#Stigmatized

[thinkingimages]

Canadian-American Roman Catholic mystic and stigmatist

#little rose #mary-rose ferron #little rose ferron #marie rose ferron #stigmatized #stigmatized ecstatic #canadian-american roman catholic mystic and stigmatist #stigmata #mystical #mystic

[k-i-l-l-e-r-b-e-e-6-9]

𝔑𝔞𝔭𝔞𝔩𝔪 𝔇𝔢𝔞𝔱𝔥 - 𝔖𝔱𝔦𝔤𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔷𝔢𝔡

#Napalm Death #Scum #Stigmatized #Full-length #Release date: #July 1st #1987 #Genre: #Hardcore Punk (early); Grindcore/Death Metal (later) #Themes: #Political unrest #Hate #Anti-fascism #Social issues #UK

[moonlit-positivity]

My one goal for society as a whole is to introduce the conversation of our healthcare moving towards a more trauma informed state of mind, because healthcare professionals will look at someone who can't or "refuses" to speak, has self destructive tendencies, and has outbursts of extreme anger and rage, and they will say, "this person is difficult to manage and is a threat to society." And it's like, no, that person is actually traumatized as fuck from a childhood of rape & abuse, what that person needs is a more safer and specialized space for trusting that they are safe enough to talk about what they went through as a kid, rather than you and the rest of society perpetually making them feel even worse than what they already do, for not being able to trust that the people around them aren't gonna treat them like the only indication of what they had to see and endure as a kid. Like why do people go into the mental health field if you don't want to help actually traumatized individuals just as much as anyone else? Humanity will love to romanticize the need to kill predators and bash child abusers, but still absolutely refuses to acknowledge or accept the effects that growing up in these harmful environments can bring, that yes even though we should do away with all the bad and evil in this world, your romanticization of ending child abuse falls short when you're still telling kids they need to sit down shut up and mindlessly obey their parents, and when you tell adult survivors who come forth that they are destroying traditional family values by disrespecting their parents, and when you don't even want to acknowledge or sit with the harmful effects of sexual assault as a child. This has been the bane of my existence since I started openly talking about my trauma, the stigma from mental health professionals who are not even remotely trauma informed just doesn't even help when you are at your wits end with the pain and suffering and desperately needing answers, and the answers they give you are, "why are you yelling so loud? You need to be quiet." Why are we doing this if we aren't willing to help the people who actually need to be helped?? Child abuse exists, csa exists, and these things have extremely complex and irrational and harmful effects on a human being who has had to endure a life of being used and abused with no way out. I just wish people would be more aware of that, and that we could stop demonizing people for not being able to speak up and speak out about what they went through, in a world that is still committed to keeping us in a cage even when we are desperately trying to escape from it. Like why can't we ever talk about these things in places and in people who never even know what this feels like. Why do we have to search endlessly for trauma informed spaces for us to fully exist and be safe in? I don't get it.

#recovery #ptsd #trauma #mental health #mental health discussion #mental health discourse #society #trauma informed #recovering from abuse #healthcare #healthcare reform #stigma #stigmatized #cluster b #cluster b pd #bpd #borderline #actually traumatized #actually borderline #npd #avpd #hpd #avoidant

[teatreeoilgirl]

Psych ward therapist: *suspected me with narcissistic personality disorder*

Actual narcissists: *Hate me as soon as I start infodumping, so I never get along with them*

Me: *actually autistic and maybe made a mean (but funny) joke about my therapist, because of the trauma of not being recognized and stigmatization by further psych ward therapists*

Oops

#eigenes #allein #depressiv #leben #kaputt #schmerz #einsam #ptbs #kptbs #therapist #stigmatized

[howifeltabouthim]

You were witnessing me become this crazy and cerebral girl, the kind of girl that you and your entire generation vilified.

Chris Kraus, from I Love Dick

#misogyny #vilified #crazy #cerebral #stigmatized #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #chris kraus #i love dick

[bpd-thefallen]

I guess people will always remember me as the one I used to be before I started DBT. I’ll always be the bad guy.

#bpd things #bpd thoughts #borderline blog #borderline personality disorder #depressing shit #heartbreak #life is a rollercoaster #crazy #damned if you do #gaslight #why #stigma #stigmatized #unstable behaviour #therapy #judgemental #stuck in the past #dbt #dbt therapy

[pregnant-and-addicted]

I screwed up and didn't make it to the Methadone clinic on Saturday, which means I didn't have a take home dose for today, Sunday, because they're closed... Which means I had no choice but to spend $50 bucks on a sack of Fentanyl to get me through the weekend because going into withdrawal is said to either cause fetal demise or pre-term labor and all my doctors have advised against cold turkey withdrawal as the absolute worst thing and most damaging thing that an addicted mom can do... Ironic, isn't it? It's the first time I've ever encountered medical professionals telling me not to get clean... I certainly doubt that it's something that too many people in the public are familiar with and likely wouldn't be able to wrap their heads around because on first thought it seems to defy all sense of basic logic and common sense but alas, it is the current accepted medical opinion in the USA regarding pregnant women with opioid tolerance, opioid dependence and opioid addiction... I still feel guilty about the situation though even though it wasn't exactly entirely my fault that I missed the clinic. It's a hard thing to stick with and have perfect attendance though with no exceptions for illness or family emergencies or anything else though. I will absolutely NOT miss getting there tomorrow, Monday, and me and the baby's dad will do everything in our power to not miss any days this coming week!

*fingers crossed*

#addict #addicted #drugs #drug addiction #methadone #methadone clinic #opioids #opiates #fentanyl #heroin #opioid epidemic #pregnant #pregnancy #stigmatized #struggling #the struggle is real #depression #depressing shit #depressing life #disappoinment #epic fail #failure

[wordgoods]

verboten | fərˈbōtn, vər- | 

adjective 

forbidden, especially by an authority: bank fishing is verboten on Strathbeg | the list of verboten films.

#verboten #forbidden #prohibited #stigmatized #illicit #not allowed

[music-in-my-veins14]

#The Calling #Music #Wherever You Will Go #Stigmatized #Adrienne #Could It Be Any Harder #One By One #Anything #Our Lives #Things Will Go My Way #Final Answer #We're Forgiven #Just That Good #Unstoppable #Nothing's Changed #Surrender #Dreaming In Red #Youtube

[hurristuff]

For this Disability Pride Month, I saw a post that was shittybad and it made me angry. So have this

#that one person was right OCD is NOT fucking de-stigmatized #intrusive thoughts aren't exclusive to OCD though I'm just tagging those because that's how I got on the topic #ocd #actually ocd #intrusive thoughts #in case anyone needs to filter stuff like this -> #all caps #bold text #ask to tag

[l0ves1ckgirl]

I can feel the blood rushing through my veins When I hear your voice, driving me insane Hour after hour day after day Every lonely night that I sit and pray Tease me, by holding out your hand Then leave me, or take me as I am And live our lives, stigmatized. - The Calling

#music #stigmatized #the calling #love

[tenth-sentence]

However innocuous the techniques, he expected that eutelegenesis would be "stigmatized as immoral and not respectable".

"In the Name of Eugenics: Genetics and the Uses of Human Heredity" - Daniel J. Kevles

#book quote #in the name of eugenics #daniel j kevles #nonfiction #innocuous #techniques #eutelegenesis #artificial insemination #stigmatized #immoral #respectability #herbert brewer

[k-i-l-l-e-r-b-e-e-6-9]

𝔇𝔢𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔲𝔠𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫 - 𝔖𝔱𝔦𝔤𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔷𝔢𝔡

#Destruction #Under Attack #Stigmatized #Release date: #May 13th #2016 #Full-length #Genre: #Thrash Metal #Themes: #Anti-religion #Death #Politics #Metal #Psychology #Social #Germany

[moonlit-positivity]

The thing about mental health & healing that no one ever really acknowledges, is that you can have all these coping skills thrown at you. You can have all these resources listed out. Warm line and hotline numbers out the ass for who to call when you're feeling suicidal.

But there's never ever ever gonna be a way to provide you with the comfort and support of eradicating what has already happened to you in the past.

Like the concept of "give me a fucking time machine so I can go back and prevent it from happening and/or do it better this time."

It doesn't really matter how much you shove breathing techniques into someone's face. If there is never any acknowledgement of the fact that your past exists? That your inability to breathe right now is actually valid? Or have the time and space to even acknowledge that you're suffocating to begin with? To even know that it's okay to be angry and upset and to not cope very well at all? To know that this isn't your fault? Because someone else has robbed you of your entire life?

Then what is the point?

There is an awareness that needs to happen before the true deeper understanding begins, and that awareness is that what you went through wasn't your fault. It wasn't actually supposed to happen like that. You weren't actually supposed to go through that at all. The adults and the people around you should have given you better than what you got.

But if you never get that type of awareness? If you're still being abused and manipulated and surrounded by people who don't care to even ask what you're going through? The what the fuck is breathing gonna do in this scenario. What the fuck is the point of the coping skills and the resources if there is no personal acknowledgement from yourself and others you're trusting that there is even a need to use them to begin with?

You cannot do this type of damage to yourself. You do not do this type of damage for no reason. People will expect you to automatically know that & get with the program right away. But it's like, no, that's not even REMOTELY close to how this works.

You need your humanity restored before you can even begin to trust that youre standing on a solid ground. You've been beat & abused & gaslit by so many people in your life, and now the concept that "you need to take care of yourself" is basically like you just belly flopped into a pool of water.

It stings.

And it stings because first of all, if you had known all of this from the start then we wouldn't even be here, would we? If your parents/abusers had never abused you, you would never even need to use the coping skills and deal with this massive amount of trauma to begin with!

But it also stings because then you start to realize, "oh, oh wait a minute. Oh okay, I finally get it now," when you finally start to understand that oh wait, this is actually kinda fucked up and I've been subconsciously acting on my survival instincts because of it. Suddenly you get thrust into understanding the deeper nuances of everything, everywhere, from every corner and direction.

And there's a lot to dissect here.

You've got your own childhood trauma. Your own parents bullshit has built up so far & deep down inside to the very core of your identity constructs and knowing that everything in you breaks with each passing second.

You've got your shitty abusive family system, your asshole siblings shitting all over you, your asshole relatives invading your space to triangulate on behalf of Those Who Cannot Get The Fuck On.

You've got the gaslighting & manipulation & indoctrination to give a flying fuck, because you love these motherfuckers. What the fuck.

Youve got your own shitty coping skills that are born out of survival & primal instincts. God bless you if you have an addiction of some sort.

Youve got no way of even knowing or understanding what the fuck is happening. Therapy? Lets not pretend that not even 60 years ago "mental health" was still being used as a modern day torture device. Oh wait no that's still happening today too!

You've got stigmatized mental health practices demonizing personality disorders that stem directly from traumagenic symptoms, ill informed & abusive therapists who thrive off of using their authority to induce shame and humiliation knowing good and goddamn well that the reason these symptoms exist is because of, yep you guessed it, 🎉childhood trauma🎉

Youve got a huge lack of mental health for minorities, POC, Asians, lgbt+, just to name a few.

You've got so few therapists that offer focalized services for things like religious trauma, cult & ritual abuse, & other very specific types of trauma, because they're so far & few in between.

You've got the huge lack of awareness in society from recognizing what boundaries & abuse even is, so much so that the only readily available resources for people to come across are pop psychology blogs that romanticize empathy and demonize NPD by grouping every single abuser that's ever existed and labelling them as a narcissist.

You've got very little resources that exist outside of therapy in itself and it's such a scrounge to gather up any and all self help you can possibly find if you cannot afford therapy.

And then you've got to deal with your own life staring back at you at the end of the day. You're traumatized, things are happening inside of your brain and body that you have absolutely no fucking idea what the fuck is happening. You've grown up from that scared little child to now a fully repressed adult filled with fear so deep you're clinging onto relationships and people out of fear that they will leave you stranded and abandoned just like your childhood did. All the while now people around you are getting pissed the fuck off because they don't fucking know. They don't fucking know what you've been through or how it feels to be inside your head. And they're expecting you to be a more fully fleshed out & functioning adult than what you can give them.

And it's never fucking pretty! It's arguments, it's obsession, it's control issues & power dynamics, it's unfocused & repressed anger that gets turned into rage, it's projections, it's staying silent and letting the resentments build, it's the inability to speak, the inability to communicate, the inability to talk about the hard & difficult & uncomfortable. it's all these horrific little tidbits of everything all at once.

It's a fucking nightmare trying to regain any sense of anything at all.

You can't really just snap your fingers and fix all of this shit. Even if you wanted to, even if you dig in real hard and learn and absorb all the fucking coping skills out there. The thing no one ever talks about, is how much time is needed to fully sit with and process every last single fucking thing that has ever happened and what is continuing to happen before you can finally figure out how to handle it.

People be so ready to forget that part. Therapists, friends, family, even ourselves. We just wanna rush right through and get to the end fucking result.

Who the fuck is there while you work it out? And what does your process look like right now, right here and now and in this moment? And who or what do you have in your life that can reaffirm your humanity while you sit with the horrors of your past & work it out? And how open and receptive are you to knowing what you went through was abuse and that eventually you're gonna have to leave this concept of going back in time to get a better fucking outcome?

That's probably a good thing to sit with and think about.

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Hope this helps

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#recovery #ptsd #trauma #mental health #boundaries #healing #healing thoughts #bpd #npd #stigmatized #stigma #personality disorders #abuse #recognizing Abuse #childhood trauma #self awareness #self improvement #self inspection #self worth #self esteem #advice #life advice #codependency #trauma awareness #trauma informed #anti-psych

[chileanskies]

Cynic en Chile (2023): En donde el Metal y el Espíritu colisionan [CLSK Review] - Cynic se presentó ante un Club Chocolate lleno al máximo, frente a sus fieles seguidores y en compañía de Beyond Creation y Stigmatized. https://chileanskies.com/2023/04/cynic-chile-2023-clsk-review/?feed_id=1048

#CLSKReviews #ReviewsConciertos #BeyondCreation #CLSKReview #ClubChocolate #Cynic #Destacados #Stigmatized

[socratezzzz]

Mental health scapegoat

The stigmatization of mental health and using it as a scapegoat in every tragedy can have negative consequences. It can lead to the community practicing scapegoating and directing violence towards people with mental illness. This can further stigmatize mental illness and make it more difficult for people to seek help. Additionally, blaming mental illness for every tragedy can be inaccurate and…

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#mentalhealth #root cause #stigmatized #wellness