Omfg. I have said MULTIPLE times that I donāt like or want Proshippers to interact with me. Someone just informed me that a proshipper has stolen not 1, but 2 of my posts 2 days ago.
Istg you pro//shits are all for āWe respect peopleās DNIās!ā And then steal someoneās posts when theyāre against you interacting with them.
This is not the first time a pro//shitter has interacted with me. Quite a few have done so and then ignored me when I confronted them about it, some even blocking me. But taking my own words without my knowledge because you think crossing peopleās boundaries is ācoolā, is definitely new for me. I have never once harassed a pro//shipper unless they have harassed me first. I blocked out pro//ship tags to distance myself away from them. Because thatās what you pro//shippers want! I distance myself away from you guys so you can distance yourself away from me, because itās a boundary. You guys donāt like when weāre in pro//ship tags, we donāt like it when youāre in anti-pro//ship tags. Iāve never personally seen an anti-shipper steal a post from a pro//shipper, but Iāve definitely seen a bit of pro//shippers steal anti-ship posts, these being two of them.
Stealing anything that doesnāt belong to you, and crossing peopleās boundaries intentionally doesnāt make you cool. It makes you an annoying ass. Crossing someoneās boundaries can be annoying and even hurtful sometimes. Yāall are all āAnti-Harassment!ā But then have no respect for someoneās boundaries. That, to me sounds like harassment, which you claim to be against.
I know that not all pro//shippers are going to cross peopleās boundaries and do stupid annoying shit like this, but still, even if not all, thereās definitely some, and thatās who this is aimed at.
Iām so fucking tired. Iām supposed to be asleep as Iām typing this, but I got too impatient and has to type out my thoughts. So, because Iām sleepy, I may not say everything the way that I wanted to, and my grammar and spelling may be a bit off. This may also be longer than I wanted it to be. But once this is posted, iām sleeping.
TL:DR If you respect peopleās boundaries, they may just respect yours. Treat others how you wish to be treated. Etc.
Also fuck you @proshiptohtakes . If you respond to me, I aināt responding back. I only just met you and am already done with you.
This is an interesting question. Iām not a proshipper, Iād much rather not ship abusive/incestuous/pedophiliac/zoophiliac things. So I guess in some ways, Iām Anti Ship? I have a couple ships of my own, but none of them fall under those bad things that I just stated. A lot of proshippers claim that they proship as a coping mechanism for past trauma, but, if thatās really the case for some proshippers, itās really not healthy, and they should really find a much better and much healthier way to cope.
Kink is something that is very complicated for me. Thereās a lot of kinks that donāt hurt anybody or glamorize anything serious. Buuuuuuuut, on the other hand, there ARE kinks that romanticize serious issues and that makes me highly uncomfortable. When putting tags on my work, Iāve come across very concerning tags, and when I went to investigate, I ended up getting so disgusted with what I had seen. So, obviously, I blocked those tags. Even if people are consenting to the sexual roleplays that they do, they end up romanticizing things that really SHOULDNāT be romanticized, like rape, abuse, incest, pedophilia and zoophilia. Iād normally be okay with whatever kinks someone has, but if their kinks fall under any of those things, Iād much rather distance myself away from them. If your kinks donāt glamorize anything serious, than I donāt have a problem with it. But I suppose, in some ways, Iām anti kink. (Yāknow if your fantasies involve the bad stuff that I just talked about-)
Now, fics? I think fanfics are really cool! It makes me happy to see imaginative people put their stories into words for everyone to read, and then readers supporting those imaginative minds! (I have heard of some fanfics that fetishize rape/incest/abuse ect, those fanfics I could definitely go without.) so in some ways, Iām Anti Fic.
As long as youāre not shipping anything harmful, fantasizing about anything harmful, and glamorizing anything harmful through your writing, Iām okay with you. If your ships/kinks/fics arenāt harmful, then you have my support 100%!