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blackholemojis · 1 year

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Oh and here’s a polyamory specific emoji since someone tagged the first three people hugging emoji with polyam

[ID: a triad of people with their arms around each other. Two have their arms around each other’s shoulders, and the one between them holds their other hands to their chest. They are enclosed in a red heart and a blue infinity sign, making one symbol for polyamory. /End ID]

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#polyam #polyamourous #person emojis #lgbtq+#discord emojis #discord emotes #discord emoji #discord emote #custom emote #custom emojis #custom emotes #custom emoji #pride emojis

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neon-vocalist · 5 months

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hey so. happy polyamory day to polyamorous people in monogamous relationships.

whether that’s because you’re doing it for your partner’s comfort, you simply haven’t found someone else yet, you have but they rejected you, or a recent breakup has left you with only one partner remaining, you are no less polyamorous for only dating one person.

you still belong in this community. you still matter. you are still valid.

don’t forget that.

#and i will take NO bashing of partners uncomfy with polyamory in the notes #as long as the poly person is ok with it it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS #polyamory #polyam #polyamorous #polyam positivity #polyam pride #polyamorous pride #polyamourous

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kerri-the-skunk · 9 months

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Shit, I think I'm having another Moment of Self-Discovery™ here. I think I'm polyamorous.

#196 #r/196 #r196 #one ninety six #196 campfire #polyamourous #polyamory #poly #like #i'm having romantic feelings for more than one person at the same time I think #and i think i'm kinda terrified of ruining my current relationship because of it

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borderline-culture-is · 1 month

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Poly BPD culture is only dating one person because you cannot handle two partners/favorite persons

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#poly bpd culture is #poly bpd culture #borderline culture is #borderline personality disorder #bpd culture is #bpd culture #bpd safe #bpd #actually bpd #actually borderline #bpd fp #fp #fp bpd #poly #polyamourous

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prettybambifemme · 2 months

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alexissara · 10 months

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Happy Day of Visibility for Non-monogamy

[Image From Ayaka is in Love with Hiroko!]

Today is Day Of Visibility for Non-monogamy, I am polyamarous, I've written about it a few times in recent days so feel free to ya know search Polyam on my blog and you'll see plenty of writing if you want more but today is gonna be completely personal chat. So strap in for my asexual lesbian polyamarous life.

I personally attempt to be as non hierarchical as possible, I am engaged [and have been] to my Fiancé whom i've dated since I was in Freshmen year of high school so obviously we have tons of history and in these 15 years of love i've never felt like I needed monogamy in my relationship with them. I've dated a set of long distance partners for around 8 years now and I love all of those women and wouldn't replace them for the world, we spend hours and hours every single day talking. I had a recent ex girlfriend whom I almost dated for 2 years before our break up and I have a non traditional subby dommy kinda thing going on with a really sweet girl that's been going on for over a year now.

My Fiancé has been dating another amazing girl who I think is amazing [as a friend] for like 5 years now and she has a boyfriend who is married to another woman but he lives with her. My Girlfriend has been dating another girl who is like one of my best friends ever for a lot of years now too. I have a pretty good relationship with the whole polycule and I am really happy to be able to not just have all this love but to have all this love for my partners. It's super fun to see my partners date and fall in love and explore themselves in new ways, it's fantastic.

I would say my approach is mostly a relationship anarchist style in that I let relationships be what they are as opposed to feeling like a strict line from what interactions with people of particular titles can be. That said when we decide on a title I do take them very seriously and want to respect when a relationship has elevated into something clearly romantic between me and those other people. I love, love but I also understand that I only have so many hours in the day and I want to make sure I am treating everyone well.

Non-Monogamy can be a little bit of work but relationships can be too. At first I was really bad at polyamory, I thought you had to be in a relationship with everyone dating everyone and tried to like force that kind of dynamic which neither of my partners appreciated and they sat me down to clear it up with me that they weren't interested in each other romantically. I also worked to stop comparing people to each other. It had always been that different partners had given had given me different things in my life.

Two years ago I was really sick, like constantly in and out of the hospital sick. During that time I only grew to appreciate my polycule even more. Having my loved ones all in a group chat giving each other updates, having people be awake at different hours so I couldn't be alone and depressed and feeling horrible. I felt so lucky to have so much love and to be showered in that affection all of them trying their best to help take care of me. Honestly, I don't know if my mental health could have been as okay as it was in such a terrible state with that constant affection from everyone.

I hope we can live in a world that becomes more accepting of non monogamy and that we have more rights. My partners matter so deeply to me and I couldn't chose between them. Like a body needs a bunch of different vitamins I need a lot of different love to stay healthy. This is who I am, this is who my heart is, this is me. To every other non monogamous person out there, your not alone, your seen, your loved and we have each other if we don't have anything else.

#Personal #non monogamy #non monogomous #polyamourous #polyam #poly #polyam lesbians #polyamory #poly lesbians #polyamarous queer #polyamarous lesbian #polyam wlw #polyamarous #relationship anarchy #lesbian #Day of Visibility for Non-monogamy

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moonlitxmermaid · 4 months

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blackholemojis · 10 months

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Can you maybe possibly make like, four people polyam emojis? ^^ No worries if you can't! just trying to find some :3

How does this look? :)

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[ID: an emoji of four people embracing. Two hold each other around the shoulders while putting their hands between them to hold the hands of the other two, who are sitting below them. Those two have their arms linked. They have various builds, and there are multicolored hearts around them. /End ID]

#polyam #polyamourous #custom emoji #custom emote #discord emoji #discord emojis #discord emote #person emojis

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nooks-cranny-mogai · 7 months

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Three-leafed clover polyam/throuple/ 3 person relationship polyam

So my gf is polyam but is only comfortable if her polyam relationship is closed and has, at max, 3 people in it including herself. No outside partners beyond the three. She wanted a polyam flag she liked the colors of and considering her relationship to polyamory and desired relationship is unique from most other polyam people, I thought Id coin something for her.

This is the flag for polyam people who want their relationship closed and are ok with having 2 partners/being part of a throuple but being closed aka just themselves not any of their partners with have partners outside of the throuple. This flag could also be for throuples who function as closed.

Here's the flag and the 2 symbols I used for it!

I like both symbols but I worry the circular one could be misconstrued for the plural symbol, especially when combined with the flag but it should be mentioned this was coined without regards to any existing flag (my partner picked the colors without any knowledge of the plural/system blue and purple flag and only after combining it with the circular symbol did I realize it looks similar). The similarities are purely coincidental.

"Unicorn hunters" DNI right tf now 🙄

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lotusmoonbunni · 2 months

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Forgor to share. Aixia is one of my homebrew characters. Elven cultivator. Rambled about her on my FA. Too sleepy to ramble here. Don't sexualize her veil <3

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borderline-culture-is · 25 days

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Poly bpd culture is crying at night because even after a year, even after entering a new relationship, you cant stop thinking about your ex

- 💉🪡 (Can I claim this?)

you can claim the sign-off!!!!

#poly bpd culture is #poly bpd culture #borderline culture is #borderline personality disorder #bpd culture is #bpd #bpd safe #bpd culture #actually bpd #actually borderline #poly #polyamourous #- 💉🪡

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choppedupnotkilled · 5 months

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The chorus girls are in a queerplatonic relationship.

#proship #proshipper safe #lsoh #little shop of horrors #chorus girls #lsoh headcanon #queerplatonic #queer platonic relationship #qpr #qpr positivity #homoqueerplatonic #polyamory #polyamourous #queerplatonic relationships are extremely underrepresented in media so this would be cool #it compliments their nontraditional role in the narrative as a part of it and characters in the universe of the story as well #personal post

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polybrattycrisis · 2 years

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Fun aspect of polyamory nobody is talking about:

Getting to learn your different partners intimacy styles. The sweet little things like how one will shower you with a thousand sweet gentle forehead smooches but then kiss forcefully, deeply and passionately. While another is very restrained about public pda, but then kisses so gently and tenderly.

#the more I interact with new partners the more this becomes my favorite thing #its such an intimate thing to learn about a person #i know part of the novelty is in having grown up evangelical and fully never expecting to have more than one intimate partner #religious trauma #religious deconstruction #is a hell of a trip #polyamory #poly #polyam #polyamourous #polycule #intimacy #kissing #kiss #polyamorous pride #polyam dating #polyam pride

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im-too-obsessed-with-huskerdust · 18 days

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Here’s to me finally ending my 4 years of denial for being polyam

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polyamzeal · 1 year

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Coming Second

A quick personal post as I reflect upon a Facebook post I just gave advice on. Someone was struggling with always coming second when all of their partners have a nesting partners/spouse. That feeling can suck! We all do want to feel like someone’s first choice, it is a common complaint of non-monogamy and a backbone for mono-normative culture for a reason.

I think it is very important to establish both with yourself and a potential partner when starting a new relationship with said partner who already has a committed partner that you understand and accept your role and position. Inherently I am not for hierarchical polyamory and do approach a more relationship-anarchy style. But I think it is ignorant to not acknowledge ingrained hierarchies. If you are trying to date someone who has been in a monogamous marriage for 10 years and is just opening up their relationship now then you would be foolish to expect to be treated on the same level as the spouse even if that what everybody intellectually wants. The ideal and reality are often at odds. So it is important in such an example to understand that the spouse comes before and that you are not there to interrupt their marriage. While that sounds super hierarchy-polyamory, it often doesn’t end up feeling that way most of the time as long as you are realistic and upfront about acknowledging those ingrained hierarchies.

More important while acknowledging this, it is important to accept that “coming second” is not actually that bad of a thing! The gap between first and second is not actually that big. Coming first can be really over-rated. There is still a lot of joy and honor in coming second in someone’s heart. Don’t downplay how special that is. Start a new relationship off be declaring that you are honored to come second and that is a position you treasure.

Disclaimer: I am using first and second very loosely here. Many people will consider their relationship with themselves as coming first, their spouse coming second, and so-on. Some people will put family before lovers. So take the positioning words with a grain of salt.

#Personal #polyamory #polyamourous #nonmonogamy #relationships

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