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diorprncess · 8 months

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𝓑𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓓𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓶 𝓖𝓲𝓻𝓵

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everyone has their own definition of a dream girl - a girl who is simply everything we want or everything we want to be. i strongly believe that discipline and the law of assumption can help anyone become their own version of a dream girl. so why not just manifest that into your reality?

start by figuring out exactly what it means to be a dream girl to you.

what's her name? what does she do for a living? how much money does she make? what about her education? where does she live? what does she look like? what does her body look like? what kind of clothes does she wear? what kind of person is she? what does her morning routine look like? what does her day look like? what does her night routine look like? what are her hobbies and interests? how does she see the world and other people? how do other people see her? what are her goals in life? what kind of people does she surround herself with? what does she do in her free time?

now the most important thing is to answer those questions like you're talking about yourself. not "she is..." but "i am...". i suggest you write it down somewhere just so you can come back to it whenever you need it.

answer those questions and add whatever details you want your dream girl to have. please remember that this is the version of a girl who is perfect to YOU. don't feel like your answers have to be something that other people consider perfect, just describe the version of yourself who is truly happy with her life.

now that you know what a dream girl is to you, tell yourself that you are that girl. i don't wanna hear any "oh but she's rich and i'm not" or "oh but she's this and that and i'm not". no! she is you and you are her. if you can imagine it you can have it. think about what your life would look like if you were that girl. daydream, make plans, journal, create vision boards, do whatever that helps you be in the dream girl state. you are your dream girl, that's it. you look like her, you talk like her, you walk like her, you are her. no matter what shows up in your reality, that doesn't matter, you're becoming your dream girl and nothing and no one can stop you.

something that will definitely help with that is doing the things on your list that are possible for you right now. if your dream girl wakes up early and you know that it's possible for you then start waking up early as well. if your dream girl does yoga and you have enough time and are physically able to do it, start doing yoga. you don't have to start with extremely expensive products and routines, just whatever is possible for you right now. do whatever will help you stay in that state and the rest will simply come to you :)

˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

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agirlwithglam · 8 days

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✨Time for Vanilla’s Opinion 🍰

Edition #1: thoughts on hate & caring about what others think of you.

Regardless of what people think of you, you need to understand that it only matters/ means something if you decide it to. What i mean is that i know lots of people say “you should only care about your opinion. Others opinion of you dont matter” but that’s only true if YOU DECIDE IT TO BE TRUE. I will say this again: this is your life!!!!!

If you choose to accept and believe the nonsense that others will think/ say of you, then you are saying “i dont have the confidence and self love in myself to only accept my opinion, so im going to give you the power over my emotions and how i act :)” do you really want to do that? Because that’s what you’re doing when you start acting based on how you think others are gonna think of you and what their perception is.

Remember: what other people think of you is just THEIR PERCEPTION. Stop making your personality & yourself dependent on what another person thinks of you!!

And also, some people will literally just hate on anything because of how sad their life is. I mentioned this before, and im gonna mention it again: there could be a video of CATS PLAYING on YouTube and you’ll find someone criticising and hating on that. That’s how sad some of these people in life are. So stop trying to or thinking that since you love yourself and you’re “perfect” that everyone should/ would like you because THATS NOT TRUE.

I read this quote once: “you could be the most juiciest, yummiest apple in the world, yet there would still be someone out there who doesn’t like apples.”

“So then.. what do i do if I receive hate? It’s still mean and hurtful.”

WHY does it still hurt??? WHY are you giving that person ANY control over how you feel???? If this person is someone who’s your friend or close to you, when they do it, TELL THEM THAT YOU DONT LIKE IT!!! Without communication and understanding, you will only start to build resentment for the other person, creating a toxic relationship. Comunícate your boundaries clearly by telling them that firmly, NOT in a joking manner, that you don’t like it. Now ofc if they do it once more, remind them again. Most of the time, if this person really cares about you, they will respect your feelings and stop doing that. But if it happens more times, you’ve gotta stop giving your energy to them. Reserve that for something that actually matters.

You may or may not have noticed that i did not write “just cut them out” because i know how difficult that can be, especially if you’re a kid still living with your parents. Because at some times, you’re stuck in the situation you’re in for a while (for example: a workplace, living at home, in 1 class at school) so its not as easy to just “cut them out”. And that’s why i wrote “stop giving your energy to them”. Because THATS what the parasites are feeding on! Your energy and attention! Take that away from them and see what happens.

BUT….;

know that what I’m NOT saying is to be a stone-cold bitch who doesn’t care at all about others or their happiness. (Because honestly, doing that shows me that you’re a lot more insecure) A lot of people now would be like “but it’s not my responsibility to ensure they’re happy. They are their own person in charge of their own actions and feelings!” Sure, ok. But then don’t come whining to me about how you have no friends and how you feel so lonely and sad. ‘You’re your own person and in charge of your own feelings’, remember? So if someone decides to leave a relationship (whether it’s a friendship, or with romance) with you because you don’t make them feel happy, then don’t be surprised about that because ‘they are their own person.’

But look, i completely agree with the fact that you and every individual indeed are in charge of their own feelings and actions, but just stop and think about it for a sec; would YOU want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t give a hoot about your happiness? Yuck, no!!

So to put it in more simple/ plain terms: be KIND to people, bring smiles to peoples faces when you can (give them a compliment, help them out, listen to them, offer advice, etc.) but don’t something that compromises your own wellbeing and happiness. Cus like, how is complimenting someone’s hair or eyes gonna hurt you? If anything it would just make you happier. But also don’t live your life constantly on the edge, afraid of what he’s gonna think of you, what shes gonna say about you, etc. etc.

I guess that’s pretty much it. <3 anyyywayys i hope you enjoyed the 1st edition of the series! If you have requests, comment on this post of send an ask using the ‘tea’ button ☕️

Xoxo, Vanilla

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honeytonedhottie · 11 days

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fun ways to affirm⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

remember, to affirm is to think so u could affirm whenever wherever you want. im just going to be listing some ways to affirm favorable things in a more fun way ✨

sing ur affirmations like a song

say ur affirmations during mirror work

vaunt about urself/write a vaunt about urself

pretend like ur telling someone ab ur manifestation success (on the phone) and repeat ur affirmations

robotically affirm

write a script and throw in some of ur affirmations

affirm at the end of the day as though you were writing a journal entry about your manifestation successes

listen to ur affirmation tapes

affirm before sleeping (in state akin to sleep) and when u wake up

affirm mindlessly when doing mundane tasks

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hanraemi · 7 months

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Manifest easily

The most common method which is easy, but you're making it hard?

So First of all I want you'll to know that EVERYTHING, basically ANYTHING you want in reality you have to get that in your mind first! Your mind is the factory it makes your desires and turn that into reality, so let's make your desires!

We all call it a type of visualization method, but it's a bit different, it's called;

REPROGRAMMING TECHNIQUE:

1.) I need you to go to a place where no one disturbs you okay.

2.) Sit in the most comfortable manner you want, you don't really need that crossed legs or laying on your back.

Position yourself in a way your body won't feel any difficulty.

3.) Picture the thing, the desire, what you want to manifest, you don't have it yet you are picturing it.

4.) Now, it's your, feel how you would feel on the moment you knew your desires are REALITY now! Example; you want a promotion, picture your Boss coming to your cabin and telling you the good news. Feel how you would feel.

5.) Now time travel to 1 hour later after you have manifested your desire. Same example, you got promoted an hour ago, now feel the feeling that your family members, and friends, you know, are calling and texting you , congratulating you. Picture what will happen after an hour later.

6.) Now Picture yourself 24 hours later after your desires are REALITY already. Same example again, now 34 hours later, the next day you're going to office but not at the same cabin! You're promoted, and now your role in the office has changed too. What would feel 24 hours later ?

NOTE; Whenever you visualise, feel. See what you want to see. Hear what you want to hear. Feel what you want to feel.

7.) Open your eyes slowly. Tada ✨ you just got it. You manifest already! It's as simple that.

Feeling is the key!

(ALSO, if you feel trouble focusing or imagining, write, write all those steps in present form.)

The job you want, exist. The relationship you want to be in, exist. The person you want to be with, exist. The money you want, it's here everywhere. The success you want to achieve, it's here so many ppl got that. The everything you want is here, it exist, and it's your the moment you visualise getting that!!!

Done ✅ what's more nothing at all, you have that already and just feeeel it!

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diaryofanenchantedprincess · 12 days

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Rarely ever be emotional. Your default is under emotional. Always observing, looking at how you can turn certain events to have a favorable outcome for you and where you can benefit from. Save your emotions for your children or your pets or for when you write or paint or express yourself. Save it for your journal to put them all down in and sort through them. Process your emotions in private, with someone you trust, or with a therapist. Practice mental hygiene every night where you put them down on paper or say them out loud. But your emotions are a currency.

Say you only have so much currency to spend every day. Would you be giving them out as freely as you do and to people who didn’t even ask for it?

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foreveradora · 6 months

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'I would rather lose somebody than lose myself.'

i think about this quote a lot, and you should as well. let's think about it deeper.

losing someone is definitely hard, although do you know what is harder? losing yourself. losing who you are. not recognising who you've become. changing yourself just because someone else acted like it. this is not the way to live.

losing yourself is so scary, the feeling and fear of not recognising yourself anymore, it is a nightmare.

when you look at the other side, losing somebody else. you have been by your own side your whole life. who is going to be there when you are alone? that's right, it is going to be you, when no one else is there, don't worry because you will always be there for yourself.

losing someone else is also scary, losing somebody can take a minimal toll in your life to a giant toll. either way, it isn't easy to deal with if you love them. loving someone and then them disappearing hurts.

in the end, you should always choose yourself, it may seem narcissistic but it isn't. this is about not making yourself a slave to others. it's about having yourself as your best friend. caring and loving for yourself isn't narcissistic.

when you have the option to lose somebody else or yourself, make the right decision.

#it girl #self improvement #become your better self #it girl season #improving yourself #becoming that girl #dream girl #pink pilates girl #that girl

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sugarsprinklesoul · 5 months

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HOW TO ROMANTICIZE LIFE

Romanticizing life involves finding joy and beauty in everyday moments. Here are some ideas to add a touch of romance to your life:

Gratitude Practice: Cultivate gratitude by appreciating the simple things in life. Keep a gratitude journal to reflect on positive experiences.

Mindfulness: Be present in the moment. Pay attention to your surroundings, savor the tastes and smells, and fully engage in your activities.

Create Rituals: Develop daily or weekly rituals that bring you joy, whether it's a special morning routine, an evening walk, or a cozy bedtime ritual.

Surround Yourself with Beauty: Decorate your space with things that make you happy – flowers, candles, artwork. Create an environment that uplifts your spirits.

Indulge in Your Senses: Enjoy sensory experiences. Treat yourself to your favorite meal, listen to beautiful music, or immerse yourself in a captivating fragrance.

Embrace Nature: Spend time in nature. Whether it's a park, a beach, or a forest, connect with the beauty of the natural world.

Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. It adds a sense of accomplishment and positivity to your life.

Dress for Yourself: Wear clothes that make you feel good. It's a simple way to express yourself and boost your confidence.

Connect with Loved Ones: Nurture your relationships. Spend quality time with friends and family, sharing laughter and creating cherished memories.

Read and Dream: Immerse yourself in literature, art, or music that sparks your imagination. Allow yourself to dream and be inspired.

Remember, romanticizing life is about finding joy in the little things and appreciating the beauty that surrounds you. It's a mindset that can bring more positivity and fulfillment into your daily experiences.

#self love #self help #self improvement #inspiration #motivation #self care #glow up era #pink aesthetic #romanticise your life #romanticise everything #becoming that girl #dream girl #glow up #self growth #pinkcore #healthy skin #manifesation #positive mindset #mental health

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arielleslipgloss · 1 month

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IT’S MY BIRTHDAY!!

(All photos are mine besides the background photo with Madison Beer in it)

It is my very own Birthday today. So……”I’ll blow out the candles, happy birthday to me.” Thank you all to everyone who has been giving me lots of lovely birthday wishes!

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kimis-diary · 3 months

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bruh u have ten followers shut up 💀 ur not all that

And if all ten of them came to me and told me that they liked what I do, I’d be the happiest person ever! 🩷

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lastofthe20thcenturygirls · 18 days

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hong hae-in deciding not to tell anyone except one person about her illness has been reminding me of twenty years old again a lot. ha no-ra thought she was dying because of the report mix-up she also didn't tell her husband and her son just her best friend. then she learns she was never sick but her son finds out and he was so angry and heartbroken that his mother didn't even tell them when she thought she was gonna die. that scene always stuck with me. while she was way too nice of a mother to him he never was a good son but he was also just a teenager who was more focused on his university admission and after finding out he genuinely became a good son to his mother. BUT hae-in's mother is not a teenager she's her fucking mother who the moment she realised her son died after saving hae-in started resenting her... her own daughter who almost died too and i hope it eats her alive that hong hae-in never told her

#i mean she almost died but you chose to resent your own daughter ofc she didn't tell you when she's dying again #ik she'll be forgiven and their relationship will become better but a girl can dream #queen of tears #anyway twenty years old again was great #back then all i used to do was watch kdramas but it was one of the ones that stayed great until the end #good times #now it's a miracle if i am able to watch any till the end #just checked the asianwiki and her husband (young ver.) was played by KANG TAE-OH...#i didn't get it then but now ik it was that damn smile of his 😔#kdrama

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honeytonedhottie · 3 months

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embracing being alone⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

learning to be alone is such a crucial thing to learn at all times during your life, but especially during your youth. and something to understand is that sometimes, protecting your peace comes at the cost of being alone but being alone is peaceful! and not as bad as you might think that it is.

being alone offers an opportunity for self discovery and growth and rest and relaxation and reflection and the list goes ON. being able to enjoy your own company is a SUPER power bcuz it genuinely nourishes you so much.

enjoying your own company ;

you dont have to be codependent on someone else to make yourself happy or to make yourself feel good. what fulfills you and nourishes you isnt the relationships that u have with others. although that is an amazing and fulfilling thing, the most fulfilling thing is learning yourself. being alone REPLENISHES you, its like, hydration for the soul.

dont wait on someone else to do something that you wanna do!! if u dont have anyone to go with, just go on your own. you dont have to wait on others to be happy.

practice being alone ;

go on solo dates, practice planning to do something fun and just doing it by yourself. once you start doing things alone and you see how nice it feels, you'll want to do it more bcuz its so easy to enjoy your own company, you just have to get over your fear of judgement or of being alone and learn to enjoy and embrace it.

have a spa day

learn to cook a new dish

read a book

have a journalling session

schedule appointments for yourself

go on a long drive

some benefits of enjoying your own company ;

you can be yourself without filter

less distractions and you give yourself time to ponder and look internally

your in control of your space and your time

you can be creative and imaginative without interference

its peaceful

being your own best friend ;

treat yourself how you'd treat someone that you valued a lot. be compassionate and understanding and respectful. dont talk badly about yourself and dont be mean to/punish yourself bcuz u wouldn't do that to someone that u loved and cherished.

dont abandon yourself in times where life can become stressful. focus on being present and dont forget your worth. your self worth and value doesn’t come from how useful you are to others, your valuable simply because you are you. a human being who is deserving of love. your worth doesnt come from how productive you are or what you’ve achieved, instead your worth is already done and your valuable because of your existence.

coping without friends ;

everything is temporary and meaningful relationships will always find their way to you. just understand that some ppl are here temporarily and some ppl are here for a lifetime but only you are here for all of it which is why its important to be alone and be comfy with that.

not everyone is gonna like you or wanna be your friend and thats okay. it has nothing to do with you and is almost always simply because of different personalities and its not personal

brush off rejections bcuz rejection is just redirection. when you dont take everything personally you'll notice how much happier you'll be overall.

know that the meaningful relationships and connections that u crave will come!! no one is here to be alone forever so you'll meet the people who pour into you and you'll meet ppl that u can pour into and you'll be okay!!

overall, enjoying your own company does wonders for your mental and physical health and its a useful skill to learn in general because it brings so much peace from being able to sit with your thoughts.

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hanraemi · 5 months

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STOP OVERTHINKING

-Thewizardliz coded

~Start to understand that they don't know you and you don't know anyone.

~ Voice your thoughts in the moment!

~Remove your thoughts, OUT of your head!! Paint, journal, tell someone whatever.

~Recognize where is the trigger coming from?

~Think that what you are thinking is true? Think with FACTS!!

~Poke the bubble!

~ "What if" does not exist

~Find Solutions! Do not focus on the problem.

~Ask for help!

~Find ways to CALM yourself! Rest, Sleep,

~ Breathing Exercise, Breathe through Stomach!!!!!

~Yoga and meditation, Walk

~Life works itself out. You were meant for something greater, let go of past

~God always HAVE MY BACK, GOD PROTECT ME AND GOD ALWAYS WANT ME TO BE HAPPY

~Realize, People don't have to like you. Everyone will not like you!

~YOU ARE NOT THEIR VERSION OF YOU!

~YOU ARE NOT THEIR OPENION!

~Stop thinking small mindedly! humans are building Spaceships, airplanes, skyscrapers. Than imagine, what can God do?

~You are not a Failure! People that believe in themselves, Get everything they deserve.

~"My life is great, becuz I am alive!"

~Let go of trying to be perfect! everyone have a different prospective of "being Perfect"

~I AM THE GREATEST!

That's it for today ✨

And, I am sorry for being inactive, I just took some time to recharge 🤌🏼💖 I'll try to be ACTIVE, ALOT! Random question, Guys are you watching my demon?

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miyoriia · 5 months

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nonbinary is when skinny white girl. 👎

#catgirl dreams #unhappy about this #feel free to add on your grievances about how nonbinary isn't just feeling unaligned with being a boy or a girl #because like it has become a third label

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lucyswillow · 4 months

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Journal prompts for manifestation

1. If life stopped today what would you regret not doing?

2. What does your ideal day look like?

3. What limiting beliefs are holding you back

4. how do you want to look like?

5. Are there people in your life that lower your vibrations?

6. When are you the happiest?

7. What does your ideal family look like?

8. What does your ideal career look like?

9. What is your biggest goal this year?

10. Write about your dream life as if you have it

#Reach out and find your happily ever after #affirm and persist #manifestation blog #manifestation #law of assumption #loa tumblr #journal #journaling #journal prompts #becoming the it girl #desired life #dream reality

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blysstastic · 5 months

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Daily self worth reminder I guess cuz it seems like too many people need to be reminded of this but…

🪷 it is not your job to take care of everybody.

People need to start focusing on holding themselves down and questioning “who is benefiting me as much as I am benefiting them? Who makes me happy?”

Too many people are too busy taking care of others to take care of themselves; helping them out when they struggling. Whether it be financially, emotionally, mentally, you’re right there bae. If they need someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, a place to stay you helping them out time and time again and it be the same people that prove to you over and over that they just using you and ain’t even tryna return the favor.

It is not your job to… please them; it is not your job to attend to their every need and run to they beck and call; it is not your job to let go of your boundaries to make them comfortable; it is not your job to stick with them through all they bullshit and all they switching up and act as their doormat; it is not your job to place them on some bullshit pedestal; it is not your job to put yourself down so they can get their ego boost; it is not your job to act as a slave to selfishness, you don’t need to feed into their reliance for instant gratification.

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your-vampire-girlfriend · 4 months

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CW: Discussion about beauty standards, skin, scars and my own negative experiences with it

Aren't your twenties meant to be your absolute peak? You're the prettiest you'll ever be, the most stylish, the strongest, the most easily consumed, and the barer of more time than you're supposed to know what to do with.

Aren't you immortal? Isn't you visage meant to be forever frozen as a thin, white twenty-something girl with perfect, glowing skin? No? I guess 96% of us are out of luck.

I see everyone around me frantic and afraid with the time they apparently don't have. Once a month they go down to the city to get preventative Botox in an infrared sauna with a quick round of cool-sculpting for dessert. They're running up credit card debt with money they saved for textbooks at Sephora, Ulta, Credo, and SkinStore because this lotion will be the one! It will lighten their face five shades, blur their scars, and shrink their pores in a week.

I see them when I look in the mirror and I see the the valleys around my mouth that are bound to turn into wrinkles later on. And there's this one little indent on my forehead that I can't work out whether it's a fine line forming or my foundation that settled wrong. The sides of my thighs have little blue veins and cellulite you can really only see I'm stretching on the barre and I'm not really sure what to do about it.

Most of the shiny, pink, raised pimples have faded into reddish splotches all over my chest and back and jawline, but they're still there. No amount of BHA, retinol, sugar scrub, balm, oil, or moisturizer has put a dent in them. All the women in my family said their skin magically cleared once they left high school, like the diploma would be some kind of protective totem against papules. It never did, by the way. I don't think this is what women have in mind when they say they want to have "the skin of a teenager".

I'm vigorous, near obsessive with my skin and body care. I double cleanse, tone, treat, moisturize, and use a noncomedogenic sunscreen. I can count on one hand the number of times I've slept in makeup, I take my vitamins, I drink my water, I change my pillow cases, I wash my clothes in gentle hypoallergenic detergent.

Some days though I wake up and struggle with the realization that this is all I can do. I can care for myself in every which way, but it doesn't change that today is the youngest I will ever be again. I'll never have as much collagen in my skin tomorrow as I do today. One of the hairs I lose today might not grow back tomorrow.

Aging is such an incredible privilege, this I know better than anyone. A month ago my cousin reminded me of this when taking one bad pill left her twenty seven forever. My uncle locked himself in his bedroom after he got back from rehab a few years back and is now thirty-five for the rest of my life. I am grateful for life, and breathing, and aging, but the world I live in doesn't make it any easier to accept the consequences of it.

I hope I'm not alone in this.

#vamprambling #this is no way is judging people who do what they need to do to feel comfortable in their skin #coquette #gloomy coquette #clean girl #becoming that girl #doelette #dollette #aesthetic #skincare #female rage #female hysteria #manic pixie dream girl #it girl #living as a woman is a special kind of hell #what kind of society pathologically punishes your continued existence #cw: death #cw: beauty standards

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