YouTuber RSlash outlining relationship goals and carrying the burden of representing good men/good husbands not defining marriage by love or attraction but by commitment and effort.
“Marriage – The whole point of marriage is that it’s two people saying ‘hey, I’ve got your back for life; we’re partners; we’re in this together.’ And yeah, there’s gonna be times when you disagree with your partner. And conflicts between your partner and your family or their family or your friends or whatever. But the point of marriage is you’re trying to say ‘look we’re in this together so let’s figure this out together. And it’s us against the problem, it’s not me versus you.’”
– Commentary by Dabney Bailey (RSlash)
Specific video this quote is from.
Like… in my opinion this is straight up one of the most wholesome and best descriptions of what a partnership should be; I specifically copied it from the transcript because it also applies to non-romantic relationships. It’s not specific to any one type of relationship dynamic other than commitment being a factor in the partnership.
Especially since it came from a real person (or blogging persona) instead of a fictional character who was scripted. Watching multiple of RSlash’s videos around husbands, marriages, etc. it’s very obvious and very tangible he really feels strongly about what a good partner should be. How a good partner should act.
So I’d like to think this isn’t some amatonormative perspective or even allonormative perspective but simply a man saying “this is what a good, lasting, healthy committed relationship needs” and that sentiment can apply to platonic relationships as much as to romantic or sexual ones.
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