’t expect anyone to deal with me and people have that choice to be in my life or not. It’s just not fair when someone stays but only to treat you bad. Yes, I’m aware of it and I’ve let others aware of it, but still people will get upset with me and treat me bad. I had experiences with a person knowing this about me and when I didn’t hear them or understand what they said, they would get angry with me and sometimes lash out at me, even when I told them I didn’t hear them. People don’t know that I’m frustrated too, and I’m also embarrassed. I don’t enjoy not hearing or understanding people, it makes me feel less capable as a person.

I work with disabled people, so I understand the frustration that comes with dealing with other’s impairments, but more so I understand that it’s not their fault and something they have to live with, and I’ve grown to be a more patient and empathetic person because of them. Personally, I find it a bit cruel of a person to get upset at someone who isn’t as fortunate as them. I’m so sorry that their impairment causes you to repeat yourself or have to walk slower, it must be very hard for you. I can’t imagine what you have to go through because of their impairment.

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sp00kysk3lly · 28 days

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(Written 29 February 2024) [J stopped speaking to me on 22nd February for no apparent reason].

I thought we were friends! Twins, you said! Now it’s been a week, nearly.

A week! Why? What did I do to you? You left and never even told me fucking why? You know what happened to me! You know what those girls did to me!

(As of today, 30 March 2024)

He hasn’t been in touch.. not a single message. Then I find out he blocked me on TikTok, Reddit (where we met). And possibly also my phone number (as I did try to message him to at least an explanation but it didn’t deliver).

I want to ask why? Why pretend to be my friend? Why send me a “gift” if you knew you were going to stop talking and block me on everything? Why not just tell me you didn’t want to be friends anymore? Why did you copy those last two people who did the exact same thing you have done?

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I’ve pretty much lost 5 “new friends” in basically 2 years.

The first 2 happened in 2022. 1 in June/July time, and the other in November.

Then another 2 happened in 2023, first one in May/June time, the second in August/September.

Then there’s this one, 2024. Barely knew me for 3 months. Mostly only 2. Met on Reddit, after I asked for new friends on a subreddit. He messaged me first. I asked him if he wanted to speak on WhatsApp. I did not force him, if he wanted to stay on Reddit, then he should have said? I would have been ok with it even if the messenger on there is slow.

We spoke from January to middle of February. He sent me a gift? It was just some stickers and badges of my favourite things (true crime/horror jokes/cats), which I never asked for? I was appreciative, but I never asked for anything other than friendship!

He barely spoke to me before when he stopped completely. So, I guess I should have known what was coming next, but I was blinded by the fact that I had this new friend, who has the same interests as me, seemed to like me.

And I hate myself for that. For being that weak, when I knew this was going to happen.

So what do I do? Do I go on WhatsApp and message the message I was going to send and if he’s blocked my number, then move on? Or do I just move on now? Forget about it? I just want to know what I did wrong? Or if I did something to offend him? Even though I know I didn’t.

I know it will no doubt end up with me being hurt and angry again, but I’m sure I can handle it.

These are some of the reasons I can think of that may have caused this to happen: (Not Definitive)

I spoke about my mental health and chronic health a lot? (I can admit that I do go on about it sometimes. But he asked me about them! I told him if he was annoyed and wanted to speak about something else, then to tell me to shut up and I would, because I can understand and recognise when I keep repeating things.

I spoke about my abusive family? The only reason I never asked him about his life, is because he didn’t seem to want to speak about it! I asked certain things and would either get a change of subject conversation, or some blank mention of his family. If he wanted to speak about them, I’d have been happy too. But he never let on he wanted to speak about him or his life (I guess writing this, I can see that as a Red Flag now).

He is just a disgustingly cruel person who wanted to cause me more pain than has already happened to me with the last people in my life who done this exact thing.

I don’t know what to do anymore!

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nouverx · 2 months

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Louise never heard about puppy love, cause they don't know that term in France 💔

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Lyrics are from Louise by TV Girl ! I was listening to it yesterday and that specific line on the second page screamed Alastor I just had to draw something about it

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invincible-selfxmade-punk · 1 month

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I've got a friend on Facebook that I've known for about 15 years, maybe more. I honestly have known her so long, i cannot remember when or how we met on Facebook. She's just always been there.

She's older than me. By several years and recently retired, her husband was suffering from dementia & Alzheimer's, and she had nursed him through all of bad stuff. they had been married for over 30 years.

He died last week and she found out he'd listed someone else as the beneficiary on his life insurance policy.

She didn't say who it was. She just said it was not her. And now, this poor woman who has devoted to her entire life to taking care of her husband in his later years is left with absolutely nothing.

Ugh!

My oldest sister did something like that. She was one of the ones that was never right in the head and it was probably schizophrenic, but never got any help for it. She had 2 adult children, and she had gone through like 7 or 8 marriages.

She put her latest husband as beneficiary on the Life Insurance Policy. She killed herself. He got over $110,000 dollars and did not give one cent of that to her children to help bury her!!

I do not dot understand what makes people like that. It boggles my mind

#aging #death #life insurance #cruel people #ramblings

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sihirlisuperisi · 8 months

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"İnsan küçük düştüğünü hissedip kendini korumaya girişince karşısındaki hiç aklına gelmiyor ve dünyanın en zalim yaratığı kesilebiliyor."

Bize verdikleri bir sırrı öylece ortaya serebiliyoruz sanki çok değersiz,basit bir şeymiş gibi

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cemeterything · 5 months

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the thing about "callout/cancel culture" that convinced me it's rotten to the core is the dehumanisation you face once you become the subject of a campaign like that. a lot of criticisms of callout/cancellation attempts appeal to the humanity of the subject, pointing out that it's unfair and unproductive to treat a person, a fellow human being, regardless of how much harm they've caused and how genuinely unlikable they are, like that. but unfortunately the reality of being the target of a mob mentality often means facing the very isolating and traumatising experience of realising that you've ceased to exist as a person in their eyes. you're a representation of your transgressions, an embodiment of harm that needs to be erased like a blemish, a spectacle for entertainment, a means of earning social approval by publicly condemning and humiliating you in what quickly becomes a competition to see who can strike the blow that knocks you down so you never get up again. nobody cares about who you are outside of what you did. people make mistakes and hurt one another, but there is always the capacity for change, for regret and reparations. you are an irredeemable monster. you can't change. the only way to make sure you can't cause harm ever again is to neutralise you entirely. to drive you off and hurt you so badly that you never consider coming back. and it often succeeds. but it doesn't make the world a better or safer place. it just tells everyone that certain behaviours will be punished, so you should conceal them, and harshly condemn them in others so that everyone knows where you stand; nobody will stand up for you if you're accused and brought out for judgement, so you shouldn't trust anyone, and always be on the lookout to take them down before they can do the same to you. you're not creating a safe, welcoming community. you're creating a panopticon built on fear and punishment.

#🐉#yes ive been the target of multiple harassment campaigns. yes i was in the wrong and deserved to be held accountable.#no i didnt deserve to be treated like that. and no i didnt change because people were cruel to me.#i changed because i was lucky enough to have friends who supported me and pointed out that they wanted me to be better because they cared #their disappointment and earnest belief in my capacity to be a better person was what made me realise i could and needed to do better

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inkskinned · 8 months

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they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X'#and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!''#babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness''#it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!''#& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell?#you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse?#but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck?#your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross?#HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like.#anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

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mikakuna · 1 month

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i see this jason todd who actually looks his very young age (instead of the 30yr old man that comics like to portray)

and feel my heart breaking just imagining bruce beating him up, almost killing him, mind-breaking him, and just overall being a total piece of shit father towards him.

a huge chunk of the reason why people don't view bruce's actions towards jason as abusive or wrong is because jason doesn't look his age. he's drawn to be this 35yr old father of three who looks even older than dick (and way too on par with bruce) that people see their fights as one between batman and any of his regular rogues. when they fight, it just looks like batman is fighting a man his age and not an actual young person. it doesn't look like batman is fighting his son who's barely even drinking age (and who def wasn't drinking age in utrh). their fights are portrayed in a way that eliminates the very real power struggle between them.

this applies to jason's entire character as well. a lot of people don't sympathize with how he died or his actions as robin or his fights with the other bats because he doesn't look his age. he always looks older and scarier than everyone else. tim has many sympathizers from the titans tower incident because jason just looked like a grown man fighting a 12yr old (even tho i disagree, tim was built and like 17 lmfao).

anyways, i just wish comics would actually draw jason to look his age, which literally ranges from 19 to early twenties. he's young- so young, and it's so annoying to see him drawn and written as someone older than even bruce.

#the way everyone in jason's robin run saw him as this adult despite him being 12-15 #like what the fuck #just because a child has experienced more than the average adult doesn't make him any less of a child #it's like the typical groomer thought process #if jason was shown younger in arkham knigjt for example there'd be less people calling him whiny #they showed 15yr old jason's torture scenes like he was a 25 yr old #he should've been shown as the small child he was #it would've put more perspective into how cruel and fucked it was of the rogues to torture a literal child #and then bruce almost killing him in rhato...#now imagine if jason looked his age there #honestly this all just feeds into the idea that jason feels too small for his big body #imagine being this tiny kid growing up and then dying and coming back to life as this tank #arghhhhh!!!!!#jason todd #red hood #batman #jason peter todd #bruce wayne #jason todd deserves better

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ironunderstands · 15 days

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The way some of yall mischaracterize Ratio as being stoic in chill when in reality he is 24/7 resisting the urge to rip everyone around him a new one is crazy to me like. He cares so much, so much. It’s unhealthy, he loses the idgaf war every time because Ratio is the least nonchalant person ever like

He was this close to breaking character and throttling Sunday like you cannot tell me he wasn’t planning a murder in this scene. Ratio straight up calls Sunday a crazy bitch but everyone brushed it aside 😭

Honestly his entire conversation with Screwllum is just him tweaking, watch it on YouTube the VAs performance is amazing, you can here just how much He Cares

Genuinely, Aventurine is way better at concealing his true feelings that Ratio. Ratio may be acting for the sake of the plan but the way he truly feels about anything he’s doing always seeps through, it’s why he apologizes to Aventurine in 2.0 in their staged argument scene. It’s why he is as mean to Sunday as he can be. It’s why him pretending that he “hates” Aventurine makes him act so silly. Ratio can’t fully commit to the bit, he can’t force himself to not care or to be someone he isn’t, because fundamentally Ratio CARES and that is something he is incapable of hiding, alabaster bust or not.

The problem is that him expressing his care is often done in a rude and/or blunt manner which people tend to interpret as stoicism or apathy when it’s anything but. Ratio’s vial that he gives to Aventurine is short, sweet and gets straight to the point, because that’s the easiest way for Ratio to express his emotions, even if it’s often detrimental for him and anyone else around him. However Aventurine understands him quite well, and knows that although brief, Ratio telling him to “stay alive, survive this and keep on living” is how he truly feels towards Aventurine, and that’s enough to keep him going.

Underneath Ratios carefully crafted marble facade is a man who cares so much and is so bad at expressing it and I wish the community in general, especially Aventio shippers would acknowledge that more. Ratios true moments of sincerity are brief, but they are anything but stoic. Let the man be soft, it’s in character.

#This turned into a mini essay whoops #I hold Ratios party voiceline for Aven so close to my heart #Not the EN one idk what the translators were on but CN is UGHH it’s so good #Someone else can point out the potentially ableist undertones to how people view Ratio #I’m not gonna do that again because the last time was a disaster #“He’s selfish and cruel and narcissistic” *concerned glance*#Like I know some of it is just hoyo players having the media literacy of rocks #But like theres something wrong there just is it sits so wrong with me #Begging yall to write him correctly in fan content PLEASSEEE #dr ratio #aventurine #aventio #Not necessarily a ship post though

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unhinged-irl · 1 year

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You’re encouraged to meet people.

Go out and socialize they say. You cannot exist alone.

True, I guess.

So you do go out. You walk into the chaos of people, armorless.

Then, inevitably, you see. How some, of your own species take pleasure in cruelty.

Mindless, pointless cruelty. How they go out of their way to wreck havoc and break those that never wanted to associate.

You see and watch in horror as they are allowed to change world views and be puritanical bigots.

What do you do? Stand up? Fight back? Watch?

What?

Or just hope? That all the hell they unleash on people, returns to them a hundred fold?

Hope for destruction.

Hope.

#unhinged #unhingedirl #black and white #unknown loneliness #people #new place #we’re in simulation #original photography on tumblr #something everyday #cruel and unusual punishment #cruel people #society #socializing #hope

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jellydragons · 3 months

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dog time :)

ref + alt version:

pros of knowing someone who can turn into a wolf:

free cuddles

everything else

cons:

he tends to get broody about it

dog hair EVERYWHERE

in summary: ouppy :)

#my art #my posts #linked universe #linked universe fanart #lu fanart #lu wolfie #lu twilight #lu sky #lu wild #lu time #lu four #lu hyrule #lu wind #lu legend #lu warriors #imagine my glee at counting the number of people in that picture and realising it was the PERFECT amount #side note proportions are my mortal enemy and will be until the bitter end #twilight is a good boy and deserves all the cuddles and i don’t CARE if he gets pouty about it #look at him. fluff for days. twi it’d be cruel to deprive the world of just a little patpat

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salemoleander · 4 months

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Do NOT tell a streamer while they are live about upsetting shit.

Just don't. Unless the upsetting shit is 'there is a tornado headed directly for your apartment', they do not need to find out from Chat Rando #27. Especially if that upsetting shit is personally relevant, but even if it isn't!

For one, that person is currently working. Their ability to make money (ie to pay their rent! to buy food!) is directly tied to Entertaining People. You are jeopardizing that by telling them upsetting shit while they are live because it is (unsurprisingly!) hard to keep being funny-goofy after that.

For another, you are forcing this person to modulate and share their reaction to that news live on air. No time to privately process, grieve, look for clarification - nope, that streamer better have a camera-ready reaction instantly. It's a deeply shitty thing to spring on a person - do not fucking do it.

#i wish all chatters doing this in the gigs streams rn a very get fucked #completely reprehensible and needlessly cruel to the people you supposedly idolize and enjoy #idk what to tag this im just. what is WRONG with people #twitch #mcyt

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breakbeatbun · 1 year

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#10k notes #ok. clearly y'all don't know what 'reblog the other version' means it does not mean 'screenshot/copy these tags' smfh #also some of you people are pure toxic about something as innocent as learning how a different website works #'omg that's so cringe' 'ew i can't belive new users are doing this' i can. grow up.#i made this post as a fun little joke and i regret it now bc where y'all aren't annoying as hell you're needlessly cruel

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