#lgbt relationship longing

[pineconesarecrunchy]

You hurt me in ways you don’t even know

#nblnb yearning #mlm writing #wlw longing #wlw writing #like me back #lgbt yearning #lgbt poem #lgbt crush #wlnb longing #nblw longing #nblm yearining #mlnb longing #lgbt longing #lgbt relationship longing #relationship yearning #nonbinary yearning #clementine

[sometiktoksarevalid]

#cc #queer #lgbt #lesbian #long distance relationship #relationship advice #suggestive

[thebluekid-underyourbed]

Yknow aromantic and asexual need to start being shown as two different labels more often. Cuz like we aroace people are cool and we have the power to destroy god right, but like aroallo people and alloace people are just as fucking cool.

What is this whole "one cannot exist without the other" bullshit. That kinda shit is only supposed to happen with like life and death. light and dark. peace and chaos. we don't need that, cuz we're all just pure chaos. you want peace look elsewhere, bc aro without the ace and ace without the aro is very welcome into our aro and ace spaces of madness and maniacal plotting to take over the world.

#mfs are just mad because “wHY aRe yOu hAVinG sEx wiTHouT rOMaNCe” and “WhY ARe YoU hAVinG rOmaNce wiThouT sEx” #like bro stfu people will pick and choose whatever they want in a relationship #as long as all parties consent what the hell does it matter #aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #aroace #aroallo #aceallo #alloaro #alloace #queer #lgbtq+ #lgbt pride #pride #aro pride #ace pride

[thecindercrow]

A League of Their Own - 1.06

#a league of their own #alotoedit #my gifs #my stuff #long post #I have a lot to learn still because these were a nightmare to light and color #but that's also just darkly lit shots for you #brighten your filming! #I need everyone seeing this who hasn't watched the show to know that this scene is played very... #well I was about to say 'straight' but that wouldn't be right #this isn't supposed to be subtextual or wink nudge wink #the scene is genuine. they are in a secret gay bar. they are blatantly flirting #after this they slow dance together and flo says jo is the most beautiful person she's ever seen #and this is just one tiny scene in this show that explores a lot of lgbt characters and relationships genuinely

[uncanny-tranny]

Something I realized (which was obvious to me subconsciously) is that... The family that vehemently didn't accept me when I first came out but now do accept me are still the same family that I am most unwilling to be open about things I feel protective over.

I remember that my dad reacted so poorly, not to my coming out, but to my transition specifically that my therapist was the one to ask if I wanted to put it on my file that I wanted nothing to ever be shared with him about my health after I broke down multiple times due to my anxiety that I would never transition. While there are and were protections for me, I was incredibly fearful at the time because I was a minor, and I was so worried that he would have prevented my transition that I couldn't have said for certain what (if any) lengths he would have gone to to prevent that.

He's grown a lot as a person, and made some commendable strides. But he didn't find out from me when I medically transitioned the second I turned eighteen, and I think that's among the things that truly made him realize the scope of the issue.

I'm not here to guilt trip parents, guardians, or other members responsible for the care of the children or teens or young adults in their care.... but this is a cautionary tale. You aren't saving the people in your care when you do this, you simply reinforce an idea that you will never care for them, never want them as they are, would rather them be shoved away.

When you give people reasons to be secretive, they will behave secretively. When you give people reasons to doubt their safety around you, they will become sneaky, defensive, and withdrawn. When you give people reasons to doubt that you value their life, they will believe that you don't care if they live or not.

#queer #lgbt #lgbtq #ally advice #transphobia #transphobia tw #i always feel the need to preface that i have a rebuilt relationship with my dad specifically... #...but that my experiences with them have served to me in many ways to illustrate... well... what NOT to do if you are in his situation #i do still grieve that my relationship with him looks very scarred and that it took a long time to get to where he is now #but i recognize that in many ways this is a product of the world and culture we live in and that he lived in #in a world he grew up gay was used as a slur. would i expect that trans people would be treated better? #and he was responsible for how he reacted but also... it's nuanced as to why he reacted so poorly #and i want people to AVOID being like he did if they EVER want a decent relationship with the other person #i want this to be a cautionary tale and that my ending is unique. not all of us are even ABLE to repair a relationship that was THAT broken #some of us die trying. some of us never get closure. some of us are in active danger because of those reactions #and that's the more common reality i have found. most other queer people have no-contact with families who pulled the shit my dad had... #...and that's - frankly - a good idea in 99.9% of cases. i will never judge someone for the way they go about dealing with that #i'm just emphasizing that i am unique in the sense that i was able to somewhat repair that

[3amthoughts00-0]

Time for sapphic witch bitch autumn

#forestcore #lesbian #sapphic yearning #wlw yearning #lgbtq community #bisexual #for every wlw #for every nblw #for every queer #for the queers only #nblw love #pansexual #wlw crush #wlw longing #queer #sapphic relationship #sapphic #nblw yearning #wlw #lgbt pride

[thatmasculinesapphic]

And I’d choose you; in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I’d find you; and I’d choose you.

#her #cute poem #wlw #butch4femme #ldr #long distance relationship #lesbian #bisexual #lgbt #girlfriend yearning #lesbian yearning #girls who like girls #gay #long distance couple

[rythyme]

ok it's on me for not checking the premise or anything before watching it but uhhhh y'all's gifs did NOT prepare me for whatever the hell those two guys have going on in My Personal Weatherman

#like. my guy. you are in a long term committed master/slave dom/sub sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship #where he edges you with weather reports #what the hell #lgbt drama #jdrama #my personal weatherman #theo.txt

[funkycarabiner]

The feminine urge to jst drop everything and book the fastest flight across the country to be with your gf

#wifeposting #lesbian #lesbians #wlw #sapphic #dyke #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #ldr #long distance #long distance relationship

[sadsuccubusboy]

I should be with you instead of talking to you on the phone

#mlm nsft #mlm and nblm only #queer nsft #bi nsft #nsft trans #transmasc nsft #lgbt nsft #relationship #queer love #mlm love #love #gay #queer longing #longing #nblm yearning #mlm yearning #queer yearning #couple #nblm thoughts #mlm thoughts #thoughts #love quotes

[bikeboyblues]

i wanna waste time with my boyfriend!! wanna lay in bed together on our phones,,, maybe i'll get bored of mine and cuddle up against him as he scrolls through his twitter??? maybe he'll show me the pretty art he finds in his feed?? and gives me a little kiss on my cheek before he puts his phone away and gets cosy under the covers with me???

#gay #in love #mlm #mlm crush #mlm textpost #ftm t4t #gay mlm #love quotes #lgbt #lovers #mlm thoughts #t4t yearning #yearning #t4t gay #queer romance #queer love #queer #gay longing #long distance relationship #ldr #ldr quotes

[uncanny-tranny]

Hi! would you by any chance have tips on how to get a binder when your parents refuse to buy you one? ☹️

That's definitely a sensitive and complex answer, and while I might not know of the best option for your unique situation, there are some ways you can go about this.

If it's a foregone conclusion that you cannot convince them of this, what I used to do is DIY my binder. The ways I primarily did this were:

Option One: Wearing a camisole that was one size smaller than I actually was (so, wearing a small instead of a medium, for instance), then folding it up over my chest. As a disclaimer, this may only work well if you are smaller in the chest

Option Two: Layering two sports bras in my size over each other. Some of the DIY tips I found before I got a traditional binder advised to wear one sports bra in your size, then wear another sports bra backwards in a size smaller. I would advise against this for potential safety reasons, but also because (at least personally), it can be ineffective and a waste of resources.

Some people have also had friends or other family members order their binder for them, but this can be risky, depending on your situation. While I don't know the ins and outs of your specific circumstances, risk management is important to me, so I would recommend this if it is a risk that is acceptable to make.

I understand what it's like to not have access to this resource, so what I will do is advise you against:

Binding with ace bandages (I did this before (multiple times, in fact, because of dysphoria), and believe me, not only did it hurt like hell, but it constricted my body so heavily that I may have done long-term harm)

Wearing a DIY binder (or any kind, for that matter) for longer than your body can handle

Doing DIY in such a way that even mimics binding with ace bandages. This means that your binder shouldn't constrict your ribs, breathing, or range of movement

Here are some general good practices that you should use to guide you for any type of binding, whether traditional or DIY:

When you start binding, only do so in very short sessions to begin with. While binding shouldn't outright hurt, it can be a weird transition while your body is getting used to that new sensation

Minimize heavy lifting or exercise while binding. If it is unavoidable, drink plenty of water and take plenty of breaks

Stretch after binding

Don't bind while sick or have inflammation in your lungs or chest

If you DIY, treat your binder like it is a traditional binder. Don't make the mistake of assuming you don't need to listen to your body because you aren't using a "traditional" binding method

Ultimately, listen to your body. If it is telling you that it needs a break, honour that. Your body isn't punishing you, it is trying to keep you (and it) safe, even if it doesn't feel like it

In the end, this isn't perfect. Sometimes, parents do come around, even in their own ways, even if little by little, they come around. When I first came out officially around 2016, I was convinced that my transition would be completely forbade by my family; I concealed a lot of it in the worst instances of this. However, now, I think most of my family has come through their own journey with the understanding of the reality of what and who I am. I tell you this, anon, because I want you to know that this, too , shall pass. You can make it. I know this might be devastating to you, and believe me, I know what that's like. But it won't be forever. These bridges aren't burnt forever, and I hope you can find your happiness and contentment wherever it may be.

#ask #anon #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #long post #if anybody has other tips or ideas then feel free to speak up #this is what i did before officially binding and what i have seen other trans people do in lieu of getting a 'real' binder #it did suck when i was coming out because i don't think my family had any idea how *their* hang-ups with... me as a person... affected me #and i think a lot of people get their preconceived notions or headcanons of you stuck in their head to the point that it is Reality #i think part of why my dad started actually *trying* to accept me was him realizing that i was actively hiding things from him... #...like he loves me and our relationship is fine now but i'm not going to pretend like he didn't massively blunder after i came out #and if it turns out that your parents don't ever come around (gd forbid) then you aren't obligated to keep them #you don't choose your parents but you can choose your family i think #i always always hope that parents come around to their child/ren and the reality of who they are but i recognize how messy it all is #anon i wouldn't blame you one bit if you feel many complex or 'negative' emotions toward them #i have many complex feelings about this and that's my own baggage. i hope i haven't put words into your mouth or assumed anything too much #i am sending you best wishes and care. this too shall pass💛

[yourfavanxioussunshine]

"thappad padega" gf 🤝 "isi bahane cho-ogi toh sahi" gf

#fun fact : they are in a long distance relationship #desi wlw #women loving women #wlw love #wlw yearning #desi sapphic #sapphic #sapphic love #wlw post #wlw shit #wlw relationship #sapphic shitpost #sapphic yearning #wlw #long distance relationship #lesbian #lesbian pride #desi lgbt #desi lesbian #bisexual #desi tumblr #desiblr #shitposting #shitpost #desi shit posting #desi thoughts #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbt pride #queer

[anewgayeveryday]

Today's LGBT+ Character is;

Christina Alonso from S.W.A.T-Bisexual and Polyamorous

Status: Alive

#Christina Alonso #SWAT #bisexual #polyamorous #lgbt #character of the day #tv shows #wlw #fandoms i'm in #lgbt poc #((I had a few issues with her poly storyline)) #((like mainly with the romance with Street)) #((Their kiss was when they were both in a relationship after having so long without like wtf)) #((And I get the whole thing about only liking one of them and that being an issue but did they have to do that?)) #((it's like they just did that so they could get her and Street together)) #((And like ACAB)) #alive #LGBTQueue