#aspec mlm

[nocturnal-nblm]

weighted blankets arnt really working for me anymore i need to be crushed via boyfriend cuddles

#gay #mlm #nblm #mlnb #t4t #gay t4t #bi mlm #pan mlm #omni mlm #ace mlm #acespec mlm #aro mlm #aspec mlm #gay yearning #mlm thoughts #mlm textpost

[boywithbear]

on another episode of flags of mine I forgot to post on this account, my aspec mlm/nblm flag! this is for anybody on the ace and/or aro spectrums who are mlm or nblm! based on using the green from the aro flag and purple from the ace flag and meshing them together to represent the spectrum of identities and the blending of being mlm/nblm and aspec!

[flag description: flag with 7 horizontal stripes from top to bottom being green, light green, pale green, zombie grey, light purple, purple, and a darker purple. End of flag description.]

#aspec mlm #aspec nblm #mlm #nblm #men loving men #nonbinary loving men #aspec #acespec #arospec #asexual #ace #aro #aromantic #asexual mlm #asexual nblm #aromantic mlm #aromantic nblm #ace mlm #ace nblm #aro mlm #aro nblm #aspec mlm flag #aspec nblm flag #flag coining #my flags #aspec flag #mlm flag #nblm flag #flags

[idkeither223]

Just read an article that used the abbreviation ‘msm’ for ‘men who have sex with men’ and I think it’s something we could really utilise within the aromantic and aspec communities.

eg) XLX - loving

wlw/ mlm/ nblw/ nblm/ nblnb/ wlm etc.

eg) XSX - having sex

wsw/ msm/ nbsm/ nbsw/ nbsnb/ wsm etc.

eg) XRX - in a relationship (you can define this however you want: romantic, sexual, neither, both, queerplatonic, other, unlabelled etc)

wrw/ mrm/ nbrm/ nbrw/ nbrnb/ wrm etc.

like this could be such a useful tool for easily differentiating experiences within informational communication!!

#lgbtqia+ #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroace #wlw #mlm #msm #wsw #wrw #mrm

[redactedx3]

Love me a man who’s fucked up in the gender. Absolutely phenomenal, 19/10.

#mlm #wlm #nblm #mlnb #t4t #nblnb #gay yearning #demiromantic #wlnb #mspec #pangender #genderfuck #aspec #gender envy #queerplatonic

[alterouslyinlove]

oh to live with your qpp. oh to be in separate rooms or bunk beds but always join each other if we need to. oh to dance in the kitchen and make meals together. oh to cuddle while watching a movie. oh to have our time to our selves but still be close to each other. oh to be able to say i love you irl and any time you want. oh to own a cat together. oh to go grocery shopping together. oh to sit on the porch and watch the stars together. oh to simply be with one another. wouldn’t that be great.

#yearning again!!! #can u tell my main love language is quality time #t4t mlm #mlm yearning #mlm #mlm positivity #alterous #alterous yearning #alterous attraction #alterous relationship #queerplatonic #qpr relationship #qprs #queerplatonic relationship #achillean #aromantic #aspec #🌀 #my demolition lover <3 #hall of gay

[gay-otlc]

People on this webbed site have their brains explode when we try to talk about how trans men of any sexuality are oppressed, so I genuinely do not think your brains could handle it if I said the Scary Privileged Straight Men ™ are oppressed, but at some point we're gonna need to talk about how your "ewww straight man" jokes directed at trans men is genuinely just TERF rhetoric.

#in case it wasn't clear i don't think straight trans man are necessarily *more* oppressed than gay/bi/aspec trans men #i just think our oppression tends to be more invisible #cause people can acknowledge that mlm trans men will face homophobia #but a lot of yall think transhets automatically gain Straight Privilege when that is really just not the case #so if these people can't accept that gay trans men are oppressed they Really can't accept that straight trans men are oppressed #anyway #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #i can elaborate if asked in good faith ig

[lwgph]

In 1991, 15 Dutch regional news papers put out a giant questionnaire, which then was answered by tens of thousands of people

Among the questions also was this one

It basically says:

Do you consider yourself:

- heterosexual

- homosexual

- bisexual

- a-sexual

According to the results of this survey,

92,8% of the men and 92,5% of the women identified as hetero

3,1% of men and 2,1% of women identified as gay

2,6% of men and 2,7% of women identified as bi

1,5% of men and 2,7% of women identified as ace

I think this is fascinating, especially that they found so many asexual people, like this was in 1991 and yet they already found more people than that 1% that gets quoted a lot

#lgbtq #lgbtq history #bisexual #gay #lesbian #bisexuality #asexual #asexuality #aroace #queer #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbt+ #bi #wlw #mlm #aspec #pride #queer history #ace history #gay history #bi history #homosexual #dutch #netherlands #my posts

[lgbtflag]

♡ gay aroace flag!

#gay aroace #gay aromantic asexual #gay #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #mlm

[rolaplayor101]

Toshinori: some of these boys out here really got me struggling to be aroace

Gran Torino: you’re talking about Dave

Toshinori: I’m most definitely talking about Dave

#toshinori yagi #Yagi Toshinori #Dave Shield #Shieldmight #Mightyshield #Toshidave #gran torino #incorrect quotes #dialogue #funny jokes #arospec #acespec #angled aroace #Borearoace #mlm #aspec #AROACE #Borearomantic #Boreasexual #Davemight

[nocturnal-nblm]

*groans in boy kiss deficiency*

#gay #nblm #mlm #mlnb #trans gay #t4t #trans mlm #mlm thoughts #mlm yearning #trans nblm #nblm thoughts #nblm yearning #mlm post #nblm post #bi mlm #pan mlm #omni mlm #ace mlm #aro mlm #aspec mlm

[library-fae]

im like if a gay man was aromantic

#.faeposting #mlm #gay #aromantic #aro #arospec #aspec

[tfemithaqua]

Hello!

🦇🥀 Vampire Aroace (spec) flag.

For aroaces who either ID with vampgender/vampgender variations, like vampires, or have a connection to Vampires. Can also be used by aroace introjects whose source(s) is a vampire of course.

Some tags below are for reach.

Aroace-spec exclusive.

#pride flags #lgbtqia #actually autistic #cluster b safe #autism spectrum disorder #aroace #beyond mogai #queer #mogai #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aromantism #flags #mlm #wlw #vampgender #xenogender #xenogender safe #lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual

[tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity]

"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

#queer #lgbt #lgbt+ #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqa #lgbtqa+ #gay #lesbian #mlm #wlw #achillean #sapphic #nonbinary #nblnb #aspec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #oriented aroace #acespec #arospec #mspec #pluralian #bi #ply #pan #omni #queerphobia #homophobia

[ao3sbatfamily]

'The Dating Habits Of Batfish' by Calamityjim

Conner leaned in for a gentle kiss.

Since realizing he definitely was more attracted to men than women, Tim had thought that being gay had been the problem in all his other relationships and that what he read about would occur when he finally tried it with a guy. He thought he’d get the curling feeling in his gut, the rush of blood to obvious places, but Tim had been ignoring the fact that he wasn’t even properly gay.

It was… weird. There was no hormone spike, no obvious physiological symptoms. The kiss was just warm pressure, dry skin against dry skin.

Conner pulled back, his cheeks red and his eyes blown, but a look at Tim washed away whatever high he’d had. “You didn’t like it.”

#ao3 #fanfic #fic rec #batfam #batfamily #dcu #batman #tim drake #kon el #conner kent #timkon #asexual #aspec #ace #mlm #ba

[our-gay-experience]

dude ok so my best friend and I are Aro and in love im so fuckin happy I get to have someone to have and keep who I don’t have to date and the fact it’s him makes it so much better

but anyway like he’s insecure about his double chin and always hides it in pictures and it’s all about the shit he gets for it cause people are nasty about that stuff yk fatphobia

but like it pisses me off so much because he’s so goddamn handsome like you don’t understand his double chin especially is handsome and kissable and hot on top of him already obviously being handsome kissable and and I could talk forever about how hot he is and society fucked his view of it up by always whining and lying about how fat people can’t be handsome and hot but then I’d be talking all day

so like in short my homie is hot as fuck anyway sometimes I get him to laugh and he’ll smile all the way and I’ll see his double chin and huge sweet smile and I fucking melt at this boys precious fuckin face he is so perfect dude and I always tell him everything about it and shit man like the fact I’m the one getting him to grin like that a real grin with his double chin is everything to me

also!! I guess I was bringing it up a fuck ton cause he sent me a photo of his full grin and double chin and it made me so happy he joked and said it was specifically because I wouldn’t stop bringing it up and then he sent a lil heart emoji

so like yeah if anybody reading this is fat and gay or fat and like anything don’t let people give you shit for it y’all are still awesome and somebody’s type and there are people out there who will respect you and love you you just gotta find em first

I just realized how long this is sorry bout that y’all

this is such a positive message, brightened my day to read it

thank you for sharing and i hope itll brighten some other days too

#our gay experience #gay #queer #mlm #queer community #lgbtq+ #arospec #aromantic #aspec

[77ngiez]

project sekai is crazy because literally every character is queer trans neurodivergent physically disabled or some combination of the above

#and im not talking abt hcs im talking abt actual coding #minori is very explicitly in love with haruka #harukas is less obvious but she clearly returns minoris feelings as well #shizuku is so obviously nd [likely autistic but she could read as a number of other things] #airi is incredibly trans coded [that one event + her fes card] #mizuki is canonically trans #ena has ptsd in some format due to her fathers abuse and shes also got a lot of cluster b traits #kanade has ptsd from what happened with her father and wlw and physically disabled coded #mafuyu. oh gd. the cdd coding the transmasc coding the girlkisser coding. #anhane is basically canon #touya is autistic coded as is nene and ichika #shiho is nd #everybody in l/n likes girls #ichika is aro coded #and autistic like i said #saki is canonically physically disabled #akito [like ena] has some measure of ptsd from his father #akito and touya r both mlm coded #rui literally compares himself to a famously gay scientist in jp [FUCK THE EN LOCALIZATION OF THAT BTW] #emu is VERY CLEARLY AUDHD and somewhat wlw coded #nene is also wlw #tsukasa comes across as very nd #all of wondershow is aspec coded as well #and oh gd ive been talking a while i need yo shut up #but like. MAN. man. [goes crazy] #77ngiez.txt #can u guys tell ive been thinking abt pjsk lately