#aggressive neopronoun positivity

[starry-skies-116]

FUCK IT, NEW PINNED POST THIS TIME!!:

Okay, once again, from the top- top of the mornin' to ya! My humblest and sincerest greetings to all mortals, dragons, demons, spirits, celestial beings and all in between and many more!

I’m your local multifandom enthusiast, I go by the name Starr (Katya and Starry are also fine too)! I’m just your regular Lawful Neutral INFJ Pisces South Indian teen!

I’m a bi-oriented aroace and intersex, and I am genderfluid/nonbinary! Presentation changes from time to time but I really want an undercut tbh. Sexuality is aceflux/abrosexual, while I'm aegoromantic- on that note, I'm still kinda sad that sex-ed in schools isn't LGBTQIA+ friendly yet.

I also have very few but very loving and wonderful IRL friends! Usual pronouns change between she/her, they/them/ he/him and it/its, (blame my conservative neighborhood culture kekw); I am a neopronouns user too!

Also please use tone-tags around me, this user's can't tell a joke from a serious statement a lot of times-

Personality: Hopeless idealist, wants deep companionship, feels lonely and ignored from time to time but that’s aight, life do be like that sometimes though. Sappy poet and writer lol-

I do program and write and draw, but half the time whenever I program I just wrestle with the computer lmfao (ESPECIALLY the standard library like tf)-

DNI: Transphobes, Truscum, Transmeds, TERFS, ableists, anti-cluster B/believe in n@rc abuse, racist, aphobes, homophobes, queerphobes, xenophobic, gender-critical, bigots, LGBTQIA+ exclusionists, thinspo/pro ED, bullies, NSFW/K!nk, anti-agere/agedre, Pro-DDLG and all its variants, P3d0ph!l3s, N@z!s, really anything that makes me feel uncomfortable- just come on here and you're welcome as long as you're not being an ass. (and don't make fun of me for having a DNI, it really isn't that hard to spare me the trouble of blocking you and just... not interact).

Actually REALLY high empathy by modern standards, just figured out I have to turn the tap off a lot because the suffering of other people affects me deeply!

I stim alot irl (playing with hair, foot/leg spazzing out restlessly, vocal echolalia/mimicking choirs, rocking back and forth but never adjusting position, chewing gum a tad too aggressively if I have any- if not then grinding teeth way too much, etc.)

I'm diagnosed with depression and ADHD, and have a lot of symptoms of autism and dyscalculia (because of how genuinely chaotic and dysfunctional I can be at times tbh). I also do descend into major depressive episodes from time to time, though I don't know how to recognize if they're just sensory overloads, meltdowns, brain fog episodes or just bad brain days/symptom days in general.

This bitch has PCOS, anxious intrusive thoughts daily tormenting them, and ass-tier gastrointestinal health™, thank you for coming to my tedtalk.

Multiple fandoms and hyperfixations, including but not limited to:

ROTTMNT, FNAF, Poppy Playtime, Fire Emblem, Genshin Impact, Honkai Star Rail, Demon Slayer/KNY, TMNT, Stranger Things, Star Wars, OMORI, Transformers, Pacific Rim, The Owl House, Zelda, and much more!! Sorry if you're here for any one of these specific fandoms, I tend to aggressively post about my current hyperfixation depending on it lmao-

Additional facts: Kind of a glutton when it comes to food, introvert asf on top of being autistic (doesn’t know how to do human social things), has way too many hobbies/things I find interesting to count! Absolutely fuckin HATES dresses and the unnecessary, excessive femininity of periods (especially when they worsen my gastric issues and give me stool problems)! I DO also age-regress and age-dream from time to time!

I like sweets, rice, potatoes, Middle Eastern and Indian Cuisine (ja I'm primarily South Asian and from a Hindu Telugu family tho) trying different cuisines, dogs (have one, he's named Bruno and he’s a little baby I love him sm), butterflies, sleeping, plushies, space, dragons, fantasy, writing, reading good books, hydrangeas and jasmine flowers, drawing/painting, numbers, napping in the sun/underneath the stars, stargazing, etc.

I strongly dislike spiders, too-spicy food, tofu when it’s cooked wrong, cooking (because I’m a fuckin disaster at it), bigoted people, strong smells and bright lights, difficult people, being bored, y’know, the works.

Aesthetics change from time to time but I love wierdcore, dreamcore, 80’s core, nostalgiacore, fantasycore, faecore, dragoncore, cybercore, kidcore, spacecore, liminalcore, etc.

Will update this Pinned Post from time to time as time goes on and my fluid identity changes, but for now, I’ll keep being me and I hope to get along well with everyone here!

[dearestboneboy]

𖦹⎡loading dog pound⎦𖦹

𖦹⎡lost pup found⎦𖦹

𖦹⎡welcome⎦𖦹

About

I’m bone, or tooth, I have autism, BPD, bipolar, major depressive disorder, DID, anxiety, schizo-affective disorder, PTSD, etc. Please be patient. I am very 420 positive so please be warned before you follow i will be posting that kind of stuff. I am a stray dog therian meaning i experience more feral traits (heavy anger, abandonment issues, trust issues, dirty, aggressive dog, etc)

I do enjoy making mood boards, stim boards, and clothes board, so I am taking requests for those! please don’t be afraid to ask questions, request posts, or just talk to me in my ask box!

Therio-types

German shepard

White marble fox

golden tiger

golden retriever pup

calico cat

Pronouns/genders

Pronouns: he/him, it/itself, tooth/toothself, dog/dogself, pup/pupself, blood/bloodself, jaw/jawself, paw/pawself, star/starself, bite/biteself

Genders: aggressivedog gender, dogboy gender, bite gender, thing gender, trans masc

Tags

𖦹 aggressive dog boy - for vents (won’t be triggering vents)

✩ german shepard therian - for every post

𖦹 strays stimboards - for stimboards

✩ strays moodboards - for mood boards

𖦹 stray puppy time - for when i’m regressed

✩ puppy barks - for answering and talking with you guys on asks

DNI

nsfw, anti-therian, homophobic/transphobic, fake-claimers, anti-neopronouns, DDLG, ABDL, petplay, ageplay, pro-shippers, racists, ableist, anti-BLM, etc!

#𖦹 aggressive dog boy #✩ german shepard therian #𖦹 strays stimboards #✩ strays moodboards #𖦹 stray puppy time #✩ puppy barks #german shepard therian #dog theriotype #dog therian #puppy therian #therian #irl puppy boy #puppy boy

[your-moms-ex-husband]

Someone with zero social awareness: god they have a gender/sexuality for everything, like, it’s a disgrace to ACTUAL lgbt people.

Meanwhile, two people talk about their identities

Person 1: idk, I don’t really align with my current identities… idk if I’m actually lgbtq at all because I don’t fit into anything typical/well known that I have access to :(

Person 2: oh! Actually there’s a bunch of mini communities for basically almost everything, aroace has a lot of different micro/not well known labels for everyone (including sex positive people / people who don’t mind relationships), the trans and mogai communities may have big differences but they both typically cover similar things as well, for example, gendervoid is on the Agender spectrum, nonbinary people use this sometimes and also use different gender labels at the same time, so don’t feel afraid of mixing and matching for what’s most comfortable for you, the other parts of the community, such as lesbian, gay, bi /etc also have micro labels as well!

Person 1: oh cool! Is there a way I can read into the different labels and experiences?

Person 2: yeah! You can Google whatever you’re curious about and or your experiences but some are like the 47 Terms That Describe Sexual Attraction, Behavior, and Orientation from health line, another resource could be the ace & aro spectrum definitions by oulgbtq+ society, there’s also a ton of different mogai/neopronouns out there if the typical well known ones don’t feel like they fit, you can also mix pronouns as well or use well known ones in situations where you’re uncertain of the people around you. There’s also specific identities or terms for those in the POC/BIPOC communities, though those are really only meant for those who come from or are in those spaces :)

Person 1: oh wow! Thank you I’ll definitely look into it!

Life tip: if you’re not sure something is for you, such as disabled aligned products, like spoons/cups that don’t spill easily, or ramps for wheelchair users, or even spaces in public designed for a minority group, such as those above or the LGBTQ+ or Neopronoun/mogai communities, it’s really none of your business to say what’s for “REAL” xyz because it doesn’t affect you. This doesn’t mean you can’t be critical (not aggressive, demeaning, etc) or like “oh that’s not for me, but I’m glad it works for you!” In fact that’s probably the best thing to say/mind set to have.

Be accepting, be open & be curious!

#lgbt #lgbt+ #trans #gender #mlm #trans mlm #nblm #transgender #lgbtq #tw #<- this is in general for those who may not like the first person’s perspective #mogai safe #neopronouns #aroace #aromantic #asexual #neurodivergent #signal boost #lgbt positivity #lgbtq positivity #lgbtqia #lgbt resources #lgbt research

[lunemetterram]

Hiiii!!

This is a little intro post for our business!!

Moon ((-🌙)) Hii I was raised in a small part of the craft but over the part years I have branched into my own practice. I specialize in baneful magic as well as tarot. I am really into love magic as well!!

Earth ((-🌎)) Heyyo!! I have been practicing for a couple of years and mainly focus on herbalism, green witchcraft, and tarot/pendulum!!

SALES

Side note: Prices are subject to change later on

All spells can be either in a jar or envelope

Simple spells- 15$

Extravagant spells- 20$

tarot // 3 card spreads - 5$

tarot // more complicated spreads- 15$

Deity Readings- 20$

Herbal Oils- 25$

RULES

These go across ALL our platforms, however we are stating them here for convenience

((❌️- will be blocked immediately, ➖️- just don't it's rude, ✅️- totally cool))

Homophobia ❌️

Transphobia ((including all gender queer, enby and genderfluid peeps, neopronoun users included)) ❌️

Racism ❌️

Aggressive behavior ❌️

Theft of images ❌️

Trying to out our personal information ((i.e. doxing)) ❌️

Spam messages ((does not include spam reblogs or likes, feel free!!)) ➖️

Asking for free services ((it puts us in an uncomfortable position)) ➖️

Just generally being rude ➖️

Asking to be mutuals ✅️

Asking questions via dms ((on all platforms)) ✅️

Making conversation ✅️

Looking for advice ✅️

LINKS/USERNAMES

Instagram- @lunametterram

Tiktok- @lunametterram

Ko-fi- ((Link in bio as well)) https://ko-fi.com/lunametterram

Email- [email protected]

#witch community #witchblr #witchythings #witchcore #witchcraft #small business #new business #herbalism #queer witch #queer business

[lilyminer]

So um, as you guys may have been able to tell by my incessant complaints about tiktok . . . I’ve been purposefully getting into a lot of pointless tiktok comment section arguments recently.

If you’ve been here long enough you know my autistic ass understands my emotions only by aggressively psychoanalyzing myself so don’t mind as I do that for a hot sec.

So that arguing thing is a reoccurring theme in my life, it was most prominent when I was 12 where I was already isolated, became crazy cynical, and read reddit threads constantly, it was nearly my only form of “entertainment”. Looking back I’ve realized, especially at that point, when I was figuring out my sexuality and religious beliefs at the same time, that falling into this argumentative stage in my life results from times when I doubt my morality and opinions.

I’m not proud of it but the reason for this round of pointless internet debates was mostly because upon trying to think up counter arguments to homophobes and transphobes I was stumped and nearly started to consider some traces of logic in their arguments. I don’t need to tell y’all that’s just a shitty thing to have rattling around in my head! So I pursued it so hard I ended up forcing myself to engage with those kinds of people to “make sure I had good counter arguments” <- (self destructive bullshit).

And while that was shitty I come out the other end knowing more about my values than ever. Specifically I found the heart of my morals, pure unsceptical acceptance until proven guilty. Partly born out of being the weird kid myself I just accept people at face value, cringe culture be damned (literally burn in hell actually, cringe is my enemy). So I’ll meet groups of people like (and don’t mind me listing off a bunch of people tiktok seems to hate) People who are self diagnosed, therians, neopronoun users (before I become one) and I’ll just do my best to understand and accept them. Although I’m not out here flaunting this like it’s any better or healthier then people who do bring some amount of scepticism to learning of a new group. Because it’s this mindset that’s left me defending bad people because I can see their point of view (duh they’re human of course I can). I of course follow the rule that I am tolerant only to those who are not intolerant to others. (In a wider margin tho, if people think crystal healing is bullshit I’m not hating them as much as a transphobe).

Life is long, and difficult, and morality is a weird concept to navigate especially on the internet. But meeting people with patience and tolerance has gotten me this far, I don’t think my beliefs are particularly rare or radical but especially in the comment sections of people going through their own lives and struggles it seems acceptance is underrepresented. Spread a bit of positivity if ya can, It’s a powerful thing.

#personal #very personal #rant #ranting #vent #mental health #morality #please no one actually see this tumblr gods

[loveburz]

. OF COURSE I'VE MET JARED .

h1!!! my n4m3 15 51mpbur 0r l0v3b1rd <3 1 am 4n 1RL, n07 4 k1n, f1c71Ve, 0r RP bl09. 45k m3 57uff!!!!

5007bur 5h1pp3r5 PL3453 D0 N07 1N73R4C7!!!!!!!!!!!! 5007bur m4k35 m3 v3ry unc0mf0r74bl3 :[ (1 4m 4w4r3 my pfp 15 fr0m 4 500tbur bl09. r3m3mb3r t0 53p3r4t3 4r7 fr0m 4r7157)

my n30pr0n0un5 4r3 heart/bandage/whirr/clickself/pop/xo/pup/paw 4nd 1 m19h7 4dd m0r3 70 my h04rd >:]

1 l0v3 93771n9 45k5!!!!! 45k m3 57uff wh3n3v3r, 1 d0n'7 b173 :]

my c4rrd 15 h3r3:

h0p3 u h4v3 fun 0n my bl09!! 1 d0n'7 p057 much 7h0u9h l0lz

[ TRANSLATION: hi!!! my name is simpbur or lovebird <3 i am an IRL, not a kin, fictive, or rp blog. ask me stuff!!!!

sootbur shippers PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sootbur makes me very uncomfortable :[ (i am aware my pfp is from a sootbur blog. remember to seperate art from artist)

my neopronouns are heart/bandage/whirr/clickself/pop/xo/pup/paw and i might add more to my hoard >:]

i love getting asks!!!!! ask me stuff whenever, i don't bite :]

my carrd is here:

hope u have fun on my blog!! i don't post much though lolz ]

MORE INFO UNDER THE CUT

i am bodily 14-17 years old, this is a sideblog so i won't be interacting, and i am pansexual! i have a boyfriend whom i love very much &lt;3

74G5 (bc 4pp4r3n7ly p30pl3 h4v3 th353??) [ TRANSLATION: TAGS (bc apparently people have these??) ]

random textpost: [ im not aggressive i just ooze masculine passion ]

art: [ cuz she's beauty and she's grace ]

infodumping: [ how can i live on if i keep on collecting ]

ask answered: [ wake up from snoring open dms ]

ask answered positively: [ give me a reason not to be on my knees ]

ask answered neutrally: [ your telephone calls are my favourite place ]

ask answered negatively: [ let's skip to the good bit let's completely block all contact ]

#[ im not aggressive i just ooze masculine passion ] #[ cuz she's beauty and she's grace ] #[ how can i live on if i keep on collecting ] #[ wake up from snoring open dms ] #[ give me a reason not to be on my knees ] #[ your telephone calls are my favourite place ] #[ let's skip to the good bit let's completely block all contact ]

[neopronounsmybelovaed]

You know TERFs are going to clown on my posts about dysphoria and send me death threats even if I used nice respectable binary pronouns, right?

You know my nonbinary friend, who uses they/them pronouns, is going to get misgendered even if I used they/them pronouns too, right?

You know trans people are going to get kicked out of their houses even if I stuck to the more common pronouns, right?

You know conservative states are going to keep passing anti-trans legislation even if I only used one set of pronouns, right?

You know access to blockers, hormones, and surgeries for trans people is going to be restricted even if I didn't make pronoun puns, right?

You know there are going to be hate crimes against trans people even if I stop using neopronouns for myself, right?

You know transphobia is going to exist with or without neopronouns, right?

You know trans people have never been taken seriously by cis people, even the normal ones who have dysphoria and medically transition to binary genders and use binary pronouns, right?

You know that trying to make the trans community more palatable to cis people isn't actually helping the trans community, right?

#no #actually #you don't know any of that stuff #transphobia tw #hate crime tw #misgendering tw #terf tw #death threat tw #dysphoria mention tw #neopronouns #aggressive neopronoun positivity #yelling at exclusionists

[aggressive-positivity-network]

Do You Have Unbridled Aggression

That Has Come From A World

You Can’t Control?

TRY HATE ANON®️!

I am currently in an emotional place where I can not only take scathing remarks about my body that you will never see, but terribly spelled and grammatically indecipherable insults to my opinions, way of life, and interests!

Why accidentally commit second-degree murder by hate anoning someone who may already be suicidal when you can insult someone who literally doesn’t give a shit?

Satisfaction isn’t guaranteed, but the realization that you may be a piece of human garbage is!

Can’t figure out what to tell me off about? Less involved in your taunting? Let me start you off with a few subjects of choice:

I am pro-choice!

I believe educated self-diagnosis is valid and should be respected, especially in the neurodivergent community!

I believe in trans rights and acceptance!

I think neopronouns are awesome!

I don’t think family vlogs or any entertainment industry using children should be legal!

I believe that racism is woven into our society!

I think that you can call yourself a gamer no matter what you play or how often you play!

I think the body positivity movement is largely flawed and isn’t as inclusive as it wants to be!

I believe that radical feminism is a bastardized version of equality.

I’m below the age of twenty-one!

And much, much more!

Don’t wait! Send your hate anon today!

And, if you want to support this cause, donate here.

#humor #funny post #funny content #just for laughs #funny #send asks #ask blog

[grayfilmsandstuff]

Hey there friendo! Could I get a funky madcom matchup? I'm fine with whoever (๑¯∇¯๑) This is also gonna be hella disjointed, so I apologize in advance (╥w╥)

I'm 4'11 with super dark brown eyes and hair and a baby face; most people always think  I'm much younger than I actually am (I'm 20, but just look like a forever teen I guess) I've got dreadlocks that go a little past mid back, freckles, beauty marks and light patches all over my body (not sure if its vitiligo or not), and I wear prescription sports goggles instead of normal glasses since the straps make me less likely to lose them, and Im accidentally rough on stuff sometimes

Agender, aroace with leaning for gender neutral and neopronouns, but i dont really care much in the end ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I've got a metric shit-ton of mental illness, so my mental state is Wack™, tho I'll point out my ADHD and Autism since those are my most prominent. Paradoxical is the best word to describe me cuz I can range from feral gremlin memelord to so-quiet-you-forget-Im-there (I accidentally scare people alot cuz of this). Relatively apathetic emotionally, and I can sometimes struggle with social cues, I'm also very childish, hyperactive and immature, and can be blunt and straight forward with my words. I have a trash sense of humor (I'll basically laugh at anything), tho I do enjoy dark, self-deprecating, and/or inappropriate jokes the most. Since most people see me as "ignorant baby", I like fucking with them by just saying the weirdest shit or casually cursing because I can. Honestly, the amount of memes, shitposts, and copypastas that I've memorized just for the sake of a joke, is amazing.

I'm academically smart to a degree, with a leaning towards the sciences, maths, and engineering. Mostly a big psychology and astronomy nerd and really big into art. I've gotta bunch of sketchbooks and folders full of drawings, (mostly character designs), from over the years and too many damn color pencils (that I will continue to add on too, because fuck yeah colors). I'm really into transformers, comics, anime, video games, and true crime. I like to lift weights and have questionable eating habits (forgetting to eat is a problem of mine so I always have snacks on me, and I tend to eat things I really shouldnt; Ex. Chalk) and basically eat like a famine survivor when it comes to food. I practically inhale my food and I tend to get aggressive if someone tries to interact with me while I'm eating or cooking. All and all tho, I'm mostly here to vibe and just live in the moment.

I have a lot of cat-like habits and tend to headbutt, rub up against, and bite and/or lick people who I like; walk on my toes alot; and prefer small spaces over wide open ones. I'm also really flexible, so it's not odd to causally find me weird ass positions. Gets the nyoomies randomly and struggles with volume control (not helped by me being slightly hard at hearing), so I'll usually pace around while talking and making random noises (echolocalia basically, and I'll mostly beep, meow, trill, make Kirby noises "poyo!", etc.,), and also hand flappy! I also like to sing to myself and have a really great range (mostly on the higher end of the spectrum), as well as decent voice acting capabilities! I mirror things alot, so if I interact with someone long enough, I'll subconsciously start mimicking them and their habits (mostly verbal quirks and accents, but physical quirks too sometimes). Very much prefer hot and humid weather and get real tried/hibernate when it gets colder. For that reason, I've got a huge nest of soft blankets, pillows, and stuffed animals.

i.. . .this was so long.. . .. i love you thank you for sending in a request but note for people in the future please don't make your requests this long it makes it rough on me

this is a good example of the longest request i'll take and this is a good example of the shortest use this to your advantage

i match you wiiiiiith...

Hank!

- Hank isn't sure where you came from but he returned to the bunker with you one day and after the shock factor was over, everyone accepted it and welcomed you in

- they really like your goggles, sometimes they'll point to their own and then point to you, saying that you were matching :}

- he's got a wack mental state too, so he understands a lot of what you're going through and helps you with social cues from the other three, and just is there in general to help out

- you also help them if they feel like they need to lean onto you for comfort or help

- he actually thinks your bluntness is helpful because he's the kind of person is mostly oblivious and doesn't understand what you're saying unless you say it directly and say exactly what you mean

- they love making you laugh at the silliest things. if makes them really happy knowing that they can make you smile or laugh no matter what the circumstances are

- a lot of the time when you say a meme or a copypasta in front of him he won't understand and will ask you what it means

- "one bad gloop and she do what i yoinky two big splurgs and a big gloopy three more yoinks, then i buy me a smoothie poured up a gloop, that's a gloop and a splurgy"

- "...i'm sorry what"

- they really look up to how smart you are and it fascinates them when you'll just ramble about a topic because they know that means you're really interested in it

- you love drawing and a lot of the time you give your assorted doodles to Hank. he loves and cherishes them because what the heck how are you so talented??

- they get onto you for eating things you shouldn't. they want you be happy and healthy, not just the former

- he also enjoys watching you cook whenever you do! he tries his best to help but the big guy has no idea how you do it

- they LOVE your cat-like habits. they love cats. period. any time you'll meow or rub up against them they just melt entirely

- the first time you picked up on something he said and started mimicking it, his initial reaction was :O but it grew more into a :D

thanks for the request! i tried to keep it short with all that you provided me, have a good day my friend

#mc but the good kind #my writing #from the minds of others #text post #x reader #x reader matchup #hank x reader #madcom x reader #madness combat x reader #madcom #madness combat #hank j. wimbleton #mc hank #madcom hank #madness hank #madness combat hank #anon

[vulturevanity]

Also because I feel the need to remind everyone who follows me: I'm a whole queer of colour who aggressively defends trans, nonbinary, bi, pan, poly, ace and aro people's place in the LGBTQ+ community. I'm for neopronouns, unusual gender idendities and sexuality labels, and very fervently anti-TERF. And if you disagree with any of that you'll do yourself a favour and block me, lest I decide to terrorize you by flooding your dashboard with queer positivity posts completely unannounced.

#fuck you anon

[lordrenofthestage]

Basically just send me a name and some pronouns and I'll throw it into some sentences for ya. If trying out neopronouns, put it in the format of they/them/their/theirs/themself. I do have some tags you might need to add.

-If you want to try out more than one name:

Separately (two or more different entries): "(sep)" after names.

By default will use all provided in the same entry. No name is also an option.

-If you want to try out more than one pronoun:

Separately (two or more different entries): "(sep)" after pronouns.

By default will use all provided in the same entry. No pronouns is also an option.

-In every entry I tend to compliment the person, not everyone likes that, therefore:

No compliments: "(noco)" at the beginning or end.

By default I will compliment the person cause that's just what I do.

-Some people have a preferred length. Some don't. This is optional. Only do this if you're trying out one name and anywhere from 1-3 pronouns. The different lengths are:

Short (4-8 sentences): "(short)" at the beginning or end.

Medium (7-11 sentences): "(med)" at the beginning or end.

Long (10-15 sentences): "(long)" at the beginning or end.

By default the amount of sentences will change depending on how many names/pronouns you are trying out, whether separately or not.

-Some people have a preference. This one is also optional. Just so it have an equal sign like the others:

Random nonsense: "(RANO)" at the beginning or end.

Story: "(story)" at the beginning or end.

By default it goes by what I feel like writing.

-Some people like profanity, some don't. Here are your options when it comes to it:

Profanity is okay: "(p)" at the beginning or end.

Profanity is a nope: "(np)" at the beginning or end.

By default it goes by what I feel like writing. Almost anytime I do use profanity is for aggressive positivity.

Examples: Jason, he/they (short) (noco).

In this example, there are two pronouns, he/him, and they/them. There is no (sep) following the pronouns meaning that I would use the pronouns provided in the same entry. He did however add (noco) and (short). This means I wouldn't compliment them and I would keep it between 4-8 sentences long.

Hope this helps some people out. STAY CUTE.

#pronouns #pronountryouts #names #nametryouts #questioning #help #lgbt #trans #nonbinary #figuring it out #genderfluid

[lily-orchard]

Just wanna say thanks for speaking about Neopronouns in a positive way. Ik it's the bare fuckin minimum but with the amount of shit people who use them get, it's nice to see. My younger sibling(s) is an OSDD system, where many of the alters use Neopronouns, and it's so upsetting to see people completely dismiss that or treat xem terribly just cause of xeir pronouns. It's probably such a small thing but it really made my day to just,, see positivity

I’ve learned through experience that this kind of aggressive inclusiveness makes a lot of people very happy. So I resolve to do it.

Also neopronouns are fun as hell.

#Anonymous

[pbscore]

Deleted my rant cuz I’m tired and cranky and I’m not in the best state of mind to really give a decent opinion right now. I have so much to say on that topic but I’m already dealing with more important things on my plate right now.

Just know that I’m not interested in telling other people how they should identify based on my opinions and experiences. I don’t care how ‘different’ or ‘strange’ or ‘contradictory’ a person’s identity may be; it’s none of my business in the first place. I would rather these folks have a safe enough place to explore, question, and understand their own identity instead of immediately calling them some stupid shit like ‘cishet invaders uwu’. I would rather someone feel safe enough to tell me that they use neopronouns or that they’re questioning whether they’re ace or bi or whatever than tell them they can only ever be ONE thing, based on my own assumptions of what I think that person is. That ends up shaming folks even more and making them feel like they really don’t have a place to be themselves.

There’s no point to gatekeeping. Literally, no point. Folks are gonna be who they are regardless of what I think, so why should I waste my time telling them who they are? Why should I waste time dedicating a whole blog to ‘shaming’ someone for calling themselves something I may not understand? Who am I to tell someone that they’re wrong about how they feel regarding their sexual/gender identity? I’ve never walked a day in their shoes and they haven’t walked in mine, so why do we need to judge each other passive aggressively over shit that’s personal, anyways?

I’m the only person who can determine my sexual and gender identity. No one else can do that for me. That’s a journey that I, predominantly, have to take alone because it begins and ends with me. And just like I can only determine my identity for myself, another person can only figure out their identity on their own in the end. None of us should be subjecting each other to a bunch of circus hoops based on who’s ‘more valid’ or which community has experienced ‘real oppression’ or any other bullshit like that.

I don’t owe anyone my life story or an explanation as to why I identify the way I do. I just am who I am and I’ve chosen what feels right to me. If it’s that much of an issue to where you truly believe someone else identifying a certain way is somehow ‘effecting you’ then maybe you need to take some time away from the internet and take a nice long walk and then ask yourself, ‘Does it really matter or am I just upset about something that isn’t about me?’ It works wonders when you stop to realize that online discourse literally does nothing to add anything positive to your life, especially when all it does is alienate you and other people from necessary spaces to meet new people and learn things you never knew before.

#after this im gonna chill out and wont be available for a while y’all #im tired and frustrated and sad #i know a lot of this gatekeeping shit comes out of pain and hurt and anger at our oppression as lgbtq folks #but hating random folks on the internet for having ‘weird’ or ‘contradictory’ identities aint gonna help us none either #i hate seeing so many young folks either be mean as hell over shit that doesnt matter or scared to even come out of the closet because of #all the ridiculous ‘discourse’ #ok to interact #ghiblibutch

[sunny-shine-arts]

intro post time, i guess!

this is LONG overdue, to be honest. i felt like we needed a proper sort of introduction to our content and system. this is possibly a wip, by the way. - dave

system info

(first posted: tuesday, september 15, 2020)

(last updated: monday, november 30, 2020, 8:10am)

we are PRAESIGENIC + POLYFRAGMENTED

we have a definite count of OVER 100,000 MEMBERS

our main fronters are almost entirely composed of HOMESTUCK FICTIVES

our HOST + CO-HOSTS are DIRK, DAVE/DONNIE/DACEY, and READER

our body is TRANSGENDER MALE + AFAB, FOURTEEN, and WHITE

our MAJOR SPECIAL INTERESTS are HOMESTUCK, DRAWING, MUSIC, and WRITING

our MINOR SPECIAL INTERESTS are PSYCHOLOGY, HELLO CHARLOTTE, AESTHETICS, and HISTORY

our CURRENT HYPERFIXATION is THE MENTALIST

we have AUTISM, ADHD, ANGER ISSUES, DYSCALCULIA, ANXIETY, PARANOIA, DEPRESSION, POSSIBLE OCD, and more

(to be added to)

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(first posted: tuesday, september 15, 2020, ??:??)

(last updated: monday, november 30, 2020, 8:10am, est/edt)

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are RACIST, ANTI-BLM, PRO-ALM, FASCIST, etc.

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use the term MPD (M-LTIPLE P-RSON-LITY D-SORDER)

believe INTROJECTS = THEIR SOURCE

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don’t believe that EXOTRAUMA IS REAL

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we take art, edit, & writing requests, but we are not guaranteed to get them done. do not pressure us.

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#not art #intro post #pinned post

[kincringeemporium]

So I promised y’all a high school kinnie storytime. Suffer/enjoy.

First off, for some context, I was generally a dick in high school. Nobody has to be a social butterfly, and if you’re more focused on your education than having lots of friends at that age, hey, good on you. I’m not dragging that. I’m saying that I was -- again -- a pretentious little piece of shit. 

Now, being a pretentious little piece of shit, I sought people who didn’t follow the usual crowds and didn’t agree with the most common points of view in my school. These people were, in my mind, smarter. Better. More worth my time.  

However, being rather bored and lonely and wanting at least one friend, I kind of shrugged off some red flags that showed up among the people who did meet my stupid fucking high standards. I didn’t ignore these red flags, but shrugged and went, “Well, if I don’t hang out with them, I won’t be hanging out with anyone.” 

So, here are the key players in this magical tale of bullshit. 

If, by some fucking miracle, either of them manage to find this (because they are most definitely on tumblr), I don’t want some shitsplosion out of my laptop screen -- so, fake names.  

Marc, who claimed to be an aroace trans boy. (I say “claimed” because... you’ll see.) 

Z, who was apparently nonbinary, also I can’t remember anything about their name other than that it had a Z in it. 

Alright... So I decided to start a writing club. Marc, Z, and some others showed up because I’d been polite to them in classes and such. We also shared some interests. Mainly Steven Universe and Tumblr. (The others aren’t really important, so I won’t mention them beyond that.) 

In the first meeting, we shared our names, pronouns, hobbies, and years of writing experience. Marc and Z didn’t come up with any hobbies aside from “Internet”, “anime”, and the dreaded “social activism”. At this point, the logical bit of my brain was like, yikes. 

But it gets way, way worse. We also shared our Tumblr urls (my high school Tumblr is still out there, btw). I will now list some of the shit that I encountered on their blogs. 

“Soft confused transboy, they/them or he/him” on Marc’s about 

Undertale Sans in front of green/yellow/black flag as Marc’s icon 

Some edgy, fake-deep line in Z’s about (I don’t remember what) 

“They/them, xe/xem” in Z’s about 

A whole fuck ton of SU Peridot posts from Z 

Posts on both blogs @’ing each other, tagged with “qpp”, “pda”, and related shit

“lol Big Gay!” and “ewww straights!” jokes all over both blogs 

Yeah. Yikes. But still, I was pretty desperate for something to do. 

So I kept talking to them. I thought Marc was alright, so tried to find out more about him. Eventually we got round to talking about crushes, orientations, etc. I asked Marc what qpp meant. 

He gave me some long winded explanation that didn’t actually explain much. What I understood from it was that a qpp is a friend who you love, but aren’t in love with. (Which is... just a best friend.) 

Z gave a similar explanation. And I thought... alright. I guess that’s that. Weird, but eh. 

Until one day, a ‘tag something about your crush/s.o.’ post appeared on my dash from Marc tagged “I kissed my qpp today!! I’m so happy!!!” And I was... confused. Didn’t Marc, as an aromantic person, not fall in love? Didn’t kissing someone and getting those warm fuzzy feelings mean you were in love with them?  

I decided to do some digging. An initial scroll through Z’s blog revealed surprisingly little of interest... but then I found, buried somewhere in their links, a “me” button. So I clicked it. Selfies. I was about to click off before I reached the very bottom and, being in public, had to do a double take to ensure no one was behind me. A bikini selfie, yay! And Z was 16. Butt out, tits out, all of it. Tagged with, you guessed it, “body positivity”.  

Now... I’m not insulting overweight people (Z was a little overweight) for liking themselves, feeling confident, etc. I’m not even insulting them in particular wearing bikinis, even if I don’t like bikinis in general. I’m saying that at 16, Z should not have been posting sexy selfies under the guise of a movement that claims to be built on self acceptance and confidence. 

So, I pulled away from Z some. 

That left me more time to talk with Marc. I didn’t say a word about his relationship (bc that’s what it was) with Z. Looking back, I find it odd that throughout our entire friendship, Marc didn’t mention dysphoria. Of course nobody has to tell all their friends all about their dysphoria. There was just no “Ugh, I got misgendered earlier” or anything about “pre-transition, I...”  But anyway. 

I started looking through Marc’s blog again. There were a hell of a lot of Sans posts and it didn’t click with me back then that Marc may have been a fictionkin. I don’t recall if he tagged the Sans posts with anything kinnie-ish, but holy fuck, there were a lot. It was weird. 

Also weird was that as the year went on, Marc stopped showing up to writing club as often. I asked him what was up, and said that if he didn’t want to be in the club anymore, he should just let me know - because that’d be okay. But no, he made some excuse and walked away from the conversation. 

The next day, I got a text from Marc saying (not verbatim, but still): “Hey, my anxiety has been really bad lately, and my doctors are saying not to participate in social clubs like this. I’m too tired. Really sorry!” 

 I said it was fine and didn’t think much of it. He and Z still spent a lot of time together in the halls and such; I didn’t put a ton of thought into that, either. 

Sometime the next week, a writer friend of mine (who was also in the club, and not annoying or shitty or anything), invited me to a GSA meeting. I was bored and decided to try it out. 

When I walked in, guess who the fuck I saw? 

Marc and Z.  

He could not even meet my eyes. I’ve never seen a person look that fucking guilty. My writer friend could tell something was up, smartly wanted no part of it, and excused herself. 

Marc had been attending GSA meetings the entire damn time, while claiming that he was following doctor’s orders by leaving writing club. 

Fucker. 

That’s the last I saw of Marc and Z.  

And all the things that add up to suspiciously kinnie-like behavior... 

Z’s neopronouns 

Marc’s weird mogai-ish version of aromanticism 

Marc’s Sans icon and Sans posts

Z’s fuck ton of Peridot posts 

Both Z and Marc encouraging each other’s behavior 

Marc’s lying and fake anxiety claims 

“soft transboi” 

So... that’s that. 

I’ve got more cringe-inducing stories, too. I can tell y’all about: 

A girl in bio class who was a complete ballsack

she was obnoxiously, overly sweet 

she used her mental disabilities as an excuse to act ignorant 

she thought being gay was a choice 

she clearly had no respect for transgender people (with legitimate gender dysphoria) 

was a complete pain in the ass to my favorite teacher 

I did something passive aggressive to her because I was done with her shit 

Two girls in anime club who were also huge ballsacks 

appeared to hate each other 

one was very small, quiet, and a loner 

other was loud, edgy, and unironically said “we’re here and we’re queer!” 

quiet one 100% lead me on  

loud one was a fucking dick to me

there’s a plot twist 

bonus: loud dickish one tried to be my friend and I was not falling for it

-K 

#long post #cringe #kinnie cringe #high school

[fandomshatewomen]

full offense but odaat makes Elena's feminism a joke and reinforces toxic masculinity

Okay, so I’m going to expand on this, but mods conferred with each other and, out of those of us who watch One Day at a Time, we agreed that Elena’s feminism is treated as a joke, but we’re curious as to if you’d expand on how the show reinforces toxic masculinity.

~

It seems to be a thing with with a lot of neoliberal (can I call them New Age-y? does that make sense) sitcoms on TV right now. One Day at a Time, Superior Donuts, The Great Outdoors... They’re all kinda trying to connect to young people but are still written by semi-ignorant people who just don’t totally understand today’s queer politics and/or young people in activism. So they have people with neopronouns on their show or they have young people who are passionate about and engage in politics or bring to light conversations about prejudices. And they’re kinda trying to take it serious but they just don’t get it, which makes them awkward, so they end up making these things a punchline. It’s supposed to be laughable to us that all these things Elena cares about are actually a problem. I 100% agree on this point. Elena’s overreacting and exaggerating all these problems and overcompensating with her activism by the show’s lens.

However, as much as we shouldn’t have to settle for scraps, as much as these issues could be treated better, I don’t take Elena’s feminism as a joke. I think it’s awesome to see this young person caring about the world around her and stepping up to change it. I wish I was as outgoing as her about it.

So, it’s absolutely a problem on the show, but I also think it’s good exposure and could lead to better representation that takes this seriously.

But on the show reinforcing toxic masculinity... I’m just not sure what all you’re referring to.

Yes, the show’s not perfect and neither are the characters. The grandma favors Alex over Elena and isn’t subtle about it. She also goes against Penelope’s wishes about Schneider’s welcome in the apartment and always encourages his visits. Leslie can’t take no for answer, which is supposed to be more sympathetic because he’s kinda pathetic, and him and Lydia do end with a flirtatious relationship even though she tries to push him away.

Like everything I can think of that revolves around possibly upholding toxic masculinity would be Lydia’s/the grandma’s own beliefs. She often says women need a man, often puts down the men if they don’t act with bravado and male ego. That’s true. But just because Lydia acts in that way doesn’t mean the show is reinforcing these behaviors.

The men are diverse with different temperaments. The only time we’ve seen any of them be aggressive was really was Victor (Alex and Elena’s father), and this wasn’t shown as sympathetic behavior. It was scary. There was a reason behind it (refusing help for PTSD), but the behavior wasn’t tolerated or downplayed.

There’s a whole plot line behind quinceañeras with Elena struggling with the patriarchal traditions behind quinceañeras. In the end, she does have one - of her own choice - and she makes it her own. She wears a suit that she loves. She wanted her father to be there, but she dances with her mother, and it’s a really touching moment between them.

Lydia’s beliefs are shown to be sort of outdated with her being resistant to change. She’s often rebuked or disagreed with for saying sexist things. (And she slowly does learn out of love for her family - like when she says all women need a man and Elena coughs, so she somewhat corrects herself to say some women.) Some of her actions are revealed to have deeper meanings. She pushes Leslie away because she can’t come to terms with letting herself love or be with another man who isn’t her Berto, and she’s afraid of her feelings for Leslie due to this.

The show really focuses on the women’s stories. Elena and Lydia and Penelope are the ones who get plotlines that travel throughout the entire season to reveal deeper understandings of these characters and their actions. The men have a spotlight, but at the end of the day, I think this is really a show about the women’s stories.

Like, overall, the show does a really good job of deconstructing a lot of problematic beliefs and letting the characters find their own ways in a positive light.

So if you want to expand, we’d love to hear so we can see what we’re missing or where we’re reading different things in these storylines.

~Mod S

#one day at a time #mod s #asks #Anonymous