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#unlabeled positivity
intersexfairy · 1 year
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some people always knew they were trans. others can look back and realize they always felt trans in some way, even if they didn't know.
some were content with their assigned gender, until they weren't. others genuinely were trans, until they weren't.
some people chose to be trans, or see part of their transness as a choice. others thought they were trans, but weren't.
some identified as trans, but terms like cis nonbinary fit them better. others are unlabeled, even if they could identify as trans.
some people's identity change a lot, whether they're questioning, genderfluid, or struggle with identity.
all of these people's experience of gender are equally beautiful and real. gender doesn't have to be this (universally) innate quality for our thoughts, feelings, actions, and identities to matter. for us all to have the right to be treated as who we are, and be afforded bodily autonomy as such. gender means something different to everyone. that's okay. that's beautiful.
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unlabeled-culture-is · 9 months
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To me unlabeled label brings comfort, because I hate to be put in a box.
I could identify as straight or bisexual or pansexual or polysexual or omnisexual or abrosexual or asexual or aromantic.
But I don't.
When I identify as one of them it feels like there are set of rules on how to be that identity. And I hate it, because I don't fit into these rules or even with the innocent stereotypes.
But with unlabeled the only rule is just to exist and it brings me huge relief, because that's how my sexuality feels most of the time - just existing. Every unlabeled person have their own feelings towards their sexuality and we're not mushed in together, expected to have the same thinking.
And with labels theres this expectation to always be that label. Allow me to explain.
If I identify as bisexual for example, I feel like I need to always be attracted to more than one gender. I can't suddenly not feel anything. Which isn't a case for me.
Sometimes I feel attraction mainly for guys. Sometimes I do feel attraction to girls. Sometimes I feel neutral towards both. Sometimes I feel nothing.
But when I identify as unlabeled, I can just be me, without feeling guilty for not fitting the boxes and it's rules.
relatable!! well said anon
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kueraleido · 1 year
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Happy Unlabeled Visibility Day!!!
I’m still very much figuring out my feelings with regards to labels. I’ve been thinking a lot about what they are, why we have them, how we should go about using them, and how I myself fit into all of it. All of my beliefs are subject to change, but here are some reminders that I’ve been finding important lately:
We are all different. Don’t make statements that claim that something is true for everyone out there, because there will inevitably be people for whom that doesn’t apply. What works for you won’t necessarily work for others. There are very few true binaries out there. There may be caveats to things I say here, too.
Labels are a product of the culture that creates them. They are not intrinsic to us, nor are they tangibly separate from us.
The words that people use to describe ourselves are constantly shifting and evolving. They have never been set in stone, and they never will be.
Labels are less like checklists and more like complex, interconnected webs of traits.
There are no rules. There are no authorities. No one has control over whether or not you’re “allowed” to exist in a certain way. You don’t need to ask permission, and there is nobody in a position that allows them to even grant you that permission in the first place. 
Labels are not the end-all-be-all of every facet of all of our experiences. It is very possible to relate to people who hold different identities than you. It is also very possible to not relate to people who hold the same identities as you. Your existence is not invalidated by either of these situations. It’s likely, in fact, that any two people with any number of identities/labels will have some differences and some commonalities. Because that’s just the nature of being an individual. 
You don’t have to identify as a label. You can identify with one. You can associate yourself with a particular concept without defining yourself by its confines. 
If you used to use a different label but have now changed it, please remember that you were not a bad person for doing so. Most of the time, we use labels because we feel that they explain our experiences at the time. Some people feel that they were wrong about their previous labels, and that’s totally okay! But some people feel like they were never “wrong”, their needs just changed, and that’s great too!
And last but not least, be kind. We’re all trying our best. Remember that you are valid, worthy of kindness, and that your existence provides so much value to the world. <3
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fallenstarcat · 2 years
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normalize not using a label no matter how close your experiences are to it. you don’t have to use a label if you don’t want to
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stargazing-enby · 2 years
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Labeling your gender and sexuality can be complicated and isn't mandatory. Whether you're questioning or you're very sure about your relationship with labels, and whether you have zero labels or more than you can count, you deserve to be proud! 💜
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entropy-sea-system · 2 years
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Unlabeled people (whether they id as unlabeled for gender, orientation, or some other related identity) are amazing and are welcome in the queer community!!!
(exclus do not touch. Also do not debate whether unlabeled people are allowed in the queer community on this post !! )
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harleyspinn · 2 years
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arcane’s inherent but undescribed queerness makes my unlabeled little heart so happy
like it’s so deeply there in every character and relationship of every kind but they simply don’t make it Everything and let it exist in the gay little way it does which is Very gay which is truly the way i want to live my life
queer without the extra words if that makes any sense
also i want viktor so bad
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mrmaxdragonx3 · 1 year
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I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.
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sapphicflorae · 22 hours
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One of these days I swear I’ll just dump all the labels and become omnipotent
“What’s in your pants” idk want to see for yourself?
“Who’s in your bed” well you could be if you wanted
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milleeeeeee · 1 year
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actual conversation i’ve had:
(more than one time)
person, noticing my pride bracelet: are you part of the lgbtq+ community?
Me: eh yeah
Person: cool, what are you?
me: i don’t really label my sexuality. i like who i like.
person: oh, so you’re like pansexual?
me, *bangs head against the table*
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haunted-thing · 9 months
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image id: rectangular flag with seven stripes that are,in order. : light pinkish tan, pink, purplish magenta, purple, blue, turquoise, light lime green. /end id.
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unlabeled omni sapphillean
being unlabeled , omni , and a sapphillean / velaurian at the same time !
requested by @horrgores !
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unlabeled-culture-is · 2 months
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hello! ive recently adopted the use of unlabeled to describe myself and i still find myself wanting to find labels, and yet I can never find any that fit because who I am cannot be defined by words. I try to determine if my gender is masculine or feminine or neutral or something else and I can't. I try to label how my attraction works but i can't because I just don't have attraction often enough to know or i just don't remember how attraction feels later on.
anyways i just wanted to say the term unlabeled is the best thing to exist <3
agreed! it’s great to know there are so many people out there whose identities can’t be pinned down to a single word
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kueraleido · 2 years
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some positivity for unlabeled/partially labeled disabled people:
It is okay to not perfectly fit into an established label. It is okay to relate to a label, but choose not to use it. It is okay to use a label in some situations, but not others. It is okay to switch labels. It is okay to not understand social constructs, such as labels. It is okay to not want a diagnosis. You do not need to use a label if you don't want to. You do not need to have everything figured out.
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mooblycakes · 2 years
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I’m not much of a day person unless its a day with you
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lg-ball-t · 1 year
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yo, could you do a comic about unlabelled (learn about it here). it's my identity and i think it would be cool because a lot of people don't know what it is :)
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rosepr98 · 2 years
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Just came up with my personal Persona 4 and 5 characters’ sexualities headcanon.
Atlus please we need some more diversity in the Persona series🫠
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